emo: start complaining about ex-girlfriend

Chapter 170

Back home with these doubts, Li Mumu became more and more uneasy as he thought about it. It is better to go less in the future, so as to avoid more and more misunderstandings.

Ji Xiaoyue had already gone to work, and she didn't know when Li Mumu would come back, so she didn't prepare breakfast. After ordering a takeaway, he turned on the computer and began to read the latest hot posts and news. For a while, Li Mumu was a little neglected to improve his own system.

Either he is treating people, or he is busy with trivial matters. In the next time, he plans to enrich himself. Whether it is to be a doctor or to explore martial arts for physical fitness, he ultimately needs to rely on the system, so upgrade the system Coming up is the most important thing!
Opening a post, Li Mumu saw a hot post about high EQ!

Below is a list of all kinds of so-called high EQ moments except for a large number of celebrities. For example, a certain actress stood next to a male star who was shorter than herself, and then deliberately bent down to talk to him or present an award.

For example, a certain male star helped the female star lift her skirt, and then said a few words, which were praised as having high EQ. Meeting the other party, known as a gentleman, originally Li Mumu just read a hot post, and then looked for other news.

But who knew that because he opened the news, most of the news that followed were related to this news.

Li Mumu frowned, found the hottest news and typed on the keyboard.

"First of all, let's talk about the behavior of those stars when they bend over to take care of others. Everyone is very clear about their height. I remember reading a sentence about treating disabled people. Of course, I am not alluding to those who are short. People with disabilities, that’s what I’m talking about.”

"To treat people with defects, what we should do is to treat them equally, instead of putting ourselves on another level, and then take care of them in a way that we think is a gentleman and high emotional intelligence."

"All flawed people know where their flaws are. What they have been working hard for is not to win the sympathy of others, but to make everyone ignore their flaws and treat them as normal people. This action perfectly exposed the vulnerability of those flawed people!"

"Especially in front of the public, everyone can pay attention to it, but it can be ignored after a few words. After they do this, it will change the taste!"

"This kind of self-proclaimed high EQ is just to win the attention and praise of the public, and at the same time hurt others. Is this the performance of high EQ? When your friend is short, doesn't he know? I I think you'd rather joke with him that he's a short man than do something that hurts him because of his shortness!"

"Many people's self-esteem is very fragile. Because of the flaws that cannot be changed, they tend to become inferior. And you will completely show each other's inferiority to the public and let others laugh along with you? This is the performance of high EQ ? I can't understand it, and I don't agree with it!"

"In life, there are many small giants, because they use their own efforts to support their own responsibilities. At this point, they are no shorter than anyone else. There are still some people who have height defects, but they are also To be able to stand in the spotlight and stand side by side with those beautiful big and tall guys, we should not make fun of them based on height, but should pay attention to how the other party got to where they are today!"

"At the same time, in the circle of tall people, how much effort do these short people need to put in to get on the same stage as those who are already on the fast track? Shouldn't our focus be on their tireless efforts? Did it change your life?"

"Why do people pay attention to the fact that tall people are hyping short people and are known as high emotional intelligence?"

Li Mumu's post seems to be a bit of a complaint, but most of it also reflects some problems, and at the same time has some positive energy, which is different from the previous complaints.

Immediately afterwards, he began to address the issue of male stars' high EQ: "There are some male stars who, on certain occasions, said appropriate words. Everyone understands it as high EQ. I think it's understandable, but what do you expect from these stars? Isn't it too low?"

"They have been able to get to this day because they have put in a lot more effort and convenience than normal people, and thus they have achieved what they are now. So while they cherish their achievements, if they say a few words that are appropriate, do you think they have a high EQ? ? Isn’t this normal behavior?”

"Your boss asked you a question, and you answered an appropriate sentence. Do you think this is called high emotional intelligence? I don't think so! Because you said a lot of appropriate words, can you call your boss a fool? Obviously not. It's possible! Then you can say such so-called high EQ yourself, so why do you still think that even a casual sentence from a celebrity can be regarded as high EQ?"

"Is it because you think you have no IQ or no EQ?"

"I say this, not to overthrow all the celebrities' remarks, because on some occasions, the celebrities' words are indeed very appropriate, and they can be called high emotional intelligence, but now the abuse of high emotional intelligence has reached the point where the celebrities just say your Good-looking clothes become a high EQ, and the so-called high EQ has lowered the IQ of many viewers!"

"We learn good things, rather than blindly applauding for the sake of good things. Being able to learn and reflect is the way certain things should be conveyed to us."

After typing this sentence, Li Mumu let out a sigh of relief, feeling that many words were not as happy as he said, but he had to deliberately avoid letting what he said fall into a certain extreme.

Then he went on to say: "About the people who hug and then do that with their hands, I think hugging first is the Western way. In the West there is also veneering. It is a kind of etiquette for them, and we both want others to be like that." It’s something with a little foreign taste, but you want to keep the tradition and make it look different, do you think it makes sense?”

"Our culture, our interests, are much higher than those of the West! How many years have we inherited? How many of them have! As for hugs and face-to-face gifts, do you think this is really a kind of interest? I don't agree! First of all, this is completely opposite to our tradition, why should we let Western things penetrate into our culture?"

"It's not our etiquette, which is accepted by the West, or even considered a trend? It's because some people's guidance is wrong!"

"As a star, you should care more about your own image and what you convey, instead of blindly sticking to the foreign language and losing the tradition. We have to accept the good things, and we have to discard the bad things!"

(End of this chapter)