Comprehensive Video: Daily life from the courtyard

"The last time I went to the hospital with Qin Jingru, I heard from the doctor that the largest hospital in the south of the city has doctors who specialize in giving birth, and can also adjust according to the situation of each couple. The most scientific and effective is better than finding folk remedies. You and Lou Xiao'e Why don't you give it a try, you can solve the problem only if you know the problem, wouldn't it be better to know how to solve it?" Lin Nan was a little tangled.He didn't know if it was good to say that, because he would definitely not ask the big leader for help for Lou Xiao'e in this life, but he also hoped that Xu Damao and Lou Xiao'e would have a different ending in this life. After a long time together, he also found that there are many people like Xu Damao The disadvantage is that he may do a lot of bad things in the future, but he still has a sense of responsibility. If he can find out earlier that his inability to have children is his own fault, he probably won't do it for Lou Xiao'e's family for divorce.

"You heard what the doctor said, and according to the situation of the husband and wife, isn't it a woman's business to have children?" Xu Damao was a little puzzled.

"I don't know about that. I also heard from Director Wang of the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology. I listened to Qin Jingru when we were waiting for the sign, but I didn't understand the situation. Maybe I asked Dad to listen to pre-pregnancy knowledge. The doctors and nurses who accompanied Qin Jingru for the obstetric examination had to explain to me a lot. I didn’t know that giving birth required an obstetric examination. I could see his picture in the stomach. Babies are healthier when they are born, anyway, it’s not too far away to see and there’s nothing to do, and then decide whether to adopt the child or not.” Lin Nan said vaguely, he didn’t want to get involved too much, and whether to go or not was up to Xu Damao himself. What if Xu Damao knew that men can also be infertile, and when he knew about his infertility, it would be bad if he became abnormal in his heart.I don't want to be like the original owner and peck at him like a cockfight, disturbing my peaceful life.

Xu Damao nodded after hearing this and didn't say anything else. When he got home, he told Lou Xiao'e what happened just now, "I think what Shazhu said makes sense. Let's go and see what to say first. If it doesn't work, we can follow the original plan." .

"I've checked everything, but it's useless. What can I change?" Lou Xiao'e was a little bit reluctant, and she couldn't get results even after going to the hospital to suffer.She felt that her idea was very good, even if she couldn't give birth, she would not be alone with a child.

"You used to go to a small hospital. How can you compare it with this hospital? In Yanjing, this hospital can also be ranked in the top three. I will go with you. This is the last time." Xu Damao said a little unclearly.

Hearing this, Lou Xiaoe was silent, and the two of them rushed to the hospital early the next day. Xu Damao and Lou Xiaoe, who were busy in the hospital, waited for a long time and finally met Director Zhang of the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology. Nurses and people waiting in line have inquired that this Director Zhang has good medical skills and has studied abroad. Many people specifically seek him out for medical treatment and they are lucky to meet him today.

"Doctor, my wife and I have been married for five or six years and have no children. Can you help me find out what's wrong?" Xu Damao asked bluntly.

"Has your wife been to the hospital for an examination? Has your wife ever been pregnant in these years?"Director Zhang routinely said.

"I had an examination at the hospital in my home before. The doctor said that I had a bit of palace cold but it didn't affect my pregnancy, but I haven't been pregnant in these years," Lou Xiaoe replied.

"I'm sure not once," Director Zhang reconfirmed.

Lou Xiaoe nodded, and finally Director Zhang gave both Lou Xiaoe and Xu Damao an inspection list, asking them to check first and bring the inspection list.

"I'm going to check it too, isn't childbirth a woman's business?" Xu Damao wondered.

"A child can only be successfully conceived by combining the eggs and sperm of the parents. Therefore, it cannot be said that giving birth is the mother's business. This matter requires the cooperation of the parents. You have to do this inspection. After the precise analysis of the machine, when the time comes I can make a diagnosis only if I know your specific physical conditions," Director Zhang explained.

This was the first time Lou Xiaoe heard a doctor say that. In the past, doctors only prescribed medicines for herself repeatedly, and she would get pregnant after taking the medicine well.Hold Xu Damao who wants to say something.

"Go and check first, what's the matter later," Lou Xiao'e said.

After tossing all afternoon, when Xu Damao was about to go crazy, he finally fixed it. He took his own report to find Director Zhang. Seeing Director Zhang's more and more serious expression, Xu Damao thought that he had discovered some terminal illness and would die soon. up.Because Lou Xiao'e checked more people than himself, and it took a while. He didn't want to sit among a group of girls and be questioned, so he came to Director Zhang after he got his report.

"Mr. Xu, I now suspect that the reason for your wife's infertility lies with you, but I have to see your wife's report to confirm it. According to the activity level of sperm on your current report, the viability of your sperm If it is not high, it will also cause your wife not to be pregnant. Simply put, if the seeds don’t germinate, how will they bear fruit?” Director Zhang explained.

Xu Damao was stunned and didn't know how to react. The doctor's words were like a plate of cold water pouring down his head, which made his whole heart go cold. He didn't want to believe what Director Zhang said, but those patients just outside said that Director Zhang's medical skills It’s very good, and it’s because he came back from studying abroad and the fact that Lou Xiao’e has never been pregnant, which made him a little suspicious of himself. Even if other people’s daughters-in-law couldn’t give birth, they were pregnant. Originally, he blamed Lou Xiao’e, but Director Zhang’s words were also very good. The truth is, if the seeds are not good, they can't even sprout, let alone bear fruit.When Lou Xiaoe gave the report to Director Zhang, Xu Damao wanted to disappear instantly, but Director Zhang still gave a conclusion.

"Mr. Xu, your current problem cannot be solved with the current technology. I can prescribe some medicine for you to try, but this can only improve but not solve the problem of sperm motility. You can discuss it with your wife." Director Zhang said I can say briefly.

Lou Xiao'e was in a daze and didn't know how to react. She didn't even have a picture of how she got home. Her mind was full of Director Zhang's words, so it was not her own fault but Xu Damao's fault that she had taken so many medicines and listened to so much. Many old women gossiped about her not laying eggs, but in the end she was fine, the one with the problem was Xu Damao, she looked at Xu Damao who was lying on the bed and didn't speak, and felt a little uncomfortable. The reason why she married Xu Damao was because she liked him Yes, although she lived in New China, she was also educated conservatively since she was a child. I don’t know how many times the two of them have quarreled because they have no children. Last time Xu Damao even talked to her about divorce. She didn’t know if this was the old man. The sky opened my eyes.