I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Chapter 74: Buddy, You Deserve Not to Find Love

I interacted with the water friends for a while.

The live broadcast continues.

Hey~
"Hello, military advisor."

There is a boy opposite.

Raymond Lam: "Hello buddy, do you have any emotional problems?"

"Military Advisor, I'm just confused now. I don't know how to start my next relationship?"

Raymond Lam: "Then let's go on a blind date."

"But I've been on many blind dates, and I always followed the military advisor's formula, but I still can't get along."

???

Lin Feng was confused: "My formula?"

"It means getting to know someone first, then chatting, then reaching the same frequency resonance, then meeting, establishing an intimate relationship between the two of you, and finally the ultimate ambiguous behavior."

After listening to it, Raymond Lam smiled and said, "Brother, that's not my formula, that's a normal person's love process."

"But even if I follow this process to talk, it won't work."

Raymond Lam: "Brother, this is just a relationship process. It doesn't mean that you will get results just by following the instructions. If there is a problem in any link, it means that the person is not right. Just change someone and continue."

"So if it's a blind date, can we follow this formula?"

Lin Feng nodded: "Okay. Blind date is just skipping the first step of 'getting to know'."

"But I followed this formula and it still didn't work."

Raymond Lam: “Brother, it’s like this, because in today’s society, many people don’t have the patience to date you.

They just want to be a good match with you, and if all conditions are satisfactory, then they can just do the deal and match you up directly.

Therefore, when you go on a blind date with this kind of people, there is less emotional connection.

But just because some people make this choice doesn’t mean you have to make the same choice.

Again,
If the person is not the right one, let’s just change someone else and continue.

Change until you are satisfied!"

.........

On the barrage.

Gouzi: "Brothers, blind dates are so difficult. Before the blind date, you are so proud of yourself, but after the blind date, you doubt yourself, your worldview is shattered, and you even doubt your life."

Ahao: "Indeed, those who have never been on a blind date have no idea how realistic those girls are."

Grouper: "I was lucky enough to meet him a few times, but later I became a monk. Anyway, he always said that I was useless."

San Ge: "You talk to her about feelings, she talks to you about material things. When you start talking about material things, she asks you about your feelings. I created a term 'triple standards', which means more than double standards."

Stranger: "So Miss is still the best. It doesn't matter about fate, it's just about 'Yuan'"

Hahahaha.

Slowpoke: "30, unmarried, parents not around, with a dog, any chances, family?"

Listen to my brother's advice and just live alone.

Hahahaha.

Mr. Cube: "35, PhD, working in a state-owned enterprise, owns a house and a car in Shanghai, looking for a girl under 30."

I'm being conservative, buddy. I wouldn't say a word if I were over 25.

My vision is small. I would first find someone who is 16 years old, date for two years, get married at 18, and get the marriage certificate at 20.

What the hell!

Awesome.

Xiao Ju: "What do you say if you like Hongniang?"

If you just take the pot, what will your brothers eat?
Go line up behind!
Hahahaha.

.........

Boy: "Brother, I'm just an ordinary person."

Raymond Lam: "So you have to think clearly about what kind of marriage you want? Is it a marriage of equal status or a marriage of love based on affection?"

"I don't know either. I'm confused now, but I want love again."

Lin Feng: "Then let's meet, we still have to meet people, brother."

"But I'm too ordinary, I can't meet that."

Raymond Lam: "Then improve your charm. Think about it, you are not lucky enough, and you can't make girls fall in love with you at first sight. So think of ways to improve yourself first, be excellent first, and then be generous with it."

"For example." Lin Feng: "The easiest way is to increase your income first. For example, my current salary is 8000 yuan a month, and I will work hard to increase it to yuan. After it reaches yuan, I will accumulate more money in one to two years and buy a car."

"Brother, I may not be able to do what you said, because most people in this world are ordinary people, and not all efforts can succeed."

.........

On the barrage.

“Without background, opportunities, or help from noble people, it is very difficult for ordinary people to succeed.”

“It’s not that it’s hard to succeed, it’s that it’s impossible to succeed.”

"Rich people make money, and money makes money, while poor people work hard."

“Small wealth depends on hard work, great wealth depends on fate.”

"Some things, if you are born without them, you can forget about them for the rest of your life."

.........

The boy's words resonated with the netizens.

Lin Feng smiled and shook his head: "Brother, what do you say is success? Selling steamed buns at the doorstep, the couple earns 20 a year, is that considered success?"

"Besides, no one can guarantee your success. Isn't it good for an ordinary person to talk to an ordinary person?"

Boy: "But girls are too realistic. It's hard to find an ordinary girl!"

Lin Feng: "Dude, reality is something we can't change, but it's also a bug. Since girls actually demand this, your goal is very clear and simple. Improve your abilities towards that goal."

"What if you can't improve it?"

Lin Feng: "Then let's be backward compatible. Brother, just set your goals lower, don't let your desires exceed your abilities."

"But I don't have any desire, brother. Let me put it this way. What I want to ask is how can we, the guys who lie flat, fall in love?"

Lin Feng was amused: "Brother, if you had said you were going to lie down earlier, why would I be talking to you about this? If you are going to lie down, why don't you just find someone who is going to lie down? I told you before, don't be too greedy."

“I can’t find it either.”

Lin Feng was speechless: "Brother, you said you are too ordinary, I will teach you how to improve your charm.

You said you didn't want to advance, you just wanted to lie down.

Then I will teach you how to find someone similar to yourself.

You said no.

Then I will teach you how to be backward compatible and be more humble, but you will be unhappy again.

Buddy, you deserve to never find love! "

Well....

Boy: "Brother, not everyone is excellent. I am an ordinary worker, belonging to the ordinary worker class."

Lin Feng: "Then tell me if you can save. Let's spend less on a regular basis. Three hundred, five hundred, one thousand or two thousand is also a goal.

Just lie down with this thing on, what do you want me to say to you?

Man, do you think I'm awesome? "

Boy: “You’re awesome.”

Raymond Lam: "My current success is also earned through hard work. Do you think I do live streaming for fun? A week ago, I couldn't even pay the rent.

My hometown is in a coal mine. My father is a coal miner. He works the night shift every day to dig coal and earns only a few thousand yuan a month.

My mother made dumplings for people at a dumpling shop, and her hands and feet were cracked in the winter.

There used to be more than 1000 households working in the mine, but now that the coal in the mine has been mined out, everyone has left.

why,
Because everyone went to the city to work,
Those who stay in the village are lying flat. That is your own choice. You don’t work hard, so you deserve it.”

.........

On the barrage.

This guy is really good!

This is the first time I’ve seen a military advisor so angry.

Mr. Xu: "He also said that he is confused. I don't think he is confused at all. He thinks making money is too tiring, being on the same level is too realistic, being demoted is too ordinary, saving money is too hard, and not changing is unfair. He is making a fuss."

Xiao Wan: "You don't want to work hard, but you want everything to be perfect. How can it be that easy?"

Yaoyao: "The military advisor said that you don't have to work hard, but you have to lower your desires!"

Xiao He Liu: "To put it bluntly, this guy wants to find a girlfriend who is backwards compatible with him."

What the hell!

The summary is very accurate.

(End of this chapter)