Black technology starts from the steel suit

Chapter 129 Chapter 129

"This little girl has a good family background and can provide you with a lot of help. If you want to take your career further, it is always good to have more help. This is your mother's experience. If you don't believe it, you can ask Your dad, look how much a good wife can help your career."

"By the way, have you met her father?" Mother Wang asked, "I heard that she seems to have been planning to arrange for you to meet his father recently."

"I haven't seen it yet, I've been busy recently..."

"This is not an excuse. After all, he is the woman's father, and he is still in a high position. The group of people who really stand on the top of the pyramid, don't wait for them to come to you. It's not good."

"Take the initiative, you are the one who is the one who wins the cabbage, don't be afraid if you have already won the hand, even if we really meet, he will not do anything to you, and Lily will protect you, daughters are extroverted .”

Wang Feng: I know why you talk so much at home. So that's the reason.

"Although we say that the outdated notion of being well-matched is not in line with the trend of the times, but sometimes you have to say that the ancients have already seen the end of some things at a glance."

"The family is right, simply put, it is the family status."

"What does it refer to? In our traditional Chinese family, it refers to the gate through which each of our families enters. What is the number? The number is high and low. Because our Chinese traditional culture is a pattern of differential order. Different order What does the pattern refer to? It means that the difference is a level, and the order is before and after."

"So because of the differences in family economics, social status and occupation, the family status of the family will be different. Therefore, traditional Chinese families believe that the social and economic status of the two families are the same as the occupation of the two families. Almost, in other words, to use the most familiar words of our common people, it can be lifted on both sides."

"That old Luo's child who is two years older than you, when you were young, you always followed other people's buttocks to play with them, and you always wanted to get into other girls' rooms at home, you still have the impression ?"

Wang Feng: It's ok, don't talk about it, I have an impression!
"Didn't she clamor for free love at the beginning, so she found a man in college who she thought was very promising, and thought he was worth entrusting to her for life. What happened afterwards?"

"After only one year of marriage, there are constant family conflicts. Fortunately, there is no child. Otherwise, when we divorce, we may not know how to get entangled. This is how to find a son-in-law. This is a big trouble to get back!"

"Why his family is like this, I think it's nothing more than different ideas, different habits, and different perceptions." Seeing that Wang Feng was in a daze, Wang's mother slapped him severely: "Listen carefully, you are not good at liberal arts. Well, the emotional intelligence is low, and my mother will analyze it for you."

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Wang Feng: "Okay, please tell me."

"When it comes to getting married, you youngsters always think of stubborn old guys, and stereotypes, cultural traditions that should be swept into the trash ... have you ever thought about what's at the heart of it?"

"Its core is matching. Well-matched pairing is not about personal matching, it is about matching family society, economic status, occupation, etc. But we are in modern society, and we re-understand this well-matched pairing, which is actually a match between two people. Matching is the most important thing."

"The spiritual match between two people is the most important, so the physical, psychological and spiritual match between two lovers is the most important. Then, because the individual's body, psychology and spirit will be affected by our original family, So in this sense, although the right match is not absolute, it definitely has its reasons.”

"Why did the girl from Lao Luo's family end up like this? Of course she can be patient and compromise when she is in love, but can you endure it forever?"

"When the conflict of concept and spirit accumulates to a certain level, the harder you press, the more you will rebound. She didn't understand this when she was young, and she couldn't listen to it. When something goes wrong, it's over."

"You always think us old guys dislike the poor and love the rich, but is this a matter of the gap between the rich and the poor? Could it be that with the conditions of your Uncle Luo's family, there is still a difference of tens of millions, hundreds of millions?"

"Material conditions are easy to change, but habits and cognition are difficult to change, and they will be fixed after adulthood. Let me give you an example, which is directly related to you."

"For example, there are always some people who listen to too many slogans and watch too many brain-dead dramas, and they always feel that men and women are equal, and women are preferred... There are too many psychological hints, and I believe it." Wang Mama asked: "You used to take care of me. Do you remember that little lover?"

Wang Feng: I still remember being big and white, and I also remember being slender and powerful...but what is it called?

"I don't want to criticize you. In fact, this kind of thing is very common in the upper class. Men will always be tempted by various temptations when they go out, especially rich men. If you marry a girl from an ordinary family, I guess Just dealing with these things is enough for you, so don’t mention it for now. Are you sure you won’t have it in the future?”

Wang Feng: You always see things so thoroughly!
"I've made some insinuations, and I know a little bit about what this little girl used to do. Since she was very aware of your original style, she didn't object to it later, and even made a three-part agreement with you directly. This is the most correct and best way to do it. Worry-free approach.”

"So why do I advise you to settle things? There are not many girls who can understand people like this nowadays. If this one runs away, I don't know when I will meet such a virtuous one."

Wang Feng was noncommittal, and was about to pick up the water glass to drink some water, when he caught a glimpse of envy in Old Wang's eyes from the corner of his eye: Well, my mother said the same thing, but it turned out to be an old double standard...

However, I like it!

"Of course, considering that girls can't escape the influence of those brain-damaged dramas, even some children from families similar to ours think that both men and women should be the same. If you want to socialize, I will also socialize. If you want to cheat I cheated too..."

"They don't consider the actual situation at all, so considering this, the girl Lily is even more valuable, so I suggest you go to their old bean as soon as possible to settle the matter."

"The other party's family background is very good, and this girl is very reasonable, so I don't suggest that you just play for fun, otherwise, it is almost impossible for you to break up peacefully. You are not too young, and it is time to think about the future. You can distinguish those girls Girls are just the spices of life, those girls are long-term companions worth remembering for a lifetime, those girls are people who cannot be easily provoked, and once provoked, there is no way to get rid of them."

"Obviously, Lily is the third type, stubborn, and has the capital of being stubborn. You have to explain to others, otherwise it will be very troublesome; even if you delay for too long, it will make people think that you just want to play Just play, impression points will be lost first.”

"That's all I've said. You think about it yourself. If you calculate the time, she will probably be back soon."

(End of this chapter)