Painful Husband Strategy: My Fierce and Cute Treasure Wife

The influence of the original family is mainly on a person’s thinking. For example, the influence of a rich and complete family on a child is that the child will feel that he has higher requirements for himself and will not be so strict with others because he will Feeling that only a little bit of excellence can be respected by others, and the fullness of family affection can give a child a sense of security, and it can also give him a house wind vane in his own emotional world.
Now the performance of these people shows that their original family is not ideal, and it can even be said to be very disappointing. When they have experienced this, they feel that people in the world should experience these to be considered complete, but they Forget that the suffering they have suffered in the past is not suitable for people nowadays. When they were cool at the beginning, the times have begun to change. They are all people who have not seen the big world very much. There are entanglements in these matters, all they want is to be obedient, let them manipulate, vent their youthful sufferings, only in this way can their psychology be considered balanced.
The original family is really important. In fact, Wang was always a single-parent family. His family was not perfect at all. His parents divorced after he was very young. Because everyone is highly educated, their Their thinking is different from others. Their mobile phones think like this. Since they can’t make it through, it’s better to separate, so as not to torture each other. At that time, this kind of thinking was indeed more avant-garde because it was younger than Mrs. Wang’s age. To be more feudal, to have these ideas is already very remarkable, so they left the gang as a matter of course, leaving behind a young child, Mr. Wang grew up with his father from childhood, and grandparents, men always It is necessary to be careless, and his father was not at home since he was a child. Mr. Wang couldn't accept it at the beginning. Even when they left home, Mr. Wang would hide in the toilet and cry secretly. He never let People have seen him like this before, it is very strange, he is obviously still a child, but he is so sensible unconsciously, knows how to suppress his emotions, so that no one will notice, he was still such a small child at that time.
Mr. Wang grew up with his father. To put it bluntly, he grew up with his grandparents. The old man was busy with small activities at home and then took care of the little boy. The little boy was very obedient at first, and his grades were also very good, but gradually changed. .
Perhaps because of family reasons, Mr. Wang felt particularly inferior when he was in junior high school. Although he was not in short supply of money, it was because of family reasons that he became inferior and sensitive. These were not felt by his grandparents. My father didn't feel it either. They were all busy with their own affairs. They had no other expectations. They just hoped that Mr. Wang could grow up healthily. Lin Lin, his introvert, eventually began to be squeezed out by others, but fortunately, his temper was not so cowardly and incompetent. Every time he really provoked him, he would show his fist.
He fought and quarreled with people, and he was very depressed during his junior high school.
He wanted to tell his family, but he didn't know how to say it. His self-esteem was already very strong, so strong that he wanted to save face in front of his family, or he was relatively rebellious at that time, and he didn't know how to protect himself. Pretending to be very strong, his grandparents don’t know how to match clothes, and they dress him ugly every time, so they are ridiculed. After two years, the situation still hasn’t eased. Finally, because of a misunderstanding, Mr. Wang completely collapsed. Wanting to end this kind of life, he began to look for a way to escape, and finally he chose to commit suicide.
It may be scary to talk about this kind of thing, but for a teenage child, since he has been forced to commit suicide, he should be really desperate. He has swallowed a lot of sleeping pills, which specifically have a sleeping effect Because sleeping pills have been discontinued a long time ago, they are only available in prescription drugs. Fortunately, there are no sleeping pills, otherwise Mr. Wang would have passed away in this world long ago.
In the end, he was discovered and sent to the hospital in time. At that time, there was still nothing to make him make up his mind. In fact, it was just the depressed life he had been living all along.
There are also friends around him who need it. Perhaps it is because his self-esteem is too strong. He is dissatisfied with many things, but there is nothing he can do. The cycle of life makes people feel bored.
What this kind of family situation brings him is the lack of family affection. In order to ignore such things, he chooses to take it all in the form of self-deprecating. He will always say these things lightly, and he will also say , In fact, I think it would be better without a mother, at least freedom.
But there seemed to be a voice in his heart saying, you are not like this, you just want to make yourself look less pitiful.
In fact, Mr. Wang didn't know what these things meant to him before. These things may be very rare in a person's life, but sometimes people feel that having these experiences may make people understand The true meaning of life, but in Mr. Wang's view, these are just crazy temptations when he was young. He wanted to test how strong his courage was, and he wanted to touch the stone of reality with his sensitive and fragile heart. He still gave up, and later, when he grew up and met some better friends, he gradually changed.
Sometimes when I think of these things, I still smile lightly. I don’t understand why I was so extreme at that time. It was indeed extreme. Once a word or a word made him feel that it was aimed at him, his reaction would be very intense, no matter how strong the other party was. He is not afraid, he just knows how to maintain his dignity, how tough and powerful he was when he spoke with his fists at that time, and now he does not regret it, but when he looks at the thoughts of these people, he naturally thinks of what happened to him. He met the woman he loved the most in his life. This woman gave him warmth and made him understand that he doesn't need to be so extreme to be loved.
Mr. Wang looked at the old lady Wang affectionately. The old lady Wang was still crying angrily. When she saw her husband looking at her, her expression stopped. I don't know why this man suddenly looked at her like this. Why, it's not easy for her to ask. After all, the current situation is that they are still reasoning with these stubborn old people. Even if they don't listen, he still wants to make them understand that their thinking is wrong. She wants them to be right. Granny Li is better, and her friends are better off, so she can feel more at ease in her heart.
"I don't want to reason with you stubborn people. You'd better think carefully about what we said. If something goes wrong with her, your family will be in chaos."
Old lady Wang wiped away her tears and said.