Group favored daughter stunning the world with vest

When Yan Zhen heard Chengcheng's words, he felt a little sad.

In her growing environment, her parents are loving and her brothers dote on her. She can be said to be the happiest little fairy fox with nine tails in the whole family.

She didn't have Qian Hao's sense of hardship and suffocation of being kidnapped by her father in the name of love, nor did she have Cheng Cheng's sense of helplessness of wanting to use various methods to attract their parents' attention after being ignored by their parents.

So although she can't empathize 100% with the emotions of a four-year-old child like Chengcheng.

But because she is very happy, this kind of pain brings great inner shock to Yan Zhen, who is surrounded by happiness.

After all, what Chengcheng showed before was the characteristics of a spoiled brat who was so arrogant.

Later, he showed the fragility of lack of love.

Now Qian Feng was on his body, because of Gu Mingzhong's bad deeds, he was tainted with yin, and after seeing the translucent Uncle Ghost, he hooked out his inner anxiety.

His crying, on the contrary, brought out the sensibility and panic hidden deep in his heart.

Yan Zhen really felt sorry for the child.

She patted his head and said to Chengcheng: "Chengcheng, if you look into my eyes, you will know that what I said next is not lying to you."

Chengcheng cried until his eyes were red, and his whole body was sobbing because he was crying too hard, not only his tears were watery, but even his nose was crying out.

Yan Zhen glanced at the tissue box next to him, and said to Fu Xingzhou, "Xingzhou, pull me a tissue."

Fu Xingzhou took the tissue box over, tore two pieces of paper and handed them to Yan Zhen.

After Yan Zhen took it, his eyes gently wiped away Chengcheng's tears.

Immediately afterwards, she used another tissue to wipe Chengcheng's snot directly.

Chengcheng seemed a little startled, and quickly reached out to grab a tissue, "Aunt Zhenzhen, I'll do it myself."

Yan Zhen smiled at him, shook his head and said, "It's okay."

Chengcheng stood there in a daze, with red eyes from crying, just looking at the aunt in front of him, with gentle and loving eyes, and wiped his tears and snot for him.

For a moment he forgot how to react.

There are many servants in the house, and someone will wash his clothes, cook for him, feed him, and even when he is unhappy, he will vent his anger on the servants, and those servants will greet him with a smile.

However, although he is young, he can also feel the sincerity.

The care and forbearance of the servants towards him was just for the sake of continuing to be in the Gu family and receiving high servant fees.

Behind his back, he also heard the servants muttering and scolding him.

If he is in a good mood, he won't care about it.

If you are in a bad mood and complain to your parents, a batch of servants will be replaced.

Not to mention his father, even his mother never wiped his nose for him, and his parents never even hugged him since he could remember.

My father always said, you are the only son of the Gu family, you have to be sensible, you have to be a man, why cling to your mother all day long?Like a girl.

The mother would say, your father said, let me not be a loving mother and defeat your son, sincerely, you have to grow up quickly, so that you can protect your mother and let the Gu family go to a higher level.

In many words, Chengcheng actually can't comprehend the deep meaning.

However, he has no right to speak.

He is just a child, he can only be responsible for obedience.

But now, Aunt Yan Zhen, who hated him at first, and even treated him coldly, actually... comforted him so gently, held his hand, touched his head, told him he was fine, and was patient and gentle Wipe his tears and nose.

He could still clearly feel that the aunt in front of him who was not too dirty and wiped his snot looked at him with distressed eyes.

Chengcheng couldn't help asking himself in his heart: Am I worthy of such treatment?Am I worthy of being loved by strangers?

When he was struggling in his heart, Yan Zhen had already cleaned up the mess on his face for him.

She took Chengcheng's hand again and said to him: "Next, Aunt Zhenzhen wants to tell you something, I don't know if you can fully understand it, but I hope you can know that none of this is your fault .”

"No, it's not my fault?"

"Yes! It's not your fault."

She raised her hand and used her fingertips to wipe away the tears that fell again when Chengcheng blinked, and continued: "As you said, you are still a child, you can't do anything, you can only obey what your parents say, and think about it." Try to do your best to satisfy them."

