Fast Travel: The cannon fodder heroine became a god by engaging in the merit system

Chen Zhuzi persuaded her earnestly, and in the end, the more she talked, the more beautiful she was, and she wished that this matter could be done immediately according to her wishes.

"Thank you, sister, but I really don't want to get married."

"why?"

Chen Zhuzi couldn't figure it out, you said you don't want to get married for the time being, can she still understand?

Does not wanting to get married mean never getting married for the rest of your life?What's your idea?

Not getting married in this life means being helpless for a lifetime, what is she planning?

"It's not a girl. My sister's analysis with you is very clear. This is all my sister's experience. My sister is someone who has experienced it. I really won't hurt you. You see, my sister is doing well now, right?"

"Sister, according to you, is a woman complete only when she is married?"

"That's not good. What kind of woman is a woman if she doesn't get married? Isn't that life in vain?"

"But sister, what is the meaning of marriage?"

"What's the point?"

Chen Zhuzi had never read a book, so she didn't understand what Qiao Yuan meant by this.

"Just why get married? I don't know what most people think? Is there anyone who thinks like me, or is it just me?
I think that getting married is really boring. Let me take you as an example. After you get married, you have to serve your in-laws first, and your husband second.

Once you have a child, you have to take care of the child alone. There are endless housework at home, washing and cooking, feeding chickens, ducks and pigs, and cleaning the yard.

Outside, he has to work like a man to earn work points and support his family.Why do you say you work so hard?

In your opinion, maybe that's what women are supposed to do, because that's what everyone else does.

Gradually, you also get used to this kind of life, but in my opinion, you are like a candle, sacrificing yourself, dedicating others, serving everyone comfortably, but you are the only one who works so hard.

Maybe you don't care, and even feel very happy, but not here.

Because I'm a lazy person by nature, sometimes I don't even bother to cook for myself. I'm really hungry, so I just make a fool of myself.

The clothes I wear don't matter if I look good or not, as long as they are clean, I don't care about matching.

So I don't even bother to take care of myself. I want to take care of the whole family. I don't think I can do it. "

Qiao Yuan was forced to be helpless by Chen Zhuzi, so he could only speak what was in his heart.

Although these words are very controversial now, they do not have the ability to be understood by others.

But Qiao Yuan still said, if you want to dispute, just dispute it, as long as you don't urge her any more.

"Sister, what are you talking about? Being filial to your parents-in-law and serving your husband, isn't that what a woman should do?

Men have been working outside all day, and all they do are heavy labor. We women are weeding and weeding, so we are not so tired.

So, I think it's okay for me to do those jobs, no man will feel sorry for him, right?

As for being filial to your parents-in-law, that's a matter of course. After all, they raised your husband. Without them, how could you have the happy little family you have now?
So I think it's normal to be filial, besides washing and cooking, if you let the old man do it, he won't know it. "

Chen Zhuzi was completely confused by Qiao Yuan's theory. Why did Qiao Yuan say these things that seemed normal to her, so hard for her to accept?

Isn't this a matter of hand?

"Yes, you have your understanding, and I have mine.

You are right, who cares about a man, maybe one day I will meet someone who I love very much, then I will be willing to do all this for him.

But now I haven't met such a person, so I don't want to do these things.

Don't you have to pay attention to your love and my wish in everything?

The things you said may seem to you that this is what you think of happiness, but I also have what I think is happiness.

Everyone's pursuit of happiness is different. The older a person is, the clearer he will know what he wants.

I don't know anything else, but I clearly know that I don't want to do these things you are doing now, some trivial things in your daily life, and I don't want to do them either.

So sister, don't rush me anymore, okay?I have my own considerations. "

Qiao Yuan dissected himself, and said these words to Chen Zhuzi very seriously, his whole person was extremely sincere.

Because so far, she has done a few tasks, and she has lived for some years.

Up to now, she still feels that she is living alone.

There is no sweet talk, no vows, no vigor, no long flow, and no man appears in her life.

She feels that everything is fine, and she is living hard every day according to her mood.

There will be no waves, no accidents, and no troubles.

"Sister, I don't know what you mean by this, but I understand the meaning, you just don't want to get married now, right?

It's okay, I'll keep an eye out for you, and I won't publicize it to the public. When the time comes, I'll take you to see it if I see something good.

If you are satisfied, sister will introduce you to each other. If you are not satisfied, sister will not force you. How about this?
You have to think about your life-long affairs. My sister knows how you feel now, and she also came from your age.

When I was a child, my sister also fantasized that my sister would not get married, and my sister would be an old girl at home for the rest of my life.

In this way, I can help my parents to do more work, and I can see them forever and be my parents' little daughter forever.

Call mom when you are hungry, call dad when you have problems, how happy and carefree you are, right?

It's not like now, we have all become the objects of being called mothers by others. "

Chen Zhuzi was still a little emotional when he said this.

"But there is no way, you know, sister, things are not as simple as you think.

When people live in this world, they will have things they care about. If you don't marry, others will criticize your parents as vicious people.

Holding the eldest girl to work at home every day and not allowing her to marry is to oppress her. In this new society, people may even report her.

In addition, there are older brothers and younger brothers in your family, and they also have to marry a daughter-in-law. When they don’t marry a wife, they may not talk about you, and everyone is still a dear brother and sister.

But marrying a daughter-in-law is different. If you don’t marry, the family members are the first to arrange you. What are you eating and staying at home? These words make me sad every time I hear them.

Brother and younger brother didn't say a word after hearing this, and parents were powerless after hearing it, so in the end, you still have to marry due to all kinds of pressure and helplessness.

Although what you said must have been heart-to-heart with my sister, maybe you have received education and read books, so you can say these big truths, and there are some truths in your opinion.

My sister has never read a book, and my sister doesn't know those things. "