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"Cao Gong, do you think it's too early to be a father now?"

Huang Xiaoming asked about this, after all, he himself had a child in his 30s.

This question did not make Cao Gong silent: "Not early."

"Those who think it's too early to be a father at 24 just think they don't have the ability yet."

"This so-called inability, in addition to the fact that they may not have the financial resources to give their children a better quality of life and educational environment, is actually the most important thing. They think they may not be able to educate their children well at their age."

"Many people think that they are only 24 years old, they are still children, and they are afraid that they can't educate their children well if they become fathers."

Cao Gong looked at this issue so rationally that Huang Xiaoming and the audience in front of the TV were silent.

Some people think that what Cao Gong said is right, and it is also a very realistic problem.

For those who are not ready to be parents, it is not just an economic problem.

There are also personal problems.

"Do you think you can be a good father if you have a child now?"

This question made Cao Gong smile and shake his head: "No!"

"In fact, ever since my first scandal, I was doomed to never be a good father in my life."

"Who is a good father with all kinds of scandals all day long?"

"Haha~" Zhao Liying, who was sitting in the back enjoying her boyfriend's calf massage, couldn't help it.

"How can a philandering person have the face to say that he can be a good father?"

"I can only say that I strive to be a normal father who can give children correct guidance and correct values. Whether he is a good father or not is not important."

"The key is to let children have correct values ​​and let them grow up physically and mentally healthy."

"When I grow up, I will become a person who does not cause trouble to others, society, and the country. Other things, whether I am a good father or not is not important. This is the most insignificant point for me."

Cao Gong expressed his personal opinion, which made Huang Xiaoming feel that it made sense.

"To put it bluntly, it's actually because I'm afraid of being tired."

"Outside, I have to be a good colleague and partner in the eyes of my colleagues."

"At home, I have to be a good husband in the eyes of my wife."

"And then I have to be a good father in front of my children."

"It's too tiring for a person to do this. I have to learn to let myself go."

"It's necessary to have a sense of responsibility, but sometimes when you are tired, being heartless once will make you feel relaxed; for decades, will you just be so hard on yourself?"

Some people agree with these words, while others think they make sense.

Even Huang Xiaoming himself is thinking about the intention of these words.

Yes, if you want to be a good classmate in everyone's eyes at work, you have toBeing a good husband in the eyes of my wife at home and being a good father in front of my son is really tiring.

"What you have to understand is that no matter what you do, there will always be times when you are considered an incompetent colleague, incompetent son, incompetent husband, and incompetent father in the eyes of your friends, family, wife, and children."

"For example, you work with a colleague, and your partner does everything perfectly throughout the year, and you complete your partner's requirements as promised, and he feels very good."

"But suddenly one day, you make a mistake, and he happens to be in a bad mood. When you make a mistake, he will think that you can't do this thing well, it's not right, it's immature, and you are very bad."

"How do you feel at this time? 365 days a year, I have done 364 well, and I didn't do it well for one day, but I am still a bad colleague in your heart."

With this description, Huang Xiaoming understood.

Many viewers who watched the show also understood.

"Or in front of the child, he wants this toy, you buy it for him, and then dozens of times later, you buy him all the toys he wants."

"But one day you find that he has too many toys, and he wants more this time, but you consider that the child has too many toys to play with, so you don't agree to buy it for him."

"At this time, in the child's heart, he thinks you are not a good father."

"You are good to the child dozens of times, but he doesn't remember it, but you reject him once, and he thinks you are not a father."

"So do you think it is really important to be a good father in the child's heart?"

"It doesn't matter whether you are a good father in the child's heart. You just need to give him the correct educational concept, cultivate his correct three views, and grow up physically and mentally healthy. This is the key."

"Whether you are a good father or not is actually the most insignificant."

Cao Gong expressed his personal understanding, which was also recognized by many people. ,

The healthy growth of children, correct values, and good educational concepts are the most important.

"I can see that you are ready to have children?" Huang Xiaoming heard it.

"To be honest, I am not ready to have children, I am ready to have Yingbao and the others."

"Without them, why would I want children? I am still a child myself."

"Hehe~" Zhao Liying was very satisfied and happy.

