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Chapter 145 Apologize to Them

Nursery rhyme is easy to talk to. I asked her to have dinner, and she agreed, but the place for the meal was chosen by Tong rhyme. We met at a Cantonese tea restaurant in the northern urban area. I took a taxi to the tea restaurant, and the time was 12:[-] noon. After flying to Kunming this morning, it didn't stop. First, I quarreled with Zhao Jing, and then I apologized myself. Now I have lunch with nursery rhymes, which is quite a toss.

After the meeting, Tong Yao smiled and asked me what troubles I encountered, and I told everything from the quarrel with Zhao Jing to drinking in Chengdu, and finally... the most important thing, "I don't know how to tell my The subordinate apologizes, I always feel unable to say it.”

"Why?" The nursery rhyme rocked my heart a little bit, "Why can't you say it? What is the reason why you can't say it?"

"Uh...I think...as a company leader...the decisions I make don't need to be explained to my subordinates. After all, I pay them wages."

"Then why can you apologize to Zhao Jing?" Tong Yao reminded me: "Leave aside your personal friendship with Zhao Jing."

"Zhao Jing is an investor and the largest shareholder of the company. To put it bluntly, I am working for Zhao Jing."

"You are wrong." Tongyao corrected my concept and said: "You are not working for Zhao Jing, you are working for yourself, and everyone is working for yourself. If you want to think this way, I don't think you need I apologize to Zhao Jing."

I thought for a while and continued: "Let's change the angle. Zhao Jing and I are partners. We shouldn't have any barriers. What a team needs is mutual understanding and trust. I hope Zhao Jing will forgive me, so I will give Zhao Jing Sorry."

"A team, you are partners!" Tong Yao looked into my eyes and asked, "Then tell me, do your subordinates count as members of your team?"

"Calculate!"

"Since it counts, then you and your subordinates are also a 'partner' relationship. Since you are a partner, why can't you apologize to your subordinates? Is it just because they didn't invest in it? In fact, Zhao Jing That's right, you not only have to apologize to them, but also apologize sincerely and sincerely, and get their forgiveness, your team will be more cohesive. The word "estrangement" is not only used for you and Between Zhao Jing, between you and your subordinates, the word 'gap' can be used. Employees don't trust the boss, so they won't work with all their strength. Similarly, the boss looks down on the employees and doesn't treat them as his own, and he can't There is no way to put yourself in their shoes. Is a team with barriers between each other a perfect team? Don’t you want to be like the corporate culture of Xiaomo’s company? They created a wolf-like character, how about you? You What kind of words should I find to replace my team culture?"

"I..." I didn't know what to say.

The nursery rhyme persuaded me and said: "Open your heart, don't treat them as your subordinates, you are a team, everyone in the team is regardless of high or low, only you think so, think so, your subordinates will I can feel it, don't affect the momentum of the whole team because of this small matter."

Hearing the nursery rhyme said, the concealment in my heart suddenly became clear. She was right. Xiao Meng and Fang Xiaoqiang are members of our team. We are in a cooperative relationship. In the team, our identities are regardless of status. How about they exalt themselves?
Thinking of this, I said to the nursery rhyme a little excitedly: "Thank you very much for chatting with me for a few words. Sometimes I have very narrow thoughts and need someone to clear the way by my side. Xiaomo introduced you to me back then. I haven’t had any deep feelings yet. It’s because I’ve been in contact with him a lot and I’ve learned more. To be honest, Xiaomo treats me very well. As always, he takes care of me at work, but does not treat me softly in projects, and has stricter requirements on me. It is Xiaomo's training for more than a year that makes me who I am today. Looking back, I am myself I can’t complete a planning project independently, and the PPT is ugly and unsightly. I clearly remember that Xiaomo accompanied me to work overtime to modify the PPT, and helped me find pictures on the Internet and sent them to me, so that I could put them in the PPT. I remember it all."

The nursery rhyme smiled and said: "Xiaomo is good to you, and you are also good to Xiaomo. For her, you are willing to give up the 600 million bill. For you now, 600 million is not a small number, but you are blind I gave it to Xiaomo without blinking, not everyone can be as generous as you, if Xiaomo knows the truth, she will be moved."

"Don't be moved!" I told the nursery rhyme, "I agreed to keep it a secret."

"Okay." Tong Yao said with a faint smile: "It's a deal, I'll keep it a secret for you. I'll also secretly tell you a secret. Last night Xiaomo called me before boarding the plane and told me that she got 600 million The project, this is a good opportunity for her to turn around. The first time she got the project, Wen Ya posted the news in Xiaomo's company group. If Xiaomo's order can achieve a net profit of 100 million, she will Appointed as general manager of the company."