"It's not your fault that you don't get compliments when you do a good job. You've done a good job. Mom and Dad ignore you. No matter what the reason is, it's their fault. It's not that you don't deserve it. "

"Every child is a little angel worthy of being loved. Your arrival makes this world full of future and vitality, and it is worth cherishing."

Chengcheng was very touched by Yan Zhen's words.

He even wanted to cry a little bit.

But this time he held back in a very manly way, with hope in his eyes, but he asked something that made people feel distressed, "Then why doesn't everyone like me? Dad said, I'm not likable, yes My problem should not be blamed on those who don't like me, they all have the freedom to like who they don't like."

"fart!"

Yan Zhen was so angry that he exploded, "As a father, he didn't take good care of you, didn't give you the fatherly love you should have, and he dragged you up? You are only four years old, and many four-year-old children are still in the house every day. It’s wild outside, playing in the mud outside, and what about you? You have to learn this and that, and you don’t even have a happy childhood than others, it’s their parents’ fault!”

After all, Yan Zhen suddenly thought of Qian Feng.

These two fathers are simply two extremes.

One is that love is too full, and it directly overflows and suffocates, which becomes another kind of control in disguise.

One is that there is too little love, directly treating the child as a face-saving project, arranging everything for him, but not giving any tenderness and love, and still manipulating and controlling the child's life.

But compared to them, Qian Feng is many times better than Gu Mingzhong.

At least Qian Feng loves children, even if his hopes are too high, it brings another sense of suffocation and torture to Qian Hao.

But if Qian Hao could communicate well with Qian Feng, she believed that Qian Feng would understand.

Qian Hao also chose to do it silently to change, to communicate!It's so important!

Yan Zhen thought a little too far, and she immediately said back, "In my opinion, you are already much better than many children of the same age!"

"Don't you hate me?"

"Want to hear the truth?"

"……Um."

Yan Zhen became a little serious, and said: "To be honest, I really didn't like you at the beginning, because you are arrogant and arrogant like those adults who look down on others, with the 'I am the young master, you You have to treat me as your ancestor' has a very strong temperament."

Hearing the words, Chengcheng immediately lowered his head.

He added weakly, "I'm sorry."

"Be good! You are a good boy if you know your mistakes and can correct them. I also said that it was the feeling I had for you at the beginning. It came from when you came here with Su Minmin and the others."

"Is it that time? I thought it was the time I pushed Yaya down."

"You have already apologized that time, I will not settle the old score, you apologized, Yaya forgave you, this matter is over."

She smiled, "Besides, it was Yaya you pushed down that day, so the person you need to apologize to is Yaya, and Yaya doesn't care about it. As an adult, do I still care about you, a brat?"

Hearing the word "little boy", Chengcheng actually laughed.

In the past, he hated people calling him a "little child", "little kid" and "little boy".

Because, he knew, his parents hated him for not growing up.

But now, being said by Yan Zhen in such a loving and joking tone, he doesn't even hate it, and even feels that the unhappiness that was suppressed in his heart seems to have dissipated a lot.

Yan Zhen saw that his expression was much more relaxed, and immediately said, "But now I find that you really hope that we can see you more and care about you more. You hope that you can be sensible, obedient, and get dad Mom's attention can be seen by them, right?"

Chengcheng is used to being a "bear kid". When he heard what Yan Zhen said, he subconsciously wanted to refute and deny it.

But when he looked at Shang Yanzhen with a smile and sincere eyes, he nodded directly, "Yes, I really hope they can love me."

"Hey, I hope you learn to love yourself first."

"You love yourself?"

"Yes, although you are the child of your parents, you are yourself first, Gu Zhicheng! You have to believe in yourself, and you can be liked by others. Don't go out of your way to make trouble and do things that hurt others to cause trouble. Other people's attention, this will only be counterproductive."

"Let me ask you, when you do something bad on purpose, do you feel happy when you see others scolding you or avoiding you because of you doing something bad? Surely not?"

Chengcheng shook his head, then nodded again, "Well, I'm not happy."

