1987: Sleepless Tonight

"KFC is a catering business, not some other advanced technology. The important thing is actually publicity. As long as the publicity is in place, everything else will be easy to solve."

He looked at Su Min, "I didn't accompany you well when Nini was born. If I weren't around when you gave birth to the second child, I wouldn't forgive myself, and I would have to slap her twice in the face." Down."

Many things can only be cherished after they have been lost, but for most things there is no way to make up for them after they are lost, and some are just endless regrets.

In the previous life, Su Min was pregnant and gave birth to Nini, but he was not able to be with her. He didn't care about Nini's meconium, diaper changes, or Su Min's confinement period.

He lost his responsibility as a father and as a husband.

Very derelict.

Fortunately, he had a chance to reform again, but this opportunity to reform only started when Su Min and Nini took the poison. Before that, Su Min gave birth, was in confinement, Nini had meconium, and changed diapers. He didn't stay with me when eating complementary foods, etc., nor did he care, take care of, or pay attention.

There are also regrets.

It cannot make up for all that was lost before.

Now that Su Min is pregnant with her second child, he will definitely have to be with her when she gives birth, not to make up for the regret when Nini was born, which can no longer be made up for, but to prevent herself from having new regrets in this regard. produce.

Some pain, some tiredness, pressing on people's bodies will also make people feel happiness and joy, just like if a person carries 100 pounds of gold on his back, even if this person's shoulders are heavy and walking is heavy , but my heart is sweet.

For another example, Su Min is pregnant with a child and is about to give birth. Even if she puts aside her business matters and takes care of Su Min and the baby that is about to be born, it will be more difficult and tiring. But this kind of hard work, this Tiredness is also sweet.

Life is actually the sum of decades of experience. Every experience, whether painful or happy, should actually be experienced with an attitude of enjoyment.

The longer people live, the more they experience, and the more they think, their thoughts will become closer and closer to those of some ascetics.

Treat all experiences as wealth and a kind of practice.

"We'll see then. You still have to pay attention to this aspect of KFC. It's not your business alone. The city leaders attach so much importance to it that you have to take it to heart, otherwise you will lose the city leadership. To support you, one more thing, if something goes wrong because you don’t have a correct attitude and are careless, the leader will definitely blame you, and then it will be difficult to do other business." Su Min said, "This is not my first time, this is my second child. I managed it when I gave birth to Nini. I scolded you many times in my heart at that time. Now that I think about it, in fact, those hardships are not counted. What, it’s okay to get over it, and now I’m not so scared when I have to have a baby again.”

"It's called healing the scar and forgetting about the pain." Lu Hao said, "There is no wife as stupid as you who treats you so badly, yet you have endured it for so many years, acting like a cow and a horse by yourself, both as a father and as a mother. , and also be a nanny.”

Decades later, many women always get married and marry each other, that is, go to the other person's house to work as a nanny, and then feel free to ask for a house, a car, a betrothal gift, various surprises, and various ceremonies, regardless of the other person's actual situation. , blindly asking for it.

But in fact, with the development of society, productivity has been greatly improved, and everyone's living standards have become higher. They can have a bite of food and eat meat without having to work so hard.

In this case, neither men nor women have the same hard work as their parents and grandparents, and the division of labor is not so clear. It does not say that women must stay at home to care for their husbands and raise children, and men must be responsible for work and other matters at home. No work to do.

And because of the increase in productivity, even in rural areas, there is no need to work in the fields all the time in exchange for food rations for the family.

The elders no longer have to spend all their thoughts and energy on the fields, so they have time to help the younger generations with their children. Coupled with the impact of the family planning policy, a family originally had four or five children, or even more, but under the family planning policy , a family may only have one or two children. In this case, the elders have more energy to devote their time to taking care of the grandchildren, and they will not be divided among them.

In the future, the degree of hard work that women will have to do with children and housework will actually be far lower than that of their parents and grandparents. However, there are still many women who think that when they get married, they only do housework and serve others. Talk about things.

In fact, it is not objective.

It's taking the sacrifices of previous generations of women and using it on yourself to get something in return.

If we really want to talk about hard work, it is actually hard work for women of Su Min’s generation and above.

But this kind of hard work has objective factors in a special context.

Su Min's situation is also very rare in this era. Many women, if they really marry a man who doesn't care about anything and doesn't care about the family at all, when they give birth to a baby, their man won't even be around, let alone It would be difficult to survive even one year for four to five years, so I would just leave my children and men behind and look for other ways out.

So Su Min foolishly stayed with him and this family for several years. In the end, her last thought was not to run away, but to go to extremes after losing sight of hope.

"I haven't always endured it. I've also resisted." Su Min said suddenly.

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Lu Hao looked at her, "You resisted, how did you resist?"

This surprised him.

In his impression, Su Min didn't seem to resist and had been enduring it silently.

What can these thin arms and legs resist? The more they resist, the more fun they will have.

"Really, I didn't lie to you, I really resisted." Su Min said immediately when she saw her man's doubtful expression.

She was a little hesitant and a little shy. After a while, she took the initiative to speak, her voice was a little soft, "There were several times when you got angry after coming back from drinking, beating and scolding me, and scaring Nini. You vomited everywhere, and you even I'll take care of you. I'm so angry that I'll wait for you to fall asleep and then pinch you secretly, even on your waist."

While he was drunk and asleep, he strangled him.

And this!

Lu Hao's eyes widened, he recalled for a moment, and patted his head, "I remember, I told you how I found bruises on my body after waking up a few times. I thought I fell and knocked myself while drunk. It turns out you were the one who pinched me."

He stared at Su Min and said pretending to be angry, "Tell me, how should I punish you?"