I am Qin Huairu in the Siheyuan

Chapter 45 Education Begins with Communication

Chapter 45 Education Begins with Communication

Although the stick didn't respond, Wang Chang could see that his words were not completely useless.

My heart is sad, but the good memories of the past are not so easy to erase.

Inadvertently, Bang Geng glanced at He Yuzhu.The humiliation brought about by being criticized made him subconsciously hide this paragraph in his heart, unwilling to reveal it.

He is a child of a single-parent family, and his father died early due to a work-related injury.How old was he then?The scars had already been carved, but no one would reveal them in the first place.It's only normal for stick stems to have such resistance.

A child who is still in school will be nervous when doing questions on stage and performing.If he doesn't care about other people's opinions, he still can't reach this state of mind.

Even if Wang Chang had a fight with Yan Jiekuang, and made an agreement with the third master, if anyone found out that he was a broken shoe, he would be fined ten yuan.But this is nothing more than a threat. If you really find out, whether you can get money or not, let's put it aside.It's not a matter of wrangling, bickering, it's really inevitable.

If you can't do it, you have to fight again.

Controlling one's mouth is no less difficult than controlling one's heart. Has He Yuzhu kept his mouth shut for so many years?
Even if Yan Jiekuang, Liu Guangfu was scared out of his wits, he didn't dare to mess around outside.But when he was criticizing sticks and stems, there were many friends standing beside him.

At the beginning, their family was gathered around the table, chatting happily while waiting for the stick to come back for dinner.Why did Qin Huairu know about this after going out for a walk?

Didn't those little friends of theirs tell their parents when they got home?From day to night, all the classmates in the middle grade knew about it, and it was not impossible.

Even if you don't say it in front of the stick, who knows whether people will say it behind their backs or talk about it?Maybe some of these gossips behind the scenes fell into BangGou's ears.

You know, it was a full eight years, not eating He Yuzhu's food, not talking to He Yuzhu.

A half-grown child like a stick can have such great perseverance.This is not something that can be explained by a simple stubbornness.

The wound must have been uncovered repeatedly, which accumulated deeper and deeper in the bottom of my heart, and finally became a knot in my heart that was difficult to dissolve.

Unfortunately, there are no psychiatrists in this era.And who will pay attention to the child's psychology?Not everyone thinks that time can heal everything, but they don't know that time can also make the wound deeper and deeper.

Wang Chang does not know how to educate children and has no experience in this area.

But in the end he came from time travel, he was just a street writer in his previous life.Does he understand sales?Don't understand, but he still knows some tricks.

Now that he doesn't know how to educate children, it doesn't mean that he doesn't know anything at all.In the previous life, I read the news, and the shared child-rearing experience I found was not deliberately searched for, but who made the headlines attractive?How many will still click in, take a look.

"Actually, I can understand you too..."

Wang Chang said slowly, his words were earnest.

The stick stared at him unavoidably trembling, and finally turned his head and avoided it a little.He could hear that the tone was completely different from before.

"If you have any grievances or dissatisfaction, you can just say it. What are you doing in your heart? Who hasn't felt bad?"

Wang Chang changed his method, which no one in the past could have imagined.Although their family is not like the second uncle's family where filial sons are born under the stick, if they are not obedient, they will be beaten.

This is a way of dealing with it, although there is some truth to it.But it also needs to be adapted to local conditions. Doesn’t it mean that this method is suitable for everyone?If this is really the solution to everything, then where are there so many bad people in society?
After all, who wouldn't hit someone?Xu Damao knows cat boxing.

God of War is not something that ordinary people can beat, but to say that an adult can't even beat a child is outrageous.

Banggeng's averted gaze turned back again and his mouth opened.Unfortunately, no sound came out at all, or maybe the sound was so quiet that no one could hear it.

This is also normal, Wang Chang's mentality is slowing down now, and he is not in a hurry.He bowed his head and took a few more mouthfuls of noodles. Accompanied by broth and those hearty dishes, this was the closest meal he had eaten in his previous life.

Watching Wang Chang move his chopsticks again, Xiaodang Huaihua also started eating noodles.Jia Zhang, who was holding a stick, was hesitant to return to her seat. In the past, she couldn't eat after a few mouthfuls, but today, she felt that she could still cook a few more bowls.

Moreover, it seems that it should not be able to fight now.

No one cares about a child's face. In the eyes of adults, what face does a child want?But children also have dignity, and they have not experienced the beatings of the society, let alone smooth their edges and corners.It can even be said that the vast majority of children care more about face and dignity than some adults.

If it weren't for this, vanity and jealousy would not be found in children, nor would they become problems that plague many families.

Communication also needs to be done step by step, not hastily.

"Tell me? This house is all my own family, how can I laugh at you?"

Wang Chang swallowed the noodles in his mouth and laughed.Different from the previous sneer, or fake smile.This trace of gentleness and splendor cannot be faked.

The stick still doesn't speak, if the communication can be completed with a few simple words, that would be too idealistic.

Those who were parents in the previous life, would they not know how to communicate with their children?But the difficulty is that children don't want to communicate with them at all.

After all, the two have completely different values, world views, and moral values.Parents feel that their children are stubborn, disobedient, and have never experienced hardships in life.The children feel that their parents are obsolete, old-fashioned, rotten and behind the times.

Communication is not simply a few heartfelt words, and there is a generation gap in between!
Wang Chang naturally understands this truth, but he should explain it to BangGou.

"What kind of person is Mom, don't you know? Outsiders chew their tongues, let them chew their tongues. You can't see it, don't hear it, and it's over. There are always all kinds of bastards in this world. If you are like this If they hurt, you lose. Did you live for them? No!"

Wang Chang paused, and continued: "This person says he has to consider others, but who would not consider himself at all? Because of this, who would not encounter things that don't go well or that they don't see well?" .Then what can you do? Kill him!? Since it can't be solved, but you still have to take it to heart, isn't it making yourself unhappy?"

This truth is too profound, and sticks need time to think about it.On the other hand, He Yuzhu who was standing on the side nodded again and again, it makes sense!

"Look at you, silly uncle."

"Why does this involve me?" He Yuzhu muttered unhappily.At this time, it's inappropriate to mention yourself in front of the stick, right?

"He and Xu Damao have never dealt with each other since they were young, but do you think he takes Xu Damao seriously? On this point, you really have to learn."

He Yuzhu immediately smiled triumphantly, and the previous worries were swept away.

Stick's originally frozen eyes gradually softened a bit.

(End of this chapter)

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