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Chapter 758 Those who accept fate and those who don't
"Dear" is a group portrait play.

Tian Wenjun and Lu Xiaojuan are the protagonists, but there are many other roles in the same scene.

However, whether a group portrait play is successful or not depends on whether the portrayal of these characters is full and whether the audience remembers it.

Obviously "Dear" is very successful in this regard.

Many viewers are very emotionally invested in the characters in the film.

Zhao Zhong wrote a film review for "Dear" from the perspective of each character.

""Dear" is a realistic movie, as we all know, the most feared thing about realistic movies is to be divorced from reality.

The story of this movie is certainly not a story that happens commonly, but everyone can see the social group portraits through this movie, see their inner anxiety and disregard for family affection, and the deepness and grief of loss, In fact, everyone can feel and understand from life.However, not only is this not a common story, it is not simply about the loss and search of children, but also reflects the loss and search of something in people's hearts in society.People come and go, we are confused, we are lost, where is our "home"?

Tian Wenjun, he is not a successful person. He is divorced in middle age and runs a small shop. The only thing he is proud of is that he has a son named Tian Peng, right?

In the movie, Tian Wenjun said at the beginning: "I accept my fate, but you don't!"

That's because he felt that although he was divorced, he opened a small shop and started a small business. Although he was not rich, it was enough for him to raise his son Tian Peng.So he resigned to his fate, he didn't want to make a fuss.

For Tian Wenjun, who was divorced and without a wife, he only had one identity that he valued, the father of the child!

Therefore, when the child was lost, he would say "Why should I accept my fate?" He accepted his fate because he had a son, which was enough, but how could he accept his fate when his son was gone?
So it was this energy that made him search desperately and never give up. Only by "eating hope as food" can he "reject fate" and hope to regain a little bit of dignity when he has lost almost everything.On the night when he found Pengpeng, he cried bitterly in the stairwell of the police station. It was the first time in three years that he really shed tears. One word, but we can fully feel how tired he has been in these few years.Lin Yunbin's performance was too explosive. In silence, he gave us a heavy blow to our hearts. Although we have never experienced such pain, but watching him cry, we seem to be able to suddenly understand that what he is desperately looking for is not only Pengpeng , Only by bringing Pengpeng back can his home be there and he can "go home".

What about Lu Xiaojuan?It is reckless! "Not accepting fate", she divorced Tian Wenjun in order to climb up, and formed a middle-class family.

But even though she is divorced, her son Tian Peng is still something she can't let go of. She refuses to accept her fate, and of course hopes that her son Tian Peng can have a better future, so she quarrels with Tian Wenjun every time!
After losing Pengpeng, she finally discovered that identity and money could not resist such pain. She had always wanted to get rid of her status as a servant, but she found out that she had lost herself.In fact, this is very similar to many people around us, but life is too hasty to stop and look at the original self, and then look at the current self.After losing Pengpeng, she became like Tian Wenjun again; looking for Pengpeng became her only obsession, but her husband's courtship made her feel sick, in fact, it was more because she didn't want to betray her son.

The psychiatrist described her depression after losing her child as carrying a heavy burden, which made her extremely angry, so she would say: Your child is not lost!In fact, her marriage with her current husband had problems at this time, and divorce was inevitable.

Because Qin Hao has always wanted a child, even after Tian Peng was lost, his desire became more urgent.

This made her understand that as long as Tian Peng is around, he will always be her child, not Qin Hao's.

There are many details in the movie. Lu Xiaojuan is always crying or her eyes are red. She can hardly laugh. She only laughs when facing her son!Therefore, after finding her son, she still cried a lot, because the son hadn't really come back. She didn't really cry and laugh until the son took the initiative to hold her hand!

Han Dezhong, the mutual aid association he established gave those desperate parents a little hope, and it was only with his financial support that Tian Peng was successfully found.From the moment he appeared, he gave people the feeling that this is a person with a strong heart.The first time he appeared, he loudly said in front of everyone in the Wanli Finding Son Association: "We must keep looking for it, and there will never be another one!"

On the way to meet the traffickers, he encouraged everyone loudly. He is like a leader, a strong leader!
He was Mr. Han who led everyone all the way and used a big stick to repel a large wave of approaching villagers, but no one thought that he was actually the most vulnerable in his heart, so after Tian Peng was found, he was the first Break the rule of "resolutely not having a second one".In the movie, he was actually a character who did not "go home". He had lost too much. He thought he could gain salvation by helping everyone, but in the end he found that searching was too tiring, and he finally betrayed everyone.In the movie, he seems to go farther and farther on the road of "going home", and finally finds that money cannot erase his unbearable past, let alone a death certificate.

So, in the end, he fled the scene like a deserter, huddled in a corner, and cried bitterly, because he not only betrayed everyone in the Wanli Xunzi Society, but what made him even more painful was that he betrayed his son, betrayed The son he had been looking for for six years.Because since he gave up looking, his son actually "died" in his life!

Li Hongqin, the fate of this character is extremely complicated and contradictory.

What she lost was everything. Her husband was dead, her adopted son was taken home, her daughter was taken away, and her family was completely dismantled. If her daughter couldn't get her back, seriously, then what's the point of her being alive.To some extent, this is similar to Tian Wenjun, but in terms of social recognition, she stands on the opposite side of Tian Wenjun, and also stands on the opposite side of countless people, because strictly speaking, the identity of her mother is her mother. The husband of the trafficker was "robbed". Neither the son nor the daughter belonged to her. Even the law seemed to come to cut her the last straw. Life was so cruel to her that we should have I hate such a "human trafficker's wife", but in the end I can't help but feel pity and emotion for it.Can she go home, does she have a home to return to?At the end of the movie, there is a lot left. When the camera shakes, we can faintly see that there is still a little light at the end of the darkness, but is it hope or more terrible despair? "

(End of this chapter)