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"First of all, all these years, you have been worried about this family. You have done all kinds of jobs to support this family." Mu Ge's grandma gave the first reason.

"It's true. Over the years, I have indeed paid a lot for this family. However, our family is not my own. In this family, your role cannot be ignored. If it is not because of you all these years I will definitely not have the motivation to conquer the difficulties one after another in real life." Mu Ge's grandfather heard the words, thought about it carefully, and nodded involuntarily, the fact is indeed as his old woman said the average.

"Secondly, it means that you are dubbed a strict wife by the people in the village. I think such a nickname, with your personality, must have brought you a lot of trouble and helplessness over the years, right?" Mu Ge said. Grandma listed the second reason like a few treasures.

"This." Mu Ge's grandfather couldn't help being taken aback when he heard this, he didn't expect his old lady to give such a reason, it was beyond his expectation.

However, Mu Ge's grandfather knew very well in his heart that what his old woman said was on point. Over the years, because of his nickname of a strict wife, he always had a kind of admiration in front of the village. Feeling overwhelmed.

Especially, when others talk about how good his mother-in-law is in front of him, and how they train his mother-in-law, how much aggrieved he feels?

In other words, over the years, every time Mu Ge's grandfather encountered such a situation, he wanted to make changes more than once, such as being stronger at home, and being more aggressive when facing his wife.

However, whenever he wants to make a change, he always thinks a lot, and finally this matter fades away over time. As for the nickname that others jokingly call him a strict wife, he gradually does not let go. It's on my mind.

Now, when such a thing was revealed by his old woman, he felt surprised, but also made him realize a little bit more. Regarding the strength and domineering of his old woman, if he had chosen to resist If not, I am afraid that he will not have the happy married life he has in this life.

After all, this is also an expression of tolerance for his wife, her strength, and her domineering. If he hadn't tolerated these at the beginning, then his marriage would have been doomed because of such things.

Therefore, thinking about the past now, he can't help but feel like he will survive the catastrophe. Life is often like this. Happiness and unhappiness are often just in one's own thoughts, and everything is in one's own thoughts. , happiness, or misfortune?
"What? Am I wrong?" Mu Ge's grandmother looked at her old man with a smile on her face.However, when Mu Ge's grandfather saw such a smiling look, he had a creepy feeling, as if his whole body became transparent in front of his old lady.

"No, you're right. Such a nickname did bring me a lot of trouble. However, it is undeniable that while such a nickname troubled me, it also brought me I will live a lifetime of happiness and fulfillment, so, in my eyes, I am willing to accept such a nickname, because at least my married life is happy and fulfilling." Mu Ge's grandfather, after thinking about it, finally put on a very calm face. Facing such a nickname, he finally expressed his own feelings.

"Finally, you have been living under my violence all these years, it's really hard for you." Mu Ge's grandmother looked at her old man with complicated eyes.

"Perhaps." Mu Ge's grandfather nodded, then shook his head again.

At this moment, Mu Ge's grandfather had extremely complicated emotions. Just like what his wife said, he had really suffered a lot these years.

"Damn old man, tell me, have you really suffered for me all these years?" Mu Ge's grandmother gave her old man a fierce look, and then pressed her question like this.

"To be honest, suffering is a bit bitter, but for me, such suffering has brought happiness and fulfillment to my life, and I am willing to accept it no matter how bitter it is." Mu Ge's grandfather felt deeply Hair.

He knew very well in his heart that nine out of ten things in life were unsatisfactory. How could there be a perfect and perfect life?
In many cases, happiness and misfortune are often created by oneself, just in one thought, and cannot be measured by suffering or not.

Thinking carefully about his life experience in this life, he can only sum it up in four words, that is to stay with each other!
These four simple words express the true meaning of happiness in life.

Staying together, the seemingly simple four words, but the meaning and value contained in them cannot be explained and understood in a few sentences. If you want to truly understand the meaning, you need to pay One's own life, to feel, to understand.

Just like Mu Ge's grandfather, if he hadn't been in despair, if he hadn't faced many realities and helplessness in life, if he hadn't had this or that experience, he would never have understood and comprehended as much as he does now. .

Therefore, whether everyone's life is happy or fulfilled requires not only tolerance, but also other things, such as comprehension, such as staying together.

Dead old man Actually, during the past half a month lying in bed, I have been thinking, what did I do wrong in my life?Where did I do it right? I thought about it, but I couldn’t seem to come up with a reason. The only thing I want to understand is that I can live with you for the rest of my life. This is your fate, and it is also my fate. This is your happiness and mine. So, dead old man, I really thank you, thank you, it is you who made me feel fulfilled, happy, and happy in this life. The glow of happiness.

"Old woman, you really have nothing to look for. What are you doing by figuring things out? Since you and I support each other in this life, and this life has passed, who else is suffering? Who is not suffering? Which one of us? It's not about working hard and struggling to make this family better." Hearing what his old woman said, Mu Ge's grandfather couldn't help but roll his eyes, and then rubbed his eyes vigorously with his hands.

"Old man, what's the matter with you? What are you doing rubbing your eyes?" Seeing this, Mu Ge's grandma couldn't help complaining.

"Sand got in my eyes, I can't even rub it." Mu Ge's grandfather said in a low voice.

"Damn old man, just say what you mean. You are moved when you are touched by me. Why are you pretending? What kind of person are you saying that sand got into your eyes? Do you think I don't know? Hey, he is really a person who wants to save face, he really suffers." Mu Ge's grandmother shook her head, looking very sympathetic to her old man.

"Old woman, you won't save me some face. Nothing always makes me lose face." Mu Ge's grandfather protested. His old woman is good at everything, but this sharp mouth often makes him feel unbearable. However, he knew that his old woman had a tofu heart, that is, the so-called knife-mouthed tofu heart, and her heart was still very kind.

"Damn old man, it's not that I'm talking about you. Don't tell me you haven't figured it out after all these years? I've figured it out completely now. The biggest shortcoming of me is that my mouth is unreasonable. , always because of my mouth, offended a lot of people who would not offend, but you are just the opposite, you are good at everything, the only bad thing is that you want to save face, you always hide things In my heart, I clearly think this way in my heart, but I don’t say it in my mouth, as if it would be a shame to say what I think in my heart? So, in many cases, It's not unreasonable why others treat people like you with respect and distance." Mu Ge's grandmother opened her mouth, not only reflecting on her own shortcomings, but also criticizing the shortcomings of her old man.

"Old woman, I didn't expect that you would have such a sense of life when you lay down on this bed? It's not bad, but you are right. I am really a good-faced person. Over the years, I have indeed Face has made my life take a lot of detours, maybe I should make some changes." Mu Ge's grandfather was stunned at first when he heard this, and then sighed, he was lamenting his wife's sentiment, and even more so. I am lamenting some of my life experiences over the years.

In fact, Mu Ge's grandfather knew very well in his heart that the actual situation was exactly as his old woman said. He was good at everything, and the only biggest shortcoming was that he was too good-looking. The boss will never take the initiative to say it. If someone accidentally sees through, he will try every means to cover up and cover it up.

Just like just now, the reason why he kept rubbing his eyes was because he was moved by his old lady's words, really moved.

It is precisely because of such a touch that there is a feeling of liquid flowing in his eye sockets, so he keeps rubbing his eyes, and he is unwilling to shed tears in front of his old woman. This is not the same as his thinking. There is a huge discrepancy.

"Damn old man, you don't have to be sentimental about life. Someone can live a better life. Think about it carefully. Now I think you have such a face-saving personality. It is also a good existence. If one day you will be like this If a personality is changed, then you are not the original you."