Doctor: I picked up attributes in the hospital

Chapter 406 Believe in Your Feelings!
Coming out of the obstetrics department, Zhao Heng happened to meet Ruan Liuzheng.

Ruan Liuzheng at this time is a little different from when he was in the center before. Although he looks a little tired, there are more firm eyes between his brows, as if he has found a way forward.

"director."

Ruan Liuzheng first greeted Zhao Heng, and the way he looked at Zhao Heng was different from before. Now it was almost purely looking at the teacher and the superior doctor.

The rhythm of the obstetrics department is very tight. Since she came to the obstetrics department, almost all of her time has been occupied by work. Every day, she thinks about how to keep up with the progress and learn more things.

But the good thing is that now Ruan Liuzheng's teacher is Zhou Hong. It can be said that in terms of obstetrics and gynecology, Zhou Hong is one of the best obstetricians and gynecologists in Beishi.

Being able to follow Zhou Hong can be regarded as Ruan Liuzheng's fortune.

"How are you adapting?"

Zhao Heng looked at Ruan Liuzheng, who was different from the center before, and asked casually.

"The rhythm here is a bit tight, but I am confident that I can adapt."

Ruan Liuzheng said with firm eyes.

Although it is good to follow Zhao Heng, it is obvious that obstetrics and Ruan Liuzheng are more compatible.

"Well, Director Zhou said that you have adapted well."

Zhao Heng nodded and said.

The current medical industry is too complicated. It must have excellent ability and solid foundation, and it also requires hard work. In this era, those who can stand out can be said to be the elite of the elite.

Ruan Liuzheng naturally hopes to become such an elite who can enjoy himself by relying on his own ability.

There is a saying that is good, it is better to have everything than oneself, and it has been like this since ancient times.

Anyone who thinks of relying on others will eventually eat back at himself, but to varying degrees.

"Well, work hard and strive to stay in the obstetrics department."

After a pause, Zhao Heng encouraged again.

"I will, Director."

Ruan Liuzheng nodded. At this moment, she had a strange feeling in her heart. Whether it was to prove herself, to seize this opportunity, or to be able to stand in the same position as Zhao Heng in the future, she had to work harder.

After coming out of the obstetrics department, looking at the time, it was already time to get off work. He picked up Xu Manni, and the two got off work together and returned to the house in No. [-] Courtyard of Beishi.

As soon as he entered the door, Zhao Heng saw Xu Hongdou wearing a tank top and shorts, with two white lotus-like calves exposed coolly, lying on the sofa, eating snacks and chasing the show indistinctly.

Looking at Xu Hongdou's relaxed and relaxed appearance, Zhao Heng felt a little envious in his heart. Recently, he felt that he was too rushed, and he packed his time every day. Although it was fulfilling, it was also Some are too substantial.

In addition to work, there is life in life. If you only care about work, you will inevitably neglect life, especially the people around you. When you can cherish it, you must cherish it. How many couples want to see each other every day? No, life is such a reality.

"Aren't you busy with cultural and creative affairs? Is it just lying at home and gaining weight?"

Xu Manni changed her slippers, sat on the sofa, looked at Xu Hongdou helplessly and said.

Maybe it's because this person is not willing to get busy anymore when he has some free time. Since Xu Hongdou received treatment and said he wanted to take care of his body, he has been staying at home as a rice bug.

Although Xu Hongdou has the qualifications to be a rice bug, but if this continues, he will end up leaving people idle.

Xu Hongdou's parents are both engaged in scientific research, and they are doing very well, so they left two houses for Xu Hongdou in Beishi, and the location of these two houses is very good. According to the current market price, It's just that the sale of these two houses is enough for Xu Hongdou to be a rice bug for the rest of his life.

"Sister, don't tell me, I didn't know about this trip. I only found out when I started lying down. The more I lay down, the more comfortable I became, and I couldn't stop. If you think I'm too idle, then give birth to a little nephew as soon as possible." Niece, I'll take care of the baby for you."

Xu Hongdou leaned on the sofa, smiled, and said to Xu Manni indifferently.

In life, enjoyment is the first priority, so what are you trying to do?

Even if you work so hard, how much can you get in the end?
So, why not lie down early?

