18-year-old dad: Activate the Shenhao system

After spending most of the night, Wang Qiang was trying to reason with Liu Shiyu. He wanted the children to know that marriage is a very sacred thing. You should get married because of love, because you really like someone, not because of love. There was some other purpose in mind from the start.

Because that kind of marriage is mixed with a lot of utilitarianism from the beginning, it is difficult to trust and support each other, and love each other until they grow old together.And once the other party loses what you need, are you going to divorce the other party?

Then Liu Shiyu asked in a very confused tone: "Then you married that woman because of love?"

Wang Qiang: ...

The "that woman" in Liu Shiyu's mouth is of course referring to Liu An'an.Because of the strong resentment towards this biological mother, Liu Shiyu no longer called Liu An'an "mother", but called "that woman".

Of course Wang Qiang understands the girl's little thought, but what Liu Shiyu said is indeed correct. The marriage between Wang Qiang and Liu An'an was not because of love, it can be said that it was for helping and making a lot of money by the way , or there may be other considerations, anyway, it is definitely not because of love.

At least Wang Qiang didn't read the memory of the original owner, Tie Hanhan, falling in love with Liu An'an from the memory fragments. Even before they got married, the two of them had never met.

Nonsense, one is a young lady, and the other is a bodyguard who has just joined the job. There is a fart love. I have read too many romance novels for girls.

So Liu Shiyu only said a word, and Wang Qiang was choked and speechless.

However, Liu Shiyu did not let Wang Qiang go, grabbed Wang Qiang's chest hair, and continued to ask: "Wang Wang, why did you marry that woman? Is it because of love? If so, do you still love her now?" her?"

That being said, the logic is quite good.

Wang Qiang also hesitated for a moment. He originally wanted to be vague and confused, but after thinking about it, he spent most of the night trying to explain the truth to the child, but when he talked about himself, he immediately became vague... Don't think that children don't understand anything, Today's children are precocious, in fact, they know a lot of things - if Liu Shiyu lives until 2019, and if Wang Qiang has not traveled through time, he and Liu Shiyu are the same age, even Liu Shiyu is a little older than him Woolen cloth.

This is an extremely weird sense of déjà vu—now I am the father of a sister of my age.

Well, back to the point, it's easy to fool the child only once, but it's not good to fool the child all the time, because the child just doesn't understand, not a fool.And how can Wang Qiang reason with Liu Shiyu about similar problems in the future?How to guide Liu Shiyu to establish the correct three views?

Right, if Liu Shiyu asks the same question again, can Wang Qiang continue to fool around?Then this problem will never go away.

So if there is a problem, you can only face the problem directly, and you can't always think about fooling your children-this will cost you in the future.

Of course, there are some problems that may not be suitable to talk to children now, because of age and experience, etc., it is harmful and not beneficial to overthrow the seedlings. That is a special case.

And Wang Qiang will not lie to Liu Shiyu, if you don’t know, you don’t know, if it’s not suitable for talking now, it’s not suitable for talking now, absolutely don’t lie... Only a parent who will never lie to their children will have a child who will never lie to their parents .

This sentence is a bit confusing, and no one has taken parent-child education classes with Wang Qiang. This is based on Wang Qiang's own personal experience, because he had a couple in his previous life and always liked to fool him and lie to him. parents.Although most of the time, his parents did not fool him out of malice, but the antecedents had been planted. Once there was any problem, Wang Qiang would subconsciously suspect—are they fooling me again?
With vigilance and vigilance, trust and intimacy will also have a gap, which is inevitable.

So in the constant introspection after rebirth, Wang Qiang gradually set such rules for himself.

Facing Liu Shiyu's rhetorical question now, Wang Qiang still insisted on this principle.

"The situation between me and your mother is very complicated. You are still very young, and you can't understand even if I tell you."

"It's not that I'm fooling you. I'm telling the truth. In the future, when I think you can understand and bear the truth, I will definitely tell you the truth."

"Please believe me, because I have never lied to you, never! Not before, not now, and never in the future, you can always trust me, and I will always be your most reliable friend."

After Wang Qiang finished speaking, he was still a little uneasy, because he was not sure whether a seven-year-old child could accept such words.

Unexpectedly, Liu Shiyu quickly nodded and said, "I believe in you."

Without the slightest reluctance or hesitation in his expression, Liu Shiyu said the answer with certainty, which made Wang Qiang feel extremely gratified and proud, and especially had a sense of accomplishment—who said buddy, this young man can't be a good grandma Dad?

Nonsense!

"Woof, let's stop talking about that, I don't even understand what you're talking about." Liu Shiyu complained.

"Okay, let's talk later when you grow up, but you have to remember my words, okay?" Wang Qiang urged.

"Okay, then do you want to marry Aunt Lou as your wife?" Liu Shiyu asked unwillingly: "I watched on TV that some women can save 20 years of struggle if they marry, I think Aunt Lou is such a woman, wow woof you Work hard!"

Wang Qiang: ...

How much does this kid want me to eat soft food, will you introduce it to me?Although Lou Chuanying is a really nice girl, but my buddy has no plans to get married now, not even to fall in love, now my buddy just wants to have sex!

In short, let's talk about it first!

However, Liu Shiyu saw that Wang Qiang kept evading, and she didn't know what was going on in her little head, so she suddenly became impatient: "Wang Wang, don't you still like that woman? Let me tell you, that woman will never come back again." .”

Wang Qiang: ...

I really can't let women watch more romantic dramas, really!No matter if it's a little girl in her 20s, 30s, or how old she is, you can't let them watch too many romantic dramas... What the hell is going on!Girls are good at making up their minds, okay?
Wang Qiang had no choice but to explain dumbfoundingly, and swear, finally let Liu Shiyu feel at ease.

"Okay, I'm done with my question, now I'm going to correct yours."

"What problems can I have? Wang Wang, you are not allowed to retaliate against me."

"I... I didn't, I'm serious, I want to correct a mistake of yours."

"Okay then, what's wrong with you?"

Wang Qiang didn't think it was disobedient either, he just put Liu Shiyu on an equal footing to communicate, after all, the two were regarded as a different kind of peers.

"In the future, don't call Liu An'an that woman, it doesn't matter if you call her mother."

"Don't interrupt, listen to me first."

"...So I don't care about that woman's life or death now. What I care about is that what you want to hate is that woman, not the identity of mother, understand? You can hate Liu An'an, after all, she really abandoned you. This doesn’t have to be washed away, but you can’t hate the word mother and this identity because of this, because you will also be a mother in the future, and if you hate this identity, you can’t be a good mother... So, Shishi, you will be a mother in the future Good mother, be kind to your children, okay?"

Liu Shiyu didn't speak, tears flowed down her cheeks, and she nodded her head desperately.

Wang Qiang also felt that the topic of this chat was really too heavy. He made the child cry, and he felt a sense of guilt.

However, Wang Qiang thinks it is necessary to correct some wrong three views from the beginning, this must not let Liu Shiyu leave a shadow of childhood.

As for Liu An'an?Who cares about this woman's life and death, where she loves to go, just don't affect our lives.

However, what Wang Qiang didn't know was that the more he didn't want Liu An'an to appear in his and Liu Shiyu's life again, Liu An'an was about to appear.