Bring your child to a variety show? Daughter: He is truly my living father!

The comments scrolled:

——"Filial piety is a traditional virtue of China. When I look at a person's character, I look at whether he is filial or not."

——"Yes, I am a businessman, and I also observe whether the other party is filial to his parents. How can a person who is not filial to his parents have any sense of responsibility? Doing business with such a person is not reassuring at all."

"..."

At this time, Xu Jiajia also picked up the microphone.

"Principal Shi, although filial piety is the most important character of a person."

"But I still have some opinions on Yu Yuan's approach."

Xiao Ai saw Xu Jiajia put forward different opinions and smiled.

"Jia Jia, what do you think?"

Xu Jia Jia: "I think Yu Yuan's approach is biased.

Although Lan Lan is a child, she should respect her parents and elders.

As the saying goes, filial piety comes first among all virtues,

But the following sentence says, judge by heart, not by deeds.

Just because Yu Yuan is Lan Lan's father, can he ask Lan Lan to do everything according to his ideas?

Is Yu Yuan's low salary and difficult life all caused by Lan Lan?

Can he reach the peak of his life without a child?

Yu Yuan is so stingy with his child, even Lan Lan's grandmother prefers boys to girls, and he still asks Lan Lan to be filial as always?

He is not educating children to be filial, but moral kidnapping!!"

Xu Jia Jia's words made many girls in the live broadcast room who were deeply poisoned by the idea of ​​favoring boys over girls since childhood feel the same.

——"Jia Jia said it very well. My parents favor boys over girls. I dropped out of school after graduating from junior high school and went out to work. I worked in a factory for more than ten hours every day, but I had to send the money I earned back to my hometown to support my younger brother's education and save money to build a house.

Two months ago, I was sick and hospitalized. My parents didn't care about me at all. Instead, they asked me why I didn't send them money this month and scolded me for being unfilial.

If this is also unfilial, then be unfilial."

——"What is the saying? Brothers are alienated, that is the old man's lack of virtue. Not every old man deserves filial piety."

——"That is, if a grandmother can't even afford to buy snacks for her granddaughter, then what kind of family affection is there? How can she have the nerve to ask her children to be filial in the future?"

——"Yes, my parents are old, and they gave their savings and house to my younger brother, but they never ask him to take care of them when they are sick, and only ask me, their daughter, to take care of them..."

"..."

Xu Jia Jia continued: "Look, Xiaoxiao just lay on the chair to wash her hair, laughing so happily."

"These two days. Have we ever seen Lanlan laugh so happily?"

Wei Cheng also said: "Yes~"

"From yesterday to today, I found that Lanlan has not laughed at all."

"Hey, such a young child has not laughed for a day."

"If my child has not laughed for more than a day, I guess I will be anxious,

But Yu Yuan didn't seem to notice this problem.

Is he unable to perceive the child's emotions, or does he not care about the child's emotions?"

Xiao Ai said: "After what you said, it is true.

In fact, we also want to tell the parents in the live broadcast room a very important issue through the program.

Raising a child is not just about feeding the child.

We also need to pay attention to the child's physical and mental health, academic performance, and hobbies and interests in all aspects of the comprehensive development."

"Professor Deng, do you have anything to say?"

Xiao Ai saw Professor Deng pick up the microphone and asked.

Professor Deng said: "Xu Jiajia also mentioned Xiaoxiao just now."

"Then I would like to point out that it is very inappropriate for Xiao Yang to take Xiaoxiao to high-end consumption like this."

"Take the child to a high-end place to consume, 288 yuan for a haircut. Lying on a comfortable massage chair and enjoying the massage service of others."

"This kind of parenting style of taking children to enjoy luxury is very detrimental to the child's physical and mental health development."

"Maybe someone will say that Xiao Yang is rich and can earn so much money that he can afford to spend 288 or even 2888 for a haircut.

If the child is used to this consumption style and used to spending money like water, what should the child do when he grows up and can't earn money for his own consumption? ?

Do we have to rely on parents all the time? !”

“According to my observation, many families, especially middle-class families, are easily trapped in such a delicate consumption trap of raising children.”

“Because they love their children, they try to satisfy whatever they want.

When they see new clothes and new toys, they buy them as long as they want them.

When they see what interest classes other children are taking, they also spend money to cultivate their own children.

“These new parents think that they cannot let their children suffer a little.

They even want to broaden their horizons when traveling, take business class, stay in five-star hotels, etc.”

“They all think that they must not let their children lose at the starting line. What other children have and have seen, their own children must also have,Even beyond the family's affordability. "

"In fact, children have no concept of how much money is. If it is too easy to get, they will not know how to cherish it.

Once this kind of parenting style is formed, the child will form a habit of living a life of luxury and luxury when he grows up, which is not conducive to his independent life and problem-solving in society. "

"Parents should help their children break the high-consumption filter. What suits them is the best. "

"When we were young, including when my children were young, we cut our hair at home and never went to such a high-end barber shop. "

"Therefore, parents must not learn from Xiao Yang on this point, but should be consistent with their family expenses. ”

Usually, most of Professor Deng’s opinions on Xiao Yang are not objective.

But everyone thinks that Professor Deng’s answer to this question today is very good.

Several observation guests agree very much.

Of course, Xiao Yang didn’t think so. He just happened to be on the way, and he didn’t bring Xiao Xiao to spend a lot of money on purpose.

The comments scrolled:

——“6666, what Professor Deng said this time is really reasonable. I also think that Xiao Yang is really overdoing it with such a young child and spending so much money. ”

——“I always buy a pair of scissors and cut my child’s hair at home. Why go to a barber shop? It’s really particular.”

——“Alas, children nowadays spend a lot more money than when we were young. My daughter is only in elementary school, and she has afternoon tea with several good classmates every weekend. Several families take turns to invite them. All of a sudden, the child and the parents spend more than 1,000 yuan. My god~ It’s too expensive! ! ”

——“Yes, children nowadays learn to spend a lot and live a refined life. Didn’t we play on the roadside during holidays when we were young? ? ”

——“Don’t say it. I took a vacation and spent tens of thousands of dollars to take my child out for a trip to broaden his horizons, but all he saw was Bing Linglin. It was a waste of money. Woo woo woo…”

——“For a child of a few years old, it’s a waste of money to travel and broaden his horizons. It’s better to read books at home.”

——“I read the online baby-raising guide, which gave me an illusion that everyone in the world is very rich except me.”