male god growth system
Chapter 45 Please be yourself and stop Versailles again!
Chapter 45 Please be yourself and stop Versailles again!
When Wang Jun returned home, her head was still in a daze.
After entering the door, he sat down on the sofa, thinking about the opening of the store with dull eyes, and didn't even hear Zou Weiwei's greeting.
Zou Weiwei didn't pay attention to herself after seeing Wang Jun enter the door, and sat on the sofa with dull eyes, looking devastated.
My heart skipped a beat, it's broken!Wang Jun's performance...couldn't it be lovelorn?
So he said cautiously:
"Junjun... are you okay?"
However, Wang Jun was thinking about opening a store now, and didn't hear what Zou Weiwei said at all, but subconsciously replied, "I'm fine."
Seeing Wang Jun's reaction, Zou Weiwei was even more sure that Wang Jun was broken in love, otherwise why would she look like this!
After thinking about it, Zou Weiwei went back to the room and took out a dozen comic books and a small bag of snacks, put them on the coffee table, embraced Wang Jun and said:
"Here... for you."
"????"
Wang Jun also came back to her senses at this time, and turned her head to look at Zou Weiwei with a question mark on her face.
She didn't understand why Zou Weiwei took out her collection of comics and snacks for herself. Could it be that she fell ill?
But well, doubts are doubts, now the snacks, who cares why, let's talk about it after getting it, let's understand the nature of foodies?
Opening a pack of snacks, grabbing a piece and putting it in his mouth, Wang Junmei's eyebrows and eyes were bent.
After eating several yuan in a row, Wang Jun looked at Zou Weiwei carefully and asked:
"That... Weiwei, although I am very grateful to you for giving me snacks and comics... I also like it very much, but... But why did you give it to me all of a sudden..."
Zou Weiwei looked at the cute little girl with crooked eyebrows, and didn't think about anything else, she just sighed secretly, foodie is so coaxing...Look at it, she was just out of her wits just now, and she immediately changed like this after giving her something to eat .
But I still have to comfort her. Seeing that she just lost her mind, she just had something to eat and temporarily diverted her attention. After she finished eating, she must be sad when she thinks about it.
It's just that, I have to take it slow first, and wait until she finishes eating.
So Zou Weiwei said:
"It's okay, don't you like to eat, I'll give you all these, eat slowly, and then go buy after eating..."
After finishing speaking, Zou Weiwei looked at Wang Jun with pity, resenting a certain "scumbag" surnamed Wei in her heart.
Look, what a cute little face, how could this scumbag have the heart to hurt such a cute little face?Really not human, bah!
And Wang Jun was almost moved to tears, look at what a good girlfriend!While stuffing snacks into his mouth, he faltered and looked at Zou Weiwei:
"Oh... Weiwei, you are so kind..."
Zou Weiwei felt as if she had transformed into the Virgin Mary at this moment, exuding a strong maternal brilliance, looking at Wang Jun lovingly, and stroking her little head!
After a while, when Wang Jun had almost eaten, Zou Weiwei held Wang Jun's shoulder and said softly:
"Junjun, let me tell you, you are so cute, you don't know how popular you are! Wei...cough cough...he is blind if he gives up on you! You don't deserve to be sad for someone like him, we Don’t be sad, my sister will introduce you a boy who is a hundred times better than him in the future, let’s slap him in the face! Let him be ashamed to the point of embarrassment!”
"???"
Wang Jun was stunned. This... She understood the meaning of every word Zou Weiwei said, but why couldn't she understand it all together?
"Ah? When did he give up on me... Why didn't I know... What are you talking about, Weiwei?"
Zou Weiwei, who was planning to take Wang Jun out for a walk, was also stunned...
"Ah...ah? You mean...you didn't break up?"
Wang Jun: "???"
"No... Weiwei, where did you hear that I broke up... We are doing well, he sent me home just now..."
Zou Weiwei felt a little confused in her mind, "But...but..."
"But I see that you didn't pay attention to me when you came home... After you came home, you looked like a lost soul. You sat on the sofa and didn't say a word. When you talked to you, you just replied that you were fine... Then I will Think…"
Wang Jun scratched her head, so it was because of this...
When she came home, she was thinking about opening a shop... who knew that Zou Weiwei would have misunderstood, this matter was so...
Seeing Wang Jun like this, Zou Weiwei also understood that Wang Jun was probably thinking about other things at that time, so she didn't care about herself...
But, I don't know what made Wang Jun think so seriously. Zou Weiwei also became curious, so she asked Wang Jun:
"Then I don't know, so what are you thinking about, you can think of such a lost soul..."
Hearing Zou Weiwei's question, Wang Jun glanced at his best friend hesitantly, not knowing whether he should tell her, not because she was afraid that she would know, but mainly... If she told Zou Weiwei about this, she would think she was showing off...
