Consumer male god

"Okay, no more joking."

Han Lie suddenly smiled and brought Tang Xintian out of his confusion.

Glancing at her, the dog man casually sealed her throat with his sword: "You are too impatient and want to accomplish everything in one go. This is not good."

Tang Xintian's pupils shrank, and all the hair on his body exploded.

Just as he was about to observe the other party carefully, he saw Han Lie lowering his head again and eating his meal slowly, and he suddenly realized something in his heart.

Wow, it turned out that we met a top expert!

People who study psychology are generally not afraid of others guessing their thoughts. Healthy people will not keep themselves closed all the time. On the contrary, an open mind is a good attitude that is conducive to growth.

The significance of mastering certain psychological knowledge is to set up an interception net, filter out those bad things, improve your personality, healthy mentality, and build self-confidence.

Therefore, psychologists have a very unique perspective on people.

They generally do not value money, wealth, or appearance, but rather the health and independence of their personality, and understand the human heart from a deeper level.

From this perspective, the bones are painted but not the skin.

Tang Xintian cannot be called a psychologist, but her knowledge of psychology is enough to make her invincible in normal social interactions.

Portraits of contacts, establishing psychological files, and gaining insight into character weaknesses, thereby judging the other party's behavioral patterns and underlying logic, so that you can naturally deal with them with ease.

Before, every move she made had a deep meaning.

Detailed observation in President Huang’s office...

Take Han Lie back to his office instead of sending him directly to the private banking department...

Insist on making tea with your own hands...

Ask the handsome guy Xiaobai to give you tea sets...

Used the word "bastard" twice to describe subordinates...

Briefly mention your own difficulties and express your gratitude...

Holding Han Lie high in the air...

To be honest, if it were used to deal with an ordinary college student, the stupid kid would probably have a huge crush on her.

Even if you deal with normal successful people, you will at least get a considerable degree of positive feedback.

——Not every successful entrepreneur is proficient in psychology. The success of most people is actually an accident caused by the combination of the right time and place, rather than the inevitable due to absolute strength.

However, such sharp means were used on Han Lie...

Good guy, I just mentioned Xiaobai twice and immediately smashed her abacus into pieces.

When she was confused, someone suddenly said, "I'm just teasing you," but she broke through her defense.

Tang Xintian has never been teased like this before.

What is play?

He could see her thoughts clearly and chose the most confrontational solution even though it could be easily resolved.

Can I die if I don’t scare Xiaobai? !

Tang Xintian was holding the spoon tightly, breathing heavily, and her chest was rising and falling uncontrollably. She was angry and ashamed, and she wanted to rush up and bite that doggy man.

He was angry because of Han Lie's teasing, but he was embarrassed because it was complicated.

To sum it up briefly - the lethality of that last sentence is too powerful.

If Han Lie didn't make it clear, then at least she would still have room to pretend to be confused. She could just laugh and blur the matter over.

But there is no if.

Han Lie slapped him across the face, but she couldn't resist because he was right.

Tang Xintian did act too hastily.

Most people don't realize it, but experts who are proficient in psychology can definitely see it.

It was that last sentence that made Tang Xintian understand, oh, it turns out that Han Lie understands everything and his level is higher than mine...

Are all the previous attempts at relationships just trying to do the same thing?

So not only was she angry, but she was also ashamed and anxious.

Oh, what a shame!

But from another perspective, it was precisely because of Han Lie's self-destruction that she no longer had to make aimless guesses and only had to face a clear situation.

This is Han Lie's decision to stop and show mercy.

Otherwise, she might be teased until she doesn't understand what's really going on.

That would be even more embarrassing and embarrassing than now.

Tang Xintian bit her lower lip, looked at Han Lie with a complicated expression, hesitated for a moment, and finally choked out a word of resignation.

"Thank you, Teacher Han, for reminding me. I will pay attention to it in the future."

Oh, I can bend and stretch, and I get scared very quickly~~~

God knows how Tang Xintian secretly cheered herself up in her heart. She has always been a proud woman of heaven, how could she ever give in to a man?

Therefore, his attitude is not very gentle, nor is he cute, and he is somewhat unconvinced.

Brother Lie didn't care.

He raised his head and looked at her, smiled gently and said, "Sister Tangtang is too polite. In fact, we won't have many opportunities to interact with each other in the future. It's my fault that our friendship is shallow and deep."

(╯°Д°)╯︵┻━┻

Hearing the words "communicate lightly and talk deeply", Tang Xintian was so stimulated that his scalp went numb.

Careless words?

How can it be!

The dog man definitely did it on purpose, in a weird way!

