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Chapter 235 Sharing is Not Charity

The four of them separated shortly after entering the shopping mall. Xia Chan and Gu Qinghui also intentionally created opportunities for Song Qi, so the two went shopping in opposite directions.

The two first came to the children's book area.

There are all kinds of children's books on the container, mostly fairy tale books.

The two looked at it for a while, Xia Chan was turning around inside, and when Gu Qinghui came out, he had already taken a whole stack of fairy tale picture books.

"This...is too much."

He took at least a dozen books, and the children couldn't finish reading so many.

Besides, don't they all give away books, isn't it entertaining at all?

"Not too much, not too much, children just want to read more." Gu Qinghui continued to hold it.

Children, the future flowers of the motherland, the rising sun at seven or eight o'clock in the morning, is the time to study hard and cultivate the outlook on life and values. It is still necessary to read more positive early education fairy tales.

"Why don't you buy books at the end, there are too many and you have to carry heavy ones."

Xia Chan talked all kinds of things, and then pulled Gu Qinghui out of the children's bookstore.

Next to it is a shop that sells children's toys. There are Barbie dolls that girls like, and car model robot models that boys like.

Xia Chan chose for a while, she didn't hesitate much about boys' toys, she basically knew which one they would like, but when it came to Barbie dolls, she found it difficult to choose.

All the dolls here are very beautiful, with different hairstyles and different styles of skirts, and the scenes designed by each doll are even more different. Staring at the row of dolls, she only feels that her head is big.

She has never bought this kind of doll since she was a child. The only time Ms. Zhang bought her a doll was when she went to the mall to buy clothes and collected a pillow as a gift. She didn't like it very much.

Maybe she also liked Barbie dolls when she was young, but because she never got one, she didn't even know much about it.

How about getting one instead?
"What's wrong?" Seeing her struggling, Gu Qinghui simply stood beside her and picked up a few for her, "Girls also have different aesthetics, every doll will be liked by someone."

He was right.

"But do you girls like this kind of doll?" Looking at the small one with colorful hair, is it really pretty?
"It should be." Most children would like it.

"Then do you like it?" He turned to look at her, but Xia Chan shook her head.

"I don't like it very much." Even if she had liked it before, it was only for a short moment. Since she was a child, she knew what she could and couldn't want.

"Then what should we do? If a baby is born in the future, how should we choose a doll for her?" Xia Chan is not good at it, and he is not good at it. If the baby doesn't know what he likes, wouldn't he be in a state of distress?
"What if it's a boy?" Xia Chan smiled, "I know very well what boys like."

She has been with boys since she was a child. Boys are more generous than girls. She often plays with their toys, and she has grown up so much.

"I don't like boys." It would be better to give birth to a little princess.

"You're sexist." Xia Chan laughed, because she didn't see that this person still had the problem of patriarchy.Then he immediately realized that the topic was off topic, "We are buying things for the children in the rescue hospital, where did you think?"

"Sooner or later, you have to think about it. It's better to prepare late than to prepare early." Gu Qinghui was still very obsessed with dolls, "Just take one of each doll, so that tomorrow we will know which doll is the most popular."

When the two of them checked out, the salesperson thought they were here to buy goods.

Originally, Xia Chan didn't prepare much money, and wanted to plan and spend carefully, but in the end, she couldn't afford the dolls alone, so Gu Qinghui paid the money in the end.

"This time it's for our future baby to give to the children, so of course I will pay for it." Knowing that Xia Chan didn't want to use her money, Gu Qinghui couldn't help but say, "I always do this Work hard, and you will also work hard to take care of our baby in the future."

"you……"

Where is all this going?
With Gu Qinghui, a purchasing fanatic.There is no need to go shopping at all. In less than half an hour for the two of you, you have already bought too much.

Xia Chan had no choice but to call Song Qi.

"Don't buy those toys, fairy tale books, etc., buy some other useful gifts. Gu Qinghui bought a lot."

"Sure enough, he is still Gu Dafang."

They shopped carefully and didn't buy much before turning their heads to look at Xia Chan on the other side. The two of them had already filled their hands.

The two of them were carrying very heavy things, so they told Song Qi and the others to take a step ahead and make an appointment to meet at the company gate the next day, and then drove back.

In the car, Xia Chan looked at the bags of gifts in the back seat and the trunk, and felt that it was a little too grand.

It's not good if the children have psychological pressure.

Back home, Xia Chan began to unpack the package, peeling off the price stickers with a knife.

Gu Qinghui sat opposite her, watching her operate.

"Why tear off the label and unpack?"

Gu Qinghui was a little puzzled.

"After unpacking, the children will not feel that we bought it specially, so that they will not have too much psychological pressure."