Seeing Wang Jun's hesitant look, Zou Weiwei thought to herself, is this something important and it's not convenient to tell herself?
Then he said with some embarrassment: "If it's not convenient for you to say it, just pretend that I didn't ask..."
Wang Jun shook her head,
"It's not inconvenient to say, it's what I told you, lest you think I'm showing off to you..."
"Huh? How could I think so? It's okay, you just say it. Who am I, Zou Weiwei? I haven't seen anything. You can tell me anything! I don't even blink!"
Seeing Zou Weiwei like this, Wang Jun thought to herself, if this is the case, then tell her, as it can be used as a reference for herself.
So he said to Zou Weiwei:
"Today Wei Fan went to pick me up from get off work..."
As soon as I started talking, I saw Zou Weiwei opened a bag of melon seeds, grabbed a handful, kowtowed while looking at her expectantly.
Wang Jun: "..."
Wang Jun was a little speechless by Zou Weiwei's style, took a deep breath, and then continued:
"It's because he's going to Rongcheng to go to university in a while..."
"Ang, tui...I know this, and then..."
Wang Jun just said a few words and was interrupted by Zou Weiwei. Now Wang Jun is not used to her, raised her hand and patted Zou Weiwei's tall part, raised her voice and said:
"Snapped!"
"Don't interrupt, just listen to me slowly!"
Now Zou Weiwei is being honest, she rubbed the aching part of the camera and said:
"All right, all right, I won't interrupt, you say you say..."
Wang Jun gave her a blank look, and then continued:
"It's because Wei Fan is going to Rongcheng to go to college soon, and then..."
Then Wang Jun told Zou Weiwei all the ins and outs of the matter, and explained the reasons for her troubles:
"Although it is true that my dream is to open a cat experience hall, I always feel that it is not good to spend his money all the time, and..."
Speaking of this, Wang Jun blushed a little, and said a little awkwardly: "And...and we are not married yet, so what's the matter with spending his money to open a shop..."
"But he looks very resolute. I... I've been struggling with whether I should accept it or not. That's why I look like that. Weiwei, do you think I should accept Wei Fan's kindness?"
After talking about her troubles, Wang Jun felt relaxed, and then turned her head to look at Zou Weiwei expectantly.
Zou Weiwei: "..."
Looking at Wang Jun's big watery eyes, Zou Weiwei was hesitant to speak several times, but then she wanted to...
No, you... are you sure you're not in Versailles?
Zou Weiwei doesn't know what to say anymore, just take a look at what she said, about my boyfriend decided to help me open a store to realize my dream after hearing about my dream, and about letting me be the boss directly because I don't want to go to work.
And you are still struggling to accept it!What are you talking about?
Zou Weiwei felt that her heart had been stabbed severely, she covered the bleeding wound and said to Wang Jun:
"Wang Jun, please be a human being! You are in Versailles! People who know you know that you are complaining to me, but people who don't know think you are showing off! Are you still hesitating? Boyfriend, if you don't want it, please give him to me!"
Wang Jun spread her hands helplessly, "Look, I just said it, and you thought I was showing off when I told you, but I'm really conflicted!"
Zou Weiwei was passing by this time, she put her arm around Wang Jun's shoulder and said:
"Actually, you don't need to be entangled, just accept it directly."
Wang Jun frowned, and turned to look at Zou Weiwei, "Weiwei, as I said just now, we are still just boyfriend and girlfriend, I decided it's not appropriate to use his money to open a store."
Zou Weiwei smiled, reached out to smooth her wrinkled eyebrows, and said softly:
"Ham, why do you have to think so radically? Didn't Wei Fan say that he will go to Rongcheng to go to school soon, and when the store opens, it will be managed by you."
Wang Jun opened Zou Weiwei's hand that was rubbing her eyebrows, and said in confusion, "So? What does it have to do with whether I accept it or not?"
Zou Weiwei turned sideways, propped her face with her hands, looked at Wang Jun's puzzled expression, shook her head,
"Why can't you turn your brain around? Isn't this the same as attracting investment? He invests money in your project, and then you make all the follow-up operational decisions, and then he only needs to enjoy the profits. gone."
"But... But Wei Fan thought of opening such a store because of my dream, and now this kind of pet experience center is no longer making money."
Zou Weiwei gave her a blank stare, "Then why do you have to distinguish it so clearly? Although Wei Fan did spend money to enter this industry because of you, he didn't just give you the store, did he?"
"And you are in a relationship, it's not like he doesn't have that ability, if he has that ability, what's the point of fulfilling your little dream?"
"Besides, it doesn't take a lot of money to open a cat experience hall. Although it's a lot of money for ordinary people like us, to Wei Fan, this little money is really not as important as making you happy."
