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Chapter 1617 The role of medicinal herbs
Modern life is extremely rich, which makes people unable to calm down. Even if you force him to calm down, although others have already calmed down, other things will continue to appear in his mind, that is to say , In fact, he didn't calm down at all.
Just like when studying, the teacher will remind the students to listen to the class quietly. Why would the teacher do it?The reason is very simple, that is to let the students calm down and study. Only in this way can the efficiency of the school be high and the students can learn in it.
However, everyone knows that such reminders from the teacher are not effective for all students. For example, those students with poor academic performance, the teacher reminded them in this way. In their minds, what they think about is not the course taught by the teacher, what they think about is when the class ends, how much time is left before the end of class, or what to play after class... etc. These things have nothing to do with the class.
Why do these students have such pictures in their minds? In fact, the main reason is that these students are attracted by the fun outside, so their minds are full of such pictures of fun.
I believe that everyone has experienced such a thing, or has seen it.
The ultimate goal of a person practicing martial arts is that you have to calm down. Only when your mind is calm can you truly practice martial arts, feel the aura from the outside world, and absorb these auras into your meridians, and After the aura enters your meridians, guide the aura to walk in your meridians, and finally turn into your true qi.
If you can't calm down.Then you can't feel the aura in the air at all, in that case.You can't talk about practicing martial arts at all, you can't even feel the spiritual energy.Then how do you practice martial arts!
Also, when you are practicing, especially after you have introduced spiritual energy into the meridians, if you don’t calm down your mind, the consequences will not only be the above, but more serious consequences will be waiting for you.
What serious consequences? The answer is madness!
Reiki is very magical. It can not only speed up the growth of animals and plants, but also people can enhance their own strength by absorbing Reiki.You can even become a cultivator and eventually live forever. However, not all auras are so good for people. At certain times, it can kill you.
Just like when you are practicing martial arts, aura actually poses a great threat to you.
When martial artists are practicing martial arts, they are constantly absorbing spiritual energy.As we all know, there is not only one attribute in Reiki, but there are many attributes in Reiki, such as metal, wood, water, fire, earth and so on.There are many kinds of attributes, and among these attributes, there are many kinds of attributes that generate and restrain each other.
It's like fire aura and water aura.Wood Reiki and Fire Reiki, Gold Reiki and Turim Reiki and so on.These auras are all mutually restraining and corresponding.The body of a warrior also has different attributes, such as metal, wood, water, fire, earth...etc, all warriors with these attributes have them.
When practicing martial arts, fire-type fighters absorb fire-type aura, and water-type fighters absorb water-type aura when practicing martial arts... Once these fighters absorb the aura that is compatible with their physical attributes , then this martial artist will be in danger, and the most intense battle will take place in his body between the two opposing auras.
You must know that the aura in the air is not a single-attribute aura. The aura in the air is mixed with auras of all attributes. Therefore, when a warrior is practicing martial arts, he needs to expel those auras that are not his physical attributes. The aura corresponding to his physical attributes, only in this way can a warrior practice safely, and his cultivation base will gradually increase.
So how can we identify the attributes in the aura?The answer is very simple, that is, warriors need to calm down, feel the aura inhaled into the meridians, and then expel the aura that is not in harmony with their physical attributes, leaving only the aura that is in harmony with their physical attributes.
Therefore, when a warrior is practicing martial arts, it is very important to calm down. Once a warrior is thinking wildly while practicing martial arts, that is to say, he cannot calm down, the consequences will be very serious, and the fiercest battle will take place if the warrior inhales the spiritual energy in his body.
At this point, some people may want to say, why is there nothing wrong with auras of different attributes in the air, but once these auras enter the meridians, they will have problems?This is puzzling!
Hehe, the answer is actually very simple, that is the reason why the distances between auras of different attributes are different.
In the air, there is a lot of space, so the distances between different auras are very far, and they have enough distance to avoid each other, so, in the air, even the auras of two attributes that are mutually restraining will not occur fighting.
And once these auras are sucked into the meridians of the warrior, it will be different. Everyone knows how small the meridians are. After these auras enter the meridians from the air, the space is directly reduced by n times. There is no turning distance between the two auras, so at this time, the two mutually restraining auras collided directly afterwards.
Of course, this collision takes a certain amount of time, so warriors have enough time to identify the attributes of these auras, so as to leave the aura that is beneficial to them and expel the aura that is harmful to them.
And if the warrior doesn't calm down when performing this action, then the time he wants to complete this action will be greatly increased, and the time is increased, which is equivalent to giving enough fighting time to those auras that are restrained. , these mutually restraining auras will fight in the meridians of the warrior. It is conceivable what the warrior will end up with at this time.
At the least, the warrior was seriously injured, and he went directly to the hospital to lie down for half a year, or a year, at worst, the warrior went into a rage, at the worst, he was paralyzed in bed, and at worst, he went directly to see Lord Hades.
Therefore, the most important thing to practice martial arts is meditation.
Meditation is easier said than done, especially for now, life is really too rich now.There are countless things that can attract people in the society, and it is also because of this.Gradually making people's hearts more and more chaotic, at this time.It takes a lot of effort to calm people's minds.
The minds of modern people are so chaotic, so what can be done to calm them down?
This problem is very difficult for many people, but it is not difficult for Zhao Chaogang, and Zhao Chaogang soon thought of a solution to this problem.
In fact, Zhao Chaogang's method is very simple, that is to use other things to attract people, so that people can calm down by themselves, just like letting a person overcome his shortcomings.As long as there is external motivation, or temptation or something, it is actually not difficult for this person to overcome his own shortcomings.
For example, a person is very sloppy, and others have persuaded him countless times, but he just said it verbally, but he didn't actually correct it, but.If you tell him that as long as he can correct this sloppy shortcoming, you will directly introduce him to a beautiful girlfriend, then I believe this person's sloppy shortcoming.It will be resolved soon.
Zhao Chaogang also used temptation to attract people to correct this shortcoming of not being calm, so what kind of temptation did Zhao Chaogang show?Quite simply, that is great power.
Man's pursuit of power.Not less than their desire to pursue the girls/boys they like, so.As long as people actually feel the increase in strength, they can correct the shortcoming of restlessness.
The pill came in handy at this time.The elixir is not like the aura in the air. The aura in the air needs to be refined by the warrior, but the elixir does not require the warrior to refine it. The warrior can take the elixir with confidence and guide the medicinal power of the elixir to run in the meridians. .
Once the elixir is taken, the martial artist will soon develop a sense of qi. At this time, the martial artist only needs to guide the sense of energy to follow the meridian route recorded in the martial arts secret book, and soon, the martial artist can enter the main topic of cultivation.
