Since Chen Yi is a good seed, and there is still some time, Zhang Yan intends to simply say a few words to Chen Yi, ponders for a moment, organizes his words, and then speaks... Do you know how it came about?"
Chen Yi said with a blank face when he heard the words: "How does cognition come about? Isn't cognition just a point of view, opinion, and if you realize it, you will have it."
Zhang Yan shook her head, looked at her watch, it was still early.He found a chair and sat down beside Chen Yi and said, "You are right, then do you know why there are misunderstandings in cognition?"
Chen Yi shook his head, he was getting more and more confused now.
Zhang Yandao: "Our behavior comes from our cognition. Everyone is doing what he thinks is right, even those heinous criminals. At that time, they thought their actions were correct. It is a last resort, and it is the lesser of two evils. In their cognition, the weight of laws, rules, or others is far lower than their own, although afterwards, in another environment and another state of mind, they may Calm down and rethink and get a different result. But at the time, in their cognition, they thought they were doing the right thing. Every one of us is like this. Some people cheated in exams. At that time, they thought that the benefits of cheating were greater than The bad, each of us is doing what we think is right every moment, do you understand me when I say that?"
Chen Yi nodded thoughtfully to express his understanding.Chen Yi frowned and thought over what Zhang Yan said repeatedly. He understood Zhang Yan's words, but he always felt that he only understood the surface and didn't understand the meaning behind the words.
Seeing Chen Yi nodding, Zhang Yan continued: "And our cognition can be divided into two angles. They are the cognition of the self and the cognition of the outside world. Let's talk about the cognition of the self first."
Zhang Yan opened the cup in his hand and took a sip of water, moistening his throat.Continued: "What do you think people's self-cognition comes from? Does it really come from self-cognition? No, it comes from what we think others know about us. This sentence may be a bit It's a bit brain-burning. Let's take an example. Where does my perception of my performance in the company come from? What usually comes from it? Is it my own perception of myself? Or is it from what I think others perceive me What about knowledge and evaluation? Think carefully, is it the latter?"
Chen Yi frowned and thought for a while: "Sister Yan, it's not right. It's the former. I have my own evaluation of my performance in the company, and I may seek other people's opinions or suggestions, but in the end it's still my own. Evaluation, isn’t it because of this that many employees resign because they feel that the boss’s wages are low or the treatment is low.”
Zhang Yan smiled: "Then let me ask you, on what basis do you judge or evaluate your performance and your work? What is this cognition or evaluation standard? Have you thought about it carefully?"
Chen Yi replied casually: "Of course it is a common situation. If everyone writes one research report per week on average, and I finish two research reports per week, my performance will be better than others without affecting the quality. "
Just finished speaking, Chen Yi's pupils shrank, he was shocked by his own words, what did he just say?general situation?So how did the general situation arise?Isn't it what everyone or others perceive or think?
Zhang Yan smiled: "It seems that you have thought of it. This involves the second category of cognition, the cognition of the outside world. Our society has a mainstream culture. Sociologists call them the main culture, which is very good. Understand, right? These main cultures are accumulated over the years, formed by social development and evolution, and handed down. For example, as a Chinese, descendant of the Yellow Emperor, what do you feel when you see red? What do you think of?"
Chen Yi didn't know what Zhang Yan wanted to express, but he still replied: "Red, you will feel very warm, very festive, very happy."
Zhang Yan continued: "Did you think of the fire, the red carpets of various celebrations, the rainbow bridge at the entrance of the wedding, the red firecrackers and Spring Festival couplets, and the happy and harmonious scenes of every family during the Spring Festival, so you feel warm , festive, happy?"
Chen Yi nodded.
Zhang Yandao: "In the past few years, there have been more contacts between China and foreign countries, and this situation is relatively rare. In the early years, when Westerners saw red, do you know what they would think of? They would think of blood, raw meat with blood, red Bloodshot steaks and some tragic crime scenes. Then why is the same red, giving people a different feeling? Red headquarters has no meaning, it is a color, just like other colors, but because of our life, culture, customs , After many years of development, accumulation, and precipitation, a culture has been formed, which gives red a unique meaning."
Chen Yi nodded thoughtfully, as if he knew what Zhang Yan was going to say, as if he had found the source of everything in thousands of thoughts.
Zhang Yan continued: "One color is like this, and so are many other things. For example, the word "love" has more meanings and emotions entrusted to it by people. Many things in life are like this , and each culture has a greater or lesser difference in these, which is the so-called cultural conflict."
Chen Yi listened very carefully.