After Wang Jun listened to Zou Weiwei's words, although she felt that what she said seemed quite reasonable, she always felt that something was wrong, so she said anxiously:
"But...but...but I always feel that if I accept Wei Fan's help, then our relationship will not be pure...like...just like..."
Seeing Wang Jun as if she couldn't tell the reason for a long time, Zou Weiwei answered directly:
"It's like being adopted, isn't it?"
The word "support" is still a bit heavy for Wang Jun, and Wang Jun climbed up to Hongxia with a small face.
Although this word is not a good word, after thinking about it, Wang Jun felt that it really meant something, so she blushed and nodded,
"Forget...forget it..."
Zou Weiwei also understood Wang Jun's thoughts. Little girls in first love are like this.
Isn't there such a saying that girls' thoughts are always poems!
Girls always feel that when they fall in love, they should be pure, and they should be as pure, beautiful, and flawless as the poems.
I think it is enough for two people to fall in love that you like me and I like you.
They refuse to add anything to their relationship. The most disgusting thing is to add money to their relationship, and equate this situation with money worship.
In fact, there is no need to look so absolute.
Like money, regard money as the supreme god, and force yourself to be with people you don't like or even hate for money, and sneer at those who fall in love for love, that's called money worship.
You are the one you like, you don’t need to distinguish his money from himself, money itself is his advantage, isn’t it?
Being rich is a characteristic of others. He wants you to live a better life and has the ability to improve your life.
Then based on love, what's wrong with giving full play to your own characteristics to help you?In essence, it is not much different from accepting chocolates and roses. Why can’t you accept a higher value?
Do you have to let a rich man abandon his advantages and choose to be like others, using the way of asking for warmth and running errands to prove that he loves you?Why bother?
Although money can't come first in a relationship, it can't be avoided like a tiger, right?
Of course, you have to remember the kindness of others. If they are willing to pay you money, it is because others like you, which is not what they should do. He can give, but you can’t ask for it, or the feeling will change. Giving and taking, this have to be distinguished.
Everyone reacts differently to money and emotions.
The same amount of money may be a necessary need for survival for some people. Without this money, he will go hungry. Naturally, he cannot starve himself to death for love, so he wants to do it for you. What about the emotional need to give?Money can't be moved, so there is another choice: treat you well!
He satisfies his emotional needs by choosing to be nice to you, and if you accept his kindness, his emotional needs are met, so he is happy.
And you feel his love and dedication, you are also happy, and your relationship is one step closer.
Similarly, for another group of people, this money is of no importance to him at all, and it doesn't make much difference whether he has it or not, so what should he do if he also has an emotional need to pay for you?
When people make choices, they always choose the best. In terms of money and their own actions, it is obvious that money will be the first choice, because it is easier for him to obtain and achieve his goals more easily.
Since he chooses to pay money, similarly, if you accept his payment, then his emotional needs are met, he will be happy, and you also get money and satisfaction because of his payment. As we all know, money There are many, many uses, you will be happier, and your relationship will go further!
Therefore, in essence, giving money and asking for warmth are actually to meet the emotional needs of both parties, and they are both ways of expressing love. There is no need to just accept others’ greetings and refuse others to pay you money.
certainly!This has a premise, is to like each other!And you will give the other person the same back.
In a relationship, the positive improvement of emotions needs to satisfy the sense of need and the sense of giving at the same time, and this requires the couple to give to each other. If they can only accept but not give, then it is like fine sand in an hourglass, and sooner or later they will No.
The premise that he is satisfied with what he has paid for you is that you also like him and can give him back, only then can there be emotional interaction. If you only accept other people’s contributions based on material acquisition, then the satisfaction you bring to him is also false. Yes, it's like a castle in the air, if you haven't given him any feedback, then when the false castle in the air collapses, all that's left will be a mess.
Alright... let's talk about it, let's go back to the topic.
Zou Weiwei looked at Wang Jun with a troubled face, smiled, then touched her small face, and said softly:
"Then let me ask you, do you know what nurturing means?"
Wang Jun thought about it, and then...he took out his phone and asked Du Niang!
Then read according to the explanation given by Du Niang: "Nurture, that is, a relationship based on economic transactions. To put it more simply, it is to form a relationship for money, and it is established by giving and asking for money."
"For Liao... You see, the relationship is based on economic transactions, and there is an important link in it: giving and asking for money! This is called nurturing."
Speaking of this, Zou Weiwei took a sip of water from the water glass, moistened her throat and said:
"Do you think you and Wei Fan are dating because you simply like the things he bought for you?"
Wang Jun shook her head. Although it is undeniable that being rich gave Wei Fan a lot of points, the main reason why Wang Jun is willing to be with Wei Fan is that Wei Fan can make her feel emotionally happy.