Once the martial artist's cultivation gets to the point, he will be able to feel the continuous increase of his own strength, and the feeling of increasing strength will make the warrior fall into the enthusiasm of cultivation fanatically.
This enthusiasm is like when you just started to fall in love. At that time, in order to meet her/him in your mind, you absolutely did not hesitate. At that time, you only had him/her in your eyes, and your eyes could no longer see other things.
When people fall into a frenzy for cultivation, he/she will naturally calm down, because at this time, he/she has only one thought in his/her mind, which is to practice, practice, and practice...
This is also the reason why Zhao Chaogang put so many pills in the jade pagoda. Modern people are indeed very impetuous in their hearts. It is very difficult for them to put in a lot of effort to practice, but as long as they feel the benefits of practicing martial arts, And happiness, then their inner impetuosity will disappear sooner or later.
The elixir plays a role of a catalyst in this. The elixir greatly shortens the progress of people's cultivation, especially the fact that the elixir can directly make people feel the sense of qi, which is even more attractive.
Maybe just a pill can't make people truly cultivate true qi, but it can make people feel the existence of qi, the movement of true qi in the meridians, and the enhancement of physical fitness to varying degrees. With these things, the passion for cultivation in this person's heart is stimulated.
Every time you practice, you can feel the true energy in your body. After every practice, you will find that the true energy in your body is constantly increasing. After every practice, you can feel that your strength is getting stronger and stronger. After practicing, one can feel that one's physical fitness is getting stronger... With such countless benefits, as long as he is a normal person, he will be deeply attracted by martial arts.
Facts have also proved that Zhao Chaogang's method is very effective. Looking at the 20 quasi-martial artists and martial artists in the martial arts secret realm, you can know how effective the method Zhao Chaogang came up with is.
Under normal circumstances, it is simply impossible to train 20 quasi warriors and warriors in just over a year.
Zhao Chaogang clearly saw from Haotian Xiaolingtian's memory that it would take nearly two years for a warrior sect to give birth to a quasi-warrior. Of course, the time here is relative to ordinary people. Cultivation geniuses are not included here.
Comparing the hatchbacks, we can clearly see the importance of the elixir. If Zhao Chaogang hadn't produced so many elixirs, he would have cultivated 20 quasi-warriors and warriors.That is simply impossible.
With the continuous improvement of martial arts, the strength is getting stronger and stronger.For these prospective warriors, the impetuousness in the warriors' hearts has disappeared.In the same way, the clutter in their hearts disappeared, and it was very simple for them to calm down.
Warriors are constantly refining the spirit of these quasi-warriors and warriors, gradually cultivating these people into elites among the social elites, and China's future is therefore brighter and brighter.
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Of course, with such a strong effect of the elixir, it is only natural that the price of the elixir is high.Generally, it takes three to four days for a quasi-warrior or warrior to buy a pill. Zhao Chaogang will not let these warriors buy the pill so easily.Because people will not cherish things that are easier to get, which is determined by human nature.
People often like to make such a common problem, the more they can't get something, the more they want to fight for it, and the easier it is to get, the less they cherish it!This sentence is most appropriate in love.
In life, why do we not cherish the things that are easy to get?What kind of psychology is this?
"I love him so much, why doesn't he care about me at all." "Why does he have to wait for me to turn around and leave every time before he comes to stay", "I gave her everything I have, why does she still fall in love with someone else"...
People who are emotionally hurt.Such sentiments are often expressed.In fact, not only the emotional world, but similar phenomena can be seen everywhere in our lives.
According to news reports a while ago, a man in the United States won a lottery of 2700 million gold.But he squandered it in 12 years, and finally his wife and children separated.Die penniless in solitude.
It seems that whether it is love, wealth, or even health.We all have the same question: Why do we not cherish what is easier to get?
There are four explanations for the answer to this question:
[-]. The act of "cherishing" lacks a reward and punishment mechanism
Behaviorist psychology believes that people's behaviors are learned and reinforced or weakened by reward and punishment mechanisms.
When we analyze "cherishing" as a behavior in a broad sense, we will find that for those who have not developed the behavior of "cherishing", what they think is: If I cherish you, it will not make me get more or more. Good; I don't cherish you, and I won't lose you because of it, that is to say, whether I cherish you or not will not be rewarded or punished, then I will think that there is no need to cherish you.
In other words, people always fail to learn to cherish, essentially because there is no connection between the behavior of "cherishing" and rewards.The easier it is to get something, the less likely it is to build a bonding mechanism.
Many men and women in relationships have noticed this, and their coping mechanism manifests itself in punishing each other with "coldness tactics" or "distance tactics" ("I won't answer the phone! Don't you care about me!").
But what needs to be pointed out here is that in love relationships, "cold tactics" should be used with caution.
Indifference tactics are actually a kind of negative punishment. The so-called negative punishment refers to the cancellation of certain benefits once the disgusting behavior occurs.
For example, a girl has three chapters with her boyfriend: If you dare to look at another girl, we will break up!
However, psychologists have proved through experiments that punishment is often not an optimal strategy, and repeated use of punishment strategies may lead to long-term negative effects.
In a study of 6002 families, children who received corporal punishment during adolescence were more likely to develop alcoholism, suicide, depression, and greater aggression as adults (“ Break up with Lao Tzu every day, share it!").
Therefore, psychologists recommend using positive-sexual-reinforcement as much as possible to change behavior.The so-called yang-sexual-enhancement refers to the increase of some kind of benefit once the expected behavior occurs.
For example, if he asks for leave to pick you up at the station, you take the initiative to ask him if he wants to have sex tonight.Seeing this, what else do you think of?
[-]. Compromise objects to vent
Freud-Roy-De believes that instincts (including sex-instinct, aggression-desire, etc.) are always looking for an outlet to vent, and this energy vent constitutes an internal drive, the purpose of which is to eliminate tension.
Happiness comes from the elimination of tension, and obstacles in reality and thought constitute resistance.The activities produced under the contest of internal driving force and resistance, we call it "compromising object venting".
for example.Love is sex—the product of a compromise between lust (drive) and moral restraint (resistance).
The implication of this is that compromising sexual object catharsis cannot remove all tensions (romantic love, for example, does not relieve all sexual-desire tensions).Then, the suppressed instinct will produce a lasting internal drive.
For example: people are aggressive.Obviously, boxing can satisfy the desire for aggression better than commercial competition, but there is less boxing among adults, and more commercial competition, because commercial competition is a compromise-sexual-venting object, which eliminates the desire for aggression. The level of tension is much lower than boxing, so the drive behind it is more persistent.