Zhang Yan took a sip of water, "As a person, as a person living in a group, living in one culture or in the interweaving of multiple cultures, our cognition of external things is unknowingly influenced by these cultures." Influence, for example, when we just talked about self-cognition, you mentioned our self-cognition and self-evaluation standards usually come from the common judgment standards of the public.
Although this situation will allow us to better integrate into the collective, but at the same time, we will be unconsciously led astray because of being in it, which is the so-called "only because we are in this mountain".The so-called objective cognition is to jump out and look at the world from the perspective of a third party.Not being affected by the deep environment, it is not what people often say "the ass decides the head", and will not change one's opinion because of one's position.
Empathy means to consider problems from the perspective of others, taking into account multiple perspectives, rather than ignoring one’s original perspective. As I said at the beginning, what everyone does seems to him at the time correct.If you can think completely and deeply from multiple angles, it is also a manifestation of objective cognition.
Of course, it would be even better if the influence of the other party's culture can be integrated into the empathy.Therefore, the method of objective cognition lies in being objective. Knowing the source of interference can eliminate all interference.If you can’t completely stay out of it, then integrate yourself into it as much as possible. Empathy is a good way. It’s better to bring yourself into the environment, culture, state and mood of the characters when empathizing. If you understand each other better and understand more people from more angles, you can have a more comprehensive understanding of the essence and truth of things.I don't know if you can understand me when I say this?
Chen Yi said thoughtfully: "I understand a little bit, but it's still a bit difficult to fully digest it. I'll think about it slowly. Thank you, Sister Yan."
Zhang Yan smiled slightly: "If you tell me that you understand everything, I won't believe it. You see, you are very objective if you have the courage to confess your true situation. Well, it's getting late, and the market will open soon. I won't talk to you for now." After speaking, he got up and walked to his place
"Thank you, Sister Yan." Chen Yi said.
Chapter 243
Li Shan on the side looked at the pensive Chen Yi and said: "Yi, you should think about what your sister Yan said, it is very important for you to understand investment. You have no other work today, so digest your words carefully, this afternoon After the market closes, I will tell you about the problems with your research report."
Chen Yi looked at Li Shan gratefully and nodded: "Thank you, Brother Li." He felt that Li Shan and the people in the company were very nice. He has been in the company for a week now, and he has not done anything for the company. He is still learning and improving, and he is still receiving the salary offered by the company, so he feels embarrassed.
Seeing that Li Shan didn't say anything, he sat back in front of his computer and thought carefully about what Zhang Yan said just now.Chen Yi basically spent the whole day thinking about what Zhang Yan said to him in the morning, and it was the same during the lunch break.Just when he was deep in thought, someone behind him patted his shoulder.
"What are you thinking about? You're so preoccupied, aren't you still thinking about what Sister Yan told you this morning?"
Chen Yi turned his head and saw a muscular man standing behind him.The big man has a strong figure, but the shirts and suits on his body can't show his figure well, and he is not at all as handsome as the suit thugs in the movie.
The big man wears a pair of round black-rimmed glasses, giving the overall impression of being straightforward, which is exactly the case.
Chen Yi knew this person. He knew that this person was Niu Lei. Niu Lei was a researcher in Zhang Yan's team. He was sitting directly behind him across the aisle, back to back.Recently, it may be because his wife has just given birth to a baby, and a cute little princess has been added to the family, and he can see a smile on his face every day.
Niu Lei is a person who has always said what he wants to say. He is straightforward and straightforward, and he can't hide things in his heart.
A few days ago, Chen Yi also saw that Niu Lei had a quarrel with Zhang Yan because of his work. Zhang Yan was very embarrassed by his rude words in front of everyone.
Ma Guoliang told Chen Yi that this was often the case between Zhang Yan and Niu Lei, and told him not to mind, and said that it would be good to get used to it.This made Chen Yi have a deep impression of this big guy who got along day and night, but basically had no dealings with him.
Now Chen Yi saw that Niu Lei took the initiative to talk to him, and quickly said: "Brother Niu, I'm still thinking about what Sister Yan said this morning. What Sister Yan said in the morning is not that simple."
Niu Lei smiled when he heard the words: "Sister Yan is very powerful. You have to think carefully about what she said and chew it over and over again. After thinking about it, you will find that there are deep meanings in the words that you didn't understand before. Many things we invest are only If you can understand it by yourself, others can't tell it. Even if you tell it, it is not understood by yourself, and the impression will not be deep, and you will even have doubts. Well, don't think about it, just think about it later when you have time, now It's lunch break, everyone has already gone to eat, you see there are only two of us left in the office, if I don't call you, you probably forgot to have lunch."
