My love options are a bit difficult

Chapter 163 It can be regarded as a family of Cong Gong

Although Xia Mufeng and Du Yuehua haven't been together for a long time, it can actually be seen from the behavior of the other party these few times that the other party is a typical traditional island woman.

It's the kind of tradition down to the bone, and most of the time, she will first consider the overall situation for others. This may also have something to do with her growth environment, just like the traditional daughter of a samurai family.

On the contrary, Quanjiang has both similarities and differences with her. She knows how to take care of others and also knows how to be flexible.

And Natsume Feng can clearly feel that Quanjiang really treats himself as an elder brother, he belongs to the type of little bird to depend on others, and he is different from his peers in being sensible and obedient.

If you want to compare the two in terms of personality, Natsume Feng really has no choice. After all, there are different advantages from different perspectives, but now facing the question of Du Yuehua, Natsume Feng I still feel the need to explain:
"This is something I discussed with Quanjiang from the beginning, and I am willing to do it. Otherwise, I would feel a little bit sorry for the whole family's housework being handed over to Quanjiang, a girl."

Every day, I lie on the sofa and watch TV, and let Yu Gongquan come to mop the floor, wash clothes and cook. She is not my full-time wife, she is just a girl who is going to school.

Besides, Xia Mufeng is not a teenager anymore and has no sense of responsibility, so it is still quite embarrassing.

But after hearing what he said, Du Yuehua, who was originally a little different from his own ideas, felt more rebuttal in his heart at the moment, but it was hard to be so strict because of his feelings:

"But I think this is what a woman should do, just like... after marrying a man, the woman should be in charge of the internal affairs of the house, and the man is working hard outside. Isn't this a matter of course?"

In her impression, whether it is mother or grandma, no matter how tired or bored she is, she will greet her husband with a smile when he comes back from fatigue outside. This has become a tradition since childhood and has taken root in her heart.

Although she personally feels that she is stronger, but if she really gets married in the future, she will definitely try her best to take care of her husband's emotions.

She is very good at putting herself in the shoes of her future husband, but Xia Mufeng feels a little bit wrong when she hears this.

It's not that as a man, he should be secretly happy when he meets such a girl, but he is a little disgusted with this traditional and stubborn thinking.

In fact, Xia Mufeng also understands that even the island country has played chess words such as "women's independence", "men and women's equality", and "women's autonomy" in recent years.

But in fact, women's social status and family status are still very low. Compared with the shogunate period or even earlier, it is estimated that they have changed from "servants" to "retainers".

He originally thought that a developed country like the island country must have a high rate of admission to higher education, but in fact these days it is not just about listening to Quanjiang talking beside his ears.

Just from the data obtained from some push news on Facebook and YouTube, I also understand that there are many "underdeveloped" buried under the so-called developed.

Don’t look at the large number of girls going to high school now, even in urban areas there are some high schools for girls, even in ordinary national high schools, the ratio of male to female is almost 6:4, but if this situation is put in universities, it will change immediately Have a look!

In high schools in the island country, public and private are completely different concepts!

In a country where education accounts for nearly half or more of household expenditures, public secondary schools, which cost so little, have few educational resources.

Moreover, the students who go to school themselves know their own future, and the "bad students" who have boring teachers and do not study gather together. It is conceivable why private schools are so popular in the island country.

Maybe it’s better if you’re a boy, maybe it’s just because your family is not good but you don’t want to stop studying. It’s not an exception to get a good university in the future through your own efforts, but most of the girls who study in public schools are Don't think so anymore.

It’s just that the girl’s family’s willingness to let the girl go to the national middle school actually shows that she basically has to give up. If you have a high school diploma, you can see that this is the end of your life’s study career.

Going back and directly choosing a good family to marry is finally a matter of course, even if you want to have an independent girl, at most let you go out for two or three years, if you can't make it out, you still have to go home and get married.

In fact, it’s really not good for girls to go out for two or three years. At this moment, Ivy League schools send nearly [-] talents to the society every day, not to mention those ordinary local second-rate universities. What can I do with a high school diploma?
send flyer?Salesperson?tally clerk?
Isn't this a part-time job you can do while in high school?
Therefore, regardless of whether it is a public school full of hooligans, most of the girls have resigned to their fate, and they can only silently envy the "tall" independent strong women on TV.

At most, during the few years of school, she lived a glamorous life that a girl should have. Once she enters the society or gets married, her life will immediately undergo earth-shaking changes.

This is the status quo in metropolises like Tokyo, not to mention the situation in localities or even in the countryside.

So this kind of thinking has become a status quo, a somewhat morbid status quo, just like most of the girls in his hometown in his previous life were a bit too "female autonomy".

It is obviously a very abnormal thing, but it seems to be the same as it should be. This phenomenon has reached the point where it is a bit frightening to think carefully.
Although he was suspected of being a meddler, Natsume Feng pondered for a while and asked hesitantly: "Well, if you don't mind, I would like to ask if the tutor in Du Yuesang's family is strict?"

Du Yuehua pursed her thin, cherry-colored lips, adding a bit of melancholy to the already cold face.

He hesitated for a while when he asked this question, and then replied with an unnatural expression: "It's strict, my parents' discipline is relatively strict."

It's not just strict, it's not just cold, the punishment she has received since she was a child has taught her to be taciturn, and she will be beaten with bamboo braids if she does something wrong, until she has become more and more unloving in recent years. say.

Coupled with the fact that her parents are getting more and more busy, this situation has not happened. If outsiders know about it, they may think that her temperament has a great relationship with her growth experience.

Natsume Feng nodded and continued to ask, "What does Du Yuesang's family do?"

"My father works for the Ministry of Internal Affairs and Communications, and my mother works for the Ministry of Foreign Affairs."

After answering, she hesitated for a moment, and added: "Two generations of samurai who used to be ruled by His Majesty the Emperor, can be regarded as the Conggong's family."

Natsume Feng: "."

　Thank you for going to make soy sauce, a big reward!

　　thank!

　　
　
(End of this chapter)