Usually, the less you can fully release your instinctive behavior, the more lasting power you can generate.
Speaking of this, we understand: the easier it is to get (low compromise).The more fully the tension is relieved, the weaker is the drive to cherish it.
[-]. Reacquisition costs
Ferye's theory seems too difficult to understand, so it couldn't be easier to explain it from the perspective of "acquisition cost".
In our hearts, there is a scale to measure the value of things, called "re-acquisition cost", that is, the cost of re-acquiring after losing.Things that are expensive to reacquire are classified as high value in our hearts; things that are cheap to reacquire are defined as low value.
If "cherishing" is regarded as a constant psychological resource, then high-value things will naturally be allocated more resources, so.The less costly it is to acquire again, the less likely it is to be cherished.
However, everyone's values are different, and their views on reacquisition costs are also very different.
For some people.It is extremely difficult to meet such a suitable him/her among thousands of people, so they work hard to cherish it; some people think.In the end, whoever you are with is destined by God, and I am lucky.Lost my life.
We can't judge that kind of person is right, but maybe we should learn to be careful enough in every relationship.
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"There was once a sincere love in front of me. I didn't cherish it. I regretted it when I lost it. There is nothing more painful in the world than this." The classic in "Da-Hua-West-Journey" The lines seem to have become a curse in the real world. We think we understand the truth, but we still repeat this kind of "remorse" time and time again. How to break the vicious circle of "how to cherish only when you lose" when your loved ones are gone, and how to be filial when you earn more and more?How can those who don't know how to cherish learn to cherish, and how can those who are not cherished change the situation?
Respond positively to his/her concern for you - According to reinforcement theory, if one party in a relationship always sticks his/her face to the cold ass of the other party, he/she will be unwilling to give over time.
So we must know how to respond positively to the other party, and you must know that your enthusiastic response is the best reward for him/her!In addition, when we complain that the other party does not care enough about us, do we always take the other party's many silent contributions for granted?
Pursue deep interests that are not easy to be satisfied - according to Fred-Lou-Y-De's point of view, the easier to satisfy the less likely to provide long-term motivation, if your goal is to earn enough 100 million, this happiness will follow you More money and less money.And if you pursue deeper things, such as love and growth, peace and freedom, or helping more people, this desire can only be approached forever, and cannot be fully satisfied.
Be a better version of yourself—whether he/she knows how to cherish you is not something you can decide. Only by always striving to become a better version of yourself is the undeniable truth.
Instead of using unsustainable indifference tactics, it is better to enhance the connotation, increase wisdom, and create an irreplaceable self, so as to use this uniqueness to increase your re-acquisition cost.
Just imagine, if you are always attractive like a treasure, everyone will cherish the time with you.
Life is like a glass of wine, you need to taste it carefully.Sometimes it is a bit bitter, but you have to continue to drink it; sometimes it is fascinating, but the taste has passed.Of course, love is indispensable in life, and it brings more than these tastes, ups and downs.Even mixed with an indescribable taste, perhaps because of it.Life will not lose its own meaning, nor will it lose the value of its existence.
If a person dies.If he changes his heart to someone else, does his life continue in another person?To love someone, what is it to love the other person?Is it his person, or his heart?Does that also extend love to another person?Love will not fade away because of the change of time and space, maybe it has made a lifetime of pain!
Love is selfish!People who love each other can often only see each other's mistakes, blame each other, and always hurt each other because of a small misunderstanding.
love.What is needed most is the trust of both parties!
People often rely on achievements to prove their own existence and value. Even if the achievements do not belong to themselves at all, they can still show off in front of others with confidence. Greed for vanity is always the fatal weakness of people.
If you are lucky enough to get rid of this weakness, and you cannot afford to be attacked by other people's gossip, maybe your self-esteem and inferiority complex are at play.
When love is faced with the challenge of family affection, people who fall in love will choose to give up family affection without hesitation. Although this kind of fearless spirit is amazing, who can estimate what has been lost?
In feudal society.The orders of parents cannot be violated, only the painful sacrifice of love; in modern society, since there is freedom of choice, the only poor ones are the parents in the world.Who can think of a way to have the best of both worlds?
Life can be dull and boring at times, which makes people feel very boring, but when it suddenly changes dramatically.Will let you know what to do, at this time.Only then will you truly realize that the truth is that life is mediocre!
The difference between humans and animals.People have feelings, thoughts, and the ability to control their emotions.However, it is also feelings that bother people the most. It can make your life rich and colorful, and it can also make your life dull.what is love?What is hate?If you think stubbornly and persist, everything will eventually turn into smoke.
Love is for men to protect women. In the eyes of men, women are the most vulnerable animals, and they need their strong arms and warm embraces.In this way, men are more confident and love women more.
Love begins with the madness of both men and women, but it tends to be dull with endless quarrels and suspicions.When love can no longer bear the willfulness of both parties, it is not far from breaking up.
We are walking on the long road of life, it is easy to lose our direction.
Some people can choose a path with a strong will to continue walking; some people linger in the same place and hesitate; .
Therefore, love needs to be cherished by both parties. Only in this way can love last forever!
There is a saying that is good, don't lose it to feel precious!
It is a common problem of all human beings to think that it is precious when it is lost. In other words, if you have not lost it, how would you know how important it is in your mind? If you have not lost it, how would you know Cherish it well so you don't regret it later.But someone also said that it was because I cherished it too much at the beginning, so I was more afraid of losing it.
Don't cherish what is easy to get, but try to keep it when you lose it.For example: family, friendship, love.The death of a loved one, the departure of a friend without saying goodbye, and the cruel departure of a lover are all things that we cannot undo.
The unobtainable is always the best, so people always deliberately pursue the things that can never be obtained, and often ignore the people around them who have been silently loving themselves. When they realize who is really worth cherishing, But the situation has changed, and the Sri Lankan has gone.
It is precious only when it is lost. This is the case in love!
If you are having true love, then don't break up easily, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it.The pain at that time is unforgettable! Only when you lose it do you know how to cherish it!
Facing our lover, we should treat it with a tolerant heart. No matter what happens, we should tolerate each other and think more about each other's good, so that the relationship between two people will last forever!
We always take what we have for granted, take it for granted, and think that it will never go away from us. Over time, we get used to enjoying, but forget to give and give, and forget that it also needs our own care and love.
Every relationship needs to be responded to. But I didn't realize that the happiness that has always been around me will go away one day.
Human beings always like to overestimate what they lack, but ignore the simple happiness around them, so too many people wait until they lose it before they know how to regret it, and then they know that it is always the best to cherish what they can't get.In fact, what you haven't found around you is the pursuit of your life.
