The daughter-in-law of a rich and warm marriage is poisonous

In terms of emotional experience, although Yan Mo is not a blank sheet of paper, it is not much better than that.

After all, there was only one man she liked from the beginning to the end, so it was a bit far-fetched to really teach others experience and give advice.

But I have to thank her for her work now.

Contact different people every day, listen to the unique stories belonging to each person, and you can always realize something from them.

The first time she saw Liao Jing, Yan Mo had a crush on this quiet and taciturn high school teacher.

Although she is 35 years old, Liao Jing looks like a clean person, her clear eyes do not seem to be mixed with any impurities.

It stands to reason that people of this age have a lot of social experience, and there is a lot to experience, but Liao Jing is unbelievably innocent.

It has been two years since her last marriage ended, and that three-year marriage was the most gloomy and desperate time in Liao Jing's life.

Liao Jing and her ex-husband got to know each other through someone's introduction. To be precise, they were introduced and matched by the teachers in their school.

The ex-husband's father was the vice principal of Liao Jing's high school. He also taught Liao Jing before and was a highly respected teacher.

Teacher's wife is also a teacher in the school, who teaches English, is virtuous and kind.

Their son served in the army, and also worked in the school after retiring from the army, responsible for administrative management.

In fact, before the official meeting, the introducer made the man's conditions very clear.

Needless to say, family background and financial conditions, he is the only son in the family, and the two elders built a four-bedroom and two-living room in the fund-raising room of the school, which has been vacant.

As long as he finds a partner, he will decorate it immediately, and he will be able to get married soon.

This man also has a good reputation in school, and his colleagues in the department also speak highly of him.

It is said that he is cheerful, eager to help others, and has no airs. When going out to eat together, he always likes to rush to pay the bill.

It's just that the people I come into contact with are relatively single, so I don't have much chance to meet more people of the same age, so I haven't found a partner for a long time.

Although Liao Jing's family is not as prominent and wealthy as the man's, it is considered well-to-do. She has an older brother and an older sister.

After understanding each other's situation, the two tried to get along and started dating in a decent manner.

She was not too young, and Liao Jing was about to reach the 30-year-old mark at that time. After the parents of both parties met, they immediately made a decision and chose a date to get married.

Neither the young couple had any objections to the arrangements at home.

When they fell in love, they were like other couples, watching movies, going to the park, and shopping, and the man also behaved quite gracefully.

But when she really got married, Liao Jing felt more and more that something was wrong.

When they were in love, the two of them never held hands, hugged, kissed, let alone any more intimate actions.

Because of this, Liao Jing secretly gave the man a high score in her heart, thinking that he is a real gentleman.

You must know that men who respect women so much in today's society are really rare.

Maybe others will think that this man is very feudal and conservative, but Liao Jing is just the opposite, she regards this as an advantage.

But on the day of the bridal chamber, Liao Jing's heart was shocked.

The man was so drunk that he was escorted home by the best man team. Naturally, there was nothing he could do in this situation. Liao Jing busily waited on him all night.

Liao Jing can also understand special circumstances, after all, they still have a lifetime, so there is no need to rush.

But on the second day and the third day, the two of them still didn't have that kind of relationship, and they didn't even sleep in the same room.

Men always say that the work unit is busy and they have to work overtime, or they have entertainment, so they don't go home for dinner almost every night, and the time to go home is getting later every day.

Going home early in the morning has become the norm, and sometimes staying out at night.

Not only that, but his attitude towards Liao Jing was completely opposite to what he had before marriage, as if he had changed himself.

At the time of falling in love, although she was not obedient and considerate to Liao Jing, at least she was polite and polite to Liao Jing, and she would spend time with Liao Jing.

As soon as you get married, it seems to reveal your true colors.

His attitude towards Liao Jing was lukewarm, and Liao Jing would not respond to him when talking to him, she almost regarded Liao Jing as a servant at home.

Liao Jing felt extremely wronged.

She didn't do anything wrong, why did her husband treat her like this? ?
Don't people wish they could be together all the time when they are newly married?Why does her husband treat her like a scourge? ?
Liao Jing was usually the only one in the huge house, and it was so desolate that one felt sad.

Once Liao Jing suffered from gastroenteritis, vomiting and diarrhea, and was so collapsed that she could only lie on the bed, and she didn't even have the strength to get out of bed to pour a glass of water.

There was nothing wrong with it, so I called the man for help and asked him when he would be home.

But what he got was still a cold answer. The man even said indifferently: "You don't know how to call 120? I don't know how to treat illnesses."

After finishing speaking, he hung up the phone mercilessly.

When Liao Jing called again, the phone was already turned off.

She was supposed to be the person next to her, but she treated herself like an enemy. Before and after marriage, she was completely out of tune.

Liao Jing felt like she was having a nightmare.

Is this still the person she knew back then? ?

Although I don't live with my parents-in-law, they all live in the school's fund-raising housing compound, and occasionally go back to the old man's place for dinner.

The old man called out several times, and the man only went back once at most, but Liao Jing couldn't bear to tell the truth after all, so she could only pretend to be nonchalant and go back to play the role of a good daughter-in-law.

The old people in the world are probably the same.

