Future super intelligent system

Chapter 178 Lack of Love
After Liu Fan and Qian Hai left, everyone didn't laugh at Xiao Ruirui. It's the same sentence. Everyone understands what kind of liking is. On the contrary, many girls are envious that Xiao Ruirui can confess to Liu Fan so closely.

On the other side, Liu Fan came to Qian Hai's office and said directly, "Principal Qian, I want to ask you a question."

"Mr. Liu, please speak." Qian Hai personally made a cup of tea for Liu Fan.

Liu Fan's expression suddenly became deep, "I have been observing these children during the meal just now, why do I see a kind of inferiority complex in many people's eyes."

Qian Hai put the tea in front of Liu Fan and glanced at him unexpectedly, "I didn't expect Mr. Liu to be so keen in observation."

Liu Fan smiled and said nothing. The reason why he was so sensitive to the inferiority complex of the children was because of this kind of eyes, which Liu Fan had seen in the mirror when he was a child.

It's just that Liu Fan is not sure why so many children here have such emotions. Although this is a poor county, the appearance of such emotions is not necessarily entirely due to poverty.

Liu Fan didn't know if the things he experienced when he was a child were similar to those of these children, but he was very curious, from a primitive curiosity.It's like when you see someone who looks like you in a crowd, you wonder what's going on.

Qian Hai sat in his seat and said with some emotion, "It may not be very accurate to simply say that you have low self-esteem, I think it should be a kind of low self-esteem plus autism. The biggest root of children's emotions is lack of love.

The children here are basically left-behind children, and the education of grandparents is mainly based on beating and scolding. It is not bad to be beaten and scolded by grandparents. Some children don’t even have grandparents, and they are all unified in the shelter in our county. Adoption, although children who grow up in this environment will be very independent, but this independence is bound to be accompanied by various helplessness.

They have experienced the pressure of life since they were young. When they encounter difficulties, they need to overcome them by themselves, and when they encounter difficulties, they need to solve them by themselves. However, children are only children after all. stuff, but they don't.

So their independence is deformed, because their independence is forced, and it is not the same concept as the independence educated by their parents in the city.

This kind of independence brings children a greater feeling that no one loves me, so I can only rely on myself, but I am still just a child, what can I do?Children are bound to be powerless in the face of adversity.So they have no sense of security since they were young, and even feel that they are redundant. The continuous brewing of this kind of emotion will make the children gradually become autistic and even inferior. "

Liu Fan suddenly realized that he only paid attention to the balance of educational resources before, but ignored the psychological problems of children. No wonder many education experts told him that education is very complicated, really complicated.There are so many things to consider.

Education is not just about letting children read books well. Good education is about educating life, not grades.Just like the Yanjing college entrance examination champion said in a certain year, the education he received since he was a child made him get excellent grades naturally, and grades should be a bonus of high-quality education, not the whole of education.

"Then is there any solution to this phenomenon?" Liu Fan asked subconsciously.

"The country and people from all walks of life have always been concerned about this issue, and have done a lot of things." Qian Haidao, "Including the long-term commitment of local governments to solve the problem of education for the children of migrant workers, regular caring activities for people in the community, and the construction of student dormitories, etc. , it’s just that these things need time to be perfected slowly, and among all the measures that are considered the most important is actually education.

One of the meanings of good education is that it can help children change their mental state, because good education can give children the correct three views, broaden their horizons, and of course, more realistically, it can change their lives to a certain extent.

But the current education is difficult for these children to accept. Our township can’t produce ten undergraduates a year. This is due to the lack of educational resources on the one hand, and on the other hand, it is also because the state of some children does not make them fall in love with learning. Here The learning status of children is actually very poor, and because of their personality problems, no matter whether we coax or force them, there is no good effect.

To give you an example that may be a bit extreme, there was a student who skipped classes a lot, we went to visit his home, and we chatted with his grandpa all afternoon, his grandpa didn’t understand what we were talking about, and we couldn’t understand what he was saying either. What, we have no choice but to call the father of the child. If the father comes and says that the child is disobedient, you will hit him and break his dog legs. Do you think we can do this?We are teachers not bandits. "

Qian Hai lowered his head and took a sip of tea, but his eyes suddenly became gentle, "But, we can't let go of any child, although some children are really naughty and disobedient, but after a long time of contact, we realized that they are actually They are very kind, many children are just using this rebellious way to disguise themselves, there was a child before, he cried in front of me, his purpose of being so naughty is to get his parents to come back and scold him, because at least This way he can see his parents.

Sometimes, we are really ashamed that we don't have the ability to bring so much to these children.

So everyone has been looking forward to a better way of education, and the arrival of Mr. Liu Wei at that time gave us hope. "

Liu Fan nodded to express his understanding, but after listening to what Qian Hai said, he felt that his model still seemed to have flaws. His smart education was actually more focused on the issue of educational resources, but the state of the children , how much help can your own intelligent education have?

Thinking of the children growing up in a lack of love, being deliberately rebellious, and feeling inferior and autistic, Liu Fan's heart became more and more tense. Just like Qian Hai said, if he can't do anything in front of these children, he is A very uncomfortable feeling.

Confused, Liu Fan lowered his head to drink his tea, and was slamming his mobile phone on the table. Suddenly, he slapped his thigh and said excitedly, "It's really dark under the lamp, why didn't I think of this!"

Seeing Liu Fan's sudden excitement, Qian Hai asked cautiously, "What's wrong with Mr. Liu?"

Liu Fan was in a good mood and said with a smile, "Principal Qian, can I borrow your office for a while?"

"Of course you can."

Liu Fan didn't write any ink. After going out to explain a few words to Liu Wei and Xu Jing, he hurried back to Qian Hai's office to move out his future computer and start typing code.
(End of this chapter)