my bossy wife

When Ye Xiaobai heard this, he couldn't help but raise his eyebrows,

"It's a good idea not to be bound by the laws of the world, and to be the master of your own heart. Unfortunately, how many people in this world can do it?

People are social, and they always have to communicate with the people around them. They have to be limited by morality and law. Even if you can ignore these, the family and friends around you can’t reach this level. In order to maintain that Feelings can only be compromised in the end! "

When Ye Xiaobai said this, he was naturally thinking about his relationship problems.

Now he is trapped between the three women Lin Qingwei, Yu Weiwei, and Linglong. Every time he thinks about this, his head is in a mess. He doesn't know what to do. It's not easy to be the master of his own heart...

Nalan Rouyun looked at Ye Xiaobai's expression, his eyes narrowed into a crescent, and said with a smile:

"Brother Xiaobai, it seems that you have encountered some troubles? Why don't you tell me, maybe I can help you answer it!"

Ye Xiaobai couldn't help but secretly sighed at Nalan Rouyun's keen intuition. After thinking for a while, he finally told his story slowly.

Even he himself couldn't say why, he only met Nalan Rouyun twice, but like an old friend for many years, he felt that it seemed normal to tell her his private relationship problems.

What's more, in the face of such a temperamental beauty like Nalan Rouyun, Ye Xiaobai has never had any evil thoughts!

I have to say, this feels really weird!

Could this be the legendary confidante?

Existence beyond the love between men and women?

He never believed that such feelings existed before, but now he began to believe.

……

quickly,

Ye Xiaobai narrated all his troubles in one go,

When she heard that Ye Xiaobai already had a wife, Nalan Rouyun was slightly taken aback, but soon returned to normal.

When Ye Xiaobai finished his story, Nalan Rouyun had already started giggling,

"I didn't expect you to be a romantic person! One drags three, don't you feel tired? Hehehe~"

Ye Xiaobai feigned anger and said:

"I'm almost dying of worry, Sister Nalan, you can still laugh! How sympathetic!"

Nalan Rouyun quickly stopped laughing and said:

"Okay, okay, I don't laugh, you continue to talk!"

"No, that's all. I don't know what to do now. I hope sister Nalan can give me some pointers!"

Nalan Rouyun pondered for a moment, and then said:

"From the perspective of today's society, law and morality, your behavior should be the legendary scumbag..."

Ye Xiaobai's face turned dark immediately,

"Sister Nalan, why are you scolding people?"

Nalan Rouyun smiled and said:

"Don't interrupt me, let me analyze it for you slowly!"

"Okay, then you continue!"

Nalan Rouyun paused slightly, and then said:

"However, if you look at it from a biological point of view, there is nothing wrong with it.

It is difficult for a person, especially a man, to only like one woman in his life, and the same is true for women. Most of the time, they are only subject to legal and moral constraints.

I don't think you need to pay too much attention to the eyes of those secular people,

Those moral clauses and legal norms are actually produced out of human self-interest, not necessarily out of genuine benevolence.

Because these things can conform to the interests of most people, or the interests of those in power, they have a basis for existence.

For example, in ancient times, because of the patriarchal society, women were reduced to men's vassals, and men could have three wives and four concubines, because this kind of rule is more in line with the interests of the main body of society!

Was there no love at that time?

Similarly, the reason why monogamy is now also because it is more in line with the values ​​of the main body of society..."

Ye Xiaobai was a little dizzy, couldn't help interrupting, and said with a smile:

"That... Sister Nalan, what you said is a bit advanced, can you make it simpler and more common?"

Nalan Rouyun took a deep breath, thought for a moment, and continued:

"Then let me be straightforward! In your current situation, you have two choices!"

"Which two?"

"The first way is to obey the rules of this society, be ruthless, forget about the other two women, and live by your wife honestly, don't have any extravagant thoughts! This, you can do Are you there?"

Ye Xiaobai thought for a while, then hesitated and said:

"It seems a bit difficult... I admit that I am really a playboy, but I am sincere to each of them. I don't want any of them to be hurt... What about the second way?"

Nalan Rouyun went on to say:

"As for the second way, it is to get rid of the restrictions of this social rule and let the three of them accept each other, just like the way in ancient times.

In fact, in reality, especially in those big families, this kind of situation is not uncommon. As long as they can get along well with each other, it doesn't matter who suffers or who takes advantage.

Things like feelings are like people drinking water, knowing whether they are warm or not, as long as they can live happily, the rules can be made by themselves! "

Ye Xiaobai's heart skipped a beat when he heard this,

To be honest, once, he really had this kind of idea, but he rejected it in the end.

Because, whether it is Lin Qingwei, Yu Weiwei, or Linglong, the three of them are very strong women at heart, and it is impossible to share a man with other women.

Moreover, Ye Xiaobai also felt that it was too shameless to do so, even though it was only from a secular point of view.

Thinking of this, Ye Xiaobai said with a sad face:

"The second way, I think, but unfortunately it's impossible!"

Nalan Rouyun smiled and said:

"A person can do what he wants, but he can't think what he thinks; everything in the world is just the appearance of illusory will. Instead of shrinking and shrinking, it's better to follow your own heart and go for it. It's more interesting.

What is morality?What are the rules?It's just the shackles imposed on one's will by the outside world, so why bother? ..."

After hearing Nalan Rouyun's words, Ye Xiaobai was shocked,

Nalan Rouyun's words sounded absurd at first, but after thinking about it carefully, the more he thought about it, the more profound he felt.

Rules are made by people, why can't I break these rules?

If it is unfair to divide the relationship into three, then I will treat them ten times or a hundred times better to make up for this unfairness!

Thinking of this, Ye Xiaobai was shocked by such a bold idea.

He had to admit that although he knew it was shameless, he still preferred the second way in his heart!

Seeing Ye Xiaobai's expression, Nalan Rouyun couldn't help smiling, and said:

"It seems that you have already made a choice in your heart. Sure enough, you men are all philandering carrots, eating what's in the bowl, and thinking about what's in the pot!

However, I also want to remind you that if you choose to follow your own heart, you will encounter a lot of resistance and troubles in the future. As for whether you can succeed, it depends on your own ability!cluck~"