Take the cubs to chase the stars

Zhao Xintian seemed to ignore Zhao Sijia's reminder, and was still bouncing over there. When he ran to a little girl, he even took away the toy gun from her hand. It was obvious that the child was a little unhappy, but Zhao Xintian not only didn't Say sorry to others, make faces, and turn around to play with other people's toy guns.

The assistant on the side didn't feel anything bad, just felt that it was nothing wrong with the children playing together, but in Zhao Sijia's view, this was a bad phenomenon, I didn't expect Zhao Xintian to snatch someone else's Toys, and so rude.

It felt like a big stone had sunk in my heart.Zhao Sijia walked to the trampoline next to Zhao Xintian without any thought in her brain: "Zhao Xintian", how can you take other people's toys casually? "Zhao Sijia's voice was not too loud, but Zhao Xintian froze there, because Zhao Sijia never called her name in normal times, and she was so fierce.

Faced with Zhao Sijia's questioning, the toy gun in Zhao Xintian's hand fell to the ground. Seeing that Zhao Xintian seemed to have no repentance, Zhao Sijia became more and more angry: "Do you know that it is wrong for you to do this? How can you just take someone else's gun?" thing."

The voice was a little louder this time, Zhao Sijia couldn't bear the anger in her heart.Immediately, Zhao Xintian burst into tears, the tears were like broken beads, and he slumped on the spot all of a sudden.

Now Zhao Xintian didn't want to continue playing here, and looked at Zhao Sijia with a face of fear. When she saw her daughter looking at her like this, Zhao Sijia felt a little distressed. Zhao Xintian had never been like this before. Although she was young, But never take things from others.

But today it seems that Zhao Sijia always feels that this is the thing she is most afraid of. She feels that when Zhao Xintian snatched other little girls' toys just now, she was like a replica of those who hurt her. Although it is a bit serious to say so.But Zhao Sijia was most afraid that Zhao Xintian would develop a habit like them.

Zhao Xintian walked out of the trampoline slowly, Zhao Sijia knew that she was a little angry just now, and even the children next to her stayed on the sidelines, which did not give Zhao Xintian any face, so she comforted: "Mom just wanted to tell you, snatch It's not right to buy someone else's toy, if you like it, you can tell mom, and mom will buy it for you."

After some earnest instruction, Zhao Xintian wept and nodded. He also knew that what he did just now was wrong. In fact, he understood the truth, but the pink toy gun that other children saw just now was really beautiful. , so I didn't care about anything, just took it over, just like when I usually play with He Mu in the villa.

"Mom, I know I was wrong."

Saying that, Zhao Xintian walked in front of those children, like Zhao Sijiajiao herself, she would sincerely apologize for doing something wrong, and said goodbye to those children after apologizing.

On the way back, Zhao Sijia realized that Zhao Xintian usually played like this when he was in the villa, but at that time only Zhao Xintian was playing with his mother, so the two of them developed this habit.

"Grandma bought me a lot of toys. The two of us had a lot of fun every day, just like those building blocks." As if forgetting the lessons just now, Zhao Xintian started chatting with Zhao Sijia again in the villa. The matter of playing with He's mother.

It was only at this time that Zhao Sijia realized that the root of the matter was here. The children's education was under the leadership of the adults. It turned out that when playing in the villa every day, no matter what toys Zhao Xintian liked, Mother He would ask the butler to buy them.

Just like the building blocks I bought, in Zhao Xintian's words, when He's mother was playing with him, the two of them would each take some of the same building blocks to see who built the best-looking house, but in the process , Zhao Xintian is always slow, and sometimes loses his temper as a child. Whenever this happens, Mother He will unconditionally dedicate the building blocks in her hands to herself.

It turned out that this was the case. Through repeated misleadings, Zhao Xintian developed the habit like now. He didn't know that what he did was wrong. On the contrary, he thought it was a very common thing. If he went to school in the future In this case, it will arouse the resentment of other children.

It is not very healthy for the body and mind in the future.

After returning, Mother He sat on the first floor of the villa and watched TV. She saw the two of them leaving one after the other. When she came back, she asked them what they wanted to eat tonight, but Zhao Sijia seemed to have lost her appetite, but neither did she. Get mad.

Saying that, Zhao Xintian hurried to He's mother's side, and Zhao Sijia couldn't believe herself that this daughter was the child who was very afraid of He's mother in the past.

Noticing that Zhao Xintian's eyes were red, Mother He froze for a moment, she seemed to have figured out what was going on?Zhao Sijia didn't hide it either, and talked to her about Zhao Xintian's education.

When the two of them came back, they found something was wrong with their faces. The reason was that it was because of the snatching of toys. Mother He breathed a sigh of relief, thinking it was a big deal?Only at this time did Zhao Sijia realize that Mother He didn't take this matter seriously.

"Scarlett, we have all heard an old saying before that a daughter should be rich and well-off. You see, our Zhao Xintian is fair and clean. Of course, we should pamper him like a little princess and give the best to the child." Mother He said this It is sincere when they are, their purpose is to love this child very much, but this is already too much spoiling.

"But I don't think it's more strict with the child. It's also love for him. You can't follow her in everything. This is very detrimental to the child's growth."But for this question, the mouths of both sides are a little dry.

Both parties are based on the goodness of Zhao Xintian, so it is difficult to let He's mother understand that there is something wrong with the doting she did in a short time: "Have you ever thought about such excessive doting? If we have something in the future If we don’t give it to her, what will she do to us then.”

This result was also what Zhao Sijia didn't want to see, but mother He froze in place when she asked such a heart-to-heart question, and couldn't speak for a while: "My granddaughter will never be like this, absolutely not."

Seeing that Mother He couldn't say anything, Zhao Sijia said that she wanted to take care of the child by herself, but Mother He was not very happy: "I can also take good care of her, the two of us get along very well."