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After listening to Li Yan and Su Yunyue's description, the doctor looked at the evaluation report carefully, and then said carefully: "Actually, from the report, there is no serious or hereditary autism. It should be It is a short-term, irritative reaction, and parents should pay attention to it and give their children a sense of security."

sense of security?Su Yunyue and Li Yan looked at each other, and only then did they understand why Tong Bao liked to cling to Li Yan and Li Lin after he came back. Does this mean that he thinks male elders will make him feel more secure?

Li Yan asked tentatively: "Is this because the person who imprisoned him was a woman during his imprisonment?"

"Not necessarily." The doctor shook his head: "It has nothing to do with men and women. Does the child hate his mother?"

Su Yunyue shook her head: "I don't have this symptom, but I know that it seems that we are not as close as before. It just feels like he likes Dad and Grandpa more."

"Where's grandma?" the doctor asked.

Li Yan thought about it for a while: "It doesn't seem to have changed much, it's almost the same as before, except that he doesn't like to talk."

Su Yunyue felt a little anxious: "But there is indeed a change in how he treats my problems, that is, he is not so talkative, and it seems that sometimes when I talk to him, he is not as obedient as before."

The doctor thought for a while: "Is that because you were not around when he had an accident? Or did you not comfort him enough?" When a person is in trouble, if the character he most desires in his heart is not by his side, it is true that tourists may cause dissatisfaction with this person. The character's subconscious resistance.

Su Yunyue covered her mouth, she could imagine how helpless and desperate Tong Bao was at that time, and how much she wished for her mother to be by his side?
But at that time, only Li Yan, Li Lin and Wei Huiling encouraged Tong Bao in front of the phone every day and supported him!No wonder Tong Bao felt alienated from her when he came back.

Seeing Su Yunyue's sad duckling, Li Yan also felt a little bit unbearable: "Go and see Tong Bao, I'll tell the doctor."

Seeing that Su Yunyue was very sad, the doctor also persuaded: "This child is like this, slowly heal his wounds. The family will love him more and create a good environment for him, so that some of the child's misunderstandings can be slowly reversed. "

Su Yunyue nodded: "Thank you doctor."

After Su Yunyue left, Li Yan raised his own question: "Doctor, to tell you the truth, my son was kidnapped some time ago. After he came back from the kidnapping, he became a little quiet."

"Kidnapping?" The doctor nodded thoughtfully: "That's no wonder, in that kind of closed environment, children may develop some self-protection defense mechanisms, which are the self-protection mechanisms in an unfamiliar environment."

"Is it related to threats and intimidation?" Li Yan was a little worried: "Is it abused or something?"

The doctor shook his head: "Judging from his physical condition, it seems that he has not been physically abused, but it may not be verbal."

"I have another question." After making sure that Su Yunyue didn't notice this, Li Yan asked: "Theoretically speaking, in this situation, when facing the person who rescued him, generally speaking, would children be particularly dependent, Trust or gratitude?"

The doctor nodded: "Your son should be in this situation. Because he has already developed a fear of this environment, there will be a way for those who rescued him to worship and appreciate him."

Li Yan nodded in confusion: "But my son's condition is abnormal, and he hates the person who saved him very much, even to the point of disgust. Don't let him touch it, and don't even buy him his favorite toy! Just completely resist."

"This kind of situation is relatively rare." The doctor thought for a while: "It must mean that some things that you don't know may have happened in the middle. However, I suggest that such factors should not appear for a long time, and let children temporarily avoid exposure to these things." Factors, let’s talk about it later.”

Li Yan nodded: "I think so too, thank you doctor."

This is great, at least he has enough reasons to persuade his family members not to keep that Yang Yuli at home all the time.Seeing that brazen woman wandering around the house every day made Li Yan feel angry.

Speaking of which, Tong Bao's incident is indeed a bit strange.Why does he loathe and dislike Yang Yuli so much?
When Li Yan and Su Yunyue returned home, Li Yan carefully told the whole family what the doctor had said, especially the part about Yang Yuli: "The doctor said that it is recommended to block all the things that Tong Bao might be afraid of now. It would be better for Tong Bao to gradually adapt and get familiar with him, and slowly return to the rhythm of his previous life."

As soon as the words were said, the whole family immediately agreed, and Li Lin was very blunt: "I have never seen someone who likes to run to other people's houses so much! Is she that familiar with our family?"

Wei Huiling also doesn't like Yang Yuli very much: "This girl has a sweet mouth, but our Tong Bao doesn't like it, so let's thank her later. Yunyue, don't you think so?"

Su Yunyue was inexplicably embarrassed at this time. In fact, she had already felt that the whole family didn't like Yang Yuli, and she was the only one who would accept and socialize with Yang Yuli.Now that the topic has been picked up, and it is for the good of Tong Bao, then Su Yunyue must fully support it: "I absolutely agree. I have seen it for a few days and I have gone to work. If she wants to find me, she can go to work." Su Shi find me."

Li Yan frowned, to the Su family?Does Su Yunyue's mind not remember things?Isn't she afraid of being provoked by those strange relatives around her?

Seeing her son's expression, Wei Huiling knew that there must be no good words in his mouth. She quickly looked at Su Yunyue: "I said daughter-in-law, you are good at everything, but this is too soft-hearted. Although I am not bad at doing business I understand, but I think it must be done by ruthless people like your father and Li Yan. As for you, you used to be too soft-hearted, and you were coerced by those relatives before you got into trouble. You can't follow the old path."

"No." Now Su Yunyue was really embarrassed. She looked around and it seemed that the expressions of Li Lin and Li Yan also meant the same thing, and she was even more embarrassed: "I just feel that she gave Tong Bao away no matter what. I'm back, but I won't do any business with her, ever again."

Li Yan seemed a little disbelieving: "The Su family is yours. If you are tossing around, I don't think the Su family can last long. What we say, you can listen to it or not, but this woman will definitely not appear again It's at our house. When Tong Bao recovers, I don't want this woman to cause any negative impact. "

Li Lin seemed to be quite impatient: "It's not easy? Say hello to the guard directly, and you will know the seriousness after being stopped outside a few times. During this period of time, our family does not socialize or entertain. Whoever quarrels with Tong Bao will Get out."