tearjerker director

With the release of the movie, it is inevitable that many people have raised issues that were not clearly explained in the movie.

For example, why did grandma and mother not see each other for so long?

For example, why has my mother never come back to visit my grandma after so many years?

For another example, Xiao Wu's evil is vividly displayed in the movie. Is it too much to make a child so "hateful"?

Wait, wait, wait, once a movie becomes popular, various interpretations, excavations, and discussions will naturally follow.

Like Xiao Wu in the movie, although many fans said: nothing more.

"I don't think what the little guy did is anything. Although it is indeed very bad, isn't that the reality?"

"Maybe it's because I was naughty when I was a kid. I stole my grandpa's money to buy game coins and went to the game console store to play. When I came back, I was beaten by my dad, but my grandpa stopped me. We can't understand children from an adult perspective. In the world of children, their view of right and wrong is not so clear, and they can often only be described as young and ignorant.”

"Who says it's not? Who didn't do some things when they were young that looked bad when they grew up? For example, when I was a child, I even went to my grandma's house and peed into the big pot. Can you imagine? But this is the truth!"

"Who has never been rebellious and naughty? A child who has just arrived in a strange place and lives with a strange grandma is inherently resistant, so doing some rebellious things can actually be attributed to rebellious psychology. Of course, It may also be due to the lack of family education, but Xiao Wu in the movie was originally born in a single-parent family, and his mother is obviously not the kind to educate children very well, so the movie is not an exaggeration."

Of course not everyone thinks so.

Some fans said: "Most of the evil we know is greed, which is the evil thoughts after unsatisfied desires. If there is evil, it must be desire and the pursuit of interests. But a child cannot talk about desire. , likes to play pranks and likes to see others make mistakes.

You refused to let her take the car back to the village, causing her to walk back to the village step by step from the town on a cane. You felt uneasy and helped her carry the bag. You made a fuss about eating KFC and forced her to walk on a rugged mountain road to buy chicken. As a result, she got sick from the rain. You felt uneasy and covered her up. You threw away her shoes, leaving her barefoot to fetch water on the gravelly road. She was desperately making gestures at the market to get people to buy her pumpkins. You hid in the corner and didn't dare to open your mouth to help her sell her pumpkins. She sold the money to buy you new shoes and took you to a restaurant to eat. You clearly saw that she only had A small glass of water, you looked up at her, unmoved, and wolfed down your food. You deliberately kicked over her white porcelain bowl, but you clearly saw her wiping it repeatedly. You stole her hairpin and took it. She went to the canteen to change the battery, so she had to use an old spoon to style her hair.

Every time you so-called make up for your mistakes, it is not that you sincerely regret it, but that you are aware of your own evil and want to temporarily seek self-comfort. In this way, your so-called correction is just a way to numb your heart. , is to avoid facing one's own evil, to be selfish without reason, or even vicious. You make mistakes again and again, and how many opportunities do you have to correct them?

Do you have to make symbolic corrections every time you hurt someone?

I have to say that there are two heart-wrenching aspects of this movie. One is the uncomplaining love of the grandmother, and the other is the evil of the child. After watching it, people took a breath. The evil of the child is slightly portrayed. Too much, it seems too sharp in the whole film, which greatly reduces the warm love and makes grandma's love even more bitter. It's sad! "

Others retorted: "When I saw Xiao Wu in the movie, I thought of myself a few years ago. He vented his anger by peeing in his grandmother's shoes, throwing away her only pair of leather shoes, and stealing silver hairpins to buy game console batteries. The rebellion in my heart, and as for me, at that time, I seemed to feel that no one in the world understood me, and everything I did, whether right or wrong, had reasons to justify myself.