If there is no gain, there is no loss. If there is no loss, then how can there be gain!
Because I have not really experienced it, I will lose it.Only after losing can we know how to cherish.
It is often the effect of people's hearts, and what they can't get is always considered the most beautiful.The more you get, the less you will care.At that time, sometimes you don’t know that the best is by your side.
Just like when you buy something and you don’t buy it, you keep it in your heart every day, and you want to get it. When your item belongs to you, you don’t care about it and don’t take care of it. I want us to cherish it In front of you, don't hurt the person you love the most for those things and people that are out of reach. Feel it with your heart.Take care of those around you and love them.
When I have it, I always take those happiness for granted, take it for granted, and think that it will never leave me. As time goes by, I am used to enjoying and accepting, but I forget to give and give.Forget that she also needs your care and love, and every relationship needs to be responded to.But he didn't realize that the happiness that has been around him will one day go away from him.
people.I always think that what I can't get is the best, but I don't realize the simple happiness around me, so too many people don't know how to cherish it until they lose it!
We always take what we have for granted, take it for granted, and think that it will never go away from us. Over time, we get used to enjoying, but forget to give and give, and forget that it also needs our own care and love.
Every relationship needs to be responded to. But they don't realize that the happiness that is always around will have far-reaching consequences. Humans always like to overestimate what they lack, but ignore the simple happiness around them, which causes Too many people don't know how to regret until they lose it, and then they know how to cherish it.
Hope is the most precious thing, people are like this, when you get it, you will relax or indifferent to him, and naturally you will not think so much about the result, everyone's psychology is like this no matter what Or something, when you lose it, you will definitely think about what you didn't do well or regret why you didn't cherish it at the beginning.
But the most important thing is that since you have lost it, you have to maintain your mentality and let him pass. See how you can handle the following questions.People often don't love and cherish when they have it.
Take everything for granted when you have it.Everything is as it should be, though.They are wrong, the fact is not like this, nothing is destined to be yours, once you get it, you should cherish it and take good care of it.
If you don't cherish and love, you will feel regret after losing it, and you will know that you are wrong. There is no medicine for regret in the world. If you lose it, it will be difficult to recover.
Therefore, people always feel that they should cherish something after they lose it, but there is no chance anymore.
So we should cherish it when we have it, so as not to regret it until we lose it, and it will be too late by then!Learning to reflect and comprehend may reduce some regrets.
Some things, we thought we would meet again tomorrow, but we really didn't know, he was just a flash in the pan.
Some people we thought we would definitely meet again, but we really didn't know that he might just be a passer-by in your life.
So no matter if it is a relationship or something, if you really want to have it, cherish it, cherish every day when she is here, and cherish what you have now.
If you can, please slow down your hasty pace and look at the scenery around you. Maybe there is also the scenery of life you are looking for. Sometimes, know how to let go because letting go is the way to have everything...
When cherishing, please love well, and when letting go, please give good blessings... No one can tell you about love, but one thing I can be sure of, because this is my personal experience, love can make you do for each other Whatever you say, whatever you say, love means giving unconditionally for the other person. Doing anything to love someone is precious, and time is ruthless.
Giving up is terrible, leaving is regretting, missing is lonely, walking is lonely, lover, can't lose love, can love last forever, in fact, love that lasts forever is in your heart, just like many people often ask whether there is in this world There is no true love, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you give sincerely.Persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice.True love happens to you, and eternal love is your love.
we know.Love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the return of love is the eternal joy and happiness of the other party. If you love the other party, then you will be happy because the other party is happy, and happy because the other party is happy.
Whether it is in the love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then the everlasting love is by your side, not because you have the everlasting love .But you create love that lasts forever, isn't it better to do something meaningful!
Even if you are alone, you will not be alone. The stars that cannot be picked are always the brightest; the movies that are missed are always the best; the lovers that are lost are always the most beloved.Why not cherish the present?Please don't hurt a person who loves you. Regarding love, don't think that there are better things in the future.Because what you have now is the best!
Don't give up because the distance is too far, love can take the train with you; don't give up because the other person is not rich, as long as you are not incompetent, hard work can make you rich; don't give up because of parents' opposition, you will find that because of this The love you give up for any reason will be the regret of your life!
In fact, the simpler the love, the better.It is best to only talk about love once in a lifetime!It will become numb after too much experience.
When you are tired, you slow down; when you are wrong, you think of regret; when you are bitter, you know how to be satisfied;Only then do you know how to be strong; only when you are drunk, do you know that you are unforgettable!
When your parents are by your side, selflessly dedicating for you.Have you ever cherished the affection that blood is thicker than water?When friends are by your side and sincerely encourage you.Have you ever thought about cherishing this hard-won friendship?
When the teacher is by your side, caring for you considerately.Do you cherish the kindness that is difficult to repay?I think, when you have these beautiful feelings, you always take them for granted, never know how to cherish them, and only when you lose them, you will understand how precious they are.
A prisoner locked in a cage, when he opens his eyes every day, is faced with pale walls, unable to see the sunrise or sunset.He repented of his mistakes all the time, scolded himself for his faults, and of course it was more his nostalgia for his relatives and yearning for freedom.
Although he has realized his mistake now, it is already too late. As the saying goes, "time is gone and will never return", God can't give him a chance to be born again, let him start all over again.When he has the care of his parents and the encouragement of his friends, why does he not know how to cherish it, and he has to wait until he really loses it before he realizes his fault?
Many people don't know how to be satisfied when they have it, and they only want to get more, which hurts many people, which means that they lose a lot of people and a lot of sincere friendship. When they look back, they find that they are satisfied. At the same time as **, a lot has been lost.
It's like a sandbag with a hole in it. You want to fill the bag with all your heart, but you don't know that something has come out of the hole, and you still stupidly put things in it, and you still refuse to give up.
But what is the use of replenishing what has been lost?
When you see the scene of falling leaves in autumn, you can really feel the vitality of spring; when you see the desolation and depression in winter, you can really feel the prosperity of summer; Only when you gain success, you realize that you don't cherish it.
When you really get to the step of "black hair doesn't know how to study early, and Bai Shoufang regrets studying late", you will realize how stupid and stupid you were before.
Time is limited, and wasting time only brings infinite regret to oneself. There is no medicine for regret in the world, and there is no such thing as rejuvenation. Only by grasping the present and laying the foundation stone for future success will you not let yourself The road of life is full of regrets, so when we really have it, we must know how to cherish it, and don't wait until we lose it to realize our fault.
A misstep will cause eternal hatred, only by cherishing can we have a perfect life! (To be continued..)