Maybe they think it’s nothing in the eyes of adults. In fact, children’s minds are very delicate. Although they may not understand many things in the world, many times, the kindness of others may cause them harm.

So try to weaken the kindness as much as possible, and turn the kindness into a communication between friends, which will make it easier for children to accept it.

"But this is what we bought on purpose."

Gu Qinghui was still puzzled.

"Let's put it this way, is there a time when you don't want to accept other people's kindness?" Xia Chan asked.

Although I know that others are kind, I still feel as if I have been stripped naked, showing my most shameful and most daring side in the brightest place.

Xia Chan has.

When she was in elementary school, her parents didn’t care much about her. At that time, it was not very popular to prepare meals for students in the school. The school cafeteria was closed for two days due to some decoration problems. Many students would go home to eat, or their parents would bring lunch boxes. She I only brought a box of rice and some cold dishes. In the eyes of many caring students at that time, it was very shabby.

Her family has always been quite wealthy, and her school is also aristocratic. In the eyes of many little princesses and princes, she has become a poor student in the mouth of her classmates. feed her.

Later, during the parent-teacher meeting, the teacher told Ms. Zhang that even if the family is poor, they should pay attention to the healthy growth of the children. There is no meat in the lunch box, and they often have to rely on the help of classmates.

I heard that the mother at the same table told the teacher that since she started helping her, the family at the same table has been buying more meat every day.

They even offered to fund her education.

Ms. Zhang didn't take it seriously, she just told the teacher that her family was busy and didn't have so much time to prepare lunch boxes, she would pay attention to it in the future, and kept asking her to thank her tablemate for her kindness.

Afterwards, she brought rice, and she couldn't bear to refuse the chicken drumsticks kindly handed over by the tablemate, but she felt like she was chewing wax every time she took a bite.

She has never forgotten everyone's pity and sympathy. She didn't even know that the chicken legs she ate for many days were given by others.

But she doesn't need alms from others.

Even if she needs it, she doesn't want it.

The saddest thing is that her family is obviously not short of money, but there is nothing for her to take out.

She indirectly became a poor child in the eyes of others.

That kind of psychological pressure is not caused by the gap between the rich and the poor, but by the family environment.

Come to think of it, the pressure should be exactly the same.

Accepting other people's kindness, I often feel humble and low, always remembering that I am different from others and the kindness I owe.

So she doesn't sympathize with others easily, or in other words, she doesn't express sympathy easily. Even if she really wants to help those children, she hopes to choose a method that they can accept.

For example, these new toys and books are disguised as second-hand, which is to share toys with children, not to give them away.

There is a world of difference between the two.

Gu Qinghui nodded, it turned out to be the case.

He had a bad personality since he was a child, and he was often regarded as autistic and poor by others. Many people offered him alms, but they were all rejected.

He doesn't need friends, he doesn't need sharing, and he doesn't need sympathy.

So you may not be able to experience this feeling.

But I can understand.

Everyone wants to be an independent and equal self, even if they are stuck in the mud, they want to stand up.

A little humble, not because of poverty, but because of accepting the sympathy of others.

This is the source of humility.

Gu Qinghui stretched out his hand to open a book of fairy tales, carefully reading from beginning to end.

"Do you like reading picture books of fairy tales?"

This kind of picture book has exquisite illustrations. A thick picture book actually only tells a short story. The most important thing is the interestingness of the illustrations, which is a favorite way for children to read.

Unexpectedly, Gu Qinghui would also like it.

"No." Gu Qinghui shook his head, "I've seen that they are second-hand."

He is not good at lying and can only make them real second-hand.

Xia Chan smiled, somehow finding him cute.

Early the next morning, the two cars set off in a mighty way.

In order to show the simplicity of second-hand, Song Qi deliberately asked for two super large nylon bags from the uncle who collected waste.

This kind of bag is used by the uncle to collect waste products, but it is a brand new bag.

It's rustic, but not dirty at all.

Don't stop outside the far gate of the rescue hospital. Through a fence, the children who were playing around saw Xia Chan and the others.

"Sister Xia came to see us!"

Four people, two male compatriots, each carrying an oversized nylon bag, seemed to be fleeing famine.

"Kids!" Xia Chan called the children together as soon as they entered the door, "Remember what brother and sister said last time? There are so many toys and books at home that no one reads. Who wants to help brother and sister share some? "

"I!"

"I!"

"I!"

"..."

Everyone raised their hands one after another, and the sister nurse who was in charge of taking care of the children arranged the children to line up to receive gifts in front of Xia Chan one by one.

The little boys lined up in front of Song Qi to receive gifts from boys, while the little girls lined up to receive gifts from girls in Xia Chan's team.

However, a young boy stood in Xia Chan's team.

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