I achieve financial freedom by rewarding myself

Chapter 26 Hesitation
"So... is Wang Shang the one I've been waiting for?"

When everything became clear, Binwei began to seriously consider this issue rationally.

If she agrees, she and Wang Shang are more than just boyfriend and girlfriend.

For Bin Wei, who insists on only falling in love and getting married once in her life, agreeing to be a boyfriend and girlfriend means that she has agreed to the marriage proposal, which means that she has bet her whole life on Wang Shang.

So she had to think carefully.

Bin Wei asked herself over and over in her heart.

In terms of personality, she thinks that Wang Shang is the one who will spend the rest of her life with her once he is with her. She knows that Wang Shang has made promises, and this is exactly why she has a good impression of Wang Shang.

In terms of economic ability, no surprises, Wang Shang will get better and better in the future.

"Then Wang Shang really confessed his love to me again, should I agree?"

Bin Wei asked herself again in her heart, but she knew that when she had this question, it already meant that she hesitated.

"Think about it carefully, why is there such hesitation?"

Binwei frowned and pondered, and was also analyzing himself, trying to find out why he hesitated.

First of all, she is more rational than emotional when it comes to choosing the other half.

That is to say, even if it is not Wang Shang who meets her requirements today but someone else, she will still rationally agree to this person's confession without being affected by appearance or other factors.

Bin Wei knows herself, even though she insists on dating only once in her life and marrying once, she thinks she is a person who values ​​feelings and only marries love.

Actually not, on the contrary, she is a person who doesn't value love very much.

In the process of choosing a mate, Binwei pays more attention to whether a person can fulfill the promise and whether the financial ability is good enough, rather than love.

In fact, to put it bluntly, Bin Wei is very afraid of breaking up and divorce.

Don't think she is very confident about her figure and appearance.

In fact, she has a bit of low self-esteem about her educational background and family background, but this kind of low self-esteem can be seen from her rational choice of a partner.

On the one hand, she felt that her body and appearance deserved better.

On the one hand, she felt that her figure and appearance were not worthy of better.

That's why she set the financial capacity of the other half at the line of [-] to [-] a month.

Because once this line is exceeded and the monthly income reaches [-] to [-] or even [-] to [-], she feels that she can't handle such a man.

She would feel that a man with a monthly income of [-] to [-] to [-] yuan has a class gap with her in terms of experience and family.

This kind of man can be boyfriend and girlfriend with her because of his figure and appearance, but when he gets married, what he considers is to get along with her for a long time in the next few decades.

At this time, a person's three views of knowledge and personality are very important.

Binwei thinks that men with a monthly income of [-] to [-] to [-] yuan are not stupid, they are very smart, and when choosing a marriage partner, they will definitely choose those who have a good relationship with them. people.

On this point, Binwei felt that there was a gap between her education background in an ordinary secondary school and her background in an ordinary rural family, and those elite men with a monthly income of [-] to [-] yuan.

She is destined not to be anyone's first choice for marriage.

Even if someone is obsessed with her figure and looks and marries her.

But how long can a woman's figure and appearance last?

When I was 40 or [-], it was different from being compared to those younger girls.

At that time, the man who married you because of your appearance will naturally choose to divorce you because of your fading appearance.

Even if you don't get a divorce, when he doesn't care about you, you are no different from a divorce.

Binwei just didn't want to go through this, so he didn't demand too much from his significant other, but just set a reasonable income of [-] to [-] a month.

Binwei feels that there is not much difference between himself and a man with a monthly income of [-] to [-] to [-].

She works hard on her own, and after three to five years, her monthly income will be around [-] yuan, which she is still confident about.

There is not much difference between a person with a monthly income of [-] and a monthly income of [-] to [-]. When two people are together, they have the same views and can talk and understand each other's knowledge points.

In this way, we can be sure to live a lifetime after marriage.

"So... what I'm hesitant about is... I'm not sure that I'll be with Wang Shang for the rest of my life!"

After analyzing for a long time, Binwei came to this conclusion, which made her a little unwilling.

She knew why she hesitated, but she didn't know why Wang Shang made her hesitate.

It stands to reason that Wang Shang's heavy commitment has already made her no hesitation about not being able to spend the rest of her life together.

But it just happened, Binwei couldn't think that Wang Shang would give her such hesitation for a while.

"Oh!" Binwei sighed deeply.

"Why did you suddenly sigh?" Wu Ting, who was playing with her mobile phone next to her, asked curiously.

"You must be tired!" Bin Wei smiled and didn't say anything. She put down her phone, picked up her changed clothes and went to take a shower.

In the bathroom, while taking a shower, Bin Wei was still debating whether she should agree to Wang Shang's confession to him again.

To be honest, if changing someone made her feel hesitant, then she would not think about why she hesitated like she did just now.

She will resolutely give up interacting with this person, there will be no beginning, and she will not agree to be this person's girlfriend.

Because what she promised was not boyfriend and girlfriend, but a lifetime.

Once there is hesitation, she will give up without hesitation.

This is her, rational to the point of timidity in choosing the other half.

Once something is wrong, just give up.

But... Wang Shang is different. When Binwei just checked the information, he suddenly found that Wang Shang's career is very suitable for someone like her who wants to live a stable life.

People who write online novels have a basic social circle of nerds.

Because it takes time to code words every day, and the environment of code words is generally at home.

Wang Shang will take the path of novels in the future, and will basically stay at home most of the time every day.

In this way, the social circle is stuck. Even if Wang Shang earns a monthly income of [-] to [-] or more, he will still be him, there will not be too many changes, and he will not have the opportunity to be tempted too much by the outside world.

The most important thing is that Wang Shang's career as a novel writer will not change much as he gets richer and his vision and three views.

In this way, the three views of her and Wang Shang are always on the same channel. After the two are together, even after three or forty years, there are still topics to talk about.

After all, the two have the same university, the same major, and the same class, and the friends they know are almost at this level.

As long as Wang Shang remains unchanged, she feels that after the two of them are together, their future life will be stable.

What's more, she has found a person with a monthly income of [-] to [-] or even more, and she doesn't have to worry about this person changing. This is not a pie in the sky.

"Unfortunately...why do you make me hesitate?"

Binwei was a little angry, and Wang Shang was also angry with himself, why he hesitated when everything was fine.

Is it her problem or Wang Shang's problem?

She didn't know either, anyway... Before Wang Shang confessed his love to her, he figured out what caused her hesitation.

I figured it out, it's best to solve it.

If you can't... Bin Wei felt ruthless, "Then refuse."

……

"So that's the point of hesitation."

When she went to work the next day, seeing Wang Shang's mobile phone on the table, Binwei suddenly realized why she hesitated last night.

Thinking about it carefully, Wang Shang’s inexplicable self-confidence did not come after he wrote novels.

It was there after coming to Zhonglin.

Because Wang Shang bought the love crazy mobile phone in installments before writing the novel.

At that time, it was impossible for Wang Shang to know that his novels made so much money?

Then why is he so confident, doing things that Bin Wei's impression of Wang Shang would not do.

There is only one reason, Wang Shang changed.

In other words, Wang Shang has not changed, but she has never understood it.

And this is what makes Bin Wei most afraid.

If she was a classmate of four years in college and a companion who often does group work together, she still can't see clearly Wang Shang's way of doing things.

Then how can she be sure that after the two are together, there will be good results in the future?
"So... let's refuse!"

After thinking for a long time, Binwei decided to follow the "rational choice" in his heart and refuse Wang Shangyou's possible confession again.

(End of this chapter)