I'm waiting for you in the wind and snow

Chapter 556 The Law of Love
Dai Qiang shook the decanter and poured me a small glass of red wine. I raised my head and drank it as beer. Then I slapped the glass on the table and signaled Dai Qiang to pour another glass.

Dai Qiang looked at me, was taken aback for a moment, and then refilled another glass for me; this glass was more full than the one just now, so I still raised my head and drank it clean, then smiled and said to Dai Qiang: "You are also in Shanghai. You have been here for two years, have you found a girlfriend yet?"

Dai Qiang shook the cup, took a sip, and replied with a smile: "No... I don't want to find a woman who is too ordinary..."

I wanted to hear his reasons, so I asked, "How do you say that?"

"Brother, you shouldn't ask me about this. I think you are the one who has the deepest understanding... It's really troublesome to find a woman who is too ordinary. They can't be financially independent, so they always ask what about men , how about it, it’s okay when you’re in a relationship, but when you get married, you’ll have bumps and bumps, and things happen everywhere... Let’s not talk about it, just talk about Lu Jia... Didn’t she ruin your two houses... The reason for cheating is because she lacks, and with such a woman, you have to live forever in their calculations, do you think there is any quality in this kind of life?"

I was noncommittal, and asked again: "Then find someone with good conditions, and everything will be fine?"

"It's not...you have to improve yourself, try to match their conditions...you have experience of this, let's talk about sister-in-law, why did you come to this day? It's really that you can't interfere with her affairs, and she has to Take care of your emotions everywhere, after a long time, she will get tired, and you will feel useless... In my life, I don't expect to find a woman at the level of my sister-in-law, but I have to be a girl from Shanghai with a decent job... I The current conditions are not good enough. I don’t want to touch them lightly. I will only consider emotional matters when my annual salary can exceed one million and I buy a house in Shanghai... because at that time, it will be truly reliable... ..."

After a short pause, Dai Qiang said full of emotion again: "It's not easy to meet an excellent woman. It's really a pity if you procrastinate for so long because of your own lack of conditions, but you don't succeed in the end... Because the youth is gone, the career is also delayed... It's better to manage yourself well, and when the conditions are met, then find a comparable woman, then both parties will be at ease, and marriage will be a matter of course..."

"It sounds like you've experienced it before."

"I can't help it. In places like Shanghai, I have seen too many similar examples...I think that making yourself outstanding is self-love and the best way to love a woman...No one is holding on Contradictory ideas come together, don't they?"

After being silent for a while, I replied: "Your words may be the most suitable law of love in this era... But I don't understand, you have already thought so clearly, why do you still persuade me to be with Ye Zhi? ?...The fact that we are together is the biggest joke in this world!"

"You are not an ordinary person. Back then, you drove a BMW [-] series and became a talent in the entire commercial street... But, in the past year or so, what have you been doing?...Why did you make yourself into what you are now? Like this?"

Seeing Dai Qiang's distressed expression, I was also speechless for a while; after a while, I picked up the glass again and drank the red wine in it; I was so confident that I bought two houses, and they both appreciated so much, so I felt that I had made an extraordinary move , but in the end they lost all the property rights of the two houses.

After being absent-minded for a while, I said to Dai Qiang: "I'm not as awesome as you said, but actually looking back at what I've done over the years, I think I'm pretty useless...you're right , if you really love a woman, you still have to change yourself first... Otherwise, people from different classes insist on getting together, and there will only be endless conflicts in the future..."

Dai Qiang sighed, and replied: "Brother, it's been so many years... It's the first time I've seen you talk to me in such a powerless tone!"

"Everything is not going well...I don't know how to go the next way...Let's not talk about it, I finally met once, and I have a good drink."

……

After having dinner with Dai Qiang, I booked a ticket to fly back to Dali the next day. Although I didn’t achieve what I wanted to do, I still think it’s worth the trip because I have a clearer understanding of I understood myself...and understood the crux of the situation.

I am indeed not as confident and fearless as I used to be.

……

Leaning on the guardrail pointing directly at the Huangpu River, Dai Qiang lit a cigarette for me, and after I took a deep breath, he said to me again: "Brother, have you ever thought about going to help my sister-in-law find out where I am?" What happened in Thailand, the truth about the accident?"

I looked at Dai Qiang, and after a long time, I spit out the smoke in my mouth, and replied: "It's meaningless to talk about it now... What can I do to find out the truth for her?"

"I think, if you can bring my sister-in-law out of this vortex, there will be no problems between you... She is a woman, and if she bears all this alone, she will collapse one day!"

"Hehe...do you think I have this ability?"

"Whether you have the ability or not, a woman like sister-in-law is worthy of you doing this... Now the entire group is full of tension... I don't know when it will explode... I really can't imagine, If one day, the behemoth of Binjiang Group collapses suddenly, what kind of scene will it be... But I can be sure that if Binjiang Group really collapses, the first one to be crushed will be sister-in-law... because she is The person who stood on the cusp of the storm... It is quite sad to think about how such a large group died not in the survival of the fittest in the market, but in internal strife!"

After a short pause, Dai Qiang said again: "My sister-in-law already has such a sense of crisis, so during this time, she has been busy splitting up the group's business and establishing an independent company, just to keep some hope for the future. .”

I just listened without commenting because I didn't know where to start.

Seeing that I didn't speak, Dai Qiang didn't force the conversation, he looked at the time, then patted me on the shoulder and said: "Brother, there is a very important meeting tomorrow morning, if you have to get up early, I won't accompany you... I've booked a hotel room for you, it's near here, take your room card and go back early to rest."

I nodded in response.

Before leaving, Dai Qiang smiled and said to me: "Talk about ten thousand, the person you love the most is still sister-in-law... A love based on life and death, how can it be so easy to let go!"

My heart twitched, but I still replied: "If, today, I had the opportunity to take you to meet her... maybe you wouldn't think so."

"She?...is that the woman you want to meet in Shanghai this time?"

(End of this chapter)