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The so-called marriage is the friendship between two surnames.

In this regard, there is a little poem, which is the best interpretation of this.

"The marriage of two surnames, a contract is signed, a good relationship is forever tied, and the matching is the same name.

Look at the peach blossoms on this day, Yi Shi IKEA, Bu He Nian is full of melons, Er Chang Er Chi.

I would like to use the white-headed covenant to write to Hongjian, so that the alliance of red leaves can be written down.

This card. "

Wedding is a very important part of the marriage process.

The origin of the wedding is also very long. It is said that it was established by the Duke of Zhou at the beginning of the Zhou Dynasty. It has a history of thousands of years.

As one of the few big days in a person's life, the ancients attached great importance to weddings.

After thousands of years of evolution, there have been more and more wedding ceremonies and steps. By the time of the Tang Dynasty, the wedding system was basically perfected.

It can be said that if you go to the Tang Dynasty to watch the princess's wedding in person, you can have a general understanding of our country's wedding system.

Therefore, Qin Xiu activated his time traveler ability and arranged for a clone to travel to the Tang Dynasty for him, to personally experience the wedding ceremony of the princess in the Tang Dynasty.

Nacai, asking names, naji, nazheng, asking for a date, and welcoming relatives are called the six rituals in ancient times; they are rituals that must be followed in the process of marriage in ancient times.

These six steps, no matter which one is missing, or which step is ignored, will be considered as disrespect to the woman.

Among these six steps, welcoming relatives is the most lively part.

On the wedding day, the groom will bring his best man, that is, the best man, and shout "new wife" in unison in front of the gate of the bride's house.

At this time, the door of the bride's house is often closed, and the bride's brothers will also take this opportunity to test the groom and the bridesmaid.

The longer the delay outside and the more lively the noise, it means that the bride's status in her natal family is higher and she is more valued by her natal family.

In order to test the literary talents of the bridegroom and the bridesmaid, the bride's family often asked them to compose makeup poems.

In the Tang Dynasty, the most famous makeup reminder poem was written by Lu Chang following Liu Shijing to marry Princess Yun'an at that time.

"Princess Yun'an is expensive, and married into the Wuhou family.

The mother of heaven adjusts the powder, and the brother of the day gives flowers with pity.

Urge the shop of Baizi tents, and wait for the Qixiang car.

Let me ask whether the makeup is done, the east wants Xiaoxia. '

After learning this information, Qin Xiu directly traveled to the era when Princess Yun'an lived.

That is, when the tenth emperor of the Tang Dynasty, Tang Shunzong Li Song.

Princess Yun'an is the daughter of Tang Shunzong Li Song and Queen Zhuangxian Wang.

Speaking of this Shunzong Li Song, he was also a sad emperor. He had been the crown prince for so many years, but who knew that not long after he succeeded to the throne, he passed the throne to his son Li Chun because of his serious illness.

On the day of Princess Yun'an's wedding, Liu Shijing rode a tall horse and led a welcoming team to Princess Yun'an's residence. It was very lively.

But because her grandfather Tang Dezong made some changes to the etiquette of the princess's wedding, it is still a bit shabby compared with the previous princesses.

But as a modern person, it is luxurious enough.

All the dowry and traveling personnel are not listed for the time being, just learning the general process is enough to make Qin Xiu and Li Xiaoya's wedding stand out from the crowd.

As for the dowry, Li Dana naturally wouldn't make it too shabby, but it certainly wouldn't be too extravagant either.

Qin Xiu only roughly recorded some.

For example:

When the welcoming team is about to reach the groom's home, the groom will send many people to squeeze in the middle of the road to block the bride's car and prevent the car from passing.

At this time, the bride needs to enjoy some wine and food, and also do a "car barrier article", and then the groom will let the car go together.

And when the bride's car arrives in the courtyard of the groom's house, the next procedure is called "the son-in-law".

The method is that all the female guests present on the bride's side must hold a stick in their hands and hit the groom.

This practice, in the euphemistic name, is to discourage the groom's prestige and prevent the groom from bullying the bride in the days to come.

Hehe, seeing this, Qin Xiu felt that this must be arranged, and it would definitely win the favor of everyone, especially Li Xiaoya.

If his and Li Xiaoya's wedding can be used as a promotion, it is presumed that this will also become a standard feature in the majority of men and women's weddings in the future.

The next link is still the role of the bride. This ceremony is called "transfer".

The specific method is that after the bride gets off the car and walks into the house, her feet should not touch the soil, which is similar to the current wedding.

The practice of modern weddings is that the groom carries the bride directly from the car to the house.

In ancient times, the groom's family prepared several blankets, which were spread under the bride's feet in turn until the bride entered the house.

When the bride arrives at the door of the house, she will step over or sit on the saddle placed there.

It means peace and security.

After both the bride and groom enter the door, it is the part of worship.

At this time, the bride should cover her face with the fan she carries with her, so that the groom cannot see it.

After the groom has to recite the "Fan Poetry" in public, the bride will remove the fan and let everyone see her face.

The most famous but fan poem is undoubtedly written by Li Shangyin.

"Don't spread the painting fan out to cover up the stagnant talents in the spring mountains.

The Tao of reunion is the bright moon, in which sweet-scented osmanthus must bloom. "

This poem directly compares the bride to sweet-scented osmanthus. It is estimated that in that era, any bride would be delighted to hear it!
According to the ancient etiquette, in the worship process, the woman bows first, and the man then returns the salute. After doing this four times, it is considered as the end of the salutation.

What's more, the man should remember to turn the cup upside down after drinking the Hejiu wine, which means harmony of yin and yang.

Otherwise, I will be bullied by my wife for the rest of my life.

In short, according to ancient etiquette, there are two particularly important etiquettes in wedding etiquette.

The first point is to fan.

The bride should cover her face with a fan, and take it away after the worship.

It is called "Que Fan", and it is the same as the make-up poem mentioned above, the man also has to do the fan poem, and the bride will take it away.

The second point, the bun.

Also known as "knotting hair", it symbolizes the harmony between husband and wife, and they will be united forever.

Both men and women cut off a little hair and tie it into a "combined bun", which is usually handed over to the bride immediately for storage.

This is described in "Midnight Song" by Chao Cai, a poetess in the Tang Dynasty.

"Yi cuts the cloud girl, and Lang also divides the hair.

Find a place where there is no one, and make a concentric knot. "

People in the world often use "tied hair" and "combined bun" as pronouns for the marriage of husband and wife, and even specifically refer to couples with "primary spouse" (also known as "primary spouse").

Qin Xiu generally memorized these, and felt that these, together with modern etiquette, were enough.

After activating the traveler ability in time, Qin Xiu observed it, Princess Yun'an's marriage was not happy, and Liu Shijing was not considered a good husband either.

Thinking of the hustle and bustle of her wedding, Qin Xiu sighed and returned to modern times.

He himself was looking at Li Xiaoya affectionately.