I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Chapter 54: A quick marriage means a quick divorce
“As soon as we got our marriage certificate, he was transferred to work at the Kyoto headquarters, and a week later he went home and told her mother and grandmother about our marriage certificate.

Their reactions were particularly explosive, saying that they had committed a sin in their previous life and gave birth to such a son.

Because he had been spoiled since he was a child and had never experienced these things, he immediately turned to his family. "

Lin Feng: "Nonsense, who the hell has experienced this since childhood?"

Just call a mama's boy a mama's boy.

Pull these calves.

Well. . .

.........

Little Danny: "My partner is a mama's boy, but I'm not afraid. I can beat a bunch of people in his family by myself."

Yanyan: "Awesome, sister, please make a tutorial."

Yaoyao: "Please teach me!"

Danny Jr.: "Defeat magic with magic."

What do you mean?
He is a mama's boy, but I am a mama's girl.

what?
Hehehe, actually I’m not only a mama’s girl, I’m also a daddy’s girl.

What the hell!

Double BUFF superposition!

No wonder.

Hahahahaha.

.........

"Anyway... he barely contacted me after that. He just used the cold shoulder and didn't even communicate with me.

Then I was very anxious, and I thought, this is what happened,
A week later, he came back from Kyoto and met me.
Then all WeChat messages on the mobile phone are rejected.

I went to the company to find him and asked him why he was hiding and why he didn't dare to face me.

If you want a divorce, just say it openly. I won't pester you.

He was just arguing, saying I didn’t, I didn’t want a divorce.”

Wait until the girl finishes speaking.
Lin Feng then said, "Regarding the matter of dividing the house after marriage, I will not repeat it. You can go to their unit and ask about it after it is over.

What I am going to say next is only about your emotional problems.
Sisters, listen carefully.

You and your family are largely responsible for this situation."

? ? ? ?
The girl had a puzzled look on her face, because she was clearly the victim.

Then I heard Lin Feng say: "This kind of man is really disgusting, but sister, you are a solo from birth, because you have never been in a relationship, so you don't know what love should be like in a relationship? What is it like to be in a normal relationship with a boy?
So you skipped the dating part and went straight to weighing the pros and cons.

You think the man has a good family background and a good job..."

The girl was about to retort when Lin Feng picked up the small blackboard on the table and tapped it, saying, “These are all what I recorded from your description just now.”

Everyone looked at the small blackboard, and saw the following words marked on it with a marker: "The leaders like him very much", "Promising career", "Kyoto headquarters", "Allocated housing", "Finding a job for the spouse"...
"This is all the information I heard about the man from your description. The trade-off in interests is obvious."

"In a relationship, I didn't hear any point about whether the man is good to you, whether the values ​​are compatible with yours, or whether you have the same hobbies. It's all about his work, income, and house."

"So sister, now you know where the problem lies, right?"

"The problem is that in this relationship, all you weighed were family circumstances and interests.

But there is only one thing that is overlooked, and that is the temperature of emotion.

Sister, do you know what my biggest feeling is after hearing what you just said?

All of your romantic relationships and each other's families make me feel that you are feudal people.

Very old.

You have only been dating for two months and you have already met his parents. When the man says he wants to marry you, he is not marrying you, sister. He is marrying a good wife and mother.

This person can be you or someone else.

Where will this lead?

As a result, after you get married, you realize that marriage is not over just by getting a certificate.

It also requires management, maintenance, and taking care of the other person's emotions and efforts.

This is where the problem comes in.

The man's family has a sense of superiority and looks down on you. They think you should serve his family and his marriage.
And you obviously didn't meet their requirements. At this time, he gave up.

All the problems are because you have not established an emotional foundation or a sufficient understanding with this person.

This is due to a lack of understanding of the person's character, personality, and world outlook.

Remember one thing, a quick marriage means a quick divorce.

You are not marrying for love, you are marrying for material things."

.........

On the barrage.

"Flash Marriage Means Flash Divorce"

The military advisor is absolutely right.

Many of my friends who got married quickly have ended up getting divorced.

Liuliumei: "The military advisor hit the nail on the head: he married a good wife and mother. He married a certain type of person, not you."

In the rain: "Girls are too stupid. All signs indicate that it is not suitable."

Hongxiu: "My ideas are old, my horizons are narrow, and I am anxious because of my age."

Same thing: "What do you mean by too stupid? Didn't you see the military advisor's blackboard?"

Youyou: "Yes, she is not stupid, she is just greedy."

Bunny: "Weigh the pros and cons."

Yaoyao: "What did she weigh? She was just given a big pie in the sky."

Hahahahaha.

Footprints: "The girl's parents didn't keep a close eye on her and made a mistake."

Oh my: "Don't even mention her parents. Even as an outsider, I feel anxious just listening to them. The elders over there are like this, and they still dare to marry their daughter there."

Hexi: "The woman's family was betting that if they forcefully obtained the marriage certificate, the man's family would compromise. In the end, they lost the bet. They didn't expect the man's family to be so cruel."

Night Tour: "The old man is helpless too. It's the man's fault for acting affectionate. If it were my daughter, I wouldn't be able to break up the couple!"

Ugh,
It’s really hard to review!

Backpacker: "My words are rude. I'm leaving now."

Lost: "Let's go after we finish talking."

Stranger: "People can leave, but they can leave their words behind."

Hahahahaha.

.........

The girl was silent, and a faint sobbing sound could be heard.

Lin Feng sighed and said, "Emotional analysis can only help you here. Whether this marriage can continue depends on whether you two have the determination and courage to go on together.

If you want to withdraw in time, it is recommended that you consult a professional divorce lawyer. "

"Thank you, Military Advisor. I understand."

The girl hung up the microphone and left the room.

"@军师, I think your statement that a quick marriage means a quick divorce is a bit extreme. My best friend and her husband had a quick marriage and have been together for two years, and their relationship is still going strong."

Lin Feng smiled and said, "Then congratulations to your bestie for marrying for love."

"But I hope the family members will remember that not everyone is so lucky."

Because when two people first meet, they will only show their best side.
This is human nature,
It can also be understood as the behavior of a peacock spreading its tail.

But once you are really together, your shortcomings will be exposed.

Even those advantages are partly disguised.

At this time, whether you can tolerate each other's shortcomings is the only criterion for testing love.

In fact,
A lot of people,
They all fell at this step.

Don't think too highly of yourself.

Because people’s tolerance and patience are limited.”

(End of this chapter)