When you are not married, you chase after you all day, asking if you have a partner and when you will get married.

When you get married, you start asking when you plan to have children.

After finally having a child, I ask you if you plan to have a second child.

This seems to have become an inevitable step in getting married, and no one can escape these problems.

The same is true for Liao Jing, facing her parents-in-law's insinuations and seeing the old man's earnest eyes, even though she was heartbroken, she still couldn't bear to tell the truth.

I can only make up excuses again and again to deal with the old man.

As time went by, the mother-in-law hinted that she would take Liao Jing to see a gynecological authority for a detailed examination.

Judging by that attitude, it seems that she suspects that Liao Jing is not fertile.

Liao Jing really wanted to cry but had no tears.

This is a married life of a widow in name only, where is she going to ask for a child? ?

No matter how powerful she is, she can't reproduce parthenosexually, right? ?
It's okay for her parents-in-law to feel bad, but Liao Jing hopes that she can disappear even more when the holidays come.

Since getting married, the man has never accompanied her back to her natal home except for the Spring Festival in the first year, because he is not in the same city, and the man finds it bothering and troublesome.

Even Liao Jing's brother and sister's house in the same city, the men have never been there once.

He felt that there was no need to go back and forth, and things like gift giving were too empty, and there was no need for his relatives to move around, since there was no interest involved anyway.

So Liao Jing became even more tired.

Every year and festival, I have to buy all kinds of gifts, give them to my brothers and sisters, and when I go back to my mother’s house, I also pack them in big and small bags.

The sad thing is that she can't say that she spent her own money, she has to say that a man bought it.

Because he was too busy with work and couldn't leave, he bought something for her to take there.

Such a superb man who didn't recognize his relatives, married his wife and left her at home, unexpectedly never gave Liao Jinghua a penny from marriage to divorce.

The house is a fund-raising house of the unit, and the two elders paid the full amount long ago, and the two elders paid for the full price of the car.

Without the financial burden, the man lives in style.

I often go out to eat and drink with my colleagues and friends, and I have gained a good reputation of "good popularity".

But who knew that he was so picky about his wife? ?

It's not that Liao Jing didn't want to have a good talk with him, she also wanted to know what caused the man to change so much.

She wants to know what men think more.

If you don't like her, why did you talk to her in the first place?Why do you want to get married? ?
If you have feelings for her and want to marry her, then why is getting married such a weird way to get along? ?

Liao Jing didn't expect that even talking would be so frustrating.

She has made several appointments with men, and either she was let go, or the man sat in front of the computer and played games, ignoring her words.

He didn't react until Liao Jing couldn't take it anymore, cried uncontrollably about her grievances, and questioned the man's attitude.

"If you can bear it, you can bear it, if you can't bear it, you can get out!"

This was the man's answer to Liao Jing.

Liao Jing, who was introverted and conservative by nature, had never suffered such a shame and humiliation, and immediately burst into tears.

But when she calmed down, she was unwilling to divorce like this.

After all, it is not so good to hear about a one-time marriage. If people know that she has been married for two or three years and her husband has never touched her, wouldn't it be more embarrassing? ?
Liao Jing didn't dare to mention this matter to anyone, because she couldn't afford to lose this person, and she didn't want to worry her family and friends.

Her parents-in-law's attitude towards her also gradually cooled down from the initial enthusiasm and consideration.

Especially the mother-in-law, always pointing at Sang Huai and blaming Liao Jing for being a hen that can't lay eggs.

After all the hard work and hard work, this marriage is still hopeless. Liao Jing decided to end it as soon as possible.

She is not young anymore, and she can no longer waste her youth in vain.

However, before the official divorce, Liao Jing mustered up the courage to confess the truth of the marriage to her in-laws. Anyway, she has a clear conscience and doesn't need to help anyone take the blame.

As for whether that man had someone else in his heart, or he didn't like women at all, Liao Jing didn't want to care anymore.

It was just encountering such a wonderful thing that cast a shadow on Liao Jing. She felt that all men were duplicity.

I even suffered from depression because of this, and it slowly improved after nearly a year of treatment.

When Yan Mo heard Liao Jing's story, she was so angry that she almost threw the cup out of her hand.

"How can you tolerate such a scumbag for three years? If you don't like it, don't get married if you don't want to get married! If you get married and don't cherish it, isn't this a waste of people?? It's disgusting!!"

Anyone who hears this will be angry, and feel deeply worthless for Liao Jing.

On the contrary, Liao Jing was much calmer.

She held the cup, lowered her eyes, and sighed softly: "People's hearts are separated by belly, and my eyesight is too bad. Maybe men in this world are roughly the same!"

"Don't tell me!"

Seeing her drooping head, Yan Mo hurriedly persuaded her: "Last time, you were unlucky and met an unlucky person. The next marriage will definitely be very good! People are classified into three or six grades. Some people seem to have good conditions, but they are actually golden and jade The outside is ruined. Like that scumbag, the family conditions are good, but the character is too bad. But don’t deny the man completely just because of one failed experience! Believe me, let’s keep our eyes open this time, and take it easy Look, don't rush to marry yourself, you can find a better and more suitable one after all. You, you have to face life positively and believe in love!"