Tang Xintian's eyelids drooped, and she buried her head in her meal, making up her mind - the whole process will be business-like, and if I try to have a relationship with you, I'll be a dog!

She calmed down, and Han Lie became even quieter.

Eat slowly, move calmly, and feel more relaxed.

Everything must be done at a certain temperature. The stimulation for her now is just right, and any more would be too much.

Four sentences, exactly four levels.

The first sentence, "Turn Xiaobai over to me," is a sudden surprise, deliberately trying to disrupt her rhythm.

The second sentence, "Xiaobai loves to go?" is to break out of the stereotype and break her preset trap with strong confrontation.

The third sentence, "You are too impatient," directly points out the confrontation and at the same time establishes a condescending psychological advantage to break her defense.

In the fourth sentence, the focus is actually on "there are not many opportunities to deal with each other", which is to regain the distance from the state of close combat.

And that weird phrase "Speaking lightly and speaking deeply" is at best a vague statement, and even a dumber person might not be able to understand it.

The four sentences before and after are psychologically profound, so the last sentence is the most heart-wrenching.

On the social level, it constitutes a reciprocating movement of "outside, inside, outside". It seems that it eventually returns to its original position and the position does not change. In fact, Han Lie has already dug a handful in her most sensitive place.

As for why it has to be so complicated...

There is no way, high-level confrontation is so complicated to begin with.

Society is not just about studying and working. As long as you want to go higher, nothing is simple.

Su Zi once said——

"All simple love is because the needs are too easy to satisfy, and the needs that are easily satisfied never last long, and the replaceability of the objects provided is too high, so simple and pure love will only appear on campus, with flowers blooming brightly, But with very few results.”

After entering society, people's needs begin to become practical and complex, and the difficulty of matching increases.

Not only love, but also making friends can be difficult.

Who is Tang Xintian?

The daughter of the leader's family is extremely beautiful, extremely intelligent, academically capable, and ambitious.

The friendliness and enthusiasm she showed towards Han Lie was because Han Lie could bring huge benefits, so she wanted to take action against Han Lie and show her charm.

In essence, she regarded Han Lie as prey.

They want to gain Han Lie's friendship by getting closer to each other, and then use the friendship to play a long-term binding role, and finally continue to reap benefits in a relatively cheap way.

This is not a bad thing or an evil thing.

Every self-reliant person should strive to actively show himself to leaders, bosses, elder brothers, sisters and other noble people, and try to use the value he can give in exchange for the help and support of others.

Otherwise, if you have been working honestly to earn hard money, when will you be able to provide a good life for your parents and family?

Tang Xintian's approach was not wrong, but she should not use it on Han Lie.

because……

Gou Lie also regarded her as prey.

Both of them are very proactive and aggressive people.

When they meet on a narrow road, both of them have courage, so they can only fight.

To deal with this kind of girl who is proficient in psychology and has strong self-confidence, if you can't break through her defenses and break her shell at once, then you will always be "mere" in her heart.

So Brother Lie made a deadly move, the first two knives were imaginative, and the last two knives pierced the heart and lungs.

The victory is overwhelming and hearty.

Tang Xintian was indeed very angry with Han Lie now, but she also deeply remembered this setback, even though she knew it was Han Lie's intention.

People who can learn psychology well generally don't get into trouble and don't dare to admit failure.

If your skills are not as good as others, just try harder.

I really can't afford to offend you, why don't I just avoid you?

Tang Xintian smiled politely but distantly, had lunch with Han Lie silently, and then took the dog to the Regent Hotel opposite.

"The lecture starts at 1 p.m., and the venue is on the second floor of the hotel. Your start time is at 3 p.m. Then you have a good rest. I will call you later."

Amazing self-cultivation...

Brother Lie responded normally: "Okay, please, Sister Tangtang."

Wave goodbye and everything is business as usual.

Back in private, the transparent Liang Wu finally took the initiative to speak: "Boss, Miss Tang is very powerful, and she may be a better helper."

Good guy, you are braver than me!

Han Lie laughed dumbly.

The assistant's meaning is simple - Tang Xintian is more suitable to be the boss's wife than Pan Ge.

This is a reasonable judgment based on normal conditions. Tang Xintian's personal ability, quality, and power are stronger than Pan Ge.

The only key point that the assistant failed to understand was that Han Lie had successfully passed the developmental stage, and now he had the ability to weave his own web.

But Han Lie didn't explain, just smiled casually.

"She? We can only be friends."

What kind of disaster would it be if two elite men and women who are extremely professional, ambitious and proficient in psychology get married and stay together day and night?

Your career is invincible, but your home is like a battlefield? !

But screw it, I would rather marry Yu Yun than marry her!

