Alpine pasture

Chapter 253 What a joke

In the afternoon, according to the habit of the old family, Juan drove her brother-in-law's car and took Dinah and her father and mother to the countryside to visit the graves of her grandparents. According to the old rules, she and Dinah added some So, there are many people watching when I go to the grave in the countryside. My uncles and uncles at home know that Ju An has married a foreign wife, and they all gather by the side of the ancestral grave to watch the foreign daughter-in-law kowtow. Dinah calmly followed suit. Kowtow and offer incense in Ju An's appearance, it seems that Ju An is a bit unnatural.

Finally, the old rules were finished, and my father introduced the old people in the family to Ju An. It was a waste of time to go around like this. Since Ju An grew up in the county town, he only came back during the holidays. Grandpa and grandma lived next to each other for two days, and their relationship with the family was far less deep than that of their father, so Ju An just took Dinah to deal with the errands.

When the sun was about to set, he escaped from his hometown and returned to the county seat. When it was night, Ju An was woken up by Dinah tossing and turning. He looked at the time on the alarm clock on the bedside table. It was already two o'clock at night. He said to Dinah: "Why don't you sleep, what's on your mind?".

Dinah reached out to turn on the bedside lamp, but Ju An quickly said, "Don't turn on the lamp."Before she could finish speaking, Dinah had already turned on the light, and said to Ju An: "I'm thinking about the kid named Nini I saw today."

"What's the matter with her, she's rosy and beautiful" Ju'an paused and said, not understanding what Dinah was worried about.

Dinah thought for a while and said, "Maybe this child is a little autistic. She is just at the age of playing but has no interest in games. The teacher also said that she doesn't like playing with children very much."

"Autism?" Ju An asked after listening.This is the first time Ju An has heard of this thing, and this kind of disease?

Looking at Ju An's puzzled eyes, Dinah explained: "It's just that children don't like socializing with others, and like to think about things by themselves. In serious cases, they can't even hear what others say, and are immersed in their own thoughts. ".

Ju An heard that this guy in the sky and fog seemed to be talking about me. He didn't like dealing with others. What he liked most was being bored in his own pasture, riding around in circles on pea grass: "Is there such a disease? I It sounds like you didn't talk about that little girl, but you seemed to be talking about me. You just took a look and became a doctor. Besides, aren't there still a few retired doctors who are also taking care of the children? If you are worried, go and see tomorrow."Since the orphanage is doing well, Juanna is not afraid of Dinah to visit it.

Dinah nodded after thinking for a while and said, "Then let's go and have a look tomorrow, and I'll bring her some toys over then."

Ju An yawned and said, "Okay! We'll go tomorrow morning. After watching the little girl, we'll come back and prepare things. We'll go to Jiangnan the day after tomorrow, and then fly to Germany for our honeymoon. Go to bed early now, don't worry about it." imaging crazy things".Then he kissed Dinah on the forehead, and stretched out his hand to help Dinah turn off the bedside lamp.

Dinah hummed after hearing Ju An's words, and then leaned her head on Ju An's arm, the two faced each other, and after a while, Ju An re-entered the dream.

After breakfast in the morning, Dinah took Ju An to the shopping mall to pick out a plush baby elephant, and immediately rushed to the orphanage after buying something.

Ju An and Dinah drove to the orphanage. Today, Dr. Liu saw the two of them first, and greeted them with a smile.

Dinah glanced at the yard, and found Nini sitting on a small chair, and asked Dr. Liu, "Does that little girl named Nini have mild autism?"

Dr. Liu looked at Dinah and nodded and said: "This is still a little autistic, but it's not serious. We can only provide them with basic life here. There are some things that we can't give. Me and a few people The teacher also brought Nini home, but you know we are old after all, and we don't have much energy to focus on a child."

Ju An listened in a daze, this guy really has this disease, can he be considered a disease if he doesn't like to talk?When I was a child, didn’t I like to sit on a small bench and watch ants in the yard all afternoon? Could it be that I am also a little autistic?

Dinah asked in surprise: "Is there no one willing to adopt Nini?".

"Even if someone wants to adopt, they will adopt the younger children. Nini is already two and a half years old, and she has already started to remember things and recognize people," Dr. Liu said to Dinah.

