My wife can buy it

Chapter 222 222 [Extra: Marriage March Part Two]

The moment Li Tianqing left, my aunt said to Zhao Youqiang with a smile on her face:

"Youqiang, don't mind if I call you that. From now on, we are all a family. I hope we can all get closer."

"Hehe, no, just talk about it if you have anything to say."

"That's good. First of all, I want to explain to Tianqing's mother. Her mother is a relatively impulsive person, and her speech may not be as pleasant as your cultural people. You can just listen to many things that are not pleasant. .”

"Well, it's okay, I also came to propose marriage with the intention of coming to the door, just wanting to settle things between myself and Tianqing."

"Looking at the situation, it may take a few more steps to settle down, but I think you only get married once in your life, so you should travel a few more times."

"Yes, I am willing to travel a few more times, but I also hope to get the personal approval of the elders."

The aunt's face changed slightly, and she asked cautiously: "I heard that you seemed to have been here before, and you were slapped. Why do you dare to come now?"

"I don't think it's the style of a big man to dare not come here after being beaten, but if you are serious, it's all for Li Tianqing, and it's nothing."

"Do you think there is any difference in mentality between this time and the last time?"

"Of course it's different. Although being young was an excuse, I was also impulsive at that time. I didn't consider many consequences, so I took Tianqing away. Now I want her to have a good birth and marriage. Names, these things should be done.”

Auntie frowned, as if she was quite approving and understanding. In fact, in the eyes of the older generation, such words would never be understood by the young people today.

Because this kind of concept is also handed down from the past, and people now only care more about their own happiness, and don't think of such things as formality and status at all.

"Oh, that's really good. I can see that you attach great importance to it, and you also value your future wife."

"That's for sure. If I want to marry her, I will be responsible for all her future affairs."

"Then let me tell you about Tianqing's personality first, and don't think I'm long-winded. This is what our elders must do first."

"Okay, tell me."

"Tianqing's temper is relatively lazy, and she doesn't even know how to do housework at home."

"Well, I didn't see it. When we were at home, she took care of everything in the house. Sometimes I admire her very much. She can work from morning to night."

"That's right, then she is the same as her mother. Her mother can always do this, and her personality is also quite extreme."

"I don't know which aspect you mean by extreme."

"If you look at it emotionally, you love it when you love it, and you hate it when it's cruel."

"Hehe, I understand this quite well, but it doesn't actually affect us at all."

"Well, don't you think such a personality is scary?"

"Hehe, it's scary, but it really doesn't affect our relationship. If we talk about it, as long as we don't betray her, she can always be soft."

"So, there is nothing wrong with it. It can be seen that you are a very generous person."

"It's not that I'm generous. It's just human nature. I married back not to make the other party tolerate each other, but to think clearly and want to live together and work hard for the future together. It's a bit like a kind of marriage together." The revolutionary spirit of struggle."

The aunt smiled very relieved and said: "It's great to see you like this, but you are indeed the most calm boy I have ever met, and none of my children is more stable than you in dealing with things." people."

"Then you are really flattered. I think that many things can be done well if you put your heart into it."

"Most people today don't know what a heart is. How can there be people who have a heart and can do good things."

"Here, I don't know how to answer the question. You are my elder, and I don't think it's appropriate for me to comment too much."

"Hey, you don't know that my husband has a really big temper. As a person who has no job, I can only take care of my children all day long, and I don't have the strength to think so much."

"Ha ha.."

"I'm getting old, so I can only be like this in this life. When I was young, I also wanted to get out of my life circle, but at that time the children were still young, and I couldn't let it go at all. As a woman , I can’t let go of my family, and I can’t let go of my children, I lost myself a long time ago.”

"..." Zhao Youqiang listened to the other party's complaints, unable to arouse any emotion and could only listen quietly.

"By the way, did you buy the house yourself?"

"Yes."

"That's all, I'm envious. Look at me. I'm still living in a rented house. I don't have a fixed place. Maybe one day, I will be driven away by the landlord and have no fixed place."

"As far as I know, it's true that the houses on your side are more expensive than those on ours, so it will be more difficult to buy a house."

"People, after all, they need a house of their own. I've been through my whole life, and I don't have much time left, but I always feel that I have nothing left, and nothing is my own."

Zhao Youqiang asked without thinking too much, "Then if you can choose, which house do you want to buy?"

"Of course I just want to move to live in the urban area. It's great, not to mention the crowds, the shopping malls are here, and shopping is convenient."

If you think about these words seriously, it will be a bit incomprehensible. Normally speaking, if you feel that your hope is weak and insignificant, it will be easier to feel satisfied.

But the logic is, either don't, or want the best.

In Zhao Youqiang's view, simply put, it is greed. In fact, with such a personality, even if she gets it now, she will expect better things in the future.

There is no contradiction in this, but a kind of human nature.

"My husband is also very tempered. Most of the time, I am quite afraid of him. I am very worried that my children will be like him in the future."

"But I think as long as we are both weak and weak, we can balance it."

"Yo, that's true. I think you should be very gentle. If Tianqing scolds children in the future, you can treat them gently."

"I think you may have misunderstood me. I have a very bad temper. On the contrary, Li Tianqing's personality is gentle. I think she can play the role of a loving mother well."

"Hehe, that is of course the best. It can be seen that your relationship is really good. I don't know how many people dream of this relationship, but I still ask you to be more patient."

