Marriage becomes love, my wife comes home with me

Are there social and cultural differences between China and foreign countries?
Bai Shaoye looked at Bai Shaoxue for a while, then shook his head, "I'm afraid it's not that simple. I also noticed that you've become quieter and quieter recently, you should go out and play with your friends more."

Bai Shaoxue pursed her lips and remained silent.

She recalled the past before night, and found that she had done a lot of absurd things before, and she regretted it.But she didn't want to talk to her brother.My brother is very worried about her, and he will definitely go crazy when he hears her situation.

Bai Shaoxue smiled lightly, "I'll listen to my brother. Can we eat now?"

Bai Shaoye hid the anxiety in his eyes, smiled, "Hungry? Eat quickly."

Bai Shaoxue's life is very simple. She gets up early every day to cook for her brother, sends her to work, spends an hour doing housework, and then goes to paint.Just eat some bread at noon and go to class in the afternoon.Every time Teacher Andrew saw her, she would ask, have you eaten at noon?Ban Bai Shaoxue just smiled quietly.

In Andrew's eyes, Bai Shaoxue is a very quiet little girl.

She doesn't like to play with people around, and often looks at the surrounding environment quietly by herself.He felt that such a girl was prone to depression, so when he saw her painting, he subconsciously thought that his guess was correct.After hearing Bai Shaoye's narration, I realized that I was wrong, and I sincerely apologized.

Even so, Bai Shaoxue didn't say much.

Andrew felt that this girl had an oriental mystical charm, like religion, there was a delicate balance between yes and no.So he paid more attention to Bai Shaoxue.

Women are naturally sensitive to emotions.Bai Shaoxue noticed Andrew's curiosity and didn't want to go to class.

She feels that the most pitiful person is not being abandoned, but being affectionate.

Abandoning it means that you once owned it, and being passionate about yourself is self-deception.The latter has never even had it.

She lied to herself for many years and didn't want to live like that again.

In her opinion, it is good to live like this.Neither thick nor light, there is room for everything.As for feelings, I really don't want to touch them again.The elder brother laughed at her. Once she was bitten by a snake, she was afraid of well ropes for ten years.Maybe, she didn't know, never gave it much thought.Only she can decide her life, good or bad, it has nothing to do with others.

Bai Shaoxue felt that it was this painting that Andrew paid special attention to her. For example, he discussed with a student about opening an art exhibition.

It takes money to hold an art exhibition, but if it is a free art exhibition, you only need to display the works of teachers and students on the street, which is also a kind of art.

Bai Shaoxue didn't object.She thought it had nothing to do with her.Unexpectedly, two days later, Andrew said that she not only had to hand over the exhibited works, but also needed to help arrange the venue.

Bai Shaoxue frowned, wanting to refuse.But seeing Andrew's pure blue eyes, he swallowed what he wanted to say.

Anyway, she doesn't have anything, and she has plenty of time, so if you help, brother, if he knows that she is participating in these activities, he should be very happy too.

Andrew's students vary in age.Most of them are old people who have retired from leisure and come to learn painting because of their interest, and there are very young children who come to attend a few classes because they want to develop an interest.She is the only young girl like Bai Shaoxue who is in her prime of life.So when setting up the venue, Bai Shaoxue was very popular.

The popularity of girls abroad is different from that in China.

Bai Shaoxue remembered that she was also sought after by many boys in China.In order to express themselves in front of her, those boys scrambled to help her do things behind the wall, and she would stand by and direct like a little princess, or sit down to drink and eat snacks.When she was full, the work was done.Over the years, she has gotten used to this kind of life.

So when those half-white-haired people said they wanted to help her, Bai Shaoxue made one.

No matter how ignorant she is, she still knows how to respect the old and love the young.

For nothing else, what if these old people fainted while working and they were on her?
Bai Shaoxue refused.

These people were not unhappy when they were rejected, but they happily told her to call them if they needed help.

Bai Shaoxue's heart warmed up.

These sincere cares made her feel a lot of kindness.

In autumn, the sun was still very strong, Bai Shaoxue stood under the sun and put up the shelf, put the cloth on the shelf, sweating all over her head.I was so tired that I squatted on the ground panting.

Andrew saw her and gave her a bottle of iced Sprite.

Drink it in one sip and it feels good.

Andrew said: "I apologize for the previous misunderstanding. I thought that you are like ordinary Chinese girls, and you can't bear hardships. I didn't expect you to be able to put up a shelf by yourself. But in the future, you have to learn to work in a team. Look at them, two or three people do it together. It's easy."

Only then did Bai Shaoxue realize that the so-called helping means cooperating with her.

"Thank you teacher, I understand. In fact, in China, when a boy tells a girl to help, he means to do it for her. I was embarrassed to let them complete my task, so I refused."

Andrew said: "The culture is different, the habits are different, so we need to communicate. Come on, children, go and get to know them."