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Just like when studying, the teacher will remind the students to listen to the class quietly. Why would the teacher do it?The reason is very simple, that is to let the students calm down and study. Only in this way can the efficiency of the school be high and the students can learn in it.
However, everyone knows that such reminders from the teacher are not effective for all students. For example, those students with poor academic performance, the teacher reminded them in this way. In their minds, what they think about is not the course taught by the teacher, what they think about is when the class ends, how much time is left before the end of class, or what to play after class... etc. These things have nothing to do with the class.
Why do these students have such pictures in their minds? In fact, the main reason is that these students are attracted by the fun outside, so their minds are full of such pictures of fun.
I believe that everyone has experienced such a thing, or has seen it.
The ultimate goal of a person practicing martial arts is that you have to calm down. Only when your mind is calm can you truly practice martial arts, feel the aura from the outside world, and absorb these auras into your meridians, and After the aura enters your meridians, guide the aura to walk in your meridians, and finally turn into your true qi.
If you can't calm down.Then you can't feel the aura in the air at all, in that case.You can't talk about practicing martial arts at all, you can't even feel the spiritual energy.Then how do you practice martial arts!
Also, when you are practicing, especially after you have introduced spiritual energy into the meridians, if you don’t calm down your mind, the consequences will not only be the above, but more serious consequences will be waiting for you.
What serious consequences? The answer is madness!
Reiki is very magical. It can not only speed up the growth of animals and plants, but also people can enhance their own strength by absorbing Reiki.You can even become a cultivator and eventually live forever. However, not all auras are so good for people. At certain times, it can kill you.
Just like when you are practicing martial arts, aura actually poses a great threat to you.
When martial artists are practicing martial arts, they are constantly absorbing spiritual energy.As we all know, there is not only one attribute in Reiki, but there are many attributes in Reiki, such as metal, wood, water, fire, earth and so on.There are many kinds of attributes, and among these attributes, there are many kinds of attributes that generate and restrain each other.
It's like fire aura and water aura.Wood Reiki and Fire Reiki, Gold Reiki and Turim Reiki and so on.These auras are all mutually restraining and corresponding.The body of a warrior also has different attributes, such as metal, wood, water, fire, earth...etc, all warriors with these attributes have them.
When practicing martial arts, fire-type fighters absorb fire-type aura, and water-type fighters absorb water-type aura when practicing martial arts... Once these fighters absorb the aura that is compatible with their physical attributes , then this martial artist will be in danger, and the most intense battle will take place in his body between the two opposing auras.
You must know that the aura in the air is not a single-attribute aura. The aura in the air is mixed with auras of all attributes. Therefore, when a warrior is practicing martial arts, he needs to expel those auras that are not his physical attributes. The aura corresponding to his physical attributes, only in this way can a warrior practice safely, and his cultivation base will gradually increase.
So how can we identify the attributes in the aura?The answer is very simple, that is, warriors need to calm down, feel the aura inhaled into the meridians, and then expel the aura that is not in harmony with their physical attributes, leaving only the aura that is in harmony with their physical attributes.
Therefore, when a warrior is practicing martial arts, it is very important to calm down. Once a warrior is thinking wildly while practicing martial arts, that is to say, he cannot calm down, the consequences will be very serious, and the fiercest battle will take place if the warrior inhales the spiritual energy in his body.
At this point, some people may want to say, why is there nothing wrong with auras of different attributes in the air, but once these auras enter the meridians, they will have problems?This is puzzling!
Hehe, the answer is actually very simple, that is the reason why the distances between auras of different attributes are different.
In the air, there is a lot of space, so the distances between different auras are very far, and they have enough distance to avoid each other, so, in the air, even the auras of two attributes that are mutually restraining will not occur fighting.
And once these auras are sucked into the meridians of the warrior, it will be different. Everyone knows how small the meridians are. After these auras enter the meridians from the air, the space is directly reduced by n times. There is no turning distance between the two auras, so at this time, the two mutually restraining auras collided directly afterwards.
Of course, this collision takes a certain amount of time, so warriors have enough time to identify the attributes of these auras, so as to leave the aura that is beneficial to them and expel the aura that is harmful to them.
And if the warrior doesn't calm down when performing this action, then the time he wants to complete this action will be greatly increased, and the time is increased, which is equivalent to giving enough fighting time to those auras that are restrained. , these mutually restraining auras will fight in the meridians of the warrior. It is conceivable what the warrior will end up with at this time.
At the least, the warrior was seriously injured, and he went directly to the hospital to lie down for half a year, or a year, at worst, the warrior went into a rage, at the worst, he was paralyzed in bed, and at worst, he went directly to see Lord Hades.
Therefore, the most important thing to practice martial arts is meditation.
Meditation is easier said than done, especially for now, life is really too rich now.There are countless things that can attract people in the society, and it is also because of this.Gradually making people's hearts more and more chaotic, at this time.It takes a lot of effort to calm people's minds.
The minds of modern people are so chaotic, so what can be done to calm them down?
This problem is very difficult for many people, but it is not difficult for Zhao Chaogang, and Zhao Chaogang soon thought of a solution to this problem.
In fact, Zhao Chaogang's method is very simple, that is to use other things to attract people, so that people can calm down by themselves, just like letting a person overcome his shortcomings.As long as there is external motivation, or temptation or something, it is actually not difficult for this person to overcome his own shortcomings.
For example, a person is very sloppy, and others have persuaded him countless times, but he just said it verbally, but he didn't actually correct it, but.If you tell him that as long as he can correct this sloppy shortcoming, you will directly introduce him to a beautiful girlfriend, then I believe this person's sloppy shortcoming.It will be resolved soon.
Zhao Chaogang also used temptation to attract people to correct this shortcoming of not being calm, so what kind of temptation did Zhao Chaogang show?Quite simply, that is great power.
Man's pursuit of power.Not less than their desire to pursue the girls/boys they like, so.As long as people actually feel the increase in strength, they can correct the shortcoming of restlessness.
The pill came in handy at this time.The elixir is not like the aura in the air. The aura in the air needs to be refined by the warrior, but the elixir does not require the warrior to refine it. The warrior can take the elixir with confidence and guide the medicinal power of the elixir to run in the meridians. .
Once the elixir is taken, the martial artist will soon develop a sense of qi. At this time, the martial artist only needs to guide the sense of energy to follow the meridian route recorded in the martial arts secret book, and soon, the martial artist can enter the main topic of cultivation.
Once the martial artist's cultivation gets to the point, he will be able to feel the continuous increase of his own strength, and the feeling of increasing strength will make the warrior fall into the enthusiasm of cultivation fanatically.
