son-in-law

Chapter 1175 Someone is actually spreading rumors about my divorce. This is the first and only talk about my personal life.

Today, a reader said in the book review area that they heard that I was divorced and came to care about me. I deleted such a boring book review, and only later found out that someone was spreading rumors elsewhere, and there were actually many people who believed it. Only then did I realize that I really did became some kind of public figure.

First of all, the marriage is fine - I don't actually want to talk to anyone about it in an accountable way, because I personally don't think any outsider is qualified to care about my private life, be it benevolent or malicious.But if I don't talk about this first, it seems that the follow-up speech can't be expanded, so this is the first and last time to talk about it.

In the past few years, I will try my best to talk frankly about my past and my understanding of life in my essays, but if you really read it, you may find that what I have always shared is after these real lives, Some summaries of life, I think these life experiences may be useful to some friends, so I will share them, but I will not share my life itself with people other than relatives and friends in the real world. There will be clear boundaries between them. exist.

In the process of constantly breaking my writing, especially after the influence of this year began to increase, some people would come to spread rumors for various reasons and spread their own despicableness arbitrarily. This is not an unimaginable thing, even, This is a kind of inferiority that I have been deeply aware of for a long time. I have no obligation or interest to pay attention to their lives.In these places where rumors are spread, there are also a kind of well-meaning book friends. They said, I used to think that banana life was very happy, but I got divorced. My illusion about love was shattered. I actually wanted to say to these book friends. some words.

In this pitiful human society, there is currently a despicable phenomenon called an idol. When it has gone through some assembly line operations to the present, it is almost a monster that combines the bad roots of the entire society.You see, people’s own lives are poor, so they pin their hopes for life on other people. You expect others to be handsome, handsome, knowledgeable, and sensible, and you expect them to sing, dance, film, and not get married, so some star-making The company presents some young people in their early 20s or even less than 20 years old to entrust your imagination, and at the same time exchange huge amounts of money, which is essentially a kind of destruction to people.Of course, people frivolously pin their imaginations on others. When this imagination cannot be pinned, people are keen to destroy others to gain a sense of superiority after dinner... And when this behavior begins to expand, people begin to use These imaginations are entrusted to doctors, lawyers, writers, and even scientists in the future. People think this is a wonderful thing, but please remember that no one can carry the sustenance of most people, just like Luo Xiang , just like Zhang Wenhong, when they face tens of thousands of people, no matter how gentle, courteous and frugal they are, while making thousands of people feel comfortable, there will also be thousands of people who want to show themselves by destroying them The presence.But regardless of the pros and cons, the lives of Luo Xiang and Zhang Wenhong are not for these bystanders.

The same is true in my life. I am a writer and I make a living by writing books. The only thing I can give and the only thing I am willing to give in exchange for money is my book-writing skills. Occasionally, I also share experiences and insights. I came to communicate with you, but I do not carry anyone's imagination of my life, I do not entrust anyone's love, or the sustenance of life efforts, everyone, please don't put your own life assumptions on anyone. , Everyone has to face their own life and go all out, and I only occasionally provide my own experience and summary for reference.

In the past few years before the country took various measures, for example, in 19, the national divorce data once exceeded 40.00%. For every five married couples, there will be two divorces. Faced with such a high data, people will still think about it. The divorce of each pair of stars is discussed a lot, as if visiting a social miracle that has never been seen before.

In my life, I have never seen a perfect person. Every friend has one kind of flaw. One of the more common flaws is that many people are keen to evaluate other people's lives on the Internet with the standard of saints. Just like in the past, everyone talked about other people's private affairs in the yard after a meal, but today, we make celebrities and public figures into consumables that carry our malice.

There are naturally good and bad things in my life, but it is gradually becoming difficult for me to talk about them. I am an ordinary person with ordinary marriage and life. If I want to show off, of course there are things I can show off. , but when the number of people who care about them gradually increases, various distortions will occur in the middle, and such distortions will not only damage my life, but also yours.And it is meaningless to rely on others to have a good life, a good love, or something else. The truth is that we always have to face it with trembling and handle every bump in life cautiously. , My wife and I have entered the seventh year of marriage. There have been run-ins and quarrels, and sometimes I feel comfortable, but even the most loving couple in the world will want to divorce hundreds of times, and we may be able to tremble. To the end, but that has nothing to do with you, you have to face your own life.And even if anyone can't go on one day, it's just some common social phenomenon.

If I were a so-called idol, I would create the illusion of my life and tell you how perfect and good I am, and at the same time I take your money through this scam, but it's a poor thing, life's Experience tells me that there will be no such perfection. This illusion of perfection itself is caused by the extreme distortion of a person. Fans obtain pleasure by destroying a person, and idols obtain wealth by destroying themselves.It may be an equivalent exchange, but I am not selling any of my personal self for everyone to expect or imagine.Please do your best to face your life.

This is the last time I talk about this matter. I will still record my own life in the future, but it must be a sharing after I have gained insight. I only guarantee the sincerity of this sharing.And if there are friends who are interested in my life or love, please respond with this article.And if one day I ran into the article and just sold it badly... Well, then please give me a little money, at that time, I'm probably very short of money... :-D
Don't depend on other people with your life, that's all cowardice, laziness, and despicableness that spawn twisted monsters.

(End of this chapter)