"I can't do anything with you, you can lie down if you want."

Xu Manni took a sip from the water glass on the coffee table, and said helplessly.

She is just such a younger sister, if she wants to lie flat, she can lie flat, at worst, she will raise her for a lifetime, and it's fine.

"Sister, look, the lazy sofa I bought is very comfortable to lie on."

Xu Hongdou pointed to a small sofa next to the sofa and said.

Why do young people have lazy sofas at home now?

Because the lazy sofa is really comfortable to lie on. I am so tired and stressed when I go to work during the day. When I come home from get off work and lie on the lazy sofa, the feeling of heavy body will be relieved immediately.

Watching short videos and playing games on the lazy sofa is the best way for social animals to decompress.

"Buying these useless things..."

Xu Manni said so, but she stood up honestly, walked to the lazy sofa, sat down, and sank into the sofa.

Call ~
Xu Manni felt very relaxed at this moment, and couldn't help but let out a long breath.

Recently, she has been under a lot of pressure. The election of the head nurse has reached the most critical moment.

As the saying goes, if you walk a hundred miles, you will be halfway through ninety miles. In fact, it is only half of the journey, because the last ten miles are the most critical.

"Look, it's very comfortable to lie on, at least more comfortable than a sofa bed."

Xu Hongdou couldn't help smiling slightly when he saw Xu Manni's upright appearance.

Her elder sister is stubborn, but in fact, she cares and loves her the most in her heart. She has known this since she was a child.

"sofa bed?"

Hearing this, Xu Manni looked at the sofa bed where Xu Hongdou was sitting, and blushed slightly after thinking of something.

"For you, I heard that you went to the branch hospital today. How is the treatment there?"

Xu Manni remembered again that this afternoon, Zhao Heng seemed to have gone to the branch hospital. Xu Manni knew that there were some severely mentally ill patients in the branch hospital.

She didn't expect that Zhao Heng has covered so much now, and after spending so much time with Zhao Heng day and night, Xu Manni didn't really see how busy Zhao Heng was during his rest time, his daily schedule, and a normal doctor, basically above is the same.

God knows how he can learn and master so much knowledge so quickly, maybe this is his talent?

"The treatment effect is very good, and Director Gao at the branch is still very good."

Zhao Heng sat on the sofa, opened a bottle of cold beer, took a sip, and replied casually.

"You mean Gao Qilan?"

Hearing what Zhao Heng said, Xu Manni frowned slightly.

"It's Director Gao, what's wrong?"

Zhao Heng asked with a serious expression.

"It's nothing, I've heard some rumors that when she was teaching at the university, her research project was suspended, and then she went to the branch quietly."

Xu Manni thought for a while and said.

"You said the same thing, it seems to be true."

Hearing Xu Manni say the same thing, it was obvious that what Liu Meng said matched, so it should be true that Gao Qilan's research project was suspended when he was teaching at the university.

Zhao Heng was very curious as to what kind of project Gao Qilan was working on that would be stopped. Such a thing is actually very rare in China.

"What kind of project did Director Gao engage in, and it will be suspended?"

After a pause, Zhao Heng asked with some doubts.

Naturally, it was not easy for him to ask Gao Qilan face to face about this matter. Liu Meng's words were not so clear.

As for Xu Manni, the news channel in Dongfang Hospital is very smooth.

It was even said that she also had a group of three girlfriends, and she shared gossip about hospital staff all the time.

"I'm not very clear about this. I heard my uncle mention it once. It seems to be a behavior reinforcement experimental project based on the Skinner box experiment."

Xu Manni thought about it seriously and said.

"Based on Skinner box experiments? Behavioral reinforcement?"

Hearing what Xu Manni said, Zhao Heng looked surprised. He thought Gao Qilan's research project would be very cutting-edge, but he didn't expect it to be so cutting-edge.

The so-called Skinner box experiment is the world-renowned behavioral psychologist Skinner. In 1938, he did a very famous experiment: he kept the rat in a box, and there was a button on one side of the box wall that could be pressed. At the beginning, every time the lever is pressed, the mouse can get a piece of food, so later, when the mouse wants to look for food, it will consciously press the lever.

