1987: Sleepless Tonight

"Go." Lu Hao nodded.

In a flash, another two days passed.

Finally, news came from Emily that she had found a suitable candidate to shoot commercials together.

Lu Hao was also unambiguous, and directly contacted Hu Feng, "Sister Hu, I need your help with something. I don't know if your side is inconvenient. I need to shoot a commercial. Two foreigners, one male and one female, are shooting commercials. Use it on Wanjia soda."

Straightforwardly explain what you need to help.

Without hiding his head, he clearly stated what needed Hu Feng's help.

This task is not difficult for the TV station. The TV station already has professional photographers, and all kinds of technical personnel are relatively complete, including equipment, which is much more advanced than Lu Hao's camera.

Tell me directly what you want to help, so that Hu Feng won't have to guess.

This is just like a normal interpersonal relationship. Someone who doesn't have much contact with you will suddenly say that he wants to treat you to dinner one day, and someone who is inexperienced will immediately agree, and will think that the other party is caring about you.

I suddenly thought of you and wanted to talk about the friendship between classmates, the friendship between colleagues, and the friendship between friends.

The feelings are very sincere.

But once you have a meal, the other party immediately asks to borrow money without eating a few bites.

It is too late to talk about not eating, being busy, and thin-skinned people often lose face and really borrow money, but later find that it is extremely difficult to get the money back.

After more and more incidents like this happened, people who hadn’t been in touch for a long time suddenly asked for a meal and get together, and I was prepared in my heart. I was afraid of borrowing money, so I simply made excuses not to go.

Although doing so can prevent others from borrowing money, it will inevitably hurt many friendships by mistake.

If you borrow money, you will borrow money, if you reminisce about the past, you will reminisce about the past. If you say it clearly, you can still be friends. If you hide it, it will complicate many things.

"It's a trivial matter, no problem. Just bring people to the TV station. There are professional equipment in the TV station. It will be more convenient to shoot and the effect will be better." Hu Feng agreed very readily.

This busyness is indeed a small busyness for her.

After hanging up the phone, Lu Hao didn't delay, stuffed a few good cigarettes into the car, then went to pick up Emily and another male foreigner, and drove to Jiangcheng TV Station.

This male foreigner is indeed good-looking, tall and has a very angular face. His name is Jie Dun. To Lu Hao's surprise, Jie Dun is not an international student, but a foreign teacher, a teacher.

However, whether it is an international student or a teacher, as long as the image meets the requirements, there is no problem.

The car was parked outside Jiangcheng TV Station.

The cigarettes were put in the bag and carried into the TV station, regardless of men and women, as long as they met, they all handed a bag.

There is nothing special about the leaders and helpers of various departments, they are all in one package.

Lu Hao thought it through so much.

Because there are so many people, everyone is watching, so it’s not easy to do something special. At this time, if you do something special, the leader will give you two packages, and the people who mainly help shoot commercials will give you two packages. If others see it, these people will definitely feel uncomfortable.

Even if they get benefits for no reason, as long as they are treated differently, there will be a gap in their hearts, and they will not worry about being few, but about unevenness.

And the ones who help now are the people who shoot the commercials, but in the future it may be people from other departments who need help from the TV station, because giving an extra pack of cigarettes to the leaders and those who are helping now may end up not only giving away the cigarettes for nothing, but also offending people .

Sometimes you have to treat them differently, but sometimes you can't.

Very particular.

On the bright side, in front of everyone, one person packs a pack of cigarettes, and those who are not helpful get a pack of cigarettes. They will not only thank the gift giver, but also Hu Feng. When Hu Feng is grateful, he will naturally treat the favor Count it on yourself.

As for Hu Feng, the leaders, and the people who are mainly contributing at the moment, I will find an excuse later, for example, some places need to be refined and need some adjustments, so I invite these people to have a meal together.

That's it.

Life is full of knowledge.

A lot of photos were taken, and even a few videos were taken.

Emily and Jayden left the TV station to go about their own business.

"Aren't you going to send them off?" Hu Feng asked.

Emily and Jayden have already left, but Lu Hao is still on the TV station, and has no intention of sending the two foreigners back.

"Don't be too polite to foreigners. If you are too polite, he will think that we are taking advantage of the cooperation with them, and when he wants to cooperate next time, he will ask more." Lu Hao said, "They are different from us. , We have exchanges, if I treat you to a meal today, you will think that you will have to invite him back tomorrow, but what the foreigner thinks is that you treat him to dinner, it must be because he has suffered from the previous cooperation."

It's like falling in love.

I treat you well because I hope you treat me as well, not because of how powerful you are.

"Then they are too impersonal." Hu Feng said.

I didn't expect the foreigner to think so in his heart.

Several other people on the TV station were listening, and felt that foreigners behaved differently.

"I've heard people say that when laowai grow up, their parents will leave them alone and let them fend for themselves. No wonder they have such thoughts."

"What can you do at the age of 18? If you go to college and are still in school, you don't have the ability to make money, and even tuition fees are a problem, but your parents don't care. How can you be such a parent?"

"Just give birth, don't care about raising, such parents are too failed."

Very righteous indignation.

This is the difference in culture. Of course, the source of information is more wrong. Many of the understanding of foreigners is hearsay. Foreigners are impersonal, do not know how to be filial to their parents, and do not know how to love their children. This kind of information is actually wrong. , is a prejudice that persists for many years.

With the publication of magazines such as Zhiyin and Yilin, this kind of wrong information will be spread more widely, and the prejudice will become bigger and bigger.

The consequences of such prejudice are quite serious, and there will be misjudgments.

Since I was a child, I have been learning various famous sayings and allusions, using the experience of the ancients to warn the world.

Yelang is arrogant, teaching us not to be too arrogant in our lives and actions, but to think that there are people beyond people, mountains beyond mountains, and sky beyond the sky.

Knowing ourselves and the enemy, let us not only understand ourselves, but also understand our opponents, so that we can win all battles.

Seeing is worth hearing a hundred times, which tells us that true knowledge comes from practice.

Learning without thinking will lead to death, and thinking without learning will lead to peril. It means that learning without thinking, people will be deceived by appearances, and thinking without learning will be more dangerous because of doubts.

and many more.

We should have used history as a mirror and acted on the experience of the ancients in order to exchange for the greatest benefit with the smallest cost, but unfortunately many people know these allusions, words and sentences, and understand the meaning, but they have not combined and applied them in life and dealing with people.

It is easy to be rhythmized by some media.