"That's right, that's why I said, you have to learn to love yourself first, then the first step is, don't do things that don't even make you happy. These things don't mean that you want to act recklessly and use your unhappiness to be unscrupulous. I want you to understand that if you deliberately become a disobedient child, even if you attract the attention of adults, all you will be taught, disgusted and abused, and you will feel very sad, then don’t do it .”

"And if you work hard to learn skills, besides your parents, other people will appreciate you. Didn't the teacher praise you? Do your kindergarten classmates admire you and like you because you are good at mathematics?" What about classmates?"

"However, none of them are my closest relatives."

"What does that matter? They just like you!"

Yan Zhen squeezed Chengcheng's face, and asked with a smile, "Isn't it something you should be proud of when someone likes you?"

Chengcheng: "..."

yes!Someone likes him, and he just thinks about it at this moment, and he feels very relaxed and happy.

He opened his eyes wide, looked at Yan Zhen and said involuntarily, "Aunt Zhenzhen, this is the first time someone told me this, I didn't understand it before, I thought that as long as I get attention from others, someone will remember me, It’s something very meaningful.”

"But now, I understand that it is worthwhile to try to make others like you!"

"No! It's trying to make myself happy and not to cause trouble for others. When I grow up, if someone likes me, I should be happy for others' liking, instead of pushing away and bullying those who show me kindness, right? ?”

"correct."

Yan Zhen was very happy, Cheng Cheng understood.

"Although you are still young, it sounds empty to ask you to be yourself, but Aunt Zhenzhen hopes that you will be able to live the way you like most in the future, and the external evaluation of you will not harm you , to prove that you have a strong heart. Other people's love for you can make you feel happy. This is a manifestation of your approval from others, not that we should pursue other people's likes, other people's eyes, and other people's opinions , and lost myself, understand?"

Chengcheng shook his head, then nodded again, "I seem to understand a little bit."

"Hey, you are still young, your first task now is to be a happy child."

"Happy kid..."

"That's right! Laugh when you want to laugh. Like just now, when you feel sad, cry when you want to cry. If you want to make friends, make friends openly. Even if you think your parents are wrong, you can say your feelings out loud. , Maybe, as you talked, they discovered that you really cared about these things before you said them, and they heard your inner voice?"

Yan Zhen knew that Chengcheng might not be able to fully comprehend these words.

But even if he can feel one tenth of it, it is a kind of healing for Chengcheng.

Chengcheng nodded half-understanding, "Thank you, Aunt Zhenzhen, I feel a lot more relaxed."

"Well, you have to remember that you are a child. You can't do what other people's children can't do. You can do what other people's children can do. You are the best!"

"Isn't it something they can't do, I try to do it, is it the best?"

"No! Baby, you're just a four year old, not a superhero, or an omnipotent genius, you're just a kid, you can fail, you can clumsily play in mud and toys, and you can be like any other kid , go out to run and scream, none of this is wrong, it is the happiness you should have as a child."

She squeezed Chengcheng's fleshy face, "I hate it. People tell me that you must be better than others. You are not a child anymore. You should be sensible! Then, I won't tell you, you To be a sensible child, even adults can't be perfect, so why should you ask a child to do the best in everything to satisfy adults like them?"

"Aunt Zhenzhen."

"Ok?"

Chengcheng stared at Yan Zhen for several seconds, moved his mouth and pressed his lips tightly together.

He seemed to be hesitating.

Yan Zhen gave him encouragement in his eyes, and then showed a loving look, "You don't have to suppress yourself in front of me, you can say whatever you want, and you can treat me like a three-year-old little sister and teach me."

"Ha ha!"

When Chengcheng heard this, he immediately showed his first smile today.

He shook his head, "You are such a big man, how could I treat you as a three-year-old sister."

"Well, then do you want to tell me what you hesitate to tell me?"

Hearing this, Chengcheng showed a rare embarrassment.

He took half a step back, then opened his short, fat arms, looking at Yan Zhen with burning eyes and full of expectation.

"Aunt Zhenzhen, can you give me a hug?"

After speaking, he suddenly choked up, his eyes were red but he worked hard to muster up the courage to express the most sincere thoughts in his heart.

"I really wish you could hug me like a bud, I envy her very much!"