The grandma in the movie used her little savings to realize her grandson's wish. My parents would also say: Children are not sensible when they are young, but when they grow up, they will understand the difficulties of being a parent. In fact, it is not the case. The child who liked to fight against his elders had his own stubborn self-esteem. Most of the time, he relied on the love given by his family to do whatever he wanted. Family members would not stop you from making mistakes out of love, but you unknowingly hurt the one you loved most. own people. Now in my twenties, it is not too late to understand this truth. Daring to express my love for my family may be the best thing I have done in retrospect in my old age. "

"I just finished watching it and I feel that many of my experiences are exactly the same as in the movie. I grew up in a big city and returned to my hometown when I was 10 years old. My parents usually left me at my grandma's house during the summer vacation. My grandpa passed away very early. Grandma and I were like the grandma and the little boy in the movie. At the beginning, I was like a little boy yelling at grandma. The TV was often broken at that time, and I was like the little boy without batteries. I was really unhappy with grandma. Well, I’m too young and I’m not sensible, but I’m not as over-the-top as the little boy in the movie.

I still remember that time, just like in the movie, I accompanied my grandma to sell vegetables, eggs and a rooster. I got up very early that day. We had to get up at around four o'clock in the morning. Grandma said that otherwise there would be no seats, so she never got up. I didn't want to do it so early, so my grandma went alone. She walked the long distance. What I didn't know was that the rooster was the only rooster in the house. When I woke up, she would be there. While I was cooking breakfast, I felt uncomfortable in my heart, but I soon forgot about it. I still remember that I liked drinking Coke at that time, but I only drank it during the New Year and holidays at home. My grandma was listening to me saying that I wanted to drink Coke. I went to the market early the next morning to buy some. I still disliked her cooking. Now that I am in college, I actually miss my grandma’s cooking. The trees are quiet but the wind is not stopping. I don’t know how long I will stay with grandma. Time, I only know that I have to work hard to realize what I said before about taking grandma to the capital. She said she wanted to see the portraits of great men. I must think about what I want to do in the future, make money, and take grandma there.

This movie made me cry a lot. After watching it, I felt filled with emotion. Grandma, I hope she lives a long life and is in good health! "

There are also people who can't help but be touched by certain scenes in the movie.

In almost all the theaters where "Grandma's Home" was shown, the audience came out with more or less red eyes.

Because different people have different experiences, they are often touched at different points.

"Actually, I thought Xiao Wu was really hateful at first, but I don't know why. When I saw him fall down and break his knee before returning home, I was really touched by that scene.

I staggered towards you and ran towards you. You dusted off the dirt on my body, bent down to look at the injuries on my knees, and your wrinkled hands stroked the top of my head and wiped away the tears from my face. At that moment, because of you, my grievances had a place to go.

I think maybe it touched a certain node in my memory. Maybe this scene made me feel familiar. Unfortunately, my grandmother has passed away and I will never see her again. Grandma, I miss you so much! "

"Even if the times are turbulent, there is a fixed role that will always be called grandma. Many people retain that memory that belongs exclusively to grandma. I know that you are going through a period of growth now, and I know that you seem cold and mischievous, right? I don’t care about anything, but I’m actually very hot inside. But I am willing to give you unreserved love and companionship, as long as you are willing.    Good movies are not only tear-jersers, but also invisibly touch the softest part of people’s hearts. Let you feel in a certain place On a night when I was young, I thought of a certain person. It will make you young forever and bring tears to your eyes."

There are also interesting movie fans who write very interesting movie reviews.

"Three words "little beast" appeared in my mind at the beginning!

When I saw the end, I wanted to say: "Little beast, when you grow up, no one will pamper you like this!"

Then cried! I cried so much because I wanted to say so much at that moment, in fact, I am also such a little beast!

My parents are divorced and my mother has to work, so she always puts me at my grandma's house during the summer vacation. I am also all kinds of naughty and mischievous. It can be said that my grandma accompanied me when I grew up and spent the most helpless childhood. But she accompanied me I grow up, but I can't accompany her to grow old.

I remember when I was in college, I received a call from my mother saying that my grandma was gone. I didn’t even see my grandma for the last time. Recalling all the past, I gave myself a few hard slaps, and then my tears stopped. It keeps flowing down, that is my grandmother who loves me the most! "

Some film critics on the Internet also mentioned this.

""Grandma's Home" is another tear-jerker directed by a dog. There are many details and emotions in the movie.

The first time I watched the whole thing, I cried. I felt sorry for the lonely and kind-hearted mute grandma, scolded the hateful grandson, and often wanted to beat the unfilial grandson to death.

