Rebirth of Tang Dynasty as a dad

The little sizi covered his mouth in surprise and asked, "Ah? Do you need to bring a gift when you ask someone to do something? Why?"

"It looks like you have never asked anyone to do anything." Xiao Xuanxuan couldn't help laughing.

"No, I live in the palace all day long, and I don't have anything to do. The most I can do is to ask my brother to bring me some delicious food from outside the palace." Xiao Si replied seriously.

Xiao Xuanxuan was in a good mood, and began to explain the gift-giving to this younger sister.

"It's a rule that you can't ask for help with empty hands. Think about it, if you ask my uncle to bring you snacks, just ask him? Or give him some gifts he likes as a reward?

When you give a gift to someone for help, does the other person like the gift very much and will help you soon? "

"Oh, that's right.

But I can't seem to find anything that my elder brother likes, and I don't need to give him a gift, my elder brother treats me very well, sometimes he often brings me delicious food without me saying anything."

The little sizi recalled the love of the eldest brother of the prince, and began to talk endlessly.

Xiao Xuanxuan was defeated again, and interrupted the other party quickly, "So it's not absolute, Erniang said that gift giving is also divided into people, and there is a lot of knowledge in it, and it's only the most basic and the lowest. Just one kind.

If you really want others to help you get things done, it’s best to be mutually beneficial, so that they feel that they will also benefit from doing things for you. In this case, it doesn’t matter if you don’t give gifts.

Otherwise, if someone helps you, not only will you not get any benefits, but even hurt yourself, then it is useless for you to send a lot of gifts. "

At this point, Xiao Xuanxuan stopped and asked, "I've said so much, did you understand?"

The little sizi said confusedly: "No, sister Xuanxuan, you are amazing and know a lot. If I know everything like you, that would be great."

After it's over, Xiao Xuanxuan really wants to vomit blood, she spent a long time wasting her tongue, this little girl is full of little stars, she doesn't understand anything, so why are you talking so much with her?

"Really, grandma is stupid for keeping you in the palace all day long. I will tell her another day and let you come out to live in my house. Let's learn some real skills from Er Niang

Forget it, we can't go through the front door, let's go home through the back door. "Xiao Xuanxuan complained, turned her tiger's head and walked towards the back door.

When she got home, she asked her mother about what happened outside the gate.

Princess Changle said with a wry smile: "These people all came to our house to propose marriage."

"Propose marriage? Who are you proposing marriage for? Could it be the second senior brother and the fourth senior brother? A few days ago, Daddy even said that he wanted them to get married as soon as possible." Xiao Xuanxuan said pleasantly.

"Neither, the people outside the door are all proposing marriage for your elder brother Di Renjie."

who? ? ?

Big Brother Di Renjie?Xiao Xuanxuan stood on the spot blankly, how could this be possible, the elder brother was not much different from her, so she proposed marriage when she was only too old?Moreover

"Hmph, this group of people is really annoying. Senior Brother has a father and a mother, and he is not an orphan. Why did you come to our house to propose a marriage?

How dare you block the way in and out of our house, watch me beat them away." Xiao Xuanxuan rushed out of the door aggressively, called the big cat, and ran directly to the gate to chase people away.

Princess Changle couldn't even scream, so she could only tell her later that she should not hurt anyone, just scare her away.

The little one was puzzled and said, "Fifth Sister, why are these people only blocking the front door, but there is no one behind? Are they a bit stupid and don't know that it's easier to go through the back door?"

Princess Changle was immediately amused, "It's wrong, little sister, marriage proposals should be done in a fair and aboveboard way. You can only go through the front door, not the back door. This is etiquette, and you will understand when you grow up."

Not long after, there was a roar of a tiger outside the gate of Du's house, followed by a clear child's voice shouting: "Hey, my elder brother is not married, you should give up on this, leave quickly, don't block it again." Stay at the gate of my house, or else this heroine will magnify the tiger and bite people."

Pulling the little son to the front yard, Princess Changle staggered at the feet of Princess Changle, who was shocked by her daughter's words, asking you to scare people, your wording is also the same

Not to mention, no matter how the tactic was, the effect was immediate. The people crowding at the door were frightened and dispersed instantly. In a panic, many people even threw away their gifts and just ran away for their lives.

