There are beautiful women in northern Jiangsu

Chapter 119 Candid
"Teacher, I have something to do here, and I want to chat with you."

"Okay, I just happen to be fine right now, tell me." Nian Manjing pulled a chair across from her.

"Now there is an opportunity in front of me to marry Su Bei, but I don't know whether to agree."

"Are you afraid that Su Bei will harbor a grudge because of what happened back then?" Nian Manjing's words hit Gu Jianing's heart.

Gu Jianing nodded honestly.

"Jianing, I know that with your character, you kept Su Bei from the past, and you will definitely not tell him now.

However, I think that incident caused a grudge in Su Bei's heart far less than his liking for you.

In high school, anyone with a discerning eye could tell that Su Bei liked you.

Although I haven't seen Su Bei now, I think he is a long-term boy. Although seven years have passed, his love for you should not be easily shaken.If you still like her, give it a try.

"Teacher, but I'm afraid that if we get married in a flash, we won't be able to maintain a good marriage in the end, and our two families will inevitably have estrangement because of our affairs."

"Jianing, in fact, when you chose to hide Su Bei, I advised you that you don't have to be too rational sometimes. It's cute for girls to be emotional occasionally. You are just too sensible, so sensible that it makes people feel distressed .If you believe me, don't think about anything, and give you and Su Bei another chance."

Gu Jianing was thoughtful, she looked at Nian Manjing, and could feel her happiness from the faint smile on the corner of her mouth, probably because her current life really made her feel satisfied and gave her happiness feel.

"Teacher, what do you say is the most important thing in marriage?"

Nian Manjing thought for a while before answering: "Jianing, it's honesty.

There are some chicken soup for the soul in many magazines, saying that women must have their own careers in marriage to have a sense of security, saying that only when the two parties in the marriage are in a relatively equal position, the marriage is more likely to last.

However, what I want to tell you is that in marriage, not only women need a sense of security, but men also need a sense of security.Both parties need to let each other feel that you both love each other, both need each other, and both are honest with each other.

If you hold back many things and words in your heart and don’t say them, he doesn’t know your true thoughts, and then you blame him for not understanding you.

Slowly, the two people have a gap, and even conflicts.Then enter the endless cold war, or directly explode into a big fight.No matter what kind of result, it is not conducive to the harmony of married life.

I know that both you and Su Bei like to keep everything in your heart.If he likes you and doesn't say it, you'll wonder how much he likes you.And if you like him, if you don't say it, he will think, do you like him or not.

The two of you just pass the time guessing at each other.You have wasted seven years, and if you waste any more, you may really wear out your love for each other.

Of course, Su Bei also thought about telling you what was in his heart, that is, on the day you went back to school to get your diploma, he was ready to confess his love to you, but you left early. "

Gu Jianing heard Lin Yi mention this matter, but at this moment, she still wanted to hear Nian Manjing say it again.

(End of this chapter)