It's hard to be an idol

Chapter 386

"Is this supposed to be showing off?"

Cui Xiuying thought in her heart that she had never been afraid to judge Lin Yuner with malice. After all, she had already had a precedent for Lin Yuner. But hearing Lin Yuner's distressed tone, Cui Xiuying felt that Lin Yuner might really be asking her.

But she always has a feeling of being shown.

"So you still think you are young?" Although Cui Xiuying felt that Lin Yuner meant to show off in front of her, she still said something pertinent to Lin Yuner, "Xu Lai is from mainland China, right? Mainland women are 20 The legal age of marriage is the legal age of marriage in South Korea; if your life is calculated according to the age of 70, you are now at the tail of two-fifths. According to the predecessors, you are still close to five-fifths In the third life, you can slowly choose the person you are willing to marry, then marry him, and give birth to him."

"But, do you really have that three-fifths of the time for you to find? No! It's only been a few years, and while I'm still young and beautiful, I can still meet good people. If you have to wait longer, Might have missed it."

Cui Xiuying spoke to Lin Yuner very sincerely, a little persuading her to cherish the person in front of her, Yazi, in other words, she was a little afraid that Lin Yuner would be irrational and miss Xu Lai.

From her point of view, there is basically no difference between Xu Lai and Lin Yuner when they are together, and Xu Lai's future is far brighter than Lin Yuner's, and she is three or four years older than Xu Lai, everyone Thinking of slowly ending the relationship and going to the palace of marriage, she actually felt that it was too soon, and worried... In her opinion, she was somewhat ignorant of good and bad.

Don't look at the fact that people in the industry are getting married late. Actresses basically only think about finding a home after they are in their thirties. Except for a few, many people have no choice.

When I was young, I relied on beauty and willfulness. After I passed the best age, I realized that I needed to find someone to rely on. But where is it so easy to find a reliable person in the circle?So many people just want to climb the rich and powerful. People are unreliable, but money is reliable, right?But are wealthy families so easy to enter?The so-called glamorous star in front of you is nothing more than an actor in the eyes of others.

Even if you go in, how easy and good can you live?not necessarily.

Moreover, in Cui Xiuying's view, it is more difficult for idols like them to find a reliable person and get married. For example, she is quite lucky. She has a good family background and is well-known. I also met a good person... But let's not say that there are too many people like her, and it's troublesome for her to talk about getting married now.

On the one hand, it is family factors, on the other hand, it is the careerism of her boyfriend.People have said, "If you get the Best Actor, you will propose marriage", they have spoken out, and given a very realistic expectation, how much more can you expect?Besides, taking the actor is not a matter of no chance at all, but a probability event that has a chance, but still needs to wait for an opportunity.

She herself doesn't have the time and energy to spend a few more years looking for a reliable person, and she needs to be happy with each other. It would be nice to find the right person these days. How can she expect anything more?So, now just wait.

She was still waiting for nothing, but Lin Yuner suddenly told Cui Xiuying that Xu Lai, who had been talking with her for more than a year, was already thinking about marrying Lin Yuner and their future, Lin Yuner was still a little uncertain I also feel that this speed is faster...

Do the leaves fall in a day?
It fell from the branches in autumn after accumulating in spring and summer.She didn't know exactly what was going on between the two of them, but she felt that if someone as good as Xu Lai didn't take care of it, he would be really stupid.

What did she remember saying?

Flowers can bloom again after they fade, but people are not flowers, so they may not come back.

"Of course, I'm not urging you to simply agree to Xu Lai like this, or to think about major events in your life at will. Of course, you should be very cautious about getting married. After all, it is related to more than half of your life in the future." Cui Xiuying said, then paused, and added later, "I mean, if you think he is the right person, but you don't have much blueprint for the future, then you might as well follow in his footsteps." Take a look around, you have to give him a chance to show it off, and it’s also a chance for yourself. You can’t love him so much, but make things difficult for him, right? "

"And, don't you think he might really be the best person you've ever met in your life?" Cui Xiuying said again.

To be honest, Cui Xiuying actually thinks that Lin Yuner and Xu Lai can be together because she has taken advantage of her. She has a bright future, and Lin Yuner's transformation into an actor and singer is not considered a success. The road to acting has basically come to an end. If you want to make any breakthroughs , it is definitely impossible without paying a price.And once this price is paid, it will be too difficult to get out of the South Korean circle.

Don't talk about looking for people outside the circle, can people outside the circle accept the filth in the circle?It's basically impossible. People who step out of the circle are naturally discriminated against. If you want to say that it's okay to fall in love and have fun with you, but if you want to get married, will you be punished and die?
Many people outside the circle can't understand the insiders, let alone female idols.

Of course, Cui Xiuying also knows that Lin Yuner is good-looking, and her whole body is her greatest asset.But... how many years of her youth are left?Are you really willing to run out of time?
She believed that Lin Yuner was a smart person, and she would definitely not be so stupid.

And... She thinks that Lin Yuner's luck is also very good. After meeting Xu Lai, her stagnant career has gradually improved because of Xu Lai. It is not known what it will become in the future, but it is already slowly improving. up.Of course, the most important thing is not Xu Lai's help to her in her career, but Xu Lai who really gave her heart and loved her.

What's more, she is very responsible, when she is in a relationship, she will think of getting married, and she has thought about it many times before telling Lin Yuner. I am afraid that the two of them are thinking about this when they are most sober when they are together. something?
Harmful, Cui Xiuying became envious after thinking about it.

In the past, some fans envied Lin Yuner's good looks, and later Cui Xiuying envied Lin Yuner's good luck. If she doesn't go wrong, she will really be a winner in life.

No, she is already a winner in life in the eyes of some people.

"Yun'er, I understand what you want to say, and I know what you are worried about. But now is not the time for you to worry about these things. What you have to do is to confirm whether you really love him, and then talk to him Let's try to live together, run in with each other, and see if you are really suitable for being together."

"If it's appropriate, you should worry about the latter, worrying about your family, worrying about public opinion..."

"And I think you don't need to worry too much, just trust him."

(End of this chapter)