So Skinner came to a conclusion: the behavior of organisms can be trained by rewards, and rewards can be used to change human behavior.

Later, Skinner had another question: If the reward is not fixed, is the effect on behavior effective?
So he changed the lever so that every time he pressed it, the mouse would randomly get a piece of food, and wanted to see if the mouse would continue to press the lever.

The end result was that the rats did the lever-pressing action more often than before.

"Behavior reinforcement? Miss husband, is it just training monkeys to pick bananas with tools?"

Xu Hongdou, who was bored, heard Zhao Heng and Xu Manni chatting, and tried hard to understand what Zhao Heng said.

"You're talking about training to use tools, I'm talking about behavioral reinforcement."

"For example, in a relationship, if one party finds that the other party is not doing what he expected, he will want to control the relationship more and more, wanting to know why The reason is that the other party will have inconsistent attitudes before and after.”

Zhao Heng casually gave an example and said.

"I understand. With such uncertainty, one party will start to put in more effort and want to put more energy into the relationship in order to achieve the goal of mastering the relationship."

"That is to say, when I can't master something, I want to use my own efforts to get it. Isn't this what people often say about PUA brainwashing?"

Xu Hongdou has always been very smart. Although she looks lazy now, she actually has a very high level of understanding. Zhao Heng just talked about it a little bit, and she extended it.

"Behavior reinforcement is different from PUA. As for PUA, as long as you are sensitive and prepared, it is still easy to be discovered, but behavior reinforcement is like boiling a frog in warm water. By the time you discover it, it has been deeply modified."

Zhao Heng shook his head slightly and said.

"Is PUA easy to be found? Miss husband, can you tell me?"

Xu Hongdou asked with great interest.

"The words of PUA are actually mental bullying, and it can also be said to be a kind of mind control."

"Basically, the first step of PUA is to constantly belittle your self-esteem, deny your value completely, and make you self-doubt. For example, in the workplace, you are blindly accused of poor work by your boss, even if you really I worked very hard, most people will first reflect and question themselves, am I really a waste? Once you start to have this kind of thinking, then the self will be shaken, and the first step of PUA will be achieved.”

Zhao Heng explained patiently.

He is still happy to do this kind of science popularization. After picking up the skills and knowledge experience dropped from Gao Qilan twice, he can be regarded as an expert in psychology.

"Then what if I directly fight with the boss? If you don't make it easier for me, I won't make it easier for you. At worst, I will resign!"

Xu Hongdou said directly.

"You have the confidence to do this. Most people, right now, find it difficult to find a job, and they will not easily give up the job they have finally found."

Xu Manni suddenly said with great emotion.

"That's right, my lady, what's the second step?"

Xu Hongdou nodded, and asked again with great interest.

"The second part is very simple. When you reject his suggestion, the perpetrator of PUA will use different methods to force you, attack you, and all kinds of cold violence until you obey, so that you will be born in the process. Guilt, questioning one's own practices, lack of self-confidence, and even depression."

Zhao Heng said slowly.

"Huh? Is it so scary? Then how do I guard against this kind of PUA?"

Xu Hongdou was a little frightened when he heard what Zhao Heng said, and couldn't wait to know how to guard against this terrible mental bullying.

"If you are on guard, like in the workplace, you only need to remember four ifs."

Zhao Heng said.

"Four if?"

Xu Hongdou pricked up his ears and said with great interest.

Not only her, but Xu Manni also looked very curious, after all, she had never heard of such a systematic analysis of PUA before.

"If the other person makes you feel guilty as soon as he speaks, then it's right to hate him."

"If the other party asks me to work without paying the price, just hate me."

"If the other party draws big cakes for me every day and talks about dreams and values, I don't have to say anything, damn it!"

"The last if, if the other party wipes her tears and makes her face miserable, just tell her to get out of the office and cry with her mother!"

Zhao Heng spoke out the [four ifs] he summed up in an unhurried manner.

As soon as he finished speaking, Xu Manni and Xu Hongdou looked at each other.

Although what Zhao Heng said is quite correct, but to be able to sum up such a useful experience, it is because of how much suffering and suffering he suffered before!

(End of this chapter)