"What about Zhao Youwei?" I asked, "Is there any arrangement? Did Xiaomo say anything?"

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Sp; Before the company, he hoped that Zhao Yueru could take over his position. In terms of seniority, Zhao Yueru is definitely not as good as Xiaomo, but Zhao Yueru has something to do with it. I have to say that Wen Ya is a successful leader. Zhao Yueru fought for such an opportunity, that is to say, if Zhao Yueru gets a new project within a month and creates a profit of 100 million for the company, then Zhao Yueru has the opportunity to compete with Xiaomo for this position, if not, The position of general manager belongs to Xiaomo, understand?"

"Understood." I continued according to the nursery rhyme: "Wen Ya's doing this is to stimulate Zhao Yueru to work hard and make money for the company."

"Yes." Nursery rhyme also said with admiration from the bottom of his heart: "This is the brilliance of Wenya. It captures the character of your subordinates, finds loopholes in their character, and stimulates them. You also need to be familiar with the character of your subordinates." , and what they need, not to be used, but to be cared for.”

Chatting with nursery rhymes always has a feeling of benefiting a lot. After lunch, I sent a message in the work group, asking Xiao Meng and Fang Xiaoqiang to come to my office at two o'clock in the afternoon. As for what to do, I didn't said in the group.

At the end of October, the temperature in Kunming is getting cooler and cooler, but there are not many changes. I like this city that is like spring all the year round. I first came to Kunming four years ago to study at university. The excitement is still in the deepest part of my heart. In the past four years, I have made small achievements, and I have my own company. Although it has just started, it has a good momentum.

When I returned to the company, it was still a quarter of an hour before two o'clock in the afternoon. I sat in the office and seriously thought about how to apologize to Fang Xiaoqiang and Xiao Meng. After thinking about it for 15 minutes, I didn't think of any fancy words. Xiao Meng and Fang Xiaoqiang came to my office, and I stood up and said to them, "Sit whatever you want."

Xiao Meng and Fang Xiaoqiang walked towards the reception sofa, sitting on the sofa seemed a bit reserved, I took my mobile phone to the sofa and sat opposite them, the first thing I did was to turn off my mobile phone, which made me feel uncomfortable. Xiao Meng and Fang Xiaoqiang seemed a little confused, and even a little nervous.

After turning off the mobile phone, I got up and bowed down to apologize to them in a serious manner. Suddenly, Fang Xiaoqiang and Xiao Meng became restless, and they both stood up at the same time. Fang Xiaoqiang looked at me in horror and asked, "Mr. Ling, What are you doing?"

"I'm sorry." I looked into Fang Xiaoqiang's eyes and said sincerely: "Please accept my apology, because I have done something that I am sorry for our team."

Xiao Meng looked at me with embarrassment, and said with a sneer: "Mr. Ling... what are you talking about, please sit down and talk about it."

"You guys sit too." I said to Xiao Meng and Fang Xiaoqiang while sitting, "I was wrong about going to Chengdu to bid! I didn't get anything in return. As the leader of the team, I shouldn't be like this. I failed your trust in me. I was at fault for this, so I want someone to seriously apologize to you. I hope you Forgive me this time."

Fang Xiaoqiang and Xiao Meng looked at each other, neither of them spoke.

I continued: "Our team's plan is the result of the joint efforts of all our team members, not my own. Because of my personal actions, I have caused losses to the entire team and the entire company, so I want to apologize to you. The two of you are now Looking at it, do you think I don't need to do this?"

Xiao Meng nodded dumbly, but Fang Xiaoqiang said: "Mr. Ling, the company belongs to you. We are only working for you. We should support you no matter what decision you make. You don't need to apologize to us."

"No!" I corrected Fang Xiaoqiang's cognition and said: "Xiaoqiang, you are wrong. I used to think so too. The company is mine, and you are just working for me. I didn't understand a truth until noon today. No one is working for whom, we are all working for ourselves, working hard for ourselves, I regard you as wage earners, then you will not regard the team as your own, only we all change our thinking and think that the team It is our own. We are fighting for our own tomorrow. Only such a team can go further. What our company needs is that everyone regards this place as their own. What you do every day is not in Do it for the company, but accumulate for your own tomorrow. The company has been recruiting people, and our team will grow bigger and bigger. I hope that the two of you will each lead a few new people and become the backbone of the company..."

I talked a lot with Fang Xiaoqiang and Xiao Meng eloquently, and told them my inner thoughts and plans for the company's future. The moment I turned my head, I found that An Ran came to our company at some point. Standing in front of my office, when did she come?What is she here for?I have no idea.

The communication with Xiao Meng and Fang Xiaoqiang was almost done. I asked them to go to work first, then walked to the door, stood in front of An Ran and asked, "When did you come? What's the matter?"
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