I'm waiting for you in the wind and snow

Chapter 275 Thanks for Experience
The night was getting late, and I was lying on the bed, tossing and turning, I checked the flight from Shanghai to Sanya on my mobile phone, and Ye Zhineng should have caught the flight at 10:[-]; counting the time, she still needs an hour to reach her destination land.

I am very concerned, afraid that what she will encounter is a particularly difficult thing, and I am also worried that she will be tired... But the concern for her can only stay at this level, because I am also very busy, if there is really a relationship between us In a relationship, this kind of busyness hurts people, because two people need time to spend together, but Ye Zhi is a woman who will leave anytime, anywhere because of various jobs.

So, love is sometimes very simple, but sometimes it is really not simple. At least at this stage, I have no ability to change anything between myself and Ye Zhi. We can only maintain the status quo. One is in Shanghai and the other is in Dali. with.

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At about 12 o'clock, Chen Jin finally returned to his rented house. He smelled of alcohol, but he was still conscious; I said to him, "It's so late, I thought you wouldn't come back tonight. "

While hanging his coat on the clothes rack, Chen Jin replied: "Just now I went to have a room with Ding Lin, and we had a breakup...but it's impossible to spend the night together, you have to have the awareness to break up .”

I don't know what to say.

Chen Jin added: "Ding Lin said that after she got the house in Kunshan, she would sell it online, and if she sold it, she would give me back the 15 that I paid for...Can I ask for this money?"

"I don't think she'll give it to you."

Chen Jin asked full of doubts: "Why?"

"If she really wants to sell this house, she doesn't have to wait to get the existing house. As long as there is a buyer, she can go to the developer to change the name now, which will not affect the sale."

"Maybe... she wants to keep it and wait for the appreciation... After all, the market for second-hand housing is quite good now."

"If the market continues to improve, will she have to wait forever?... Then she will wait for your money in a muddle."

Chen Jin thought for a while, and replied with a sad look on his face: "She really can do such a thing; in fact, from my heart, I don't even think about getting the money back." After a short pause, He also said: "She bought a house in Kunshan, which means she has set up a home around Shanghai... This is a good thing, and I am willing to help her; What are you doing to pay back the money?"

I comforted me again: "Maybe it's because she feels guilty towards you, so she will feel better herself."

Chen Jin smiled self-deprecatingly: "You said, what the hell am I looking for? I found such a woman?... It's all over. In order to make her feel better, she continued to lie to me...I Chen Jin Since Jin doesn’t plan to hang out in Shanghai anymore, it’s still 15 yuan short!”

"Learn your lesson and try to find a good woman next time."

Chen Jin sat down on the chair opposite the bed, lit a cigarette, and halfway through smoking, he suddenly changed the subject and asked me again: "The girl who went to eat at the snack street with you today, Is it really your girlfriend?"

"Where did you see the suspicious point?"

"I really didn't see the suspicious point, it's just that I was unbalanced...Why did you, Mi Gao, find a flower-like jade, and I had to put on a woman like Ding Lin...I saw it when I was eating... How dare you My son is very fat, and he directly greeted the girl with his mouth; if this is not enough, if you do it like this, it is a very serious sexual harassment, can the girl make you feel better!?"

I picked up the cigarette case on the bedside and looked at it. There was no cigarettes in it. I signaled to Chen Jin, and he understood in seconds, and immediately threw me a cigarette.

After I clicked on it, I swallowed for a while, and then I said to him: "To be honest, I don't know what the relationship with her is now... The relationship between the two of us is quite complicated. , that is, women are strong and men are weak..."

Chen Jin interrupted me and asked, "How strong is it?"

I squinted my eyes and replied: "I met her on the way to Dali, when her car tire blew out, I helped her change the tire...do you know what car she was driving?"

"Tell me, my buddy has seen the world in Shanghai anyway, so I won't be intimidated by you."

"Big G with top matching."

"6.0, the twin-turbo version?"

"Ah."

"I remember that a naked car must be 400 million less, it's really overbearing!"

I took a puff of cigarette, and then remembered the scene when I first met Ye Zhi at the viewing platform... I don't know whether I was lucky or unlucky.

I finally opened my mouth and said to Chen Jin: "Such a girlfriend, if it were you, would you like it or not?"

Chen Jin thought for a while and replied: "Brother, tell the truth, if it were me, I would probably be stage fright chatting with her, let alone fantasizing about two people living together!"

"What you said is really... When I first became friends with her, I was in the state you said, and I even hid a little bit."

"How did you overcome it later?"

I smiled wryly: "If I can really overcome it, she and I won't be in the current state."

"Then you are awesome enough!"

"Amazing wool...know how warm and cold you are." After a short pause, I said again: "Don't talk about this, it hurts my god...I'm in a hurry to go back to Dali now, give me a word of advice, can I leave tomorrow morning? "

"It's definitely okay. I'll return the key to the landlord, and we'll leave as soon as we say it."

"Okay, let's go to bed quickly... Tomorrow we will switch cars and drive at least [-] kilometers."

"How many days?"

"If board and lodging are settled in the car, it will take two days at most."

"There's no need to hurry, is there?"

"Be considerate of my buddies, I'm really anxious!... After returning to Dali, I have to find time to go back to my hometown. I really can't waste any more time on the road!"

"I am considerate, not only considerate, I also appreciate your spirit of being willing to endure hardships and stand hard work for the sake of your career... What kind of drive do you have to drive the nearly 3000-kilometer road in two days!"

I smiled and said, "I don't even have the energy at all. How dare you say that you are a 30-year-old man?"

"You gave me chicken blood again!"

I was no longer a smiling face, and then said with a serious face: "Chen Jin, we have to agree before we leave, you and I go to Dali, definitely not to enjoy life and heal emotional wounds, we have to do something real ... If you feel that you are not in this state now, then you can stay in Shanghai for a while, and when the state is adjusted, you can go to Dali to find me."

Chen Jin smiled, and replied: "I suddenly felt that you were the one who was really beaten up. No wonder people say that you are motivated only when you are under pressure... One day, you will really do something big. You have to thank this girl by your side right now... Ordinary women really can't put you under so much pressure!"

After a short pause, Chen Jin said emotionally again: "So, a man really doesn't need to reject a woman who is better than himself, as long as anyone who is a bit bloody can turn this pressure into motivation... You are A good example, even if you didn't end up with that girl, you grew up because of it, didn't you?"

I looked at Chen Jin, and suddenly felt that he was even more awesome, because his words actually untied a knot in my heart...

Yes, why should I compete with myself and Ye Zhi?Just like what Chen Jin said, even if Ye Zhi and I didn't get together in the end, I grew up because of it, so why can't I face the relationship between myself and Ye Zhi with a mentality of being grateful for the experience?
Maybe compared to the result, what we are experiencing now is the best...

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After thinking about this, I suddenly felt a sense of enlightenment, so after turning off the lights, I sent a message to Ye Zhi who might have gotten off the plane. I didn't avoid it, nor was I humbled. You promised me that you would go back to the small mountain city with me... Although we had a very unpleasant quarrel during this period, I still hope that you can fulfill this promise... I don't want to use the so-called reputation to put pressure on you, and then force you to do it This matter... I just want to tell you that the small county is really beautiful with mountains and water... I like you very much too!!... I hope to have you with me when I go home this time... Also, don't be too tired, Although I can't help you much, but when you need it, I will give you a thick shoulder to lean on."

(End of this chapter)