"Without them, you don't want children?" Huang Xiaoming felt that this statement was problematic.

"I personally think this way, don't think the same way as me."

"My opinion is purely personal, and may not be correct, but for me, this is how I feel."

"To be honest, if Mimi, Feifei, Shishi, and Yingbao were not all 33 years old, I would not be mentally prepared to be a father now."

"I am mentally prepared now, purely for them."

"Because I am nowThey are already 33 and they are not mentally prepared yet.

"When I am mentally prepared in a few years, they may be 40."

"I am mentally prepared, but they have missed the best time."

"I can't just think about myself and ignore the dangers they face at this age."

"When they are 40, they can have children, but there are certain risks."

"But by then, if they don't want to have children because they are too old, then they will have an incomplete life as women, because they will regret not being mothers no matter how happy they are."

"So many things are like this, you don't have to be mentally prepared before you do them."

"There are always some things that force you to make choices and urge you to grow up. ” (To read the exciting novels, go to Faloo Novel Network!)

“It depends on your choice now. Do you choose to break up and get a young girlfriend who is not ready for the same as you, or choose to marry and have children with the one you love now?”

“This is a personal choice. My choice is to consider them…”

Zhao Liying sat in the back and began to stretch her legs.

She was happy and sweet, and couldn't help saying: "Ouch, my head is a little itchy, and I have a love brain."

"Hahaha~" Cao Gong, who was sitting in the front, was amused by Zhao Liying's good mood.

"You said it so nicely, but you are still thinking about us having children. You have an excuse to retire early and be a dad at home, so you don't have to go out to work?"

"Haha~" Cao Gong, who was exposed, laughed very happily.

"Other families let their wives take care of the children at home after giving birth."

"What about you? After we give birth, we will be forced to go out to work and earn money during the confinement period, and then you will enjoy your retirement life at home and take care of the children, right? "Zhao Liying understands her man.

"Isn't it because they are worried that you will not be confident after giving birth, and you will be out of touch with society and suffer from postpartum depression?"

"Considering this, I will let you return to work as soon as possible, and I will be a little aggrieved, stay at home to take care of my wife and daughter, and be a father and a househusband."

"I have made a huge sacrifice for our family, Zhao Liying, don't be ungrateful. ”

“Hahaha~” The last four words made Zhao Liying break down.

The audience watching the show were also amused by the interaction between the two people.

They were talking well at the beginning, why did it become like this later?[]

However, this topic has passed, and many viewers have their own personal understanding of this statement.

When we get to the cruise ship later, everyone is preparing something.

“Is there anything to do?” At this time, Cao Gong came into the kitchen and asked.

“Don’t worry, eat lunch and then start working.” Zhang Liang, who was in the kitchen, said that there was no rush.

“Yes, we also have to record the sponsor’s advertisement.” Lin Shuwei, who was standing aside, saidTo shoot commercials.

Indeed, this kind of program usually has sponsor brands.

These regular guests need to record a short introduction commercial for these sponsors.

Cao Gong is a flying guest, so he doesn't need this.

"Have you had breakfast? 3.8" Zhou Ye also asked Cao Gong if he had breakfast.

"I have." He had breakfast, but no one knows.

"You had breakfast?" Zhou Ye was surprised. He actually had breakfast. Is this true?

"Didn't you go to the gym to work out and lift weights this morning?" Even Zhao Liying was surprised.

"Yes, I went to the gym to lift weights, but I brought biscuits and so on."

"When I came out of the guest room just now, I ate biscuits to fill my stomach."

After saying that, Cao Gong took out a biscuit from his trouser pocket.

When Zhou Ye saw this, he took the biscuit and opened it to eat.

"I thought you didn't have breakfast today. It's really strange." Zhou Ye really didn't expect it.

"I ate it, of course." How could he not have breakfast?

"Anything else?" Speaking of food, Zhao Liying was a little hungry.

Cao Gong took out another pack of soda crackers from his trouser pocket and gave it to Zhao Liying.

Cao Gong's shorts were work pants style shorts with many and large pockets.

Although they were shorts, they had six pockets and could hold a lot of things.

Sitting at the table, Cao Gong looked at his mobile phone and replied to messages from his girlfriends. .