I'm a good man [quick wear]

They talk about divorce at every turn, and they get involved from time to time when they have a family. To put it bluntly, they still want to control their son, and they still want to compete with their daughter-in-law to be the first priority in their son's heart.

"What kind of retribution can a girl get? In the past, ten or eight of them were thrown away on the road, and she was left to die of hunger for several days. What kind of retribution can she get? Even raising her means she is lucky!" Li Qiuxiang put her hands on her hips and raised her voice to let the ones inside Ai Li listened.

Just to let Ai Li know that it was okay if she did this.

The final result was that her son, who had a bad temper, kicked her out and closed the door. He even said that he would support this one regardless of whether he agreed or not.

Li Qiuxiang is making trouble? Who cares?

She was tired and had to go back in despair. Her grandson was still at home waiting for her to take care of her.

*

Ji Yang took half a day off and would not go to work in the afternoon.

After Li Qiuxiang left, he walked into the bedroom. Ai Li was teasing her daughter on the bed. When she saw him coming in, she didn't raise her head, look at him, or speak.

"What's for lunch? I'll buy it." He stood for a while and asked.

Ai Li named several dishes.

"Yeah." Ji Yang wrote it down, thought about it and said, "Don't worry about what mom said. You must take good care of her after she has given birth. Don't go back for the time being."

Ai Li didn't respond.

Ji Yang stood for a while and went out to buy groceries.

When they came back half an hour later, the two of them relaxed and had a simple meal.

Xiao Qiaoyi slept well in the morning, but she was woken up by another noise. She was also in a irritable mood. She cried particularly frequently today. Ai Li coaxed her to be upset and handed the child to her.

Ji Yang took his daughter and started coaxing her.

If there had been a quarrel in the past, Ai Li would have definitely persuaded Ji Yang to go back. How could there be any overnight hatred between parents? Moreover, when the family is harmonious and everything is prosperous, no one will be happy if they compete with each other.

But she would not compromise on this matter. Even if he wanted to go back, she would not go back.

"Mom is angry." Ji Yang hugged his daughter and sat on the sofa, touching her little hand while breastfeeding with a bottle in his hand. When he said this, he glanced at Ai Li on the bed.

She has a soft temper and is usually quite tolerant of his temper, but today she was afraid that he would be very angry.

"My mother is like this. She will probably have to make trouble for a while. It won't make sense in a short time. Just don't contact her. Don't make yourself angry." Ji Yang said to her.

It is difficult to change people like Li Qiuxiang. If you confront someone head-on, you will suffer losses.

Of course Ai Li knew this and looked sideways at him, "The child will grow up slowly. How sad would she be if she knew this? What should she think?"

"She has been unwelcome since she was born. How should she live a good life?"

This is what worries her.

"Have you drunk enough?" Ji Yang looked down at his daughter, took out a piece of paper, and carefully wiped the corners of her mouth. Then he looked at Ai Li, pointed at her, and then pointed at himself, "The child of the two of us, she All we need to know is our thoughts. It’s hard to change our parents’ thoughts. If we insist on it, how many times will we be angry without even eating?”

"If we give her a good life, she can live a good life. It's us who show her the world, not anyone else."

Ai Li's eyes changed.

"Society will slowly change, and people's thoughts will also slowly change. It is impossible for us to change other people's thoughts." Ji Yang looked at his daughter with half-closed eyes and walked to the bed, "The question is what do you think? You think it’s okay to have one child, it’s okay to raise a daughter, and you’re satisfied without a boy. It’s the same for both men and women, and that’s enough.”

"I figured it out. I can't do anything like sending her to the countryside. I can feel at ease keeping her by my side."

Hearing this, Ai Li looked at him, suddenly feeling ashamed of her inner thoughts.

Ji Yang can say this, so why should she worry about what other people think of her daughter? The more they mind, the more she will care.

After all, isn’t it the imprint of the family of origin and the long-standing cognitive bias? She should also take a good look at herself and change the backward thoughts she may have in her bones.

The author has something to say: How should I put it? Some dear friends in the comment area said that Ai Li is too weak-tempered or something like that. Mi'er thinks that every family has its own scriptures that are difficult to recite. If you can't bear it, you can't be a family. With Li Qiuxiang It is not a good idea for such stubborn people to quarrel, and they are often at a disadvantage.

Ai Li's temperament means that it is impossible for her to confront each other. Moreover, it is a bit unworkable to confront others head-on, and it may lead to new conflicts.

A mother-in-law would not hold a grudge against her son, but she would hold a grudge against a daughter-in-law.

Things always change slowly ^_^

Mi'er went to her house with my classmate from college before. I still remember that she pointed to a road and said to me that in the past, five or six baby girls were often thrown away on this road and starved to death for several days. I don't know. Is this an exaggeration, but it shows that this phenomenon exists o(╥﹏╥)o

Chapter 323 The poor girl from a family that favors boys over girls (8)

Li Qiuxiang went back in a hurry. The house was bustling, and people in the village were helping in the courtyard to prepare ingredients for tomorrow's full moon wine.

This time we held sixty tables, which was considered a big event.

I can also take this opportunity to get back some of the money I have given away over the years, and maybe even make a small profit.

"Aunt Li, where are you coming back from?" the person who was working asked, smiling, "It's such a big happy event and your face is so dark, who asked you to mess with you again?"

"Hey, your eldest son hasn't come back? Has his wife given birth? The last time I came back, I saw that her belly was very big."

"I would have forgotten if I didn't mention it. Second Aunt Li, is she pregnant?"

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The women in the village love to gossip, and when they get together they always talk about the family's shortcomings. The eldest son of the Ji family is a scholar, promising, and married to an educated man as his wife, so he is also a "key target of attention."

"I'm pregnant, I've given birth to a daughter." Li Qiuxiang was so angry that she said it directly and sat down.

"Girl."

"Why is it a girl? Your family has good feng shui. They should have been boys all their lives. Look at Adong's wife, who has two boys. You are also two boys, and Ji Mu's wife is also a boy."