Then Zou Weiwei said again: "Then there is a link of giving and asking for money between you and Wei Fan? That is to say, besides him giving you money, do you care about him asking for money?"
Wang Jun thought for a while, then opened her eyes wide and said, "Do I care if he wants snacks?"
Zou Weiwei gave the little fool a shudder, and said viciously, "What do you think!"
Wang Jun hugged the head that had just been beaten, and said with tears in her eyes, "Then...then there is no..."
Zou Weiwei clapped her hands, and said angrily: "That's it. Your starting point and the money asking process are not considered a guarantee. You just accept that he treats you well."
"He is not short of this money. You will feel happy if you accept him, because you accept his kindness to you. People are not only happy when they "get". Sometimes, the pleasure of "paying" No less than "acquired"!"
Wang Jun nodded thoughtfully, as if she did too. For example, if she bought Wei Fan her favorite snacks, she would be very happy if Wei Fan accepted it.
Seeing Wang Jun nodding, Zou Weiwei smiled in satisfaction. It seems that this little girl has finally figured it out, but if Zou Weiwei knew that Wang Jun was thinking of this example, she might have to give her another shudder, eat, eat, eat. , you just know how to eat!You can't think of anything else but eat, right?
"Besides, according to the situation where he bought you gifts earlier, I don't think Wei Fan is the type who will wait for your approval before starting to do things. Believe it or not, he has already started contacting the store."
Although there were two bag incidents, Wang Jun still didn't believe it, shook his head and said:
"Impossible, how could Wei Fan be so hasty about opening a store with so much money!"
Hearing Wang Jun's disbelief, Zou Weiwei had expected it a long time ago, smiled mysteriously, and bewitched this silly girl who only had food in her mind:
"Since you don't believe me, how about we make a bet? Bet on whether Wei Fan has contacted the store! If you win, I'll buy you two big boxes of snacks."
Hearing the two big boxes of snacks, Wang Jun's eyes lit up, and she was about to agree immediately, but she thought about it, this is winning, what about losing?So he asked Zou Weiwei directly, "Then what if I lose?"
Zou Weiwei smiled: "If you lose, just give me the box of imported snacks that Wei Fan bought for you!"
Hearing that Zou Weiwei actually put his mind on the box of imported snacks, Wang Jun wrinkled her little nose and took a step back vigilantly.
The box of snacks was brought back by Wu Yonghe's friend from abroad half a month ago, because when chatting with Wei Fan, he knew that Wang Jun likes to eat snacks, but he couldn't eat them after exercising, so he gave them to Wei Fan for him to eat. Give it to Wang Jun as a meeting gift for her.
Foreign snacks, Wang Jun has not tasted it yet, and he is reluctant to open it in the room, it is very precious!
Now that Zou Weiwei actually set her mind on her baby, can Wang Jun bear it?He directly refused: "Impossible! I can't promise you this bet! Change to another..."
Of course Zou Weiwei refused to change, and continued to seduce: "Are you sure you don't want to gamble? If you win, you get two boxes, and you can choose by yourself!"
Wang Jun's tangled little face was wrinkled together, now she was afraid of losing the baby and wanted Zou Weiwei's snacks.
Zou Weiwei looked at Wang Jun's tangled look, and decided to add more fire, and said to her: "Well, if you win, I'll give you three boxes!"
"Three...Three boxes? You didn't lie to me?"
Wang Jun couldn't believe it, there were three boxes of snacks!How long do you have to eat!
Zou Weiwei saw that she was a little moved, and said without hesitation: "Really!"
"Then you say that people from Yan Kingdom don't lie to people from Yan Kingdom!"
"Yan people don't lie to Yan people!"
After receiving Zou Weiwei's confirmation, Wang Jun gritted her teeth, asking for wealth and wealth, one for three, it's done!
"Okay, I'll bet with you!"
Seeing that Wang Jun was finally fooled around, Zou Weiwei smiled mysteriously and said:
"Okay, then let's record a video so that you won't be fooled in the future!"
"Hey, you're afraid that I'll cheat and I'm afraid that you'll cheat, come on! Record it!"
Then the two recorded a video according to the content of the bet, and each saved a copy in their mobile phones.
After recording, Wang Jun clapped her hands and said triumphantly, "Huh! I'll call Wei Fan now! Get ready to buy some snacks!"
Zou Weiwei spread her hands and motioned for you to please, I just hope you don't cry when the time comes.
Seeing Zou Weiwei spreading her hands, Wang Jun took a tissue to wipe her palms soaked from nervousness, took a deep breath to calm down, and then called Wei Fan...
Cough cough... I went to bed late last night, so I didn't update it at noon. I'm sorry, I made a big chapter directly!Please follow up, please collect, crab crab!
