Daddy: Just after graduation, the goddess called

Chapter 184 Dabao, Erbao did a great job
Liu Shiyun took Dabao and Erbao and left the room together.

Go to her bedroom.

"The baby came back with mother."

"Dad~~"

Dabao and Erbao rushed over when they saw their father.

"Honey, you don't know what happened to these two little guys in grandma's room just now."

Afterwards, Liu Shiyun told Lin Xingyu everything in detail.

After listening to his wife's words, Lin Xingyu looked at Dabao and Erbao.

Dabao and Erbao looked at Dad.

They wondered if Dad would be angry.

"Da Bao, Er Bao, you are doing a great job."

"As juniors, when the elders want to drink water or ask us to help with things, as long as we are free, we can help."

"However, the hot water is very hot, Dabao, if Erbao accidentally burns himself, then Mom and Dad will feel distressed."

"Be careful when doing such things in the future."

Lin Xingyu squatted in front of Dabao and Erbao, looking at them with a smile.

Every time when educating the babies, he would squat in front of the babies, so that his gaze could be at the same level as the babies' eyes.

In this way, you can look at each other and hear what the other party is saying.

The same height means that the two parties in the conversation are of equal status, and the other party's face is right in front of us, so that we cannot turn a blind eye.

On the contrary, if we are not at the same height as the other party, it will be more difficult for us to communicate with him, because it is not easy to look at each other and hear what the other party is saying.

Different heights mean different status.

Being taller than the other person may mean that you have some kind of control over him, which will make the other person unhappy.

The lower partner is prone to distraction because he has to keep looking up and concentrating to hear what the other person is saying.

Adults are taller than children. Most of the time, they talk, talk, joke, and talk about things on top of children's heads, but that is the world of adults, not children.

When adults talk to children from the superior adult world, sometimes they don't pay attention and don't take what adults say seriously.

If you want to communicate effectively with your child, you need to squat down, be as tall as him, and express your willingness to integrate into the child's world. In this way, the children are also willing to communicate with adults.

Squat down and talk, and you will bring two magical things to your child.

One is self-confidence

When squatting down, the children's lives are respected, and their every move, whether right or wrong, will be treated by their parents squatting down. Their self-worth and self-esteem will be relatively high, which will bring confidence to the children character.

They will not be timid in doing things, and if they make mistakes, they can be corrected faster because of the respect of their parents. This kind of children is generally optimistic and upward.

Second is trust
Squatting down to communicate at close range, the hearts of adults and children are closer, and it is easier to gain the trust and favor of children.What is conveyed to children is a kind of understanding, patience and love from adults.

In this case, it is easier for children to express their hearts and confide in adults. All this is rooted in the trust that squatting brings to children.

Of course, for children, the most important thing is not the physical action of "squatting down", but an attitude conveyed by your eyes and attitude. I respect children, there is no distinction between us, let alone force and Despotism, which is communication between two equal beings.

Dabao and Erbao looked into Dad's eyes, listened to what Dad said, and then nodded.

"Dad, I know."

"Dad, I know."

"It's good to know, some things are too dangerous, you don't know, when you grow up, mom and dad will teach you, okay?"

"Okay~~"

"Dabao, Dad will take you to take a bath."

"After Dabao finishes washing, go to mother and take Erbao to take a bath."

Today, Dabao and Erbao are a little over a year old.

If it is a boy, the father will give him a bath.

For a girl, the mother bathes her.

"Take a shower"

Lin Xingyu took Dabao's changed clothes, and took Dabao to the bathroom together.

In the bathroom, bathe the little one.

"Dabao, these bubbles are not edible."

"Dabao, take a bath quietly, or you may catch a cold."

Liu Shiyun hugged Dabao, sat on the bed, heard Lin Xingyu's voice from the bathroom, and smiled slightly.

The little guy in his mother's arms blinked.

After a while, Lin Xingyu came out of the bathroom with Dabao.

As soon as he came out, Dabao came to his mother and sister.

"Mom, Xiangxiang~~"

He stretched out his little hand and let his mother smell it.

Liu Shiyun pursed her lips and smiled, smelled it, and said with a smile: "Well, Dabao smells very good."

"Mom, wash Xiangxiang."

Erbao also smelled the fragrance of her brother's body, and she also wanted to be like her brother, with a fragrant body, so she urged.

"Okay, mom will take you to wash Xiangxiang."

Liu Shiyun took Erbao's pajamas, and went to the bathroom with Erbao.

"Dabao, let's go, Dad will help you dry your hair first."

Lin Xingyu took Dabao to sit on the chair in front of the makeup table, and then took the hair dryer and began to blow Dabao's hair.

Dabao's hair is short and it doesn't take long to dry it.

Feeling the warm hot wind on his scalp, Dabao felt a little drowsy.

No way, it was too comfortable.

In a few minutes, Dabao's hair was blown dry.

Today's Dabao's hair has become very black.

I don't want it to be a little yellowish at first.

After blowing to Dabao, Liu Shiyun came out of the bathroom with Erbao.

The little guy was also wearing a set of pink pajamas.

With the addition of her already cute little face, it looks even more pink and tender.

"Dad~~"

As soon as the little guy came out, he imitated his elder brother just now and ran to his father to let him smell the fragrance.

"Er Treasure is also very fragrant."

"Come on, Dad will blow dry your hair, okay?"

"it is good."

"Dabao, Dad wants to help my sister blow-dry her hair. You go to bed and wait for Dad, okay?"

"it is good."

Lin Xingyu put Dabao on the bed, then picked up Erbao, placed her on his lap, turned on the hair dryer, and helped Erbao to dry his hair too.

Erbao's hair is already very long now, and it has reached the neck.

But at night, they won't braid Erbao's hair.

Liu Shiyun watched her husband accompany Er Bao, smiled slightly, took her pajamas, and walked to the bathroom.

"Er Bao, is it warm?"

"Warm~~"

"After drying your hair, you can go to sleep."

'OK. '

After more than ten minutes, he helped Er Bao dry his hair, and then Lin Xingyu put the little guy on the bed.

"Da Bao, Er Bao, do you want to pee?"

"If you don't shush, we're going to sleep."

"No"

Both Dabao and Erbao shook their heads, saying no.

(End of this chapter)