Hearing this, Chen Yi turned his head and looked around.Sure enough, he and Niu Lei were the only ones left in the office, and Li Shan, who was facing him, was also gone.
Niu Lei continued: "At first when the market was closing, Li Shan wanted to ask you to have dinner together, but I guess it was because you were too engrossed in your thoughts and didn't want to interrupt you, so I didn't call you. Let's go, don't even think about it." Yes. People are iron, rice is steel, go eat first, and think about it after eating." He continued to pat Chen Yi's shoulder with those powerful big hands.
Niu Lei's big hands are very generous and powerful, which made Chen Yi feel very comfortable and at ease. Although he had no contact or communication with this brother Niu other than meeting and saying hello every day, Chen Yi now felt very at ease, different from The admiration and respect for Li Shan is a kind of trust in this brother Niu Lei, a trust from the heart.
Chen Yi laughed at himself: "Okay Brother Niu, thank you Brother Niu for reminding me, otherwise I might be hungry at noon. Let's go upstairs to have lunch together." He said and cleaned up the things on the table.
Niu Lei also laughed when he heard the words and didn't say much.
The two walked upstairs to the restaurant together.
It may be because Niu Lei gave Chen Yi a feeling of trust, so Chen Yi casually asked a question of his own on the way: "Brother Niu, I want to ask you something. Since the company takes care of the lunch, I heard from Brother Li that I should go to the big hotel." The chef is specially invited, so why is there a meal allowance? There are also a lot of meal allowances every day. I thought the company didn’t care about lunch at noon and asked everyone to go out to eat, so there is a meal allowance.”
Niu Lei was also straightforward, and replied casually: "You don't know that. Let me ask you, do you find it strange that this money is your income whether it is used as a meal allowance or as a salary? Why don't you let it go?" In wages? What's the point of making such a distinction?"
Chen Yi nodded: "Yes, I really don't understand."
Niu Lei laughed and said: "You are still too young, let me tell you, your salary income is linked to the five social insurances and one housing fund that the company pays you, as well as the amount of personal income tax deducted. It is true that the subsidy can not be included in it. The company will not pay you more five social insurances and one housing fund because your income has increased, and will not deduct your personal income tax. In this way, your total wage income before tax will remain unchanged. The amount left after deducting personal income tax has increased, and the company can also pay less five social insurances and one housing fund for you, which saves the company money. People will not have objections because of the name of the money they get. "
Chen Yi suddenly realized that it was so.
Niu Lei continued: "You haven't received your full month's salary yet, let me tell you, everyone will have to pay a certain amount of invoices at that time, the amount depends on your level and salary income, high income Those with low incomes pay more, and those with low incomes pay less.”
Chen Yi was puzzled: "Why is this? You still have to pay the invoice? There is nothing that needs to be reimbursed? Will there be an extra sum of money after paying the invoice?"
Niu Lei looked at Chen Yi and said, "Of course there won't be any extra income. The reason why you are asked to hand in the invoice is because the company has to pay for it. How did the invoice come from? It is for consumption that there is an invoice, right? In this way, the company can pretend to have spent money, which is the cost of the company. Calculate the annual income tax that the company needs to pay to the state with the remaining part of the annual income after deducting the cost. If the cost is high, the income tax paid will be small.”
Chen Yi opened his eyes wide, and thought to himself: "Isn't this illegal? How can you do this?" But he is not stupid, he didn't say these words, he knew that if he said what he thought, once the cow Lei told others that he might not have a foothold in the company.He hid all this in his heart, and said, "So that's the case, I understand, thank you Brother Niu."
Of course Niu Lei didn't know what was going on in Chen Yi's mind, seeing Chen Yi's original expression, he had no doubt about him.The two smiled thoughtfully and walked upstairs.There was nothing special about lunch time and afternoon, except for thinking about the conversation with Niu Lei that Chen Yi kept in his heart at noon, he kept thinking about Zhang Yan's words in the morning.
Chapter 244
Time passed unknowingly, and it was already the closing time in the afternoon.The office changed from the original tense and serious atmosphere to a relaxed and happy atmosphere. After a week of work and life, Chen Yi has already adapted to this change.
As the saying goes, getting used to it becomes natural, and when he gets used to it, he will no longer look around strangely like when he first came to the company.
At this moment, Li Shan's voice sounded from the opposite side: "Yi, are you busy? The market is closed. If you are not busy, let me tell you about the problems of your research report?" A report in hand.
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