if love is invisible

"Mom, I have a new friend."

Han Baoer approached Chen Mian's ear, her voice was very low, almost out of breath: "But my new friend doesn't like me very much, he doesn't want to share my new toy with him, and he also said not to play with him again .”

The little girl is innocent and cute. After Chen Mian remarried with Han Feishen, she never suffered cold violence from others or scolded her for being a little bastard without a father, and she was still young at that time, so she couldn’t remember. Shiwoshan has been in Shiwoshan for several years, and I have long forgotten the unhappiness when I was a child. Here, all the adults and children I met are very friendly and like her very much.

So the little girl took it for granted that everyone wanted to be friends with her and everyone liked her.

Thinking of her new friend's serious face, Han Baoer was distressed: "Mom, why doesn't Qiao Moli like Baoer? Is there something wrong with Baoer? Is Baoer not pretty?"

Chen Mian looked serious.

Only people who lack a sense of security in their hearts will subconsciously reflect on themselves when others do not agree with them. What is the current situation in Bao'er's little inner world?
Without an immediate response from her mother, Han Baoer was even more disturbed: "Mom? Is it true that Baoer is not good enough?"

Afraid of scaring her daughter, Chen Mian hurriedly managed her expressions. She touched her daughter's face and softly comforted her: "Why would Bao'er think so? Our Bao'er is so pretty and cute, who doesn't like it? It's just that your When the new friend just arrived in a strange place, he was still a little scared, afraid that everyone would not like him, so he told everyone first that he didn't like everyone, and told everyone not to play with him."

"But in fact, in his heart, he really wants to play with everyone, and especially wants to be friends with Bao'er. Because Bao'er is kind to him, he can feel it. But he is too scared, afraid that his unhappiness will hurt him. Infecting Bao'er will make Bao'er unhappy with him, so I said that on purpose."

"Bao'er, if you think your new friend will be a good friend in the future, then tell him that you are willing to be friends with him no matter whether he is happy or not, if you think he will be more unhappy after being friends with you Well, then don't think it's your problem."

"Between people, whether the magnetic field is right or not is very important, whether you can fit your eyes or not is very important, and whether you can eat together or chat together is also very important."

She was not afraid that Bao'er would not understand, so she decided to tell her the truth: "Bao'er, do you think that you are so good and obedient that everyone should like you? No. Everyone likes different things. Like you and Brother Ah Lin, Brother Ah Lin likes to eat fish, you like to eat beef, you can’t think that Brother Ah Lin must also like beef just because you like to eat beef.”

Han Bao'er half understood: "So, Bao'er is beef, and if you want to be liked by Ah Lin's brother, Bao'er must become a fish, right?"

Chen Mian frowned: "No—"

"Mom, I understand!" Han Baoer clapped her hands, "Student Qiao Moli doesn't like me because I'm not what he likes! I'll ask him tomorrow what kind of child he likes, and I will definitely become what he likes." look like!"

"No, baby—"

"Mom, I'm going to bed! Goodnight Mom!"

Pushing Chen Mian to the outside of the room, Han Baoer closed the door, found out the notebook, drew something on the blank page that only she could understand, and muttered to herself: "Tomorrow I will ask Qiao Moli what kind of book he likes." kid!"

After writing the memo, Han Baoer immediately got into bed.

As long as you fall asleep quickly, you can get dawn quickly, and you can see new friends after dawn. She must remember to ask new friends what kind of children they like!

The next day, Han Baoer woke up at Tianliang.

It was already autumn, and it was a bit chilly in the morning. She remembered that she was wearing a small dress yesterday, and her new friends didn’t want to talk or play with her. She decided to change her style, so she rummaged through the box to find a denim suit and put it on.

The little girl didn't know how to tie her own hair. After changing her clothes and washing her face, she went to knock on her parents' door. She didn't want to wake up others, so she deliberately lowered her voice: "Mom, mom~~"

In Chen Mian's dream, she woke up when she heard Bao'er's cry. She quickly opened the door, and saw her daughter looking up at her with loose hair, her big eyes were bright, and her heart immediately softened. Busily squatting down and looking at her daughter at the same level: "What's the matter, baby?"

The little girl blushed with embarrassment, buried her head in Chen Mian's arms, and said coquettishly, "Mom, Bao'er can't tie her hair."

Yo, the little girl is just shy because she doesn't know how to tie her own hair?

Chen Mian couldn't help but tie her hair.

Han Baoer said no double ponytails: "I want one, just like my mother, one!"

So Chen Mian tied a cute little ball for her, and finally a cute pink hairpin for her.

Han Baoer resisted very much: "Mom, I'm not a little princess today, I don't want pink hairpins!"

Only then did Chen Mian notice that she had changed into a denim suit.

He's quite energetic, and he doesn't look so fragile, he's a bit heroic.

Chen Mian followed her.

After breakfast, Han Baoer went to the Confucius Garden under the escort of her parents and bodyguards.

The time was still there, and not many children came, she looked around and didn't see the person she wanted to see, a little disappointed.

The little girl's mind is not difficult to understand. Chen Mian and Han Feichen exchanged a look and said goodbye to the daughter: "Bao'er, Mom and Dad sent the two younger brothers to the next door. You and Brother Ah Lin should love each other and don't fight, you know?" ?”

Han Baoer waved his hand: "Mom and Dad, I know, I will take good care of my brother!"

She is no longer a child, she is already the big sister of three younger brothers, parents must learn to trust her!

Han Lin's good friend Leng Nan came, and the two of them got together to play together. Han Baoer put his hands in his pockets and looked at the side for a while, thinking that the things they played were too children's and not suitable for a big friend like her, so he decided to play with them. Gu Zi walked over.

Han Baoer was walking around in the park, and suddenly saw Qiao Moli in the corner of the slide, and she ran over happily: "Qiao Moli!"

Qiao Moli was sitting inside thinking of his parents, and suddenly he was disturbed. He frowned immediately: "What are you doing here? Didn't I tell you not to come to me?"

Han Baoer didn't care about his stinky face, and said seriously: "I'm here to be friends with classmate Qiao!"

She went to pull Qiao Moli: "Qiao Moli, let's play a game together!"

Qiao Moli stood up as if someone had stepped on his tail: "I don't need friends!"

He got up so fast that he forgot that he was shrunk in the tube. With such force, his head immediately hit the wall of the tube, causing his eyes to turn red with pain.

The little man clenched his fists and shouted at Han Baoer who was crawling over: "Don't come here, I don't hurt!"

Han Baoer nodded: "I know you don't hurt, but I didn't hit my head too much, I want to try it and see what it feels like."

She crawled up to the little boy and stood up just as he had just done.

boom!
Her head hit the tube wall so hard that Han Baoer was in so much pain that tears flowed down her cheeks.

She pursed her mouth, pointed at the little boy and complained: "Qiao Moli lied to you, it obviously hurts!"

Qiao Moli was startled.