Warm marriage to the bone: quarreling at the head of the bed and peace at the end of the bed

Su Xiaotao's father has passed away, so Su's mother has lived alone all these years.But Mother Su didn't feel bored either. Some feelings can be kept in my heart and used to slowly recall and commemorate.

Talking about the acquaintance of Su's mother and Su's father is also a matter worth talking about.

Su's mother has her own unique ideas and insights because she has been exposed to the impact and influence of many different cultures since she was a child.
Since returning from Hong Kong, Su's mother has never had a relationship with any boy.Su's mother remained single until she graduated from school.

It's not that no one chased after her. On the contrary, Mother Su won the favor of many boys in school because of her beautiful appearance. The more Mother Su ignored them, the more they wanted to post them. Behavior gives them a hint of mystery and alienation, making them want to explore and discover further.

Therefore, every time I go to school, there are all kinds of love letters and gifts on Su’s mother’s desk. At that time, the Internet was not yet developed, and the way for everyone to express their likes was very simple. Write down what you want to express most in your heart with a pen. , Maybe behind a love letter, there are many previous drafts that have been written and torn.

But Su's mother never read any of them. At that time, Su's mother still couldn't forget the boy in Hong Kong, so she didn't have any thoughts to think about anything else. She knew about the behavior of the school boys, but she was not interested.

After Su's mother came back, she devoted all her attention to her studies, and didn't think about other ideas.

Later, she wanted to go back to Hong Kong to find that boy to explain, but her family disagreed, and she had no choice but to go alone.I can only silently hope in my heart that one day I can meet the boy and explain clearly in person.

It's just that Su's mother at the time must have never imagined that she would never see the boy in her heart after decades.

Then Mother Su graduated, and her family arranged a job for her, but Mother Su wanted to go out on her own and negotiate with her parents.

In the end, the two sides reached a consensus. The Su family agreed to let Su's mother go to practice on her own first, but there was a condition that they only gave Su's mother three years. If Su's mother had nothing to do by then, she had to come back home , to accept the work they arranged.

Therefore, Su's mother spent the past three years doing some jobs that she liked, not only limited to one, but tried all kinds of jobs that she wanted to live.It can be said that in the past three years, Mother Su has truly been liberated.

But the happy days always pass very quickly, and before I know it, three years have passed like this.Because Su's mother often likes to change jobs and experience different feelings, whenever a job gets better, she will leave. In this way, she has done a lot of work in the past three years, but she has not done much. .But Mother Su herself was very happy.

In the end, what Su's mother pursued was a kind of pleasure that made her happy.She always believes that it is the saddest thing for a person to give up the things that make him happy, because no one will love you more than yourself and understand your thoughts.

As a result, the agreement between Su's mother and the family expired, and she had to return to the work arranged by the family.Mother Su did not regret or renege on this point.

At this time, Su's mother was already in her twenties, and with the three years of hard work, her temperament became more and more precipitated.There were also many people who gave her a sneak peek, but they were all rejected one by one.

In the eyes of the Su family, these were very anxious.After all, Su's mother is already very old. At that time, it was not the same as it is now. If a woman is too old and has not married, she will definitely be talked about behind her back.Although the Su family is a little bit better, and they don't force this issue too much, but when some relatives come, they will always remind Su's mother's marriage problems, both openly and secretly.

So the family also became a little anxious, and told Su's mother several times that if there is something suitable or like, you can bring it back for the family to see.They will not object to their falling in love.However, after waiting and waiting, there was no movement from Mother Su. Now the Su family was really in a hurry. Some relatives even contacted friends to find a suitable partner and arranged a blind date for Mother Su.

As a woman with new ideas, Su's mother certainly does not agree to blind dates, and she is not so anxious about her relationship problems. She always feels that these things should be paid attention to, rather than blindly forcing them.
Su's mother thought so, but the Su family didn't think so, so they arranged a blind date and forced Su's mother to go.

In desperation, Mother Su had no choice but to go to the agreed place and make several kisses.As a result, it was obvious that Su's mother kept a cold face the whole time, and she would only answer a few simple, um, ah, oh what the man said.After a blind date, the atmosphere seemed extremely awkward.

It is precisely because of Su's mother's appearance that the man knows her attitude, so most of them will not continue to make fun of themselves.This is just in line with Su's mother's wishes.

Anyway, she promised her family to come on a blind date, but insisted that she had to chat with them.

Until I met Su's father, it can be regarded as one thing overcomes one thing.