This enthusiasm is like when you just started to fall in love. At that time, in order to meet her/him in your mind, you absolutely did not hesitate. At that time, you only had him/her in your eyes, and your eyes could no longer see other things.
When people fall into a frenzy for cultivation, he/she will naturally calm down, because at this time, he/she has only one thought in his/her mind, which is to practice, practice, and practice...
This is also the reason why Zhao Chaogang put so many pills in the jade pagoda. Modern people are indeed very impetuous in their hearts. It is very difficult for them to put in a lot of effort to practice, but as long as they feel the benefits of practicing martial arts, And happiness, then their inner impetuosity will disappear sooner or later.
The elixir plays a role of a catalyst in this. The elixir greatly shortens the progress of people's cultivation, especially the fact that the elixir can directly make people feel the sense of qi, which is even more attractive.
Maybe just a pill can't make people truly cultivate true qi, but it can make people feel the existence of qi, the movement of true qi in the meridians, and the enhancement of physical fitness to varying degrees. With these things, the passion for cultivation in this person's heart is stimulated.
Every time you practice, you can feel the true energy in your body. After every practice, you will find that the true energy in your body is constantly increasing. After every practice, you can feel that your strength is getting stronger and stronger. After practicing, one can feel that one's physical fitness is getting stronger... With such countless benefits, as long as he is a normal person, he will be deeply attracted by martial arts.
Facts have also proved that Zhao Chaogang's method is very effective. Looking at the 20 quasi-martial artists and martial artists in the martial arts secret realm, you can know how effective the method Zhao Chaogang came up with is.
Under normal circumstances, it is simply impossible to train 20 quasi warriors and warriors in just over a year.
Zhao Chaogang clearly saw from Haotian Xiaolingtian's memory that it would take nearly two years for a warrior sect to give birth to a quasi-warrior. Of course, the time here is relative to ordinary people. Cultivation geniuses are not included here.
Comparing the hatchbacks, we can clearly see the importance of the elixir. If Zhao Chaogang hadn't produced so many elixirs, he would have cultivated 20 quasi-warriors and warriors.That is simply impossible.
With the continuous improvement of martial arts, the strength is getting stronger and stronger.For these prospective warriors, the impetuousness in the warriors' hearts has disappeared.In the same way, the clutter in their hearts disappeared, and it was very simple for them to calm down.
Warriors are constantly refining the spirit of these quasi-warriors and warriors, gradually cultivating these people into elites among the social elites, and China's future is therefore brighter and brighter.
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Of course, with such a strong effect of the elixir, it is only natural that the price of the elixir is high.Generally, it takes three to four days for a quasi-warrior or warrior to buy a pill. Zhao Chaogang will not let these warriors buy the pill so easily.Because people will not cherish things that are easier to get, which is determined by human nature.
People often like to make such a common problem, the more they can't get something, the more they want to fight for it, and the easier it is to get, the less they cherish it!This sentence is most appropriate in love.
In life, why do we not cherish the things that are easy to get?What kind of psychology is this?
"I love him so much, why doesn't he care about me at all." "Why does he have to wait for me to turn around and leave every time before he comes to stay", "I gave her everything I have, why does she still fall in love with someone else"...
People who are emotionally hurt.Such sentiments are often expressed.In fact, not only the emotional world, but similar phenomena can be seen everywhere in our lives.
According to news reports a while ago, a man in the United States won a lottery of 2700 million gold.But he squandered it in 12 years, and finally his wife and children separated.Die penniless in solitude.
It seems that whether it is love, wealth, or even health.We all have the same question: Why do we not cherish what is easier to get?
There are four explanations for the answer to this question:
[-]. The act of "cherishing" lacks a reward and punishment mechanism
Behaviorist psychology believes that people's behaviors are learned and reinforced or weakened by reward and punishment mechanisms.
When we analyze "cherishing" as a behavior in a broad sense, we will find that for those who have not developed the behavior of "cherishing", what they think is: If I cherish you, it will not make me get more or more. Good; I don't cherish you, and I won't lose you because of it, that is to say, whether I cherish you or not will not be rewarded or punished, then I will think that there is no need to cherish you.
In other words, people always fail to learn to cherish, essentially because there is no connection between the behavior of "cherishing" and rewards.The easier it is to get something, the less likely it is to build a bonding mechanism.
Many men and women in relationships have noticed this, and their coping mechanism manifests itself in punishing each other with "coldness tactics" or "distance tactics" ("I won't answer the phone! Don't you care about me!").
But what needs to be pointed out here is that in love relationships, "cold tactics" should be used with caution.
Indifference tactics are actually a kind of negative punishment. The so-called negative punishment refers to the cancellation of certain benefits once the disgusting behavior occurs.
For example, a girl has three chapters with her boyfriend: If you dare to look at another girl, we will break up!
However, psychologists have proved through experiments that punishment is often not an optimal strategy, and repeated use of punishment strategies may lead to long-term negative effects.
In a study of 6002 families, children who received corporal punishment during adolescence were more likely to develop alcoholism, suicide, depression, and greater aggression as adults (“ Break up with Lao Tzu every day, share it!").
Therefore, psychologists recommend using positive-sexual-reinforcement as much as possible to change behavior.The so-called yang-sexual-enhancement refers to the increase of some kind of benefit once the expected behavior occurs.
For example, if he asks for leave to pick you up at the station, you take the initiative to ask him if he wants to have sex tonight.Seeing this, what else do you think of?
[-]. Compromise objects to vent
Freud-Roy-De believes that instincts (including sex-instinct, aggression-desire, etc.) are always looking for an outlet to vent, and this energy vent constitutes an internal drive, the purpose of which is to eliminate tension.
Happiness comes from the elimination of tension, and obstacles in reality and thought constitute resistance.The activities produced under the contest of internal driving force and resistance, we call it "compromising object venting".
for example.Love is sex—the product of a compromise between lust (drive) and moral restraint (resistance).
The implication of this is that compromising sexual object catharsis cannot remove all tensions (romantic love, for example, does not relieve all sexual-desire tensions).Then, the suppressed instinct will produce a lasting internal drive.
For example: people are aggressive.Obviously, boxing can satisfy the desire for aggression better than commercial competition, but there is less boxing among adults, and more commercial competition, because commercial competition is a compromise-sexual-venting object, which eliminates the desire for aggression. The level of tension is much lower than boxing, so the drive behind it is more persistent.
Usually, the less you can fully release your instinctive behavior, the more lasting power you can generate.
Speaking of this, we understand: the easier it is to get (low compromise).The more fully the tension is relieved, the weaker is the drive to cherish it.
[-]. Reacquisition costs
Ferye's theory seems too difficult to understand, so it couldn't be easier to explain it from the perspective of "acquisition cost".