…

Tang Xintian returned to the company building and rushed to President Huang's office immediately.

Without outsiders, Lao Huang became friendly and kind.

"Tiantian, how do you feel about Han Lie?"

"Extremely difficult."

Tang Xintian had completely calmed down, with a calm expression and a bright light in his eyes.

"Oh? It's highly rated!"

Tang Xintian nodded carefully: "He has a very harmonious mind. He has no obvious weaknesses, is not agitated, is not eager to express himself, is confident but not arrogant, and is very aggressive but not impatient...

It's hard to imagine that he is less than 20 years old.

Uncle Huang, you won’t understand, I am really shocked. "

Lao Huang asked with great interest: "Is it better than the top elites you saw at Harvard?"

"Better than anyone of my age I've ever seen."

Tang Xintian nodded heavily, and then patched it up rigorously: "Of course, it's just a matter of skill and has nothing to do with academic ability."

Lao Huang laughed: "It seems that you are at a disadvantage?"

"Um."

Tang Xintian agreed calmly and smiled.

"I was caught off guard by Teacher Han. I was really a little confused at the time. Thinking about it now, it's so embarrassing."

"Well, it seems that he is a good partner..."

Lao Huang sighed, as if he had made some important decision.

Tang Xintian immediately agreed.

"Han Lie is really not an ordinary person. I am a god of learning and can do a very good job in management, but he is a genius. I can't compare to his creativity."

Lao Huang was shocked.

"Really? Are you rated so highly?"

Tang Xintian thought to herself: There are so many elites at home and abroad who want to chat with me, but only a dog can come up with the damaging trick of "turn the noob to me" in an instant.

Once was not enough, this girl was frightened by him twice! Twice!

This is not called creativity, so what is?

Of course, that's not how she explained it.

"In the last half hour or so that I spent with Han Lie, my mood became very unstable. A normal man would definitely take the initiative to expand the victory, because this is a situation that he created with great difficulty.

But Han Lie didn't, he took the initiative to return to the starting point.

He neither tried to appease me nor continued to ignore me, as if nothing happened.

This kind of psychological intensity, this kind of behavior...

I may need to ask the teacher for advice. I really can’t figure him out by relying on my own abilities alone.

I can only confirm that he is very strong and does not have any common weaknesses among young people. "

"oh……"

Lao Huang didn't fully understand because Tang Xintian evaluated Han Lie from a psychological perspective.

But he understood Tang Xintian's admiration for Han Lie.

So, after thinking for a while, he suddenly asked: "Tiantian, how older are you than Xiao Han?"

(_`)! ! !

Isn't that right, sir? !

You don’t have to put yourself in a dog’s mouth to make friends, right? !

Tang Xintian waved her hands hurriedly: "Stop, don't ask the girl's age, even if you are my uncle!"

Lao Huang touched his chin and smiled, looked at his ridiculously beautiful eldest niece, and said meaningfully: "Age is no problem..."

Boy, what a great pun.

It's a pity that Tang Xintian is very resistant to this kind of thing. Now she especially doesn't like to get involved with Han Lie in this way.

My mother is bothering him!

If this revenge is not avenged, how can one's thoughts be clear?

So he stood up decisively and left in a hurry.

"I still have some work to do, Uncle Huang. If you need me to attend the dinner party tonight, I hope to get along with Han Lie in my own way. Okay, that's it!"

Tang Xintian ran so fast that Lao Huang's next advice was held in his mouth and he refused to say it out.

When his eldest niece went out, he sighed depressedly.

"25, only 6 years older, what a perfect match? Silly girl, it would be great to find a younger brother. How can a woman not like a younger brother after she is 35 years old? As long as my niece has a chance, this good thing will not happen to you. On the head! I like Xiao Han very much..."

When he was alone, Lao Huang's gossiping nature was secretly exposed and he kept talking for a minute.

It's a pity that Tang Xintian couldn't hear a word.

She returned to the office, immediately took out her notebook, and began to study attentively - knowledge related to the domestic big A market.

There were still two hours until Han Lie came on stage at 3 o'clock, and she wanted to personally evaluate Han Lie's quality in the professional field.

At the same time, Brother Lie was sharpening his skills before the battle and doing PPT.

Less than 10 pages before and after, a few hundred words, very perfunctory.

However, the question arises very fiercely - next week's historic plunge, how many times can a smart investor double his principal?

In order to conquer Pufa's super-high-quality private bank young lady, Liege planned to fight hard.

Being young means it is difficult to be trusted. There is only one solution -

If you don’t say anything shocking, you will die!

*****

The cold is basically gone, except for the daily runny nose. Thank you for your concern~