I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Chapter 84 If you don't solve the problem, you're solving you
Girl: “Maybe he is really busy?”

Lin Feng: "Sister, you have seen how he loves you."

If you don't understand, think about the past.

When he first started loving you, he would send you a message while waiting for a red light.
I will also send you food.
I will also share the happy and sad things that happened today.

Whatever he does, he will tell you.

Later, after a long time,

You asked him to turn all the messages he sent after the party into reports, and in the end he even told you that he didn't want to report anymore and wanted to have his own private space.

But he forgot,

No one asked him to do it at the beginning, it was all his initiative.

So if you don’t love me anymore, then you don’t love me anymore.”

.........

On the barrage.

Dai Mei: "I remember a sentence. I tried to empathize with you from your perspective, but the more I thought about you, the sadder I became. There are so many ways to solve the problem."

Xiao Wan: "It hurts, but it's the truth. Many of the deep affections you think you have are endless annoyances to others."

Yaoyao: "Indeed, love and not love are really obvious. It's just that when you love him, you put glasses on him."

Tangtang: "Obviously, my love was too great and he forgot to look in the mirror."

puff~
Ah hahahaha.

.........

After hanging up the microphone, Raymond Lam said to the live studio: "Everyone remember: cold violence means not being afraid of losing. Not solving the problem is solving you. Those who don't give a positive answer are all rejections.

This formula,

Regardless of boyfriend,

Please take your seats!"

.........

On the barrage.

"If you don't solve the problem, you're solving you"

Man Man: "Military Advisor, what you said is very good."

Maru: "I've been treated coldly, what should I do?"

Just block them directly.

Run quickly.

According to the rules of society, if there is no contact within three days, you can break up immediately.

"Already married?"

Do you want to have a wedding banquet when you get divorced? I'll give my share.

Well....

Xiao He Liu: "Actually, I think that when you encounter cold violence, you have to understand him, become him, and finally surpass him."

what?
Hahahahaha.

Little Hugo: "It's over. I'm the one who perpetrated the cold violence. What should I do?"

+1
+1
+10086
.........

Lin Feng knocked on the blackboard in the live broadcast room and said: "Everyone may not understand what cold violence is. The essence of cold violence is not caring about your emotions and being indifferent to your needs.

Sometimes, some people choose to take the cold approach when a quarrel occurs. This is not necessarily cold violence, but may be a cooling-off period.

What is the nature of the cooling-off period?
It is to better solve the problem and give yourself time to digest your emotions and adjust your state.

Anyway,

If the problem can be solved after calming down, it is called a cooling-off period.

But if being calm doesn’t solve the problem, that’s called cold violence.”

.........

Great.

It turns out that I am not cold and violent!

Paper Windmill: "I am a girl in the cooling-off period. It's not that I have to go into a cold war, but I need time to deal with my own emotions."

Luo Ye: "I understand you. It's a bit like archiving. It temporarily seals the contradictions and then does what needs to be done."

Oh my god,

Found a soulmate.

Seconded +1
+1
+1
"Being calm doesn't mean not communicating, so don't block us."

Let's put this aside.
I'll have a Hongtashan cigarette first to calm down. Hahahaha.

.........

All right,

That’s all for this topic.

Let’s continue the connection.

Hey~
"Hello, Military Advisor"

It's a girl.

Raymond Lam: "Hello, do you have any emotional problems?"

"Military Advisor, I'm not having an emotional problem."

Lin Feng was a little curious: "So what's the problem?"

Girl: "I am married and have a two-year-old daughter. My husband and I live a happy life, but there is always a shadow in my heart."

Lin Feng: “Tell me about it!”

"It's just... I was molested when I was a kid."

? ?
? ? ? ?
Lin Feng was stunned.

The viewers in the live broadcast room were also stunned.

Beast!
Lin Feng gritted his teeth, feeling filled with anger.

…………

On the barrage.

Oh shit.

What a beast!
Ah Du: "Family members, those with children must be careful not to let girls live with relatives or friends, especially cousins."

"I experienced it myself. When I was a kid, I was bullied by my cousin. But I was so young that I didn't understand. Later, when I understood, I didn't dare to say anything."

"I've experienced this, but I haven't told anyone about it."

"I was...by my stepfather..."

"I thought it was my own secret, but it turned out to be the secret of many girls, wuwuwuwu."

"I typed a lot of words and deleted them, forget it."

"It's really, alas, sad and horrible."

No one would have thought that there would be so many girls with the same experience in one live broadcast room.

Xiao Heliu said: "I have read many similar reports. Relatives are really the hardest hit area. Many of the crimes are committed by acquaintances."

…………

Raymond Lam: "So no one knows about this?"

The girl nodded: "I have kept this secret in my heart for more than 20 years. It was only yesterday that I suddenly watched your live broadcast and felt that you have a positive outlook and are really giving us advice, so I wanted to tell you my secret, hoping that the military advisor can help me with some advice."

For a moment, Lin Feng's heart seemed to be hit hard.

This sentence is too heavy.

Lin Feng was so stressed that he was speechless.

I could only nod heavily and signal the girl to speak.

Girl: “As I grew older, I became more and more miserable. I couldn’t understand why my father treated me like that, so I went to a faraway place for college.

But I have a younger brother at home and I have a very good relationship with him. I couldn’t bear to break up with him, so after graduation I returned to my hometown to find a job.

At that time, I met my husband, and we worked hard together, and bought a house in the city and settled down.

Everything was fine until last month.

My mother was not feeling well, so she came here to see a doctor. When she came, my father followed her. ”

Lin Feng: "Does that mean both of them are living in your house now?"

"Yes, now when I see him, I think of that childhood incident and I feel really hateful in my heart, but I can't show it on the surface because my mother doesn't know."

Lin Feng knocked on the blackboard to interrupt the girl.

He hesitated for a moment, as if he was organizing his words.

Then he asked, "Are you sure your mother really doesn't know?"

The girl suddenly fell silent.

Lin Feng sighed and said, "Sister, first of all, thank you for trusting me so much and revealing your most painful scar in my live broadcast room. The advice I can give you is just two words."

Break off relationship!

(End of this chapter)