Marriage at first thought: the black-bellied president is super painful

In the afternoon of the next day, Ruomu's parents brought Xiaochen back.

When the child is delivered, naturally he won't go back immediately, he always invites him into the house, talks, and drinks a cup of tea before leaving.

And the two old men did have something to say.

After entering the door, Ruomu first took Xiaochen upstairs to change into home clothes.

Xiao Jun is drinking a cup of tea in the living room with his father-in-law and mother-in-law.

The two elders of the Qin family had a good relationship with the Xiao family before, because Xiao Chongyang once intended to win over the Qin family. Over the years, the two families have maintained a very close relationship.

The two elders liked Xiao Jun very much, and thought he was talented, quiet, and sensible, unlike those ordinary children from rich families who were idle and idling.

At that time, the daughter of the Qin family was still the fake one. Qin Sisi and Qin Xiao's family also wanted to marry each other.

Later, by mistake, Xiao Jun married Ruomu, who happened to be the real daughter of the Qin family.

It was like, after going around in circles, Xiao Jun still became their uncle.

Therefore, the two elders of the Qin family were actually very kind to Xiao Jun, even as if they were their own children.

This time, when Xiao Jun proposed to make Ruomu's life experience public, the two elders were hesitant at first, because they didn't want outsiders to talk about their family's affairs too much.

But after Xiao Jun explained clearly, the two elders also agreed.

In their hearts, they really felt that they owed Ruomu.

Therefore, at Xiaochen's birthday party, the second elder was very much in favor of publicly announcing that Ruomu was his biological daughter.

But this morning, my daughter called them and said that she would tell Xiaochen all her past experiences, including Ruomu being swapped when she was a child, being sold to the mountains, and later because she didn't want to marry, she went to the Xiao family to work as a servant. Experience, tell the children.

The second elder was a little worried.

The second elder was afraid that the child would not be able to accept or understand these things.And the truth is too cruel, what to do if you scare the children.

They personally sent Xiaochen here today, just to discuss with their daughter and son-in-law, can they stop talking so cruelly, get rid of some human trafficking, baby swapping, this kind of criminal behavior, it might be better.

Now in the living room, Xiao Chen happened to be absent, so the second elder told Xiao Jun what he meant.

He also said that Ruomu really told Xiaochen about all the bad experiences in the past. Will Xiaochen feel inferior?This also needs to be considered.

Xiao Jun listened patiently and understood.

But he didn't agree with the two elders trying to beautify Ruomu's experience.

From Ruomu's point of view, he explained the reason for doing so.

If you beautify Ruomu's experience, or even deceive the child, it will make Ruomu feel that she was terrible in the past, she is shameful, and she cannot tell her children.

But in fact, Ruomu did nothing wrong, she is a complete victim, and she should not be made to feel shameful.

It was those who had tried to murder her who were at fault.

As for her experience as a servant in Xiao's family, there is nothing to be ashamed of. Ruomu works hard and survives with her own hands, which is a very good quality in itself.

Xiao Jun hopes that his son can distinguish right from wrong.

In addition, Xiao Jun is not conservative in the education of children, especially boys.

He understands the idea of ​​the two elders protecting their grandson's young mind, but this is the way the world is, the sooner the child understands the cruelty of the world, the better he can develop a sound and mature mind.

Xiaochen will go to elementary school soon, and he is more mature than adults imagined. Xiao Jun absolutely does not want his son to live in a fairy tale.

Even if they don't say it, there is no guarantee that the child will not find out in the future.

Instead of letting outsiders tell his son, or letting his son learn about his mother's experience in that way outside the kindergarten that day, he hopes to tell the child himself.

In fact, it includes Xiao Jun's own experience. He also plans to take Xiao Chen to the place where he used to live when Xiao Chen is two years older, and tell the child about Xiao Chongyang and the child's grandfather Gu Ziheng. .

After hearing this, the second elder sighed, knowing that he couldn't be persuaded, so he could only respect.

Xiao Jun saw that the two elders were still a little nervous, so he smiled and said: "Dad, Mom, I have known you for many years, and I know that you two are very fond of the children, but Sisi should be a good negative example. Blindly pampering, overdoing Protection is useless. It may even harm her."

Speaking of Qin Sisi, the two also shook their heads.

But it's a really good example.

They doted on Sisi too much, making the child think that she was the center of the world, and couldn't stand anyone better than her, and couldn't accept the fact that her mother was a servant, and even wanted to murder Ruomu.

Qin's mother wiped her tears: "Actually, Lao Qin is fine. The main reason is that I am soft-hearted and doting on the child too much, which actually hurt the child...Then do as you want."

Qin's father patted the back of his wife's hand: "Okay, it's over, don't think about it. It's not all your fault. "

When it comes to the past, both of them are very sad.

Xiao Jun stopped there, knowing that his words had worked.

At this time, Ruomu also took Xiaochen downstairs and came to the living room.

Qin's mother shook her daughter's hand with red eyes: "I really wronged you in those years."

Ruomu looked at his parents, looked at Xiao Jun, probably understood what he was talking about just now, and said to his mother with a smile: "Mom, how many years have passed, look at you! It's like this again!"

She wiped her mother's tears.

Xiaochen tilted his head, looked at the adults around him, and didn't quite understand: "What are you talking about, why is grandma crying?"

Xiao Jun patted his son on the shoulder and said, "Didn't you keep asking where my mother grew up when I was young? Today I will tell you a story about my mother."

He paused and said, "However, my mother may be more distressing than Cinderella in that fairy tale. Are you ready to listen?"

Xiaochen became serious, nodded vigorously, and then went to sit beside her mother.

Maybe as soon as he heard that his mother was Cinderella, he knew that his mother's experience would not be very good, and he wanted to be with her.

In this way, on this sunny and warm afternoon, the family sat together, and Ruomu used real language and a gentle tone to tell his son about his past experiences.

After listening to Xiaochen, she hugged her mother's neck, tears fell one by one, and the clothes on Ruomu's shoulders were wet.

The son didn't say anything, but this kind of silent comfort made Ruomu understand that his son really cared about her.

Ruomu looked at his parents, their eyes were also red.

Looking at Xiao Jun again, Xiao Jun's eyes were full of pity.

She smiled and touched the corners of her eyes, feeling that she was surrounded by a lot of happiness at this moment, which was very warm.

In fact, with Xiao Jun all these years, and with his biological parents loving him, those pains have faded away long ago.

Sometimes when I look back, I feel like it was another person's life.

Or, it was just a detour in my life, a strange experience.

So she smiled and said to Xiaochen: "In fact, my mother is not as miserable as you think, and life in the country is not all bitter. The water in the mountains is very sweet, and the air is also very clean. There is a beautiful village near the mother's life. The mountain, when it comes to spring, is full of peach blossoms, white, pink, and red, very beautiful. Dad has been to so many places, and he must have never seen such a beautiful scenery..."