In our hearts, there is a scale to measure the value of things, called "re-acquisition cost", that is, the cost of re-acquiring after losing.Things that are expensive to reacquire are classified as high value in our hearts; things that are cheap to reacquire are defined as low value.
If "cherishing" is regarded as a constant psychological resource, then high-value things will naturally be allocated more resources, so.The less costly it is to acquire again, the less likely it is to be cherished.
However, everyone's values are different, and their views on reacquisition costs are also very different.
For some people.It is extremely difficult to meet such a suitable him/her among thousands of people, so they work hard to cherish it; some people think.In the end, whoever you are with is destined by God, and I am lucky.Lost my life.
We can't judge that kind of person is right, but maybe we should learn to be careful enough in every relationship.
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"There was once a sincere love in front of me. I didn't cherish it. I regretted it when I lost it. There is nothing more painful in the world than this." The classic in "Da-Hua-West-Journey" The lines seem to have become a curse in the real world. We think we understand the truth, but we still repeat this kind of "remorse" time and time again. How to break the vicious circle of "how to cherish only when you lose" when your loved ones are gone, and how to be filial when you earn more and more?How can those who don't know how to cherish learn to cherish, and how can those who are not cherished change the situation?
Respond positively to his/her concern for you - According to reinforcement theory, if one party in a relationship always sticks his/her face to the cold ass of the other party, he/she will be unwilling to give over time.
So we must know how to respond positively to the other party, and you must know that your enthusiastic response is the best reward for him/her!In addition, when we complain that the other party does not care enough about us, do we always take the other party's many silent contributions for granted?
Pursue deep interests that are not easy to be satisfied - according to Fred-Lou-Y-De's point of view, the easier to satisfy the less likely to provide long-term motivation, if your goal is to earn enough 100 million, this happiness will follow you More money and less money.And if you pursue deeper things, such as love and growth, peace and freedom, or helping more people, this desire can only be approached forever, and cannot be fully satisfied.
Be a better version of yourself—whether he/she knows how to cherish you is not something you can decide. Only by always striving to become a better version of yourself is the undeniable truth.
Instead of using unsustainable indifference tactics, it is better to enhance the connotation, increase wisdom, and create an irreplaceable self, so as to use this uniqueness to increase your re-acquisition cost.
Just imagine, if you are always attractive like a treasure, everyone will cherish the time with you.
Life is like a glass of wine, you need to taste it carefully.Sometimes it is a bit bitter, but you have to continue to drink it; sometimes it is fascinating, but the taste has passed.Of course, love is indispensable in life, and it brings more than these tastes, ups and downs.Even mixed with an indescribable taste, perhaps because of it.Life will not lose its own meaning, nor will it lose the value of its existence.
If a person dies.If he changes his heart to someone else, does his life continue in another person?To love someone, what is it to love the other person?Is it his person, or his heart?Does that also extend love to another person?Love will not fade away because of the change of time and space, maybe it has made a lifetime of pain!
Love is selfish!People who love each other can often only see each other's mistakes, blame each other, and always hurt each other because of a small misunderstanding.
love.What is needed most is the trust of both parties!
People often rely on achievements to prove their own existence and value. Even if the achievements do not belong to themselves at all, they can still show off in front of others with confidence. Greed for vanity is always the fatal weakness of people.
If you are lucky enough to get rid of this weakness, and you cannot afford to be attacked by other people's gossip, maybe your self-esteem and inferiority complex are at play.
When love is faced with the challenge of family affection, people who fall in love will choose to give up family affection without hesitation. Although this kind of fearless spirit is amazing, who can estimate what has been lost?
In feudal society.The orders of parents cannot be violated, only the painful sacrifice of love; in modern society, since there is freedom of choice, the only poor ones are the parents in the world.Who can think of a way to have the best of both worlds?
Life can be dull and boring at times, which makes people feel very boring, but when it suddenly changes dramatically.Will let you know what to do, at this time.Only then will you truly realize that the truth is that life is mediocre!
The difference between humans and animals.People have feelings, thoughts, and the ability to control their emotions.However, it is also feelings that bother people the most. It can make your life rich and colorful, and it can also make your life dull.what is love?What is hate?If you think stubbornly and persist, everything will eventually turn into smoke.
Love is for men to protect women. In the eyes of men, women are the most vulnerable animals, and they need their strong arms and warm embraces.In this way, men are more confident and love women more.
Love begins with the madness of both men and women, but it tends to be dull with endless quarrels and suspicions.When love can no longer bear the willfulness of both parties, it is not far from breaking up.
We are walking on the long road of life, it is easy to lose our direction.
Some people can choose a path with a strong will to continue walking; some people linger in the same place and hesitate; .
Therefore, love needs to be cherished by both parties. Only in this way can love last forever!
There is a saying that is good, don't lose it to feel precious!
It is a common problem of all human beings to think that it is precious when it is lost. In other words, if you have not lost it, how would you know how important it is in your mind? If you have not lost it, how would you know Cherish it well so you don't regret it later.But someone also said that it was because I cherished it too much at the beginning, so I was more afraid of losing it.
Don't cherish what is easy to get, but try to keep it when you lose it.For example: family, friendship, love.The death of a loved one, the departure of a friend without saying goodbye, and the cruel departure of a lover are all things that we cannot undo.
The unobtainable is always the best, so people always deliberately pursue the things that can never be obtained, and often ignore the people around them who have been silently loving themselves. When they realize who is really worth cherishing, But the situation has changed, and the Sri Lankan has gone.
It is precious only when it is lost. This is the case in love!
If you are having true love, then don't break up easily, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it.The pain at that time is unforgettable! Only when you lose it do you know how to cherish it!
Facing our lover, we should treat it with a tolerant heart. No matter what happens, we should tolerate each other and think more about each other's good, so that the relationship between two people will last forever!
We always take what we have for granted, take it for granted, and think that it will never go away from us. Over time, we get used to enjoying, but forget to give and give, and forget that it also needs our own care and love.
Every relationship needs to be responded to. But I didn't realize that the happiness that has always been around me will go away one day.
Human beings always like to overestimate what they lack, but ignore the simple happiness around them, so too many people wait until they lose it before they know how to regret it, and then they know that it is always the best to cherish what they can't get.In fact, what you haven't found around you is the pursuit of your life.
If there is no gain, there is no loss. If there is no loss, then how can there be gain!
Because I have not really experienced it, I will lose it.Only after losing can we know how to cherish.
It is often the effect of people's hearts, and what they can't get is always considered the most beautiful.The more you get, the less you will care.At that time, sometimes you don’t know that the best is by your side.
