President of the Buddhist Department: A loving wife must be teased

In fact, one can never climb a mountain all his life, but there must be a mountain in his heart. It makes people always climb to a higher place, it makes people always have a direction to struggle, it makes people look up at any moment, and they can see their own hope. Perhaps this is the hope of Zhen Hua's life, not to continue to live, but to live at this time, so that life at this time has meaning and a goal to move forward. Low valleys, adversity, twists and turns are inevitable in life, it is impossible to be unlucky for a lifetime, there is no way out, the willows are bright and the flowers are dark, there is another village, bear with it and face it, stand up and bear it, walk and go up.All the ups and downs are only temporary. Finding the entry point to solve the problem will make us more mature, more perfect, and stronger to support our own spiritual sky.

He carried the equipment on his shoulders, led Lu Jing, and started their journey to Changbai Mountain.In fact, there are some roads, where it leads is not important, what is important is what kind of scenery you will see on the road.Life is a mass of desires, and if desires are not satisfied, there will be pain.The greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment.When climbing a mountain, the people who see the hardest and most tiring walking are often those who carry big bags and small bags.Think about it, life is like climbing a mountain. If you save a point, you will get a point out of it.If you desire too much, you are like a mountaineer with a heavy load, suffering unspeakably, let alone enjoying the beautiful scenery that is thousands of miles in size.But life is like climbing a mountain, everyone is constantly accumulating things in the process of moving forward, which includes your reputation, status, rights, wealth, family, friendship, love and so on.Many people only know how to pile up things in their bags blindly and don't know how to put them down, so that they are physically and mentally exhausted.In fact, if people want to gain something, they must lose something. Only by learning to give up can they be able to obtain happiness.

However, Zhen Hua and Lu Jing couldn't produce many feelings. They came at dusk, but the sky is not dark today, but they are already sweating profusely. No one can refuse to obey the old age, and they are no exception. Maybe he can fight against the years for a while, but his body has been hollowed out by wine and sex. Now he is not much different from ordinary middle-aged people, and his physical strength is gradually exhausted, especially for Lu Jing.Lu Jing herself is not a person who loves sports. She has been in the ancient town for so many years, and the scope of her activities is actually only that small courtyard. Sometimes she just does a simple wash all day, and then she can just sit for a day, but Now they are actually depleting their physical strength violently, and they are almost unable to hold on.

Of course, I felt that my physical strength was a little weak, so I always rested constantly when climbing.Along the way, they chatted about the world and talked about the past and the past. They enjoyed the beautiful scenery and felt the famous mountain culture.But seeing "floating clouds do not share the same mountain, the mist is somber and misty. The dawn moon flies temporarily in a thousand trees, and the autumn river is separated by several peaks to the west." .The great fruits of the Yaochi are left on the plate, and the mysteries of the Jiuling are all over the Longchou."With such an artistic conception, there are so many literati and poems.Of course, they are not the only ones on the mountain road, there are many young people passing by them. Sweating profusely, panting, and looking back at themselves, Zhen Hua and Lu Jing are also a little helpless. If time goes back 17 years, they came here together 17 years ago, it might be possible to compete with these young people, but now they seem to just watch Overtaken by wave after wave of young people.

They stop and go, sweating, even though they are very embarrassed, but they are persistent, and they still talk and laugh even when they are tired, but they are also very chic.And mountain climbing is just like life, with many setbacks, it needs a lot of perseverance to survive, and those who shrink back will do nothing all their lives.On the road to success, you might as well turn the unattainable goals into small executable goals, and you will find that it is not difficult to realize the unreachable goals, even if there are many people who surpass them on the way, but they It didn't stop, and they walked along the way, and they have actually seen many people complaining about being tired down the mountain, including those who climbed to the top, and some who gave up halfway. They didn't know what kind of people those who surpassed them would become. But they will only be the ones who reach the top.

Because only at the moment when you reach the top of the mountain, you will truly understand what it is like to "be at the top of the mountain and see the small mountain at a glance".Only then will you have a leisurely and contented state of mind.More importantly, it is a kind of self-challenge.Climbing to the top of the mountain, you will succeed in defeating yourself, and the mountain is not high, there are immortals, and the artistic conception of mountain climbing is not in climbing but in enlightenment, just like the journey of life is slow, difficulties and sufferings have imposed many mountains on the journey of life, and you can overcome difficulties Only those who insist on climbing over can stand on the highest peak.Life is like climbing a mountain, there are always some things that will blind our eyes, but as long as we persist, the spring of life will come as scheduled.