This Juan understands that many people want to adopt a baby even if they have no children. It is very taboo to tell children that you were adopted by your parents. Even if you hear others say it, you will get angry. When An's family lived in the factory dormitory, they met her mother's co-workers who were infertile and adopted a child. When the child was a little older, they once had a conflict with a friend, and the friend laughed at her for adoption. Yes, I guess I heard other people talking nonsense.Waiting for the child to go home crying, the man who usually smiles is like an angry lion, and directly hits the door. Ju An watches the family angry and apologizes from the balcony, and the little guy who is making jokes gets hit on the face. A slap from my father.

These taboos are not very particular about old beauty. Many adopted children know that they were adopted by their parents when they were young.So I told Dinah that Dinah could not understand the painstaking efforts of Chinese parents, the differences between the cultures of the two countries, it does not mean that Chinese adoptive parents are not good, and even in Ju An’s opinion, these Chinese adoptive parents are better for their children than old-fashioned adoptive parents. Parents love their children more.

Looking at Dinah's puzzled eyes, Ju An said, "You won't be able to understand this for a while. The cultural differences between the two countries are too great."

After hearing this, Dinah let out an oh, and then walked towards Nini holding the elephant in her hand. Nini saw Dinah walking aside, and immediately lowered her little head and played with her fingers, not daring to look up. Looking at Dinah, Dinah knelt down and put the elephant in Nini's hand and said, "Nini, do you still remember me? I came to see you yesterday."

Nini touched the little elephant in her hand, nodded, did not speak, followed Dinah and chatted with Nini for a few more words, such as who made the braids, it is very beautiful, etc. Nini mostly nodded, the old man After a long time, two words popped out of his mouth in a low voice.Ju An looked at it for a while and really couldn't see what was wrong with this little girl, she just didn't like to talk, could this guy be considered a disease?

Listening to Dinah talking to Nini, Ju An began to look at some naughty kids playing on the slide, most of them were girls, and a very small number of boys probably had some physical problems Yes, the patriarchal phenomenon in Ju'an's hometown is still quite serious.

Seeing a group of rowdy children comparing themselves with Nini who was sitting on the side, there was a difference immediately, without the mischievousness of the other children.But from Ju An's point of view, such a quiet little girl is so nice, and thinking about the little devil Tongtong at home, Ju An feels that Tongtong is more lovable.

After waiting for almost an hour for Dinah and Nini to chat, Ju An saw Dinah stand up, walked to Ju An's side and said to Ju An, "Let's go."

Ju An felt as if he was about to receive an amnesty, and immediately took Dinah and Dr. Liu to say hello and walked to the car outside.It's not that Ju An doesn't have sympathy, but that Ju An himself is a man in his 20s. He's just married, and he might feel overwhelmed raising his own child, let alone someone else's.

Waiting for Ju An to drive the car for a while, Dinah sat in the passenger seat and said to Ju An, "Ann, shall we adopt Nini?".

"What?" Ju An was startled when he heard this sentence, stepped on the brakes quickly, and immediately Dinah's body rushed forward. Fortunately, she was wearing a seat belt and did not hit the glass, and then stopped on the side of the road The car turned to Dana and said, "You said we adopted Nini?".

Dinah looked at Ju An and nodded: "Nini's situation in the orphanage is really worrying. You know that if children with autism are not corrected, they will easily go to extremes when they grow up."

Ju An looked at Dinah looking at herself expectantly, and said to Dinah: "Are you kidding? If you are worried about Nini, we can find a psychiatrist to treat Nini. If we adopt, you Have you ever thought that we will definitely have our own children in the future, and if something happens to Nini in the future, what will others say about us behind our backs?"How did you think of this? How much responsibility does it take to adopt a child?

Dinah continued to persuade Ju'an: "As long as we are worthy of ourselves, God will forgive us even if there are any problems, so why should we care what others say about us. Besides, we are now able to provide better care for Nini. , why not give her a real home, a complete home with parents, grandparents, and grandparents."

After hearing this, Ju An said with a wry smile: "This is not just a question of ability, but have you considered how much it takes to raise a child?"

"We have received too much from God. To be able to live a life we ​​love with the people we love, adopting Nini is a kind of gratitude for us, okay?" Dinah said and put her hand gently on the Ju An held the hand of the gear, and looked at Ju An tenderly.

Ju An smiled wryly and shook his head, this guy has used all kinds of tricks, I really can't say anything about it, think about it, if I didn't get a bead, I might spend five or six thousand a month to live in court Nine to five life, every morning while eating pancakes and fruits, while waiting for the bus.There can be like now, you can do whatever you want, but I always want to donate some money to some foundations, but I have never thought about adopting a child, let alone thinking about it, it is estimated to be a hundred and eighty thousand Thousands of miles away.

(End of this chapter)