Just like when you buy something and you don’t buy it, you keep it in your heart every day, and you want to get it. When your item belongs to you, you don’t care about it and don’t take care of it. I want us to cherish it In front of you, don't hurt the person you love the most for those things and people that are out of reach. Feel it with your heart.Take care of those around you and love them.
When I have it, I always take those happiness for granted, take it for granted, and think that it will never leave me. As time goes by, I am used to enjoying and accepting, but I forget to give and give.Forget that she also needs your care and love, and every relationship needs to be responded to.But he didn't realize that the happiness that has been around him will one day go away from him.
people.I always think that what I can't get is the best, but I don't realize the simple happiness around me, so too many people don't know how to cherish it until they lose it!
We always take what we have for granted, take it for granted, and think that it will never go away from us. Over time, we get used to enjoying, but forget to give and give, and forget that it also needs our own care and love.
Every relationship needs to be responded to. But they don't realize that the happiness that is always around will have far-reaching consequences. Humans always like to overestimate what they lack, but ignore the simple happiness around them, which causes Too many people don't know how to regret until they lose it, and then they know how to cherish it.
Hope is the most precious thing, people are like this, when you get it, you will relax or indifferent to him, and naturally you will not think so much about the result, everyone's psychology is like this no matter what Or something, when you lose it, you will definitely think about what you didn't do well or regret why you didn't cherish it at the beginning.
But the most important thing is that since you have lost it, you have to maintain your mentality and let him pass. See how you can handle the following questions.People often don't love and cherish when they have it.
Take everything for granted when you have it.Everything is as it should be, though.They are wrong, the fact is not like this, nothing is destined to be yours, once you get it, you should cherish it and take good care of it.
If you don't cherish and love, you will feel regret after losing it, and you will know that you are wrong. There is no medicine for regret in the world. If you lose it, it will be difficult to recover.
Therefore, people always feel that they should cherish something after they lose it, but there is no chance anymore.
So we should cherish it when we have it, so as not to regret it until we lose it, and it will be too late by then!Learning to reflect and comprehend may reduce some regrets.
Some things, we thought we would meet again tomorrow, but we really didn't know, he was just a flash in the pan.
Some people we thought we would definitely meet again, but we really didn't know that he might just be a passer-by in your life.
So no matter if it is a relationship or something, if you really want to have it, cherish it, cherish every day when she is here, and cherish what you have now.
If you can, please slow down your hasty pace and look at the scenery around you. Maybe there is also the scenery of life you are looking for. Sometimes, know how to let go because letting go is the way to have everything...
When cherishing, please love well, and when letting go, please give good blessings... No one can tell you about love, but one thing I can be sure of, because this is my personal experience, love can make you do for each other Whatever you say, whatever you say, love means giving unconditionally for the other person. Doing anything to love someone is precious, and time is ruthless.
Giving up is terrible, leaving is regretting, missing is lonely, walking is lonely, lover, can't lose love, can love last forever, in fact, love that lasts forever is in your heart, just like many people often ask whether there is in this world There is no true love, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you give sincerely.Persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice.True love happens to you, and eternal love is your love.
we know.Love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the return of love is the eternal joy and happiness of the other party. If you love the other party, then you will be happy because the other party is happy, and happy because the other party is happy.
Whether it is in the love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then the everlasting love is by your side, not because you have the everlasting love .But you create love that lasts forever, isn't it better to do something meaningful!
Even if you are alone, you will not be alone. The stars that cannot be picked are always the brightest; the movies that are missed are always the best; the lovers that are lost are always the most beloved.Why not cherish the present?Please don't hurt a person who loves you. Regarding love, don't think that there are better things in the future.Because what you have now is the best!
Don't give up because the distance is too far, love can take the train with you; don't give up because the other person is not rich, as long as you are not incompetent, hard work can make you rich; don't give up because of parents' opposition, you will find that because of this The love you give up for any reason will be the regret of your life!
In fact, the simpler the love, the better.It is best to only talk about love once in a lifetime!It will become numb after too much experience.
When you are tired, you slow down; when you are wrong, you think of regret; when you are bitter, you know how to be satisfied;Only then do you know how to be strong; only when you are drunk, do you know that you are unforgettable!
When your parents are by your side, selflessly dedicating for you.Have you ever cherished the affection that blood is thicker than water?When friends are by your side and sincerely encourage you.Have you ever thought about cherishing this hard-won friendship?
When the teacher is by your side, caring for you considerately.Do you cherish the kindness that is difficult to repay?I think, when you have these beautiful feelings, you always take them for granted, never know how to cherish them, and only when you lose them, you will understand how precious they are.
A prisoner locked in a cage, when he opens his eyes every day, is faced with pale walls, unable to see the sunrise or sunset.He repented of his mistakes all the time, scolded himself for his faults, and of course it was more his nostalgia for his relatives and yearning for freedom.
Although he has realized his mistake now, it is already too late. As the saying goes, "time is gone and will never return", God can't give him a chance to be born again, let him start all over again.When he has the care of his parents and the encouragement of his friends, why does he not know how to cherish it, and he has to wait until he really loses it before he realizes his fault?
Many people don't know how to be satisfied when they have it, and they only want to get more, which hurts many people, which means that they lose a lot of people and a lot of sincere friendship. When they look back, they find that they are satisfied. At the same time as **, a lot has been lost.
It's like a sandbag with a hole in it. You want to fill the bag with all your heart, but you don't know that something has come out of the hole, and you still stupidly put things in it, and you still refuse to give up.
But what is the use of replenishing what has been lost?
When you see the scene of falling leaves in autumn, you can really feel the vitality of spring; when you see the desolation and depression in winter, you can really feel the prosperity of summer; Only when you gain success, you realize that you don't cherish it.
When you really get to the step of "black hair doesn't know how to study early, and Bai Shoufang regrets studying late", you will realize how stupid and stupid you were before.
Time is limited, and wasting time only brings infinite regret to oneself. There is no medicine for regret in the world, and there is no such thing as rejuvenation. Only by grasping the present and laying the foundation stone for future success will you not let yourself The road of life is full of regrets, so when we really have it, we must know how to cherish it, and don't wait until we lose it to realize our fault.
A misstep will cause eternal hatred, only by cherishing can we have a perfect life! (To be continued..)
ps: Note: Thank you fftbc and Xie Zhixiu for your support, thank you!
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Original God: Ningguang is still a little pitiful, I invested in her
Chapter 570 9 hours ago -
Genshin Impact: I really am not the reincarnation of a demon god!
Chapter 623 9 hours ago -
National destiny: 10,000 times the critical hit, I turned into a chart-topping maniac
Chapter 618 9 hours ago