I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Chapter 50: Picking up rubbish with you is his unique way of being romantic
After singing a song,
The girl had hung up the phone long ago.

The boy was still online, but he had stopped crying.

"Brother, one-sided love can only move yourself. Giving love to the wrong person is just wishful thinking."

"Thank you, Military Advisor. I know what to do now."

The boy gave Lin Feng a Porsche and left.

Raymond Lam did not have too many emotions.

Because he has done everything he can.

leftover,
It depends on him.

Cheer up and continue the live broadcast.

Hey~
"Hello, Military Advisor!"

It's a girl.

Raymond Lam: "Hello, do you have any emotional doubts?"

"Military Advisor, I just want to ask, does one of the characteristics of the avoidant personality disorder mean that he will flirt with many people at the same time?"

Raymond Lam: "Sister, that's not called avoidant personality, that's called dog B."

Well. . .

"That means people with avoidant personality disorder won't necessarily have affairs with many people, right?"

Lin Feng smiled and said: "When we say avoidant personality, it means that when encountering problems, we have no ability to solve them, and we lack confidence. When encountering problems, we always avoid them, do not express them, and use cold violence to punish the other party. If we understand it literally, it is probably like this."

"But I've seen a lot of videos online that show people with avoidant personalities flirting with a lot of people. It's Aquaman."

Raymond Lam: "That's not called avoidant personality, that's called not loving you. A sister whose personality and character are not linked."

"Is that so? Then the boy I'm dating right now has an avoidant personality."

Lin Feng: “Tell me about it.”

"Take him and I for example. It's a sadomasochistic relationship. We've been together for a long time and have broken up and gotten back together twice, but we just can't let go of each other."

Lin Feng: "Come on, tell me how long this pull will last?"

"Half a year."

Raymond Lam: "Are you sure you are in a relationship?"

"It was confirmed both times, and he was the one who broke up in the end."

Raymond Lam: "What were the reasons for the two breakups?"

"For example, one time, I posted a photo on my Moments showing me having dinner with a friend. He saw a hand in the photo that showed me wearing a men's watch, so he insisted that I was having dinner with a boy. He got very angry and deleted me."

Lin Feng: "Are there many similar situations?"

"A lot. When I went out to change into new clothes, he would ask who I was dating. When I was on the bus, he said a boy peeked at me, and he got angry with me. He also said I smiled at him."

Lin Feng: "From your description just now, this boy obviously has a desire to control you in the relationship, and has a strong possessiveness.

Then some of your actions make him feel dangerous and distrustful.

That's why I broke up with you.

He was an emotional presence.”

Raymond Lam: "I guess that every time they break up, they will take the initiative to find you and pester you after a while."

"Yes, he's got me now."

Raymond Lam: "Then this is not called avoidant personality, it's called paranoid personality disorder!"

"What do you mean?"

Raymond Lam: "To put it simply, it means being immature, sensitive, suspicious, and having changing emotions."

"But he said he cared too much about me."

Lin Feng: "What do you think?"

"probably."

Lin Feng spread his hands and said, "Sister, since you think so, then the military advisor will give you some advice."

"What trick?"

Lin Feng: "Isn't he sensitive, suspicious and insecure? Then you should give him a sense of security. Don't dress up when you go out in the future. Wash your hair less often. Your greasy, tattered clothes are shabby and people will vomit at the sight of you.

Don't smile at everyone you see, especially the opposite sex. If someone dares to talk to you, you cry. You say don't talk to me because you're afraid my partner will be worried.

If it really doesn't work, you can pack up and go live in a nunnery.

Remember, sister, picking up rags with you is his unique way of being romantic. "

Well.....

.........

On the barrage.

"Picking up rags with you is his unique way of being romantic"

Hahahahaha.

Fei Er: "My ex was also very suspicious and always wanted to control me. He wouldn't let me do manicures or wear skirts. I asked him not to shave and to wear only black from head to toe, but I couldn't stand it and left."

Tangtang: "It's so funny, absolutely amazing."

Fei'er: "He can't do it himself, why should he care about my dressing!" Xiao Wan: "Sisters, please be clear-headed!"

.........

Raymond Lam: "Paranoid personality disorder, extremely controlling, you said he broke up with you twice?"

"Correct!"

Raymond Lam: "So when I came back to see you this time, did you say we'd get back together?"

"No, he said he just wanted to be alone for the time being, but he kept flirting with me."

Confirmed.

This person not only has a personality disorder, but also has poor character.

Lin Feng: "Sister, you are his choice after he has no other choice."

"That's not right. There doesn't seem to be any other girls around him."

Lin Feng: "That's why he keeps chasing you around."

"But that's not right. He has good conditions and a good family background."

Raymond Lam: "It has nothing to do with these. The key point is that he hasn't met a better girl at the moment."

"He is looking for you now because he is enjoying the special value you provide him. You can think of this value as physical and emotional."

Girl: "But he doesn't want to talk about relationships. He gets angry when his parents ask him to go on blind dates."

Raymond Lam: "That's what he told you."

I also said that I have never been in love, do you believe it?
Well....

Raymond Lam: "Of course, it is possible that he really rejects blind dates, but that does not mean he has aversion to the opposite sex."

The girl was silent.

.........

On the barrage.

Xiaoyi: "My ex was like this, he didn't love me but he didn't let me go. I forced myself to let it go."

Xiao Wan: "Such people only love themselves."

Citron: "He just called me and said he would come see me tomorrow, and I told him to get lost."

Hahahaha.

.........

The girl was silent for a while and then said, "I want to torture him."

Raymond Lam: "It's very simple. Delete him, make him feel bad, and make him confused."

"But...I quite like him."

Lin Feng clapped his hands: "Beautiful! A match made in heaven.

Well....

"Maybe, I'm the kind of person who finds it very difficult to get out once I get stuck in it."

Raymond Lam: "Answer me a question. Who was the one who initiated your breakup twice?"

"he!"

Lin Feng laughed: "So you still abuse him? You abused his ass."

"Both breakups were initiated by others. He was the only one who could abuse you, but you couldn't abuse his sister.

They've dumped you twice, and this time they didn't even give you an identity, you don't qualify."

"Then how am I supposed to get along with him in the future?"

Lin Feng was speechless.

"What the hell!"

"You are not his girlfriend. You have no identity now, so what are you still doing?"

The woman said aggrievedly: "Actually, I really wanted to forget him some time ago, so I deleted him and went on a blind date.

But he found out, added it back, and came to me again."

Lin Feng knocked on the small blackboard.

Write down seven words.

"Occupying the toilet without taking a shit"

Then he said: "Do you know what possessive psychology is?"

"Even if I don't have a new partner, I can't ask you to have a new partner.

Just like a child playing with a toy, I am tired of playing with this toy and I don’t want to play with it anymore.
Then other kids came to visit my house and played with the toys I threw under the bed.

Even if I don’t like the toy anymore, or even if it’s covered in dirt, I’ll get angry if someone touches it.

It was even more impossible for him to take it away.

This is the psychology of possession.

And you are that toy now, understand?
He doesn't treat you as a girlfriend, or even as a person, but just as one of his personal belongings."

(End of this chapter)