Bai Shaoxue stood in front of the squatting uncles, stared at her eyes and thought for a while, then waved, "Hey, you guys are amazing. I can't do it alone. I want to find a companion, who wants to be my companion?"

The uncles burst into laughter.

One of the men said: "Little girl, if you had said earlier, we would all be willing to help you, but now we are very tired and don't want to move anymore."

Seeing the sincerity of what he said, Bai Shaoxue slowly untied the knot in her heart, "It's okay, I'll find someone else. By the way, remember to come and see my painting on the day of the exhibition."

Andrew found that he really didn't find this little Chinese girl.

To say that she can't socialize, what she said just now is very good.It's just that she is usually too quiet, making him mistake her for a potential depression patient.It seems that different cultures can really make a lot of jokes.

Putting down his prejudices, Andrew suddenly realized that if there were no personality flaws, Bai Shaoxue would actually be a very smart, kind, and talented girl.

At this time, the girl walked towards him, stretched out her hand, tilted her head and smiled, and the dimples on the corners of her mouth made her look very cute.

"Teacher, they rejected me. Will you help me?"

In fact, he was also tired, but when he saw her smile, his whole body was full of energy, so he agreed.

Bai Shaoye found that since the exhibition, his younger sister liked to smile more.

For breakfast every day, in addition to the usual ones, there are also new and innovative dishes.Infected by her good mood, Bai Shaoye asked, do you want to go out to play?

Bai Shaoxue felt that walking more would broaden her horizons, so she agreed.

Asking for leave with Andrew, he packed his luggage and took a bus with Bai Shaoye to visit the surrounding cities.

On the bus, Bai Shaoxue rested on his back with his eyes closed.

Bai Shaoye asked quietly: "Xiaoxue, do you have someone you like?"

Bai Shaoxue denied, "How could it be?"

Bai Shaoye smiled, "Xiaoxue has grown up and knows that she is shy. But my brother is not someone else, and my brother is also very open-minded. If you have someone you like, you can tell brother or invite him to your house for dinner."

Bai Shaoxue laughed it off.

She is afraid to avoid feelings, so how could she start a heart-to-heart relationship so soon?
Bai Shaoye took her to many places.

The scenery is not beautiful, but very distinctive.Bai Shaoxue wanted to record it with a pen, but time was limited, so she could only take pictures with a camera, and then go back to process it.

It's just that the amazing feeling when I first saw it is gone, which is a pity.Instead, Bai Shaoxue felt that Andrew would be able to restore every scene just right, so she stopped worrying.

Bai Shaoye found it interesting that his sister's face changed all the time, so he asked again, "Is there something on your mind?"

The two depended on each other for life, and Bai Shaoxue told him many things, so she told him her thoughts.In Bai Shaoxue's mind, Andrew was her teacher, and she didn't even think of him as a man most of the time.

Bai Shaoye paid attention.I secretly asked a friend to check Andrew's information.It turns out that Andrew is purely an artist.

In one sentence, where there is art, there is him.This kind of person will not plan for life, and will not think about future children.Bai Shaoye didn't want to hand over his sister to such a person.

So on the way back, Bai Shaoye was thinking about how to explain it to his sister.

Having experienced Xiao Yi's calamity, Bai Shaoxue was very taboo about feelings.Bai Shaoye knew in his heart that if he attacked directly, Bai Shaoxue would definitely be disgusted.Maybe in order to disobey him, I specifically do things that he doesn't like, not for my own happiness, but just to make him angry and worried.

Over the years, he has witnessed Bai Shaoxue's personality countless times.Although he is much gentler now, the country is easy to change, and the nature is hard to change, so he has to be cautious.

After thinking for a long time, Bai Shaoye said: "Xiaoxue, do you think it's okay for a person to give up power, reputation, status, and even his own protection in order to pursue his own dreams and love?"

Bai Shaoxue blinked, thinking.

Bai Shaoye's expression is very serious, it can be seen that he didn't just say it casually, is there such a person around her?Bai Shaoxue thought for a while, and thought that Liu Ruoyun from T City would return the company to Cheng Zhengran when he became famous.

"I don't know. Everyone has their own life. We can only watch from the sidelines and cannot judge." Bai Shaoxue said.

Bai Shaoye asked: "Then you, do you believe in love?"

"I believe." Bai Shaoxue replied with certainty.

Bai Shaoye was stunned for a moment.It is not easy for people who have suffered setbacks in love to still believe in love.

Soon, Bai Shaoxue said again: "But believing in love and expecting to have love are two different things. I have always felt that I am an indifferent person. In this world, except for my brother, I don't want to spend time and energy for other people. So I would rather watch others I don’t want to cry and make noise in love. It’s embarrassing, ugly, and embarrassing. When I think about it later, I hope I always have a clean and elegant image, even if I’m single.”

Bai Shaoye moved his mouth, but couldn't speak.How could his sister have such extreme thoughts?
Bai Shaoxue smiled, "Brother, thank you for taking me to the Museum of Love, I learned all these things from there."