(End of this chapter)
When Wang Jun returned home, her head was still in a daze.
After entering the door, he sat down on the sofa, thinking about the opening of the store with dull eyes, and didn't even hear Zou Weiwei's greeting.
Zou Weiwei didn't pay attention to herself after seeing Wang Jun enter the door, and sat on the sofa with dull eyes, looking devastated.
My heart skipped a beat, it's broken!Wang Jun's performance...couldn't it be lovelorn?
So he said cautiously:
"Junjun... are you okay?"
However, Wang Jun was thinking about opening a store now, and didn't hear what Zou Weiwei said at all, but subconsciously replied, "I'm fine."
Seeing Wang Jun's reaction, Zou Weiwei was even more sure that Wang Jun was broken in love, otherwise why would she look like this!
After thinking about it, Zou Weiwei went back to the room and took out a dozen comic books and a small bag of snacks, put them on the coffee table, embraced Wang Jun and said:
"Here... for you."
"????"
Wang Jun also came back to her senses at this time, and turned her head to look at Zou Weiwei with a question mark on her face.
She didn't understand why Zou Weiwei took out her collection of comics and snacks for herself. Could it be that she fell ill?
But well, doubts are doubts, now the snacks, who cares why, let's talk about it after getting it, let's understand the nature of foodies?
Opening a pack of snacks, grabbing a piece and putting it in his mouth, Wang Junmei's eyebrows and eyes were bent.
After eating several yuan in a row, Wang Jun looked at Zou Weiwei carefully and asked:
"That... Weiwei, although I am very grateful to you for giving me snacks and comics... I also like it very much, but... But why did you give it to me all of a sudden..."
Zou Weiwei looked at the cute little girl with crooked eyebrows, and didn't think about anything else, she just sighed secretly, foodie is so coaxing...Look at it, she was just out of her wits just now, and she immediately changed like this after giving her something to eat .
But I still have to comfort her. Seeing that she just lost her mind, she just had something to eat and temporarily diverted her attention. After she finished eating, she must be sad when she thinks about it.
It's just that, I have to take it slow first, and wait until she finishes eating.
So Zou Weiwei said:
"It's okay, don't you like to eat, I'll give you all these, eat slowly, and then go buy after eating..."
After finishing speaking, Zou Weiwei looked at Wang Jun with pity, resenting a certain "scumbag" surnamed Wei in her heart.
Look, what a cute little face, how could this scumbag have the heart to hurt such a cute little face?Really not human, bah!
And Wang Jun was almost moved to tears, look at what a good girlfriend!While stuffing snacks into his mouth, he faltered and looked at Zou Weiwei:
"Oh... Weiwei, you are so kind..."
Zou Weiwei felt as if she had transformed into the Virgin Mary at this moment, exuding a strong maternal brilliance, looking at Wang Jun lovingly, and stroking her little head!
After a while, when Wang Jun had almost eaten, Zou Weiwei held Wang Jun's shoulder and said softly:
"Junjun, let me tell you, you are so cute, you don't know how popular you are! Wei...cough cough...he is blind if he gives up on you! You don't deserve to be sad for someone like him, we Don’t be sad, my sister will introduce you a boy who is a hundred times better than him in the future, let’s slap him in the face! Let him be ashamed to the point of embarrassment!”
"???"
Wang Jun was stunned. This... She understood the meaning of every word Zou Weiwei said, but why couldn't she understand it all together?
"Ah? When did he give up on me... Why didn't I know... What are you talking about, Weiwei?"
Zou Weiwei, who was planning to take Wang Jun out for a walk, was also stunned...
"Ah...ah? You mean...you didn't break up?"
Wang Jun: "???"
"No... Weiwei, where did you hear that I broke up... We are doing well, he sent me home just now..."
Zou Weiwei felt a little confused in her mind, "But...but..."
"But I see that you didn't pay attention to me when you came home... After you came home, you looked like a lost soul. You sat on the sofa and didn't say a word. When you talked to you, you just replied that you were fine... Then I will Think…"
Wang Jun scratched her head, so it was because of this...
When she came home, she was thinking about opening a shop... who knew that Zou Weiwei would have misunderstood, this matter was so...
Seeing Wang Jun like this, Zou Weiwei also understood that Wang Jun was probably thinking about other things at that time, so she didn't care about herself...
But, I don't know what made Wang Jun think so seriously. Zou Weiwei also became curious, so she asked Wang Jun:
"Then I don't know, so what are you thinking about, you can think of such a lost soul..."
Hearing Zou Weiwei's question, Wang Jun glanced at his best friend hesitantly, not knowing whether he should tell her, not because she was afraid that she would know, but mainly... If she told Zou Weiwei about this, she would think she was showing off...