In fact, their lives are like this, neither as good as people imagined, nor as bad as people imagined.After years of exaggeration and the ups and downs of the sea of ​​people, we know that only when we let go can we be relaxed, only when we let go can we be free, and whoever let go first can be happy.Although some lives are short, just like Zhen Hua, who only has the life span of ordinary people and is about to end, they still touch some people, including some people who have never met. Of course, this is only because of Zhen Hua's power, not because of him personally. The charm of life, but some lives are enough to impress human beings with their short lives, just like moths, like climbing a mountain, maybe very fast, but easy to get tired, maybe you are slow, then it is easy to fall behind, only a moderate rhythm can Appreciating the most beautiful scenery, in fact, the meaning of life does not lie in the length, just like this mountain, no matter how high it is, it will eventually have a peak and an end.

But now they may just relax their tense mood and let their tired brains be liberated.Step on the stone steps, browse the poems and paintings of mountains, let go of your mood, and feel the colorfulness of life.Cherish the present, cherish everything, let go of your heart, enlarge your steps, and the colorful life will naturally accompany them forever.But for Lu Jing, it means loving as she walks, with every step she takes, she loves life more, loves Zhen Hua at this moment more, and loves everything that was inadvertent in her previous life.At the same time, she knew that in order to climb the higher mountain ahead, she had to go down this mountain first.If you can't bear to let go, you can't reach new heights. She has already let go. The past may be heart-wrenching, but it is over after all. She and Zhen Hua joined hands. The two talked and laughed happily on the way to the mountain, and said together on the artificial rock where they rested. Joking and laughing, this seemed to be what she expected, even if it wasn't true, she was content.

In fact, when everything came too suddenly, even if there were too many difficulties before, I couldn't face the fact, maybe I was too happy.But she also understands that Zhen Hua's things belong to Wen Zixin, because she has completely become Wen Zixin's substitute, so the happiness she endures belongs to Wen Zixin. They will not deny this fact, but if no one exposes it, then this is their happiness.So will all hardships be rewarded?Well, it depends on what kind of bitterness you eat.If you are suffering with a direction, for example: losing weight to starve to death in order to attract people, or losing money for half a year to appeal to customers, it is more likely that the hardship will be rewarded.But if it is suffering without direction, blindly being bullied, and being bullied, then what is the reason for suffering?In any case, you have to endure hardships and find out the direction before you can have hope.

But if you think about it carefully, there are many difficulties and failures in life, which can only be regarded as a series of uncoordinated trills in the song of the years.Through diligence and hard work, you can still play the melodious sound of the movement of life, and you will also win warm applause!Poverty, disease, and even more catastrophes in life are the fate that forces her to create and cherish the opportunity to start again, so that one day she will be happy with all the hardships.Maybe the current happiness is fake, but it is an experience, the happiness that she has never experienced, maybe it is another form of suffering.

But she didn't know that for Zhen Hua, the end of life was close at hand, birth, old age, sickness and death were predestined.True love and hypocrisy are meaningless, and there is no blessing to suffer.I'm tired of hypocrisy, and I'm deceiving myself and others with deep affection.The fake show is really like that, I wish to go and kiss peace.Waking up like a dream is like a mirror, The dream bubble is doomed.Waking up suddenly from a beautiful dream, every dream is bitter and sweet.Pity the fragrance and cherish the jade for hurting me, You have no regrets in your heart.Why is it so difficult to change one's heart, how poisonous it is to cut one's heart out.With such a miserable appearance, everything is so strong that life is not strong.I burst into tears for Jing's injury, and I will single out who I will wear.For more than ten years, what he has gained is not someone who can support each other and go to the cemetery when he gets old in the future, but he is making wedding clothes for others. Now he has also stabilized this relationship without emotion, maybe it's just because of the fake show, in the end he can only do it for real.

It is as if at this time, no one decides the direction for you on the road under your feet, and they can change the road at will. In the same way, no one fulfills the dream in their hearts for them. Lengnuan: experience the change of things, learn self-healing: let go of suffering by yourself, savor it with tears, know life through wind and rain, understand life through hardship, life is a kind of experience, tell yourself that people must rely on themselves, There is no brilliance to wait for, only a life of hard work, even though life is not long.

However, bitterness is a process. After the process, you will feel that the bitterness is gone; bitterness is a kind of understanding. , It is a kind of feeling, and only by practicing it will we know that the true feelings are infinite.People, even if they are wrong, they must be wrong and true; even if they are stupid, they must be stupid and pure; they would rather hurt themselves with the truth than deceive others; no matter how beautiful a lie is, it is still a lie, and it will always be true No; no matter how thoughtful the concealment is, it will be exposed, but it will take time; if a person lacks sincerity, no matter how beautiful he is, he is a flower in the mirror, and there is nothing to linger on; Watching, there will always be a day when the truth comes to light; using one lie to cover another lie can only make oneself degenerate in exhaustion; if sometimes it is inconvenient to tell the truth, please use silence instead of a lie; Countless times to redeem with sincerity; one day you will understand that in fact, lies cannot deceive others, at most, they can only deceive your own heart.In fact, every face is not scary, what is scary is each heart that is hidden deeply, so who is the person he loves at this time?Whether it's Wen Zixin or Lu Jing, in fact, even he himself doesn't know.