That's right, Su Xiaotao's parents met through a blind date. At that time, Su's mother still sat in front of Su's father with an indifferent attitude.

That day, Mother Su was wearing a milky white dress with her hair loose. In fact, Mother Su's appearance was of the quiet type after all, giving people a gentle and ladylike feeling, but her temperament and appearance were somewhat different.

Therefore, Su's mother kept stirring the coffee in front of her without opening her mouth. When the other party felt embarrassed, she thought that today's task was completed.

But Su's mother didn't expect that the man who was wearing a suit and leather shoes and glasses, who looked a bit refined, could hold his breath so calmly. From the beginning to the end, he didn't ask a word.

In the end, Mother Su couldn't bear it anymore, and asked Father Su who was opposite, "Hey, you have been doing this for a long time and didn't say anything. Let's just sit like this."

Su's mother may have forgotten that every time she had a blind date before, she almost always had the same attitude, sitting for a long time without saying a word.

Father Su heard her words, looked up at him, pushed his glasses, and laughed, "I thought Miss Su was thinking about something, so I didn't bother."

When Su's mother heard what she said, she felt like a dumb person eating coptis, so the two began to communicate.

But almost always Su's mother asked and Su's father answered.Mother Su was a little helpless, how did she take the initiative.

However, during the chat, Su's mother had a good image of Su's father.Bingbing is polite and calm-tempered, which seems to be the exact opposite of her.

Unknowingly, the two chatted a little lively. "Then what do you do now?" Mother Su looked at him and asked.

Su's father answered Su's mother word by word: "Currently teaching at Lijiang University."

It turned out to be a university teacher. Mother Su nodded when she heard what he said, but she gave Mother Su the impression that she did have the temperament of a teacher.

"Then what do you teach?" Mother Su knew that Lijiang University's requirements were very strict for both students and teachers.After all, it is a key university, so the selection requirements will definitely not be the same as those of ordinary universities.So I was a little curious which subject he taught.

"My main major is art, so I lead art majors in Lijiang." Su's father has been interested in painting since he was a child, and it is precisely because he was shy when he was a child that he prefers the quietness of painting.Integrate yourself into the artistic conception you want to paint.

Using paintings to express one's emotions is also something Qiu's father often does.Therefore, the family found that their son was quite talented in this area, so they let him develop freely, and invited a professional art teacher to guide Su's father's paintings.

In this way, Su's father has been studying art as a matter of course.All the way up to college.After graduating from university smoothly, he continued his studies and got a master's degree.

Su's father used to be a student of Lijiang University, so he was introduced to the school by his old teacher and became a teacher.Su's father still likes the profession of teachers very much.

Su's mother and Su's father talked more unconsciously while chatting.Su's father has always cooperated with Su's mother, and he answered what Su's mother asked.

This combination made Su's mother feel comfortable.In the past, when others followed her closely to ask questions, she would feel a little annoying, especially if she kept asking, it would make Su's mother feel that her privacy was being explored constantly, but they were not very Familiar, why tell you so much.So it will feel impolite.

Mother Su didn't ask Father Su many private matters, but just talked about his career for a while.

Although Su's father is introverted and elegant, it doesn't mean he is not good at words. On the contrary, Su's conversation is very funny. In the short conversation, Su's mother has been amused several times.

This kind of smile is a smile from the heart, not a fake smile to cater to or ease the atmosphere.

The two talked about their occupations and their hobbies. Father Su likes to read books and watch movies. Not only that, but he also has a good understanding of the geography and culture of various countries.

Although Su's mother has an outgoing personality, she has been influenced by her family since she was a child, and she has been exposed to some literature, so she also has some understanding of books.Movies were a new culture at that time, and everyone was very interested in it.

As a result, the hobbies of the two people also coincided somewhat.

Su's mother asked Su's father to talk to her about the different cultures of various countries, so Su's father picked out a few interesting cultural differences to talk about.This made Su's mother curious, because she always wanted to travel around and experience the customs and customs of different places.It's a pity that I don't have this opportunity.Now I can only listen to what Father Su said and imagine it.

So this blind date turned into an introduction meeting. From domestic to foreign countries, from geography to culture, Su's father told Su's mother a lot of knowledge.

When the two of them were chatting about the same, they found that several hours had passed.But mother Su didn't feel that so long had passed.During the blind date before, she was always impatient to leave quickly, and she felt that every minute passed so slowly.