Seeing Wang Jun's hesitant look, Zou Weiwei thought to herself, is this something important and it's not convenient to tell herself?
Then he said with some embarrassment: "If it's not convenient for you to say it, just pretend that I didn't ask..."
Wang Jun shook her head,
"It's not inconvenient to say, it's what I told you, lest you think I'm showing off to you..."
"Huh? How could I think so? It's okay, you just say it. Who am I, Zou Weiwei? I haven't seen anything. You can tell me anything! I don't even blink!"
Seeing Zou Weiwei like this, Wang Jun thought to herself, if this is the case, then tell her, as it can be used as a reference for herself.
So he said to Zou Weiwei:
"Today Wei Fan went to pick me up from get off work..."
As soon as I started talking, I saw Zou Weiwei opened a bag of melon seeds, grabbed a handful, kowtowed while looking at her expectantly.
Wang Jun: "..."
Wang Jun was a little speechless by Zou Weiwei's style, took a deep breath, and then continued:
"It's because he's going to Rongcheng to go to university in a while..."
"Ang, tui...I know this, and then..."
Wang Jun just said a few words and was interrupted by Zou Weiwei. Now Wang Jun is not used to her, raised her hand and patted Zou Weiwei's tall part, raised her voice and said:
"Snapped!"
"Don't interrupt, just listen to me slowly!"
Now Zou Weiwei is being honest, she rubbed the aching part of the camera and said:
"All right, all right, I won't interrupt, you say you say..."
Wang Jun gave her a blank look, and then continued:
"It's because Wei Fan is going to Rongcheng to go to college soon, and then..."
Then Wang Jun told Zou Weiwei all the ins and outs of the matter, and explained the reasons for her troubles:
"Although it is true that my dream is to open a cat experience hall, I always feel that it is not good to spend his money all the time, and..."
Speaking of this, Wang Jun blushed a little, and said a little awkwardly: "And...and we are not married yet, so what's the matter with spending his money to open a shop..."
"But he looks very resolute. I... I've been struggling with whether I should accept it or not. That's why I look like that. Weiwei, do you think I should accept Wei Fan's kindness?"
After talking about her troubles, Wang Jun felt relaxed, and then turned her head to look at Zou Weiwei expectantly.
Zou Weiwei: "..."
Looking at Wang Jun's big watery eyes, Zou Weiwei was hesitant to speak several times, but then she wanted to...
No, you... are you sure you're not in Versailles?
Zou Weiwei doesn't know what to say anymore, just take a look at what she said, about my boyfriend decided to help me open a store to realize my dream after hearing about my dream, and about letting me be the boss directly because I don't want to go to work.
And you are still struggling to accept it!What are you talking about?
Zou Weiwei felt that her heart had been stabbed severely, she covered the bleeding wound and said to Wang Jun:
"Wang Jun, please be a human being! You are in Versailles! People who know you know that you are complaining to me, but people who don't know think you are showing off! Are you still hesitating? Boyfriend, if you don't want it, please give him to me!"
Wang Jun spread her hands helplessly, "Look, I just said it, and you thought I was showing off when I told you, but I'm really conflicted!"
Zou Weiwei was passing by this time, she put her arm around Wang Jun's shoulder and said:
"Actually, you don't need to be entangled, just accept it directly."
Wang Jun frowned, and turned to look at Zou Weiwei, "Weiwei, as I said just now, we are still just boyfriend and girlfriend, I decided it's not appropriate to use his money to open a store."
Zou Weiwei smiled, reached out to smooth her wrinkled eyebrows, and said softly:
"Ham, why do you have to think so radically? Didn't Wei Fan say that he will go to Rongcheng to go to school soon, and when the store opens, it will be managed by you."
Wang Jun opened Zou Weiwei's hand that was rubbing her eyebrows, and said in confusion, "So? What does it have to do with whether I accept it or not?"
Zou Weiwei turned sideways, propped her face with her hands, looked at Wang Jun's puzzled expression, shook her head,
"Why can't you turn your brain around? Isn't this the same as attracting investment? He invests money in your project, and then you make all the follow-up operational decisions, and then he only needs to enjoy the profits. gone."
"But... But Wei Fan thought of opening such a store because of my dream, and now this kind of pet experience center is no longer making money."
Zou Weiwei gave her a blank stare, "Then why do you have to distinguish it so clearly? Although Wei Fan did spend money to enter this industry because of you, he didn't just give you the store, did he?"
"And you are in a relationship, it's not like he doesn't have that ability, if he has that ability, what's the point of fulfilling your little dream?"
"Besides, it doesn't take a lot of money to open a cat experience hall. Although it's a lot of money for ordinary people like us, to Wei Fan, this little money is really not as important as making you happy."
