beijing fireworks

Chapter 80 Mother and daughter’s meaningful words

"What's the matter, don't you guys like Jerry too? So what you said was all lies? Or something happened?" Xiaomi shouted hoarsely.

"You like Xiao Su, and Xiao Su likes you too. This mom can tell, but getting married is not just about the two of you, it's about two families. Do you understand?" He Yuzhen asked Xiaomi.

"I don't understand, and I don't want to understand! Marriage is a matter between the two of us. Didn't Jerry's mother also support us and return the money? What kind of thing happened suddenly?"

"Jerry's mother has clearly expressed her disapproval, and we refunded the money to her." Tian Guoli said blankly.

???

Xiaomi was stunned.

He Yuzhen told Xiaomi that just when she went to the hospital today, Li Jiayu came again and had just left.

At this moment, He Yuzhen had tears in her eyes.

"If it wasn't for Li Jiayu saying that we don't know yet, you would still hide such a big matter from us. If you have troubles, you can't just hide it by yourself. If you have to tell us, the whole family will face it!"

"What did I hide from you? No!" Xiaomi couldn't remember what he had hidden from them. He wanted to hide the truth about the cancer before, but Zhu Xinfu said that his father found out by leaking.

"Multiple cancer metastases!" Tian Guoli roared.

Xiaomi sat down on the bed, dumbfounded.

I don't know about this either, it must be Su Jianfeng and Zhu Xinfu's partnership that has kept me a secret.

Although Su Jianfeng lied to Xiaomi, he did not hide it from his mother. Li Jiayu's first visit to Tian's house was purely a courtesy visit to see the patients and their families.

He didn't say anything in front of Xiaomi. Today he came to Tian's house to make trouble with the two old men while Xiaomi was going to the hospital.

Li Jiayu's point of view is that there are many comforting factors in what the doctor said, so you can't believe it all.

It’s okay to say that this cancer can be cured before, and most of the Internet also said so. Now that there are so many metastases in the lymph and trachea, and it is said that it can be cured, then there is a big question mark.

Take a ten thousand step back and believe the doctor again, the transfer will not affect your daily life and life expectancy, but Xiaomi is only in her 20s now, and there are still five or sixty years to go in the future, without any sequelae. I don't believe it either.

In terms of economic factors, although the Su family is from a family of cadres and is relatively well-off financially, they are not local tyrants. It is not a small burden for Xiaomi to take medicine and seek medical treatment all his life.

This is just an economic matter, not a big one. The energy and time spent on this disease in the future are even more unpredictable. What will Xiaomi do in the future? Which company can accept it for fishing for three days and drying the net for two days?
There is also the matter of giving birth. Will this disease affect pregnancy and children?
Taking advantage of the fact that the two of them have not been dating for a long time, they have already broken off.

Although she also likes Xiaomi very much, for the sake of her son's lifelong happiness, she will never accept Xiaomi as her daughter-in-law.

"Our family, Xiaofeng, has been sensible and filial since he was a child. He listened to his mother in everything big and small. You can't drag down my son's life for my daughter's happiness, right?"

It was this sentence that angered Tian Guoli, and the conversation broke up unhappily. He Yuzhen chased and returned the 1 yuan that Li Jiayu had given him that day, which basically meant he had fallen out with her.

Xiaomi sat by the bed blankly and listened to He Yuzhen's talk, her mind went blank.

When the children grow up, they decide many things on their own. If the two children insist on being together, neither parents will be able to stop them in the end.

But there should be no less reminders, and the opinions and reasons for the objection should also be clearly expressed. This is the responsibility of parents.

The only reason why the parents of the Tian family changed their views and opposed this marriage was that they were afraid that Xiaomi would be wronged if she married into the Su family in the future.

From Li Jiayu's tone of voice full of superiority, it can be heard that whether Xiaomi is looking for Su Jianfeng to be her boyfriend, or whether the Tian family and the Su family are getting married, they are all high-ranking.

In this case, if you meet a mother-in-law who is not very easy to deal with and a man who cannot make decisions for himself, it is certain to be angry.

Not only was she personally offended, but the whole family was also offended.

Not to mention that Xiaomi suffered from such a life-threatening disease at this critical time.

Li Jiayu also told He Yuzhen that their down payment for a house in Shanghai was more than 100 square meters, and they wanted to live with their son after retirement.

Different from her father's resolute attitude, mother He Yuzhen asked Xiaomi to discuss with Su Jianfeng after analyzing the pros and cons to see what Xiao Su thought.

"I won't be separated from Jerry." Xiaomi said something that almost made Tian Guoli jump up violently.

Can't sleep all night.

At this time, what Xiaomi needs most is Su Jianfeng's support. She wants to know what he thinks.

There are many questions I want to ask him, but before that, Xiaomi still called Chen Wenjing.

Chen Wenjing's point of view made it easy for Xiaomi to accept. What the parents said made sense, but in the end it was up to the two of them to decide.

There are not a few young people who walk together because their parents disagree. If it becomes a fact, everything will be fine if you have children. Don't worry about this.

However, Chen Wenjing believes that considering Su Jianfeng's mother's strength, regardless of whether the parents agree or not, they cannot live together after marriage, otherwise they will be unbearable for a lifetime.

After a day and a night of deliberation, Xiaomi finally made up his mind to discuss some substantive issues with Su Jianfeng.

But after getting on the phone, everything that Xiaomi had thought up in advance was messed up, but the two most important questions still got accurate answers from Su Jianfeng:

[-]. He will not be separated from Xiaomi, he will do the work of parents;
[-]. As the only child in the family, you must bring your parents to live with you after you get married. If conditions permit, let Xiaomi’s parents buy a house with them and be neighbors, so that both parents can take care of them.

After Xiaomi told Chen Wenjing the result, Chen Wenjing laughed and gave Xiaomi a ten-word summary: Wishes are good, ideas are absurd.

Chen Wenjing advised Xiaomi not to rush. The most important thing was that Su Jianfeng stayed with her with a clear attitude. Other matters could be discussed slowly.

Xiaomi's mood turned from gloomy to gloomy again.

Xiaomi is confident about her illness. She trusts the doctor. Even if she had some mood swings when she first heard the fact that her cancer had metastasized this time, it passed quickly.

On the last day of her parents' stay in Beijing, Xiaomi deliberately showed her parents a very happy face. She told them about Su Jianfeng and her decision, hoping to get their support.

But the two have not expressed their position, but they have not raised any objections.

That night, despite Xiaomi's objection, the mother lived in the same room with Xiaomi.

"Don't be a mother who doesn't know anything. The real serious radiation is when you take medicine for treatment. It's okay at this time. Besides, mother is so old, so what can radiation do?"

This night, He Yuzhen seemed very interested. She kept chatting with Xiaomi about the past, about all the naughty things she and Xiaodou had when they were young, about Xiaomi's grandma and grandma...

When the conversation got excited, the mother and daughter simply crawled out of the bed and sat up.

"Xiaomi, mom asked you something, can you tell mom the truth?" He Yuzhen changed the subject, and Xiaomi knew that all the memories of tonight were foreshadowing, and the real dry goods were about to surface.

"Mom, if you ask, I promise to explain everything in detail!"

He Yuzhen paused for a moment: "Without Su Jianfeng, would you consider Zhu Xinfu?"

(End of this chapter)