"The life of these two people began with mutual love and tolerance. Although I dare not say that I have qualifications, I still understand the truth."

"Oh, this is a family, no matter what, you still have to take care of your mother's family, right? Tianqing has been away for several years, and she said she was going to get married as soon as she came home. This family doesn't sound happy. .”

"This, why does it seem to be that Tianqing walked away all those years ago?"

"Huh? Isn't that the case? We've all heard of such things. After all, I don't want to blame you. It's just that I heard that Tianqing left suddenly back then, and then came back crying and making a fuss. The war scared us all too."

Zhao Youqiang waved his hand, "No, the fact is that this is not the case. Back then, Tianqing had already stated that she was leaving a month before she left. She didn't just leave suddenly without saying hello as I told you. .”

"Well, what we heard is not like this, but I don't have any status to speak out. No matter which family I am in, I don't think I can say anything."

In addition to laughing, Zhao Youqiang also silently thought in his heart, 'If you don't have status, how can you still talk on their behalf? '

It's a very contradictory family. Then, the aunt also mentioned a child of her own, who was very close to Li Tianqing since she was a child, and wanted to use this to persuade her.

This made Zhao Youqiang even more baffled, and he could only say: "I think the relationship between these two people can't be persuaded by persuasion. What happened between them should only be known between them. Tianqing has her own. Judgmental, with a stubborn personality, I think you know, I can't persuade you."

"It seems to start with a letter when I was a child. Although I don't know the specific content, I think there should be no need to hold grudges so much, and then ignore others. My son is actually very broad-minded. He said that in the future, he will be sweet. If Qing has any difficulties, he will be willing to help her."

Hearing these words, Zhao Youqiang felt his stomach churn for a while.

I don’t know if anyone has heard the profound meaning like me. I just feel that apart from the different qualities of the family members, their moral character is actually the same deep down.

No matter from any angle, it doesn't matter what is true, what is important is to live with one's own face, no matter whether the other party is from one's own family or not.

A way of rushing to put gold on one's face, to reflect one's noble spirit, and to make insinuations that others are stingy, but not to face the matter itself.

Using a way of being wronged and bullied to gain sympathy from others can make others feel that it is others who are bad, not yourself.

Zhao Youqiang didn't want to listen to this aunt's speech at all in his heart, but he let out a sour taste from his heart, and suddenly he completely understood why Li Tianqing could only shake his head in a way when he mentioned his family and didn't give any hope. way as a response.

Standing in his own position as a husband, he was quite upset for Li Tianqing.

In fact, he has seen this kind of thing a lot. From a business point of view, he only dares to do things behind his back and act like a villain, but he has never had the confidence to show off his power because he has a guilty conscience.

Play small tricks and improve yourself by stepping on others.

It's just that it's really disgusting to treat your own family members.

"I don't think I'm suitable for giving advice on this matter. You can explain it to Li Tianqing in person. It's best if you can explain it clearly to each other."

"Oh, who would dare to talk to her with this personality? I guess she will be anxious with you as soon as the words come up. I originally thought that only you can persuade her, so I mentioned it to you. .”

"As far as I know her, the reason why she was able to respond was because she had enough reasons and confidence to grasp the truth and explain it clearly to people. It was not because she was anxious, because in her heart she also cared. , she wants to make it clear. When faced with someone who doesn't care at all, even if she is slandered or misunderstood, she will only smile lightly and will not take your words to heart at all."

"Is this how she treats her family? So the family often quarrels."

"Isn't a family just a relationship of mutual honesty? Is it normal to be misunderstood?"

My aunt's mind didn't seem to follow Zhao Youqiang's turn, she only picked what she wanted to hear selectively, and she didn't make thought-provoking thoughts for herself because of what others said.

Zhao Youqiang didn't intend to keep fighting with this aunt for a long time, but the more he got in touch with her, the more he wanted to take Li Tianqing away from this filthy place.

Looking at the sophistication of the world here, there is really nothing worth nostalgic for.

My aunt still wanted to bring the topic to her own misery, and to put it bluntly, how ignorant Li Tianqing was. The clear-headed Zhao Youqiang led the topic to today's topic with a strong purpose.

He knew that this aunt came here deliberately to speak out on behalf of Li Tianqing's parents.

Regarding this point, Zhao Youqiang also felt that it was ridiculous in his heart. As someone else's parents, he dared not say it himself, but let others explain and discuss it.

It is mainly for the matters needing attention and what needs to be brought on the day.

My aunt mentioned it in a few words, her attitude was like playing, and their etiquette at the moment is tea, sesame, pork, and wine.

When Zhao Youqiang asked how much was needed, the aunt said in a playful manner: "Just grab one hand, there is no need for such a big battle.

Where it should be serious, it is not serious.

Where it should be justified, I shrink back and dare not take responsibility, and push it to others.

Where you want to get benefits, you want to sit back and wait to reap the benefits of the fisherman, but you can't save your face and say that it is what you want.

This is the biggest problem that Zhao Youqiang sees in this family, and suddenly understands why Li Tianqing can't stay in this family, because with her upright heart, she simply cannot tolerate the existence of such petty and scheming people.

But as the youngest in the family, many times he is not even qualified to speak. Even now that he is an adult, no one will listen to him even if he speaks the truth.

I don't know how much I suffered in this.

Sometimes the circle of life is like this, a common public enemy is needed, and using this public enemy as the object of the trash can can ease the relationship atmosphere of most of them.

(End of this chapter)