After Wang Jun listened to Zou Weiwei's words, although she felt that what she said seemed quite reasonable, she always felt that something was wrong, so she said anxiously:
"But...but...but I always feel that if I accept Wei Fan's help, then our relationship will not be pure...like...just like..."
Seeing Wang Jun as if she couldn't tell the reason for a long time, Zou Weiwei answered directly:
"It's like being adopted, isn't it?"
The word "support" is still a bit heavy for Wang Jun, and Wang Jun climbed up to Hongxia with a small face.
Although this word is not a good word, after thinking about it, Wang Jun felt that it really meant something, so she blushed and nodded,
"Forget...forget it..."
Zou Weiwei also understood Wang Jun's thoughts. Little girls in first love are like this.
Isn't there such a saying that girls' thoughts are always poems!
Girls always feel that when they fall in love, they should be pure, and they should be as pure, beautiful, and flawless as the poems.
I think it is enough for two people to fall in love that you like me and I like you.
They refuse to add anything to their relationship. The most disgusting thing is to add money to their relationship, and equate this situation with money worship.
In fact, there is no need to look so absolute.
Like money, regard money as the supreme god, and force yourself to be with people you don't like or even hate for money, and sneer at those who fall in love for love, that's called money worship.
You are the one you like, you don’t need to distinguish his money from himself, money itself is his advantage, isn’t it?
Being rich is a characteristic of others. He wants you to live a better life and has the ability to improve your life.
Then based on love, what's wrong with giving full play to your own characteristics to help you?In essence, it is not much different from accepting chocolates and roses. Why can’t you accept a higher value?
Do you have to let a rich man abandon his advantages and choose to be like others, using the way of asking for warmth and running errands to prove that he loves you?Why bother?
Although money can't come first in a relationship, it can't be avoided like a tiger, right?
Of course, you have to remember the kindness of others. If they are willing to pay you money, it is because others like you, which is not what they should do. He can give, but you can’t ask for it, or the feeling will change. Giving and taking, this have to be distinguished.
Everyone reacts differently to money and emotions.
The same amount of money may be a necessary need for survival for some people. Without this money, he will go hungry. Naturally, he cannot starve himself to death for love, so he wants to do it for you. What about the emotional need to give?Money can't be moved, so there is another choice: treat you well!
He satisfies his emotional needs by choosing to be nice to you, and if you accept his kindness, his emotional needs are met, so he is happy.
And you feel his love and dedication, you are also happy, and your relationship is one step closer.
Similarly, for another group of people, this money is of no importance to him at all, and it doesn't make much difference whether he has it or not, so what should he do if he also has an emotional need to pay for you?
When people make choices, they always choose the best. In terms of money and their own actions, it is obvious that money will be the first choice, because it is easier for him to obtain and achieve his goals more easily.
Since he chooses to pay money, similarly, if you accept his payment, then his emotional needs are met, he will be happy, and you also get money and satisfaction because of his payment. As we all know, money There are many, many uses, you will be happier, and your relationship will go further!
Therefore, in essence, giving money and asking for warmth are actually to meet the emotional needs of both parties, and they are both ways of expressing love. There is no need to just accept others’ greetings and refuse others to pay you money.
certainly!This has a premise, is to like each other!And you will give the other person the same back.
In a relationship, the positive improvement of emotions needs to satisfy the sense of need and the sense of giving at the same time, and this requires the couple to give to each other. If they can only accept but not give, then it is like fine sand in an hourglass, and sooner or later they will No.
The premise that he is satisfied with what he has paid for you is that you also like him and can give him back, only then can there be emotional interaction. If you only accept other people’s contributions based on material acquisition, then the satisfaction you bring to him is also false. Yes, it's like a castle in the air, if you haven't given him any feedback, then when the false castle in the air collapses, all that's left will be a mess.
Alright... let's talk about it, let's go back to the topic.
Zou Weiwei looked at Wang Jun with a troubled face, smiled, then touched her small face, and said softly:
"Then let me ask you, do you know what nurturing means?"
Wang Jun thought about it, and then...he took out his phone and asked Du Niang!
Then read according to the explanation given by Du Niang: "Nurture, that is, a relationship based on economic transactions. To put it more simply, it is to form a relationship for money, and it is established by giving and asking for money."
"For Liao... You see, the relationship is based on economic transactions, and there is an important link in it: giving and asking for money! This is called nurturing."
Speaking of this, Zou Weiwei took a sip of water from the water glass, moistened her throat and said:
"Do you think you and Wei Fan are dating because you simply like the things he bought for you?"
Wang Jun shook her head. Although it is undeniable that being rich gave Wei Fan a lot of points, the main reason why Wang Jun is willing to be with Wei Fan is that Wei Fan can make her feel emotionally happy.