Xiao Xuanxuan stood proudly at the door looking at her achievements, and after a while, she saw the gift boxes scattered on the ground, and ran over to pick them up, "Xiao Miaomiao, come and help my sister pick up the gifts, I will get them later In the toy room in the backyard, I asked my younger brother to help me dismantle it, these are all my sister’s spoils.”

When it was over, the little Eucommia who was learning to write in his small study tensed up for no reason and sneezed several times in a row.

Inside the medical hall, Di Renjie was begging Du Shaoqing.

"Master, please help me and persuade my parents. Although the marriage is a big matter, the parents ordered it and the matchmaker said, but the disciple is still young, and I really don't want to get married so early."

Du Shaoqing declined and said: "Teacher Tian Di Jun, your parents have the final say on your marriage. Although I don't want you to be married too early, but your parents are in front, so I don't want to presume."

Di Renjie curled his lips and said, "Master, this disciple is engaged to marry a wife, not a promise, and I'm not a girl."

"Oh? Really? Why didn't I see it?

Then tell me, which family daughters do your parents like?Compared with the identity of the woman, who is it? "Du Shaoqing deliberately joked.

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"Master, don't make fun of your disciples. It's not like you don't know that my father is like those secular people. He said that he only got a girl with five surnames in this life. I'm so worried." Di Renjie was about to cry.

Du Shaoqing laughed, stopped teasing his apprentice, whispered an idea to him and said: "If I come forward in this matter, although your parents will sell me an old face, it will not be beautiful.

I will teach you a trick, you go to His Highness the Crown Prince for help, how come you are also under the Crown Prince now, your marriage is not just your own business, presumably His Highness the Crown Prince naturally knows that you should reject your parents. "

"Really?

Well then, let's talk about it first, if it still doesn't work, Master, you must do it. "

Di Renjie came out of the hospital suspiciously, and after thinking about it, he decided to talk to his parents again. If it really didn't work, he had to ask for foreign help.

Di Renjie's parents first came to Chang'an and lived in Du's house temporarily, but within a few days, Di Zhixun followed his son's suggestion and resigned from the position of Zheng county magistrate, and joined the Du's Chamber of Commerce to help manage the business.

This is also Du Shaoqing's arrangement. When the Du's Chamber of Commerce is short of people, Di Zhixun can read and write as a county magistrate. I don't ask him to do anything, as long as they stay in Chang'an and take care of them. It was once again that they were put outside and were murdered by their enemies.

With a new job, it is not suitable to continue to live in Du's house, so Di Renjie bought a private house in Changlefang, where the Du's Chamber of Commerce is located, just like the one that Prince Li Chengqian bought.

On the one hand, it is better to have a home, and on the other hand, it is convenient to work from the headquarters of the Chamber of Commerce, and the most important thing is safety.

As soon as Di Renjie walked into the house, he heard his parents arguing, so he stopped in his tracks.

Mrs. Di complained: "What did I say? If I ask you not to resign, you will not listen. In front of a decent county magistrate, not to mention rank, he is an official, big or small, and he will be looked up to wherever he goes.

You insist on staying in Chang'an as a merchant, and you will be looked down upon wherever you go."

Di Zhixun retorted: "What do you know, you woman? Do you think you won't be trampled underfoot when you become a county magistrate? If that's the case, how did we come to Chang'an? People who died once, how do you Still don't understand?

What happened to the merchant?Du Concubine is the biggest merchant in the world, isn't everyone praised in the world? "

"It's just you who are still compared with Du Concubine? Are you ashamed or not?

Okay, okay, marry a chicken as a chicken, marry a dog as a dog, I can't stop you from going into business, but look at the moment, the daughter wants to leave the cabinet, the son wants to talk about marriage, if you are an official, we will have face if we marry others.

But you chose to resign and start a business at this time, how can you, a lowly businessman, be able to sit with others?When the time comes to delay our son's marriage, I can't spare you old bastard! "Madam Di is also domineering, and everyone has to step aside when it comes to protecting her son.

After being ridiculed and scolded by his wife, Di Zhixun not only didn't get angry, but laughed strangely, calmed down, coaxed his wife to sit down and persuaded him: "Ma'am, don't worry about it. As for my son, I don't care about my husband." Less than you think.

Haven't you understood the current situation?Look at those who come to ask for marriage these days, which one is either rich or expensive, they are asking to marry us, not us asking to marry someone else's daughter.