But I forgot that my grandson is just a seven-year-old naughty city kid. Of course, he can't cover up his crimes by saying that he is just a kid. But in the movie, you can clearly feel the changes in the child from front to back. He slowly... He understood his grandmother's kindness and love, and grew up with her. He slowly learned to love her and feel sorry for her. After a short two months of getting along with her, he felt deeply reluctant to leave her.

He taught his grandmother to write "I'm sick" and "I miss you" in order to let her send letters or postcards to him when she was sick or missed him. However, my grandmother was old and it was not easy to learn even though she was very serious. .

It was impossible to learn in one day. The child started crying and said that if you miss me or are sick, just send me an empty message. I will come to see you when I see it. But the night before leaving, The child turned off the light and prepared to go to bed, but he was worried that his grandma turned on the light again, wrote an address and drew a picture on the card, saying "I am sick" or "I miss you". Before getting in the car and leaving, he put the The card was given to grandma without saying a word.

I saw someone say in the film review section that it was the old man's tolerance for suffering that made some people think they had a happy childhood. What is the most important thing in this? It’s the old man’s deep love for his children. It’s okay for some children to become wise early, but for others it’s late. This creates the situation of “the child wants to be raised, but the close relationship is not in danger”, which is another sad part of life.

Why was I so disgusted with the children in the film at first, and why did I feel so sorry for the weak, helpless grandmother?

It's because my grandma is a weak and poor old woman. She lives a poor life, has gray hair, her upper body and lower body are at an angle of nearly 90 degrees, and she walks with a cane. When her grandson first came here, he not only disliked her, but peed in her shoes. , asked her for money to buy batteries, but she had no money to give him, so her grandson pushed his grandma who was washing clothes by the water. Grandma hit her shoulder on a stone and passed by, unable to fight back. Her grandson was still rummaging through boxes and cabinets at grandma's house. Looking for money, I took away the only hairpin that fixed my hair on my grandmother's head while she was sleeping. I wanted to change the money to buy batteries. I broke my grandmother's white porcelain jar and lost my grandmother's shoes. When my grandmother walked on the gravel mountain road to fetch water, Only bare feet...

There is a scene where the grandma plays with her grandson’s wooden puzzle toys after he falls asleep. One of them is not inserted correctly, but it is indeed put in. Every time one is put in, the grandma smiles proudly. This reminds me of the elderly in modern society. In order to keep up with their grandchildren, they clumsily learn modern communication equipment or other things that their grandchildren like, just to have more topics and get along with them more. There are also many elderly people who happen to be like the grandmothers in the movie. It’s like thinking that you got it right and you become very happy.

After catching the cockroach, grandma opened the window, let it fly, and stared at the sky for a while. Maybe at this time she thought of herself and life. (Of course it may be an over-interpretation!)

In fact, we might as well think about how grandma lived before her grandson came.

We can tell from some short plots in the movie that although grandma cannot speak, she is not without friends. She may lack the company of relatives, but she is not that lonely.

Xiaozhe's mother would ask him to give apples to his grandmother. Grandma has old sisters of her own, old men in the village as friends, etc. It can be seen that although grandma is weak, she is also very strong, and she is also very kind and sees through it. When it comes to life and death, have an open-minded view and be friendly to your neighbors.

The arrival of her grandson is undoubtedly an unexpected surprise for grandma. Her daughter has not come back for so many years. For grandma, maybe she has been thinking about it, but she has never heard back. For grandma, the arrival of her grandson is a big surprise. In fact, the old age is happy. This is probably the sad source of happiness for every grandmother, right?

So no matter what Xiaowu did, how he played pranks, how "bad" he was, in the eyes of his grandma, in the eyes of such a weather-beaten old man with gray hair, it was just adding a little more to an otherwise simple and boring life. Just color.

In fact, the old people really don’t have many requirements. When they were young, they always hoped that their children would become dragons and their daughters would become phoenixes. But when they grow old, their requirements gradually become that they can spend more time with them and see their children and granddaughters happy. They were satisfied.

Perhaps this is why, as parents, we always have strict demands on our children, but grandparents always dote on them. "

(End of this chapter)