Then Zou Weiwei said again: "Then there is a link of giving and asking for money between you and Wei Fan? That is to say, besides him giving you money, do you care about him asking for money?"
Wang Jun thought for a while, then opened her eyes wide and said, "Do I care if he wants snacks?"
Zou Weiwei gave the little fool a shudder, and said viciously, "What do you think!"
Wang Jun hugged the head that had just been beaten, and said with tears in her eyes, "Then...then there is no..."
Zou Weiwei clapped her hands, and said angrily: "That's it. Your starting point and the money asking process are not considered a guarantee. You just accept that he treats you well."
"He is not short of this money. You will feel happy if you accept him, because you accept his kindness to you. People are not only happy when they "get". Sometimes, the pleasure of "paying" No less than "acquired"!"
Wang Jun nodded thoughtfully, as if she did too. For example, if she bought Wei Fan her favorite snacks, she would be very happy if Wei Fan accepted it.
Seeing Wang Jun nodding, Zou Weiwei smiled in satisfaction. It seems that this little girl has finally figured it out, but if Zou Weiwei knew that Wang Jun was thinking of this example, she might have to give her another shudder, eat, eat, eat. , you just know how to eat!You can't think of anything else but eat, right?
"Besides, according to the situation where he bought you gifts earlier, I don't think Wei Fan is the type who will wait for your approval before starting to do things. Believe it or not, he has already started contacting the store."
Although there were two bag incidents, Wang Jun still didn't believe it, shook his head and said:
"Impossible, how could Wei Fan be so hasty about opening a store with so much money!"
Hearing Wang Jun's disbelief, Zou Weiwei had expected it a long time ago, smiled mysteriously, and bewitched this silly girl who only had food in her mind:
"Since you don't believe me, how about we make a bet? Bet on whether Wei Fan has contacted the store! If you win, I'll buy you two big boxes of snacks."
Hearing the two big boxes of snacks, Wang Jun's eyes lit up, and she was about to agree immediately, but she thought about it, this is winning, what about losing?So he asked Zou Weiwei directly, "Then what if I lose?"
Zou Weiwei smiled: "If you lose, just give me the box of imported snacks that Wei Fan bought for you!"
Hearing that Zou Weiwei actually put his mind on the box of imported snacks, Wang Jun wrinkled her little nose and took a step back vigilantly.
The box of snacks was brought back by Wu Yonghe's friend from abroad half a month ago, because when chatting with Wei Fan, he knew that Wang Jun likes to eat snacks, but he couldn't eat them after exercising, so he gave them to Wei Fan for him to eat. Give it to Wang Jun as a meeting gift for her.
Foreign snacks, Wang Jun has not tasted it yet, and he is reluctant to open it in the room, it is very precious!
Now that Zou Weiwei actually set her mind on her baby, can Wang Jun bear it?He directly refused: "Impossible! I can't promise you this bet! Change to another..."
Of course Zou Weiwei refused to change, and continued to seduce: "Are you sure you don't want to gamble? If you win, you get two boxes, and you can choose by yourself!"
Wang Jun's tangled little face was wrinkled together, now she was afraid of losing the baby and wanted Zou Weiwei's snacks.
Zou Weiwei looked at Wang Jun's tangled look, and decided to add more fire, and said to her: "Well, if you win, I'll give you three boxes!"
"Three...Three boxes? You didn't lie to me?"
Wang Jun couldn't believe it, there were three boxes of snacks!How long do you have to eat!
Zou Weiwei saw that she was a little moved, and said without hesitation: "Really!"
"Then you say that people from Yan Kingdom don't lie to people from Yan Kingdom!"
"Yan people don't lie to Yan people!"
After receiving Zou Weiwei's confirmation, Wang Jun gritted her teeth, asking for wealth and wealth, one for three, it's done!
"Okay, I'll bet with you!"
Seeing that Wang Jun was finally fooled around, Zou Weiwei smiled mysteriously and said:
"Okay, then let's record a video so that you won't be fooled in the future!"
"Hey, you're afraid that I'll cheat and I'm afraid that you'll cheat, come on! Record it!"
Then the two recorded a video according to the content of the bet, and each saved a copy in their mobile phones.
After recording, Wang Jun clapped her hands and said triumphantly, "Huh! I'll call Wei Fan now! Get ready to buy some snacks!"
Zou Weiwei spread her hands and motioned for you to please, I just hope you don't cry when the time comes.
Seeing Zou Weiwei spreading her hands, Wang Jun took a tissue to wipe her palms soaked from nervousness, took a deep breath to calm down, and then called Wei Fan...
Cough cough... I went to bed late last night, so I didn't update it at noon. I'm sorry, I made a big chapter directly!Please follow up